₦airaland Forum

Martin0:
where actually do mean learn to rape,thought it stated from home,probably parents are at fault to scout out these bad behavioure while growing.

So we shouldn't come out here blaming them or or it victim,rather blam the parent who gave birth to them...

Yup. Let's blame anyone but the actual rapists

Came:
Is it not against the ethics of the Doctors to keep their patient life private.. The Doctor should be sued for sending this video out without the parents consent... Time way dem go take think of wetin to do take help patient, na video dem dey video... Yeye.

Did you watch it? Talking nonsense

My God. This is heartbreaking

Ever8054:
ishi-ewo wey we dey eat everyday na him person Cary come social media like say na something wey we never see before...

Lucky you:

I want this right now. So bad

Nikbaebrown:
This Story Is So Bad... Those Guys Deserve To Be Castrated. Men Are The Problem Of This World. The Most Of Emmm Behave Like Dogs

@bold, Simple and short

How about men stop raping and make sure to teach their growing boys the same.
Nonsense

GeneralOjukwu:
Mental illness comes in different forms...look at the comment above mine. ...
alcmene

The incidence of rape worldwide should make women to ALWAYS be on their guard.

I have had to warn many ladies about their trusting and carefree attitudes to their own safety.

Punishment for rape should be made extremely severe as a deterrent.

Who would like this done to his mother, sister, wife or daughter?

SycophanticGoat:
So since I created the thread (sources duly acknowledged), but copied someone's post for the thread, then I must take responsibilities?

Umm yea

Martin0:
oh that because you have a male child..

Do I?

Sterope:
I did afterwards.

It is a blame game. You sound like

"Oh, it is up to you to keep your marriage secure, just give a male child and passionate sex. If not, your fault your loss"

One, it is not true. Two, everything is on the woman again....lke always!

Wait until he learns that it's actually the man who's responsible for the gender of the baby.

Ignorance everywhere

Dr. Akunyili is not my bible

Martin0:
Dora Akuyili former NADAC MD once said year's back if you want your marriage to be completely secured

•Have a male child for him
•Cage him with your passionate sex drive
These where her words year's back.

According to her she say ''when a lady is put to bed(hospital)and maybe she was expecting a male child even if she's not disturbed by her husband quest,deep inside her when it fanally becomes a female as against her disires,sometimes she will feel some sence of sadness" And it will be known only to her...



Your husband might not persuade you over a male child but deep inside most ladies because it's the way of Nigerian's and it culture,believ and honors attached to it she will be eager to get one..

Martin0:
now let be a bit sincere here,as a lady whom you are will you feel safe marrying a nigerian when you know how they value male child and what it mean's to them..

I'm married to one and I feel safe because my safety doesn't depend on a male child.

What answers are they looking for?

The answer is right there in plain view. It's a result of internalized misogyny that's all.

Martin0:
The birth of male
children is still the source of pride and honour in
Nigeria, while that of female children is seen as
failure.
This perhaps explains the reason for the large
number of children born by most families in a quest
to have male children.
Contrary to the desires of most families, National
Population and Census Board data shows that more
female children are being born than male children
each year in Nigeria. Of Nigeria’s population of about
120 million, 53 percent are female and 47 percent
are male, according to the Nigerian Population and
Censors Board.
This desire for a male child has resulted in husbands
pressuring their wives to have more children, in
some cases putting the health of the women in
danger.
When this fails to produce the desired results, men
will resort to polygamy in the hope that the other
women will give them the son they need.
An average Nigerian does anything to have a male
child, who will carry on the family name in this
patriachal society. Some female children also retain
their family name, even in marriage, to preserve their
father’s name.
Faced with such social perceptions towards male and
female questions, more people in Nigeria are trying
to find answers to the question whether male
children benefit the family more than the girl child.
This search for answers have extended to seeking
understanding and meaning from religion too.
“In Islam, a very high value and respect is placed on
a girl child. Prophet Mohammed made men to
understand that when a man brings up two
daughters very well, and they are married off as
virgins, God will reward him with paradise.

lonikit:
I think that is anoder tin to be considered.

cococandy come ooo,, ur attention is needed

Yea because I'm the emperor of the west.

armyofone:

The procedure is simply a walk in the park

Jurassic Park (in their mind)

Her husband and baby are fine. As long as she's happy, what does our opinion matter?

Are you guys ever responsible for your actions or anything that happens to you? Let's blame the women as usual

gidjah:
I don't expect most men to last long once they get married o!, too many 'ONE CHANCE WOMEN 'on earth this days , they (the women ) are the major causes of the untimely death , they trouble Their men until they loose control, they emotionally mess their men uo, they nag until the man can't come back home on time and fall into the hands of another karishika (and thus die b4 his time), they cause the men to develop hbp and hypertension and madness too,all this factors contributes to the short life span of the man.make una no adjuge the reason to be bad driving and smoking o!my land lady na case study (a serious terrible benue idoma )

lonikit:
lolzzzz. I tink wives wahala shud not be ignored too, it can form part of the reason. I have seen such. also, we shud consider the spiritual aspect.

If spousal wahala is a cause of death, then more women should be dead than men.
Are we carrying on in this thread like all husbands are angels? I can authoritatively say that more men make shittier partners than women. so there goes your theory.

And shut up about this spiritual BS please. If you want intelligent discourse.

eyinjuege:
Oh, my bad...

I assumed it was a serious thread needing serious answers, didn't know we just wan throw banter about

Its all good. Men die earlier because of the troubles from their wives jare

And voodoo.

Someone came along to tell him the kind of dumb things he wants to hear.

Men have more responsibilities indeed. Not where I come from though.

jegz25:
nobody is blaming it on his religion,region or tribe

Or gender

Men. SMH

People just hate to see others happy.
Their marriage is over when they say it is and not a second before.
Hateful beings always wishing others will be miserable like them.

100

DarkRebel69:
This is fairly accurate. I infer that it's a manner of reasoning that is peculiar to the simple-minded.

Men like Jesus, Budhha, et al, have no traceable descendants today, but yet their names are spoken more than a million times in a day. No one knows any of Faraday's children, but he roars to life whenever we switch on a TV set, or use an electric kettle, or use an electric washing machine. Which begs the question, even if one sought to be immortalized throughout time and space, would the most prudent way to go about it be by investing in material compositions (children) which are susceptible to decay and death, and who could just as easily be wiped out in one fell swoop by say the ravages of war, or would the more prudent way be by leaving behind an immaterial but more worthwhile legacy that would echo throughout the annals of history long after one has returned to his/her Maker?

armyofone:
Expensive everywhere no thanks to big pharma. My pcd is talking of bc due to my heavy periods. Imagine some are over 1,000 dollars.
I think for Nigeria situation, have 3 or 4 kids and then the men clip it off by doing vasectomy. At least side chics, concubines etc will have no chance of making you have 8 kids.

Fat chance convincing a Nigerian man to have a vasectomy.

I'm going to come at this from a different angle and I know many people will start sweating when they read my post but I don't really care because it's true.

The major culprit in population explosion especially in third world countries is patriarchy.
The idea that a man's name has to be perpetuated makes couples have children even if deep down, they really do not want children. In fact everyone is raised to never consider the option of staying childless.

Is anyone on this thread going to claim they've never heard 'who will continue the father's name?' Like the man when he dies will be aware of anyone bearing his name or not.

The women are railroaded into this ego trip by being made to feel worthless when they aren't married or when married and their bodies can't be put to use to perpetuate the man's name.

Don't even get me started on people looking for male children while having their 7th girl and impregnating other women outside in their bid for the male gender.

Argue all we want, this contributes 50% (in my opinion) to the population explosion. At least from my experience growing up.

garubalawal:
Don't like what you did on the other thread.

I don't care

Focus on this one. Thanks

garubalawal:
Mtchew!

Yea I thought as much

lonikit:
age has notin to do with dis. majority of the fathers died even prematurely. most home lost the father wen he is still young while the mothers usually grow older

Statistics please

The men are usually older. nature demands that they die first.

I wouldn't wish anyone younger than me to die before me. It's not natural.

I got married in my early twenties. Nothing wrong there. I'll give my daughter my blessings too if she
wants the same for herself.

As long as you're mature enough to handle marriage it shouldn't matter.

My internet is not broken

armyofone:
Op,
The wait period will be about 5 to 10 years. You should hang in there as long as you are eating ( sending you hard earned $$)
smh
Again, it's what you get when parents have many children...they see the other person as a meal ticket.

Why does it take that long though?

My husband was here and I was in Nigeria after we got married. I got my permanent residence (green card) in 8 months.

I've always read of people waiting years and years to just get a visa and I don't understand it.