Family › Re: "Dad Threw Mum Out For Not Bearing Male Child But We The Girls Feed Him Today" by cococandy(f): 6:35pm On Jan 17, 2023 |
nazicartel: This is same reason he needed a son. Because his son/s won't come online and be telling the whole world how they are feeding their father...
Every child is important. If they were abandoned, they won’t even remember him much less provide for him. Be truthful for once in your life. You won’t die |
Family › Re: Best Way To Punish & Deal With A Disrespectful Wife. by cococandy(f): 5:16am On Jan 17, 2023 |
Why are you mentioning finances? Realistt: I need mature advice of ways to seriously discipline and deal with a disrespectful wife without laying a finger on her with the sole aim of putting an end or drastically reducing her incessant provocative behaviour and continuous disrespectful attitude. All she does is apologize afterwards but will repeat same attitude after some weeks or months.
PS: I take absolute responsibility of the financial needs and otherwise at home. I really don't know why she keeps disrespecting me at the slightest thing. |
Family › Re: Aisha Yesufu: We Should Learn To Be Comfortable With Divorce by cococandy(f): 7:58pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
What a load of crock BigBashiru: She shouldn't leave....see bah....if everyone starts leaving ooonce it doesn't suit them then there will be no marriage again....that's the truth....
Those that tend to leave once it no longer suits them are WOMEN!! There are bad guys too....but on average guys can stay in a marriage even if they are not happy. The same cannot be said of females... on average of course....there are exceptions both ways... |
Family › Re: Aisha Yesufu: We Should Learn To Be Comfortable With Divorce by cococandy(f): 3:15pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
BigBashiru: Have you not heard that women love abusive men and are attracted to abusive men.... so in many instances they themselves do not want to leave the abusive men... its only after their attraction to them fails that they decide to leave..... That doesn’t answer the question though. She chose him. Does that mean she shouldn’t leave? Yes or no |
Family › Re: Aisha Yesufu: We Should Learn To Be Comfortable With Divorce by cococandy(f): 1:19pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
BigBashiru: the woman saying "have mercy on me"....its the women themselves that choose those types of men that beat them up often because they are attracted to them.... so since she chose him and he turned out to be an abuser, she has no choice but to die there in that marriage? She can’t leave because she already chose him in the first place? I’m imploring you to think before you respond |
Nairaland General › Re: The Pinkpill Roundtable Discussion by cococandy(f): 8:07am On Jan 15, 2023 |
folake4u: Ehen na. They're spending in pounds, I'm here with my falling naira.
We'd watch how everything unfolds. It's just a matter of time. They’ve been together 6 years with two kids. I wish them well. |
Nairaland General › Re: The Pinkpill Roundtable Discussion by cococandy(f): 8:06am On Jan 15, 2023 |
GloriousGbola: Gender fluid mode enabled
Considering Charles years of drama with Camilla, you'd think he have Harry's back.
Gender fluid mode disabled Indeed |
Family › Re: Aisha Yesufu: We Should Learn To Be Comfortable With Divorce by cococandy(f): 7:08am On Jan 15, 2023 |
Harddiskng: A woman that is happily married and wouldn’t want to leave her husband is telling other married women to be comfortable with divorce 
I find scenarios like this common among women, I wonder why  Happily married is the operative word. If she’s happy in her marriage, then her opinion is valid. She said happiness is what matters. If she were to be continually unhappy and still stayed in the marriage, then we can say she’s being hypocritical since she’s not doing what she says. |
Nairaland General › Re: The Pinkpill Roundtable Discussion by cococandy(f): 6:55am On Jan 15, 2023*. Modified: 10:33pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
To the best of my knowledge, I know they have not come on NL to say a single word. Doubt if they know this forum even exists. However if you type her or Harry’s name, there’ll be at least a thousand posts similar to yours filled with negative stuff about them. All hearsay. That’s somehow okay isn’t it? They are royals but at the end of the day, they are humans. Not y’all’s online punching bag who are supposed to take everything lying down or be labeled bad people. As for the royal family, they don’t have to say anything. All they need to do is have queen consort Camilla leak whatever they want to say to the press and have the press speak for them while pretending to take the high road. It’s painfully obvious to everyone except those who have decided to hate Meghan. Imagine someone said they want to see you naked and stoned with feces in the streets and then your family invited them over for dinner to laugh and Kiki with them? I’m asking you Amazontopaz what kind of silence is that? So in your true and candid opinion, that’s not a bad thing? I’m shocked actually. It’s one thing to be indifferent (which I was in the beginning because I don’t know these people) but to see the constant piling on. Everyone incessantly memorizing and repeating everyone else’s words as if there’s a reward for who can say the most negative thing about them. Overlooking the obvious things in front of them. I’m done with the topic. AmazonTopaz: Who is harassing her or following her around in LA, was Kate and other members of the family not followed around or allegedly harrassed did they form victimhood? I used to see a glimpse of the viciousness until she went to the USA I no longer see it because she is in the public eye all by herself. It is part of what you get for being popular because people will chase or use whatever narrative they have. Those people saw worse, unsolicited semi-naked pictures of Katherine were published online comparisons of her being an unaccomplished woman to Meghan have all been online. They are tabloids for goodness sake whose reporting or sources should be taken at face value because they are capable of lying and are ready to sell whatever story that will drive traffic to their pages. It did not start with Meghan. The media was horrible and wasn't her friend right, the tabloids don't have the so-called Royal sources anymore so why is she still in the news?
That is because she is playing the victim card and is entirely blameless of anything. If it is not playing victim why do interviews and docuseries spilling the same things over and over again while telling us more breaking news to what end exactly?
The docuseries did not change or move a stone in how people view them because as a public figure you cannot always control the narrative. I don’t believe any negative thing about them their actions alone makes me even see it for myself because the constant silence from the Royal family is even making Harry threaten to spill more it tells me all I need to know. Their constant whining in the public eye is enough reason to even think that it is for profit making and they are enjoying it. If anything its not even bringing sympathy to them but fatigue and irritation because of the constant new series of stories we hear from Harry.
I can say the same about your perception of the Royal family. Why should I believe her and not them since neither of us know them or have any relationship with them. I called her problematic because she has issues with her family and same has applied to her husband's family who suddenly remembers that he has been a victim of privilege,the fact that they are never at fault in their perspectives makes me view her as one. Is it the British media denying that he never called his family racist but rather unconscious bias? Is it the British media giving incoherencies that no longer match up with one another because the stories are becoming too old and familiar the contradictions seem to vary. They can have their own media and create their biases then if that is even true. The thing is they are the ones exposing themselves from constant whinning afterall it is even on American media I see them these days and I don't read British tabloids to get any biases.
All I can do is pray for everyone that if they find themselves in such a situation that someone extends them kindness.
People say they are seeking attention but won’t stop talking negatively about them. Always writing articles, internet posts, topic after topic. All negative and they didn’t do ONE damn thing to you!
Lord have mercy 
They are attention seekers profiting from unverified claims and they should learn a thing ir two from the Royal family and keep silent then maybe they would be no negative report to give. Since they put themselves in the open people are free to talk about them. So far they are embarrassing their families and are the ones doing the damage. It is sad to see if they had shame they should not go near Charles' coronation. |
Nairaland General › Re: The Pinkpill Roundtable Discussion by cococandy(f): 6:02am On Jan 15, 2023 |
Since she’s not a working Royal I wonder why they couldn’t let her be. Why follow her around and harass her perpetually? Either you are willfully turning a blind eye to the malicious viciousness they’ve meted out to her or you don’t have the complete picture. If you had the complete picture you wouldn’t compare all these people to Meghan when not one them had 50 articles written about them in one day. All negative. All from the same source What I know is that the language of “playing victim” has been used by her aggressors frequently and is now a regurgitated talking point by those who have bought into their own version of things. That Netflix documentary is more than warranted because obviously you guys are more than excited to believe whatever negative thing you read about them. They have to tell their own side. And I’m very glad they did. Let posterity be the judge. You don’t know her. Don’t have any proof of anything she actually did to anyone but you’re very certain she’s a problematic person. Do you realize your biases stem from what you read online which are all fueled by the British media? The British Media that’s in cahoots with her step mom-in-law? All I can do is pray for everyone that if they find themselves in such a situation that someone extends them kindness. People say they are seeking attention but won’t stop talking negatively about them. Always writing articles, internet posts, topic after topic. All negative and they didn’t do ONE damn thing to you! Lord have mercy  AmazonTopaz: They are no longer working Royals so I don't get that part of the Royal family using the British media to attack her or having any obligation not to have dinner with whomever they choose. She ran away from the hateful media for privacy but did a Netflix documentary and interview to achieve what exactly. When you are a public figure you cannot control the narrative, it is a futile effort Kate, Fergie and even Diana have all had their share or different narratives written about them and we have not heard Kate doing interviews to lament. Famous people most times don’t even respond to media scrutiny. They are living in LA I don't see who is mistreating. I believe she is a problematic person very good at victimhood. My issue is with Harry whom I believe needs help you don't do that to your family for dollars or public sympathy that you write and lament about how jealous you are of your brother being the heir and you being the spare. The book had to be fact checked and some of his claims are no longer coherent. I feel really sorry for both of them though, both at odds with their families but somehow they remain blameless on the issue. Oh please. |
Romance › Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Girl Who Has Sent You A Nude Picture Online Before? by cococandy(f): 5:11am On Jan 15, 2023 |
Shut up And you consider yourself husband material. It’s the hypocrisy for me Tombrown3: Well, like you said people do stupid things when they are in love.
Sometimes I initiate the conversation that will lead me asking them for it.
I've also met some who willingly start acting naughty on video call. |
Nairaland General › Re: The Pinkpill Roundtable Discussion by cococandy(f): 2:45am On Jan 15, 2023 |
Harry and Meghan can’t live a quiet life when the royal family is the using the British media as their mouthpiece. They write 50 articles about them a day but want them to live it down quietly. I don’t understand why people don’t see these folks for who they are. Seriously doubt any of there “talking too much” would have even occurred if they weren’t horribly mistreated in the beginning and are still being mistreated. Dreadful people like these make horrible statements about Meghan and the RF invites them over for dinner to laugh and cozy up together. You want her to keep her head down under such a cloud of hate and be a good girl about it. I don’t understand the absolute lack of empathy towards her. AmazonTopaz: Were you there to know how they treated her? Someone that as a fiancee got to spend Christmas with the family her mom was even invited and was given a trip and immediate meeting with the Queen something Catherine never even got. Nah I think Meghan has a problem because she seems to have issues with a lot of people too she isn't blameless.
Their refusal to live a quiet life shows you the kind of people they both are and it is sad for Harry to sell his family for dollars.
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Family › Re: All The Stories That Don't Stand Up In Harry And Meghan's Netflix Series by cococandy(f): 8:27pm On Jan 14, 2023 |
 Here we go again |
Nairaland General › Re: The Pinkpill Roundtable Discussion by cococandy(f): 7:48pm On Jan 14, 2023 |
Magnoliaa: She really make them maaaad. 
They are now calling her a community w****, when they are the ones always posting her, and she's always the one moving on. When you beat them at their game, you become a s***.
Even Meek Mill has been dissing her.
He was dragged like a generator, lmfao. The funny thing is they don’t even know what they are talking about since none of them live with her. I also believe they lack reference for her dating pattern. The pattern I’m seeing her exhibit is an old traditional dating pattern where a young lady can allow different men to court her until the right man wins her heart. She doesn’t have to be in love at the beginning nor is there sex involved (at least that was not the norm then). All she does is give them the opportunity to win her over and the best man comes out ahead. Totally traditional quite possibly non-feminist dating pattern. They have no knowledge of history actually that’s why you see all the ranting. Won’t be surprised the man who finally married her will be the first to actually be sexually intimate with her. And even if that’s not the case, good for her living her life how she wants and sending them into a frenzy while at it. Love to see it |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 6:52pm On Jan 14, 2023 |
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Nairaland General › Re: The Pinkpill Roundtable Discussion by cococandy(f): 6:51pm On Jan 14, 2023 |
She makes the men maaaaad  . I love it. Instead of them to be mad at their fellow “alpha” males who keep shooking head to go and die where their fellow men just left from. Magnoliaa: Moidia, ma binu si mi. 
I wanna catch up on all the dirama on Twirra first before responding to you ni.
Soooooo, baby girl has landed another in her net?
Ewoo.
This girl just dey give me joy. And someone corroborated this fact too; na only Lori go sell Kayanmata wey I go buy o.
Nobody can tell me nothing, lmao.
I would literally pay hundreds on dollars for her masterclass on getting men /jk.
But for real, na this kind girl suppose dey teach all these high-value kinikan kinikan and femininity stuff.
Even if I nor go believe everything, at least I'll listen.
And this girl, can you believe today is the first time I am hearing her voice and saw up to 3 of her videos. She is NEVER in the news.
And na for every of her birthday she dey unveil man. 
That girl, ehnnnnn. |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 6:48pm On Jan 14, 2023 |
Morning black tea
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 6:47pm On Jan 14, 2023 |
armyofone: Lunch - beef rib ( 1 rib is enough) and brocc. I hope to look for super spicy bbq sauce or make mine with authentic northern suya spices. Craving satisfied.
Happy New Year everyone one!
Where cococandy etc ? Did anyone purchase a new pot ? This inflation dey bite this chic o . I might just be coming to your houses for free lunch! Happy new year army babe  New pot? no. Did you see all the funny videos about eggs on the internet  |
Celebrities › Re: Damson Idris And Lori Harvey Are Dating by cococandy(f): 4:00am On Jan 14, 2023 |
Otunbakayce: Hoes are meant to be passed around and Lori Harvey belongs to the streets of the entertainment world. A very foolish simp will end up marrying her in an extremely damaged state. akigbemaru: The girl bleeped Piddy and also bleeped his son. What a friend of the family indeed. The guy better screwed her and move the Bleep on because it won’t last long. You cannot turn a hoe to an house wife. Teeroyzimma: This girl is for the streets no be lie  IbileIfe: She is a very cheerful giver. Her "Nunu" has an open door policy.  Haveyoueatentod: Lori Harvey na celebrity prostitute weslay: Captain save a Hoe achillesfoot: Another simple fool... I love how stories like these make y’all mad and angry. Sweet |
Family › Re: My Wife Is Angry Because I Refused To Accomodate Her Nieces by cococandy(f): 7:13pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
michlins: But in all honesty, take the twins, you won't die. Should they send the kids to you? I’m sure you won’t die either |
Family › Re: My Wife Is Angry Because I Refused To Accomodate Her Nieces by cococandy(f): 7:11pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
How are they orphans if their father is alive? Moh247:

God bless all men, to be a man isn't a easy task...
The marital vow is for better for worse and you should take them in but your wife must work also..
They are young orphans please help them, accommodate them...
Funny thing is life isn't gurranteed, many would view this thread today and never return to their family alive. For God sake help the orphans anyhow you can
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Family › Re: My Wife Is Angry Because I Refused To Accomodate Her Nieces by cococandy(f): 7:10pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
stand your ground Their father is doing this because he knows others will step up to take his responsibilities from him Oboh662: My wife lost her immeiate elder sister , she left behind 6 children including twins who are 3 months old and a husband , the man is nothing to write home about he had abandoned all 6 children with my inlaws , he doesn't call nor send them money for their upkeep. My wife is a nursing mother our baby is 5 months her family want us to take over the twins so my wife can nurse them but I refused because I am managing myself to provide for my wife and baby I can't afford to provide for 2 extra babies and my inlaws are not financial buoyant all the responsibility will be on me ,buying pampers and baby formula every week. My wife is angry and she said I am heartless for refusing to accomodate these orphans.I told my inlaws to report there father to welfare so he can provide for his 6 children they don't want to report him, they said they reported him to God and they are forcing me to take his responsibility when he is alive this is something I can never do. I don't know what part of I can't afford 3 babies they don't understand , at the moment we haven't renew our rent and I am working hard to get the money to pay the rent and she is giving me attitudes. Do I have a point or I am a bad person for not accepting them? |
Family › Re: Upgrading Your Woman, A Threat Or A Fortune? by cococandy(f): 10:02pm On Jan 11, 2023*. Modified: 10:51pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
Swaelyf: A very foolish man, i guess its this mentality that made the wife desperate for a joint account he is the type that wants the wife to even tell him before she buys pad. The foolish man should be aware she can get a new passport and still get visa to the USA because the embassy has her data all she needs to do is thumb print. Mumu man That’s because it’s a fake unintelligent cooked up story. They are still seizing passports in this day and age? When all she needs to do is verify her identity to get a new one. Let me guess in the mind of the olodo that made up this story, people who misplace their passports have no other chance ever. His fellow dumbasses believe it too  |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Prince Harry Says He Was Bred To Offer Spare Organs To Heir William by cococandy(f): 4:54pm On Jan 11, 2023*. Modified: 2:02am On Jan 22, 2023 |
advanceDNA: We dont have to view all matters the same way....asking me if thats what i got is insulting my sensibility just becos u have a different view that u think in ur mind is superior...
U don tey for nairaland....i dey respect you
No vex me this afternoon I think you were already on the defensive due to the other posts you have been responding to that’s why you see insult where I meant none |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Prince Harry Says He Was Bred To Offer Spare Organs To Heir William by cococandy(f): 4:26pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
jimetagambo: Yup. And the ginger hair also runs in Diana's family as well.
Another picture of Prince Philip and Harry at similar age. Okay where is that silverorlead guy talking nonsense about how harry is a bastard |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Prince Harry Says He Was Bred To Offer Spare Organs To Heir William by cococandy(f): 4:08pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
jimetagambo: Harry and his grandad (Prince Phillip). The late Queens husband. striking resemblance |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Prince Harry Says He Was Bred To Offer Spare Organs To Heir William by cococandy(f): 4:08pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
advanceDNA: U are not new to nairaland madam...i'm sure u can identify cruize comments....but if u want to condescend or insult...its a free world..i dont have to be on the same page with you Where’s the insult? I only asked you a question But then again why are you cruising with something as hurtful as that? Each to their own anyway. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Prince Harry Says He Was Bred To Offer Spare Organs To Heir William by cococandy(f): 3:46pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
“Well now you’re acting woke.We can’t have that. Don’t be woke” Lol. That’s how they sound. Like ediots defending the monarchy gypsey: Hear poor nigerians calling Prince Harry born into Royalty names and insulting him. Prince Harry is a white man, a millionaire, very well educated prince Harry will always be a prince till he dies.  While you poor hungry uneducated nigerians will die poor and neducated.
The queen enslaved your ancestors and still enslaving you and your parents, yet you ignoramus are insulting Prince Harry for telling us about his evil famliies.. i am guessing you morrons supports the evil british monarchy who put your poor backward country in the sham and rotten state your country is, the monarchy supevised rape of your mothers, sisters, aunties, murdered your young men, fathers and grandfathers . Yet you goons hates Harry for calling the monarchy's evil deeds out. You goons will be forever enslaved to the british mornarch, infact, you are all also enslaved to the Harry you call names.. it is really bizzare!
All Harry had to do is reconcile with his families which he will soon, then him and his families will carry on enslaving you ignoramuses and your chidren and grandchildren. |
Family › Re: Happy Birthday To Me. A Picture Collage Of My Transformation From Birth. by cococandy(f): 3:44pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
What a lovely cutie. That black dress in the last picture is chef’s kiss |
Crime › Re: Pastor Fakes Own Kidnap Twice, Collects ₦600,000 Ransom From Members In Jos by cococandy(f): 3:41pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
 Times are hard |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Prince Harry Says He Was Bred To Offer Spare Organs To Heir William by cococandy(f): 3:39pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
SilverOrLead: All because I stated the fact that bastadry is very common among OSU women which leads to patricide in osuland.
Is it not only OSU culture that a man will lay claim to a bastard child knowingly ?
Cucked idiots .
No wonder you are all turning to faggotry as you can't even tame your flaming sluts . The bile in your posts is physically oozing out of the screen. Smells and tastes bitter. Did an igbo woman hurt you? Who makes generalizations like this? |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Prince Harry Says He Was Bred To Offer Spare Organs To Heir William by cococandy(f): 3:27pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
Na wa SilverOrLead: The Jews have been in the forefront attacking and dislodging monarchies in Europe as monarchies are antithetical to Jewish communism.
The Jacobin led Revolution in France that destroyed the French monarchy was a Jewish plot.
Same goes for the Jewish Bolsheviks that dislodged and murdered the Romanov dynasty in Russia.
Have you forgotten the Jewish funded and guided Ethiopian Zionist and Marxist that seized power and killed the only heir to King David?
The Holy Roman Empire aka Austrian Hungarian empire was brought to her knees by Jewish subversion.
The Jew needs all monarchies destroyed so as to have only the soon to he revealed Jewish Messiah crowned as the sole ruler of the world .
The only reason they tolerated the British monarchy is because it has been Jewish .
Prince Charles was circumcised by a Jewish rabbi..
Even when the British Royal family toured Europe in the early 20th century , most European nobility drawn from German blood could not help but notice how uncannily non German they looked and how Jewish they appeared.
Put a young Elizabeth picture side by side with Anne Frank and see how strikingly similar and Jewish they both look.
With Elizabeth gone , the City of London (a sovereign state within a sovereign Kingdom) exclusively owned by the Rothschild) want the monarchy gone. Do you know that Queen Elizabeth when alive could not enter the city if London unless escorted into its exclusive zone by its unelected mayor like a school girl going on an excursion? Same thing applies to Charles as regent and whatever Buffon is now his Prime Minister.
It is for this reason that the Jewish media has been promoting anti monarchy protests in the UK and planting stories like that of that OSU woman who gate crashed a royal event .
Watch and see how Prince William and his entire family will die in a freak accident. When they are gone, the disinherited Prince Andrew line will not be allowed to take over , over the Jeffrey Epstein scandal . Charles is widely hated and the plebs will demand he step down and live the rest of his life in recluse in an English countryside manor with no relevance.. As for Harry , he us a bastard and not a heir to the throne in any way or form.His role now is to instigate anti Monarchy sentiments among the now hungry and freezing British plebs.
Harry is just a part of the Jewish plot to sway opinions towards seeing the Monarchy abolished. |