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LilMissFavvy:
Islam,, a religion of sorrow. I don't know why majority of women born into such bondage do not run away from home and go start life somewhere else. It is better to be a "free fugitive" in another man's land, than to "live in everlasting bondage", in your own land.

It can’t be easy.

pocohantas:
Then they start crying of how you are badly behaved. There is one that hasn’t recovered from me calling his mum the veteran olosho that taught me the hustle.

It is over 2yrs but he is still crying. However, he is smart enough not to mention me directly because I won’t hesitate to do it again. Foolish ediots

Speechless

I need one of those. my phone is getting old

They are quick to shut up when you ask about their moms

shaybebaby:
Good evening ooo. Been reading the gist on here but I read Coco's comment on another thread regarding name change..some dude made a sweeping statement about women being myopic. Coco asked him to try telling his mum the same thing to see her reaction, that made me chuckle because I have a story around names.

So for clarity, I am divorced but kept my ex's surname ( less of a mouthful than my maiden name , but other reasons include wanting my lil man to still have that sense of family with all of us having the same surname, plus less hassle when travelling, I'll have to take his BC if our names are different.

Anyhooooo ex turns up one day and snarkily asked, " when are you going to give up my name"?

I replied "when your mum gives up HER ex husband's name!!"

That was the first and last time he asked me.

shaybebaby:
This made me holler

they trifling

Yet he didn’t state that in his case?

Y’all come up with whatever excuse you can to justify sexual predators

VirileNelly2420:
She could owe him something.
She might've gone to d man's house and made away with his valuable.
I mean, dey could be more close Dan d gal is making us to believe...

Or, u're taking everything away from d gal cos she's crying victim?

Am trying to say sex demanding/denying could possibly not b d bone of contention.

Don't u think so?

homenje73:
You are man, when u grow up to a full grown man, maybe then u will understand why father never cared. Therefore, be careful in following your mother's advice, women are myopic in reasoning . You will never have inheritance or share in your mother's family never. If your material grand father or uncle are still alive let them know of your mother's plan, you be shocked that they will wash they hands off , none will ever be in support. In Igbo proverb, a dog that's is trained by a woman eats fowl's egg.

say that to your mom’s face and see her reaction

A parent who doesn’t care for their kids is deadbeat.
It’s immature to punish kids for rifts between parents. That’s the definition of deadbeat

sheldonbbt:
Stop calling your father deadbeat. You don't know what happened between him and your mum. Your mum can appear as a Saint to you but at the end of the day, your mother may have been the cause of this problem from the beginning.

I know a father who did not care about his kids because their mom was maltreating their father, the man kept mute, never discussed the issues with the kids because he respected their mum.

Infidelity and unfaithfulness will only happen when a man is not satisfied or being denied intimacy, of course, your father cannot tell you this but most women use this as a weapon to maltreat their husband's.

Woman hater?

Or at least that’s what you’d call someone who makes half the generalizations you made about women

Emaprince:
Exactly the point!!!

That woman probably shut him out and made sure he never had any contact with the kids again. The man may decide to start a familly with another woman atleast to birth some kids for him.. but later the the woman who is the actual villain will lie to the kids about how their father never wanted to have anything to do with them .

Women usually weaponize the kids against the man whenever there is a break up. Even if she was the cheat. Bitterness from the break up will eat them up to act that way.

How old are you?
If you’re old enough to use the internet without parental guidance, you should be old enough to say what name you want to keep or leave

Alexxx2000:
It's a long story but I will try to abridge it.

My mom raised I and my brother of 5yrs old single-handedly. There's a separation in the family so we're shuffling the deck. She's an hairstylist with meagre wages.

My dad was never part of the family. They both separated because of infidelity and harsh treatment. Since then, my dad, I guess erased our memories from his life.

I must confess, she's trying but the bills is weighing her down. My little brother was to start school last year but we couldn't pay for fees but after saving, we decided to put him in a cheap school close to the house.

Now, my mom want to stop us from bearing my father's name. She mandated me to change mine as well to her own dad's name.

Yesterday when I returned from the Pos attendant job I do, she brought the topic again and she said, nothing is holding her back on her decision.

Is she right for taking such decision? What will you advise me to do please?

Then people say women in Islam aren’t oppressed. Like they all came together and chose this?
Like they don’t get punished for wanting anything else but what the men and their society demand. I’ll never get the logic

VirileNelly2420:
My instinct tells me a lawyer must've made things easy for d gals family...
I mean, I don't believe d gal is 17, she's a big gal, a shop owner. But d claim of being an underage set her sailing. There could be a lot hidden. She might've don terrible thing to d said man...but he can't press further charges since she now claimed to be underage.

Na sense

Even if she’s not underage, then what?
What does she owe him?

Kajaard:
Ladies please stop accepting money and gifts from men if you know you are not ready to date them. There are too many emotionally fragile men that cannot handle rejection well. Be careful.

She cleaned his nails. It wasn’t free money.

gameova:
Imagine Nigeria without Christianity Or Knowledge Of Anybody Called Jesus still practicing Our traditional Religion without any Colonial Interference. Will we all (now Christians) have gone to hell when we died?

Better question. Are all Muslims going to hell? All 1.8 billion of them?

Over kill judgment
Is there no guideline for how sentences are handed out?

Who wanted to buy another human being?

Moh247:




RIP queen


Blackmen accross Africa sold each other for slavery to many portegeues traders and also other European traders


Coastal region like Ijaw got Ibos for slavery and kidnapped them cheaply

House of Commons and house of Lords passed a law ending slavery and royal Navy enforced it

King George VA ended colonial empire for self rule, her daughter queen Elizabeth gave Nigeria it's independence

Ojuckwu a Lagos bred man and Oxford graduate visited Enugu once after he got into Army against his lagos Lagos billionaire father and got motivated to start an unprepared war, he fled to ivory coast while smelling defeat while many of his people died of starvation due to blockage of Northern Nigeria and South West Nigerian food supply route


Queen Elizabeth who sent aide and food on her death, buffered many meetings to end the war

Prof Uju a lesbian that can't leave in Ibo land but West the land of the free cursed the queen with excruciating pain on her death bed

Same British that kept Nnamdi Kanu safe from prosecution






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Stillwhites:
See GRE questions Abi na LSAT questions

yes because this thread is pointless if the couple in question doesn’t get to see the responses

Coldie:
Because she get white skin?

Of course

I wonder if you black guys do talk the foolish ones amongst yourselves sometimes. The way they embarrass the black race with their inferiority complex

Epic coonery

mrvitalis:
No exposed guy would meet this White girls with value and still settle for this high demanding yet no value Nigerian girls

Everything Nigerian girl can offer you can be gotten for less than 100k a month ...with 100k you can get someone to clean your house , cook the local dishes you like , wash and iron your clothes and still be very appreciative

White girls are the goal abeg

yad2eidi:
Stfu
Nigerians are like bed bugs and cockroaches. Infesting everywhere. Pest are meant to be killed but this here is fake news. I wish it was real

sewer rat

Ignorant

Allison012:
He raped you. did he beat you? did he threaten to kill you if you tell anyone? if NO, then it's not rape.. A man can never rape his wife.never seen where it happened.

Helpout12345:
No mind am. This is why I call it woke illusion

miccoy:
Rape should be outside marriage. If there is love, and submissiveness from the wife, there shouldn't be anything like rape.

Any marriage you hear the woman shouting my husband raped me. There were issues before the sexual act. If there is no beating, like someone already said, it's no rape! ( In marriage o).

Abi, make men too dey shout my wife wants to rape anytime we are not in the mood?!?!?

Helpout12345:
Another woke illusion. "My husband raped me. My wife raped me."

Everyone will get sense at last in this world.

Chaos14:
If he didn't beat you he didn't rape you.

longetivity:
He paid ur dowry nah

Asians can be soullessly cruel to black skin people of African descent

Premiumwriter:
You couldn't see the argument.

because it doesn’t exist

JOACHINpedro:
It looks delicious.

thank you

JOACHINpedro:
Is that blackcurrant?

blueberries

Fira09:
Wow

This must be delicious.

Kudos to you

thank you

ahnie:
INTERPOL
Mrs L all this choppings only you?chai

I definitely shared

Teespice:
Amen oooo.

My eyes shall not see the back of my head ooo

my sister

1 blueberry cornbread
2 blueberry raisin toast
3 fried rice
4 cranberry loaf topped with whipped cream

You have no argument.
Everything you used as example is harmful to the other person who you are directing it to. So yes that’s where the line is drawn.

Go to sleep

Premiumwriter:
we draw the lines at whatever harms other people?

How about a pedophile with a consenting child harming no one? How about that child pornography?

Or better still, naked people roaming your streets?

Or someone smoking in the banking hall?

Our morals cannot be based on "not harming people". We are humans, even lions knows that not to harm each other in the pack.

You think the rapist or pedophiles believe that they are harming anyone?

Look around you, today you feel anyone sleeping with a girl of 16 is a pedophile. Maybe we should reduce the age consent to just about a child that has started talking.

After all, then they are able to say yes or no to sexual requests. If that's wrong then what makes it right for children to choose sexual orientation and even undergo hormonal transition?

We keep lowering the bar because of people like you who just can't think for themselves.

Very soon it will be the pedophile and rapist and those who wishes to sleep with animals coming out of the closet and standing up for themselves.

Wrong is wrong. It doesn't matter if it harms anyone or not. A poison remains a poison. It doesn't matter if it's used or not. It is a poison.

Premiumwriter:
This is not been subjective.

It is using my head. Our morals is not and should not be dictated by "because it is my life, I should do whatever I want"

If that is the case then where should we draw the line?

Sleeping with the same sex is unnatural and against our morals as a society. It is not being subjective. It's staying true to the truth.

Where should we draw the line?
Simple. We draw the line at whatever harms other people.

Hotfreeze:
Truth is that most Igbo women are closeted gays. You see that nonsense called August meeting, you allow your wife go for it, they will lick your wife without mercy.

I just burst out laughing

Nairaland will not kill me