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Hathor5:
Happy New Year beautiful soul and lovely sister. I wish you all the best in this new year.

waistbead:
Mi bruh wife,life na once o so I gat to enjoy

Happy and a prosperous new year to you/yours.



God bless you always Ugo Chiyere�♥️

TheGoodAmerican:
Cococandy, post picture, pls

waistbead:
One of mi favorite �



Ugba na uku ewu

IslamIsIdiotic:
They are! Their target is to indoctrinate children under the guise of tolerance.
About 60% of all pedophiles are gay.

IslamIsIdiotic:
Nobody should be killed for what happens between 2 consenting adults, but gays should learn to respect boundaries and stop trying to force their lifestyle on people who find it disgusting.

incogni2o:
Your reasoning is pathethic.

I am sure you would also support pedofiles with this your level of reasoning.

Respect Culture, That's what makes societies.

Righthussle:
I spit on you. Instead of condemning the murder , you are here typing rubbish. shut up abeg. This is why I hate Christains.

Johnthejohn:
That serves him right.
I hate Gays and Lesbians with passion

Bigchristo:
There are things you can’t per take on as an African, we have culture and traditions that guard us, once you start forming too woke and adopting the western culture then try and leave Africa because your protection is not guaranteed here, we nor Dey fear Toto f#ck yarnsh

jclassiq:
Disgusting.

My sincere advice to gay people: pls keep your sexuality to yourself. There is nothing to be gained by rubbing your homosexual lifestyle in people's faces. It's utterly disgusting and not everyone can stomach such rubbish.

Dressing up like a scarecrow and snapping pictures, feeling funky. Now he is dead and gone.

godofuck231:
1 down.....
Where Bob the ass burster

shineeye1:
BOB PRICKS...watch your back

1Sharon:
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Otunbakayce:
There goes an overused hoe.
You won't be as lucky as her to get a man to wife you because you are nobody even in your street or community.
Now, go fuvk some more dick bitch!

Otunbakayce:
This kinda of simp can't be my brother he will be disowned.
None of his relatives will be at that wedding.

Foolish boy marrying and overused hoe.

He should ask himself one question, why didnt all those rich actress loving niggas marry the old LovePeddler.

tatacherie:
Lunch
Graviola !
A fruit as sweet as early morning sleep

People like us wey stay with grandma na showershop ati shawanchop dem teach us

Growing up what did you call this fruit?

À table mes amis

GloriousGbola:
It's basically the silly fantasy that this babe who rejected or disdained me in my youth when I was poor and she was beautiful will regret it for the rest of her life.

The Irony is that most of these same guys will still happily use and dump and then Insult the chicks that say yes to them.

GloriousGbola:
No difference

This thread is full of Nigerian men who rather than call out the bad behaviour of the fiance, are trying to blame empress for 'wasting her youth'.

Also the leak sites are full of revenge porn videos

BRATISLAVA:
Is anyone really surprised? Everyone knows he's married.

I said it before: men like this come online to post their fantasy about how to destroy women because they really do hate all women. They hate women so much and try to have revenge on them through other men because they know they can't in reality. Their modus operandi is the same, as they are all sheep. This particular op and the rest of the brainwashed and unwashed are particularly vindictive, hateful people who have skillfully set about spreading their hate through the red pill and other misogynist ideologies. They are loud and opinionated, especially in tech section, where they want you to believe they're living their best life as a result of that.

swampadullam (a grove of well-punctuated hate, alongside martinz) and the other tech bro who claims he doesn't want children—yet everyone knows he wants children desperately and will have them once he's mentally overcome the poverty-drenched youth he likely had, and once he's stopped blaming women for not accepting him in that state—shift between hating women and the angel that they are yet to acknowledge and in between they are brainwashing mindless teenagers. They get their kicks from spreading how they feel about women to other guys who look up to them like tin gods.

For the logical gender, they are doing their masters bidding very well and can't logically approach anything. Once they go silent, know they've shackled a female somewhere and are trying their best to stay in their relationship.

I wonder where the couple is today.

Hello Everybody,
I'd like to thank you all for your support, all the advice, reprimands and rebuke. My only interest was saving my marriage which I felt was on the cusp of collapse. Things are being fixed as I write. It's been a case of misconstrued intentions and ultimately my wife is not an evil person. We burt each other by things that we didn't understand especially on my part. I love my wife dearly and it's never been about money. True, my wife currently earns more than I do and shoulders the bulk of the responsibility. I guess the pressure got to us both especially me for being unable to meet my financial obligations.
The story I posted was not real, but a representation of what I felt was going on to protect our identities. Truthwillout is my wife. Once again I thank you all. Right now we're trying to heal and fix the cracks that led to this unfortunate scenario.
Thank you all.

NB: She didn't turn the children against me. She didn't buy land anywhere and she has never referred to me as irresponsible.

NoToPile:
Happy new year to you maam

As for your request .... My pleasure

https://www.nairaland.com/5607924/wife-emasculating-me

Enjoy.

Wifes response was on page 31, Husband's retractment of the original post was on page 43 I think. To enjoy the flow read most pages.

I am Strungup79's wife and I have watched the drama here unfold in silence. Here is a copy of a message I just sent my husband on WhatsApp. I hope it will put things in clearer light.

I'll try to keep this brief. I started this year on a sour note, crying bitterly. Because of you total strangers called me bitch and all sorts of unprintable names. Some even went as far as saying I was diabolical and ¹reversed your fortunes with juju, and you basked in it all, all because of the lies you told them. You have repeatedly told your siblings the same lies. I emasculate you. Really? I emaaculate you yet i led my colleagues, our neighbours and practically everyone I know to believe that you are the breadwinner and doing a marvellous job. I emasculate you, yet when the rent needs to be paid, I pay it into your account first just so no one will know. I earn good money but no one knows it because everything goes into running this family. I don't save a dime. I NEVER complained about you not working these past 4 or 5 years. You complained about me spending a lot of time at my mum's place. I do that so that I can avoid the endless streams of alterations with you, and for other reasons I'll spare everyone here.

Every single time you bring this up, I reassure you that all I want is the best for you. I encourage you, fast and pray for you, yet I'm a bad wife. You actually called our daughter and told her I am a bad wife. She cried her eyes out when she told me all the nasty things you told her. I have never in the 10 years we've been married said anything disparaging to her about you despite your many short comings. You put me through hell and I just take in stride.

You also told your fans I had nothing when you married me. I had a job and I wasn't doing badly. In fact I practically funded our wedding with the help of my family. I could go on forever. Or is it the fact that you used to leave the house for days on end without communication, leaving me to wonder if you met with some misfortune or something. How many times did i show up at your office haggard and scared early in the morning just to confirm you are alright? I actually wear my younger sister's hand me downs just to save enough to keep this family going.

Your siblings all believe I am a bad person thanks to the endless lies you've told them and I've borne it all. During your last visit, you complained about the fact that I always seemed unhappy and heckled and I explained to you the stress I am under. Our rent is due. Our daughter's fees of over a hundred thousand needs to be paid. Utility bills, feeding...these are some of the burdens I have to deal with. I explained how burdened I felt. I also explained that having to clean up after you constantly worsens my stress. While you were here, I battled insomnia for almost two weeks straight, without compassion or help. I could fill a page with all that is wrong with this marriage. It's never you. You are perfect and righteous and I am a wicked woman. We quarrel like every husband and wife and regardless of whether it's my fault or not, I apologise so that peace will reign. I have suffered humiliation at your hands but you go around damaging my character so people will pity you. Guess what? The truth cannot be hidden. It may take time, but it will come out. I take solace in that.

I will beat my chest and tell you that no woman on this earth will bear what I bore at your hands or care for you like I have. Since you are so unhappy, I think you should take out time and find yourself. I also need time to pray and to heal from this emotional trauma, so please let's give ourselves a year at least to decide what to do next. I wish you the best.

Magnoliaa:
Nah.

No feminism slander here, and that's that.

I may choose peace all year round o, but what I will never pipe down for is feminism.

I will die on its hill.

Feminism is unlike the RP in every way, even though I know it'll make no difference to you.

Drag other things you wanna drag...

Imjustagirl:
Please read well. His wife is a Nigerian, she's also chubby. She also joined him from portharcourt to the US.

Meanwhile he has condemned women, marriage, Nigerian women in particular and also fat women.

Conclusion he is the biggest hypocrite right now, he was probably saying all those things to chase clout on here. Shameful

He that comes to equity must come with clean hands

Ishilove:
Seems the only thing he is enjoying in the marriage is the food. In hindsight, he seems emasculated and only comes online to project his frustrations. I suspect he does this yearly ritual of creating a post that highlights her cooking skills so that he can show her the thread, in order to prove that she is his everything, while in his heart is cursing the day he met her.

She must surely have him by the balls in one way or the other and squeezes them regularly to remind him who the boss is. Nobody with a happy and stable marriage will vomit the kind of bile this OP vomits about women and the institution of marriage. It is all psychology

Chee59:
Really love the way that idiot was dragged.
These people have women in their lives who love them wholeheartedly.
Imagine having a wife whipping up assorted meals daily while the prick spends his time cussing out women EVERYDAY on this forum. Poor woman.

ahnie:
Beautiful ladies I m super proud of ya all,thanks for sending the trojan horse packing .

Hopefully he would learn to respect the female folks next time...

Pocohantas, Persephone1, magnoliaa,ishilove, ibkayee,coco,doggedfighter and the rest.

pocohantas:
You know their wives and mothers are always different. I remember you pointed it out when he created that topic and they came for you. He knows all the marriages in Houston that has packed up, leaving only him, his wife and a plate of abacha.

pocohantas:
Your wife is feeding you meals, whereas you are on Nairaland telling whoever cares to listen that men have stopped marrying and are divorcing per second because men gain nothing from marriage. All this while staying firm inside your marriage, going on trips with your wife and eating coconut rice and fufu.

Na mumu dey take relationship advice online.

If the rest of you like, don’t find a good partner and hold them tight. You will be online commenting “Does your wife have a sister?” … “Is your husband single?” Before you know it, they done leave you.

Kewtt:
produce the kidnapped Lt Johnson or else all ipobs terrorists including those of you in Lagos will be made to face the full wrath of the law

irunoko:
a famous billionaire is in jail but you a nobody is ranting on social media with a malnourished account.whos more in jail

The pizzas and other premium foods will still be coming in while you eat eba and sour soup

Kewtt:
You must be joking... As far as all Nigerian people are concerned you kidnapped Lt Johnson rraped and paraded her naked and.....


By the time the NA is done with you.... You will know that khaki no be leather... With your sponsors in alaba int'l market, tradefair and computer village... All of you will smell pepper.. no ipob/ESN/UGM terrorist will have a happy new year!!