Romance › Re: "My Cook, My ATM" Pre-Wedding Photo by cococandy(f): 6:15pm On Jul 20, 2017 |
Isn't this literally what you traditionalists endorse? What's the problem |
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Romance › Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by cococandy(f): 2:52pm On Jul 20, 2017 |
But you refused to answer if you'd the same as a man Inconsiderate people boiz2men: this quote is more reasonable... so i can grace you with a reply....
what i said is the obvious truth.... its what women do..... if u are married, just pray........ a jealous woman has evil tendency..... even you.. just pray.. gm and bye |
Career › Re: Quitting My Lucrative Job For A Degree In Canada by cococandy(f): 9:25am On Jul 20, 2017 |
500k is not even up to $1,700.
That's less than half your income when you finally graduate and start working in Canada |
Romance › Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by cococandy(f): 8:42am On Jul 20, 2017 |
Martin0: See young lady do u know why I put my statement in that way,because all what you said doesn't seem like you telling the real truth,so I had to assume in my own way that It happend like dat...what you just said are crappy lies,who's normal to believ that...
So u mean u re not dating and he just walkup to say and like talking abt marriage abegeee, You do know a woman can get a suitor who she's not dating right? It's left for her to agree to consider him for marriage upon which they enter into dating also known as courtship. Right? You do know that she may know this person on a superficial level but they may not be dating or even friends when he makes his wish known. I feel like I'm talking to a child. |
Romance › Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by cococandy(f): 8:26am On Jul 20, 2017 |
Martin0: you see why sometimes I don't agree with you ladies,now u want me to blam the man,you both are at fault.. The man was 70% wrong And you were 65%wrong blame anyone but the culprit Now u wanna tell me you dating a man and u never visited him,you never try putting up something that will bring families together like a party that will bring relatives together,you never even for once try to know more about him,and you finally let him inn before the secret came out hmmmm this is serious Who said I was dating him? Comprehension issues. I said he was asking me out supposedly for marriage. I did mention that I didn't even know the fella well which made me all the more wary Honestly coco I know you don't want me to blam you but don't you think you also at fault
The man was obviously playing his games with you and you keep falling,don't you have instinct in you??  Read please. Thanks Wait lemm ask you one more question when he was talking about marriage did you try to go know his own family,like try to hear more of him from people!! Why would I? You're assuming that I even liked him. Much less consider marrying him. I was young but not foolish. His ploy was just to sound serious so I'd think he's not coming for a fling and then give into having sex with him. Yo this is not rocket science. My first post was self explanatory. |
Family › Re: My Maid by cococandy(f): 8:13am On Jul 20, 2017 |
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Family › Re: 'My Manhood Is On Fire':Married Nigerian Man Begging A Lady 4 Sex Exposed by cococandy(f): 8:08am On Jul 20, 2017 |
Na these kind of mumu men the wives are expected to go fight their side chics? Like he won't hop onto the next one with his hot dyck  All those side chic fighters, y'all got your jobs cut out for you. |
Romance › Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by cococandy(f): 8:03am On Jul 20, 2017 |
Martin0: wait lemm ask you something,are you by anyway from a rich family,or you yourself was rich,because I think he was actually intrested in what you are..so tell me what were you like then?Financially ,and what were u made of,he was probably intrested in something you did tell us.. Whatever he was interested in his wife should have it at home for him. |
Celebrities › Re: Davido Shows Off His New Diamond Encrusted 30billion Gang Necklace by cococandy(f): 7:59am On Jul 20, 2017 |
Y'all know those aren't real diamonds right? |
Family › Re: How Would You Have Reacted? by cococandy(f): 7:57am On Jul 20, 2017 |
Because you pay the maid doesn't mean she does not get a break. It's a job. She should not be working 24 hours a day. Your wife even made dinner for you after a hectic day. You're lucky.
Now you're here whining about not getting a second dinner. You Oga are insensitive and selfish.
You do your part as the husband. okay. I'm sure she does her part as wife and does some of yours too. Otherwise why is she paying half the maid's salary? I'm sure she also contributes financially like you do to the home.
But trust you guys to never be 100% honest with the facts.
BTW a human being that can't bring raw food materials and convert them into edible food (I.e cooking) is a deficient human. It's like being a handicap.
Go to sleep please. Thank you. |
Romance › Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by cococandy(f): 7:46am On Jul 20, 2017 |
Aye101: You are still young, talk to me in 10 years. You're foolish I hope in 10 years you'll be wiser. Maybe then it will be worth talking to you |
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Romance › Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by cococandy(f): 7:40am On Jul 20, 2017 |
Happened to me too. The fool was already in a hurry about meeting my parents and starting marriage rights. Like he was in hurry or something. I was only 20 then so I was like 'dude calm down. I don't even know you well let alone taking you to introduce to my parents'. I Didn't know he was fake proposing marriage so I'll think he's serious and sleep with him. If I'd given in, I'd probably have dated him for months or years before finding out he's married. The wife texted me one day and gave me the insult of my life.  Another married one (a 'respected' medical doctor) was proudly sounding like these foolish boys here. Saying how he's entitled to many women and all men do it. So he was basically doing me a 'favor' by telling me upfront that he is married. He was even telling me he has accompanied some of his married friends to do marriage introductions just so they can get the girl to believe they are single and sleep with them. So he believed he was a good guy by being honest to me. I was thoroughly disgusted. Imagine if you're married to such men who will go to any lengths to get another woman outside. You'll spend your life fighting them girls off instead of facing the man who has no iota of respect for you as human being much less a partner. Disgusting. Helentwitty: my sister, na so one mumu man come de toast me ooo,he said he had a girlfriend and I told him I don't break relationships but I made him my friend but he wanted more..always toasting me.. one day,I just saw one message on my WhatsApp "hey,if u want to be loved by any man,leave my husband alone". I was shocked, before I talk,she don block me. I checked her number up on truecaller and noticed she bears the mumu" s surname. I then texted her and told her to unblock me and I will send her sth. na so she unblock me,I come snap our conversation to the lady..she come de apologize say the husband say I de toast am,I was like what??!!!!!! the problem is with the guys ni! |
Romance › Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by cococandy(f): 7:27am On Jul 20, 2017 |
boiz2men: Hope u know I'm male. Lol... If my Lady cheats , she should just elope with the guy.. I will just move on...
But then, my lady may never cheat... She's too busy with furthering her studies. Benefits of dating a bookwarm Oh so you'll move on. But if you cheat she's expected to not move on? How do you not sound like a fool to yourself? I mean I don't get how other humans reason sometimes  Like is there a part of your brain that fails you logically so badly that you can't make the connection between being ridiculous and making sense? I give up. It's like teaching a zebra quantum physics |
Romance › Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by cococandy(f): 7:21am On Jul 20, 2017 |
Pataricatering: the reason why they shame the sidechic is cause they are weak and impotent ! There is nothing else they can do. Your husband does not send or value you so you can't caution him so you go after the sidechic either physically or with silly emotional blackmail like the op. Its silly to actually think anybody apart fron your immediate family should include your happiness in the decisions they make - like the world actually owes anybody anything! Mschew |
Romance › Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by cococandy(f): 7:20am On Jul 20, 2017 |
SonofDevil: stop deceiving yourself .
If a man cheats the karma he gets is another man sleeping with his wife and his wife is sent packing .
When a lady dates married man and eventually broke his marriage the karma she gets is another lady breaking her home .
No amount of grammar can change this
KARMA IS REAL  Only in third world hellholes like where you live. |
Romance › Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by cococandy(f): 7:20am On Jul 20, 2017 |
That's why your first son is probably or will probably belong to some other man  . He's practicing his polygamy too iwadobo: After reading some bunch of comments here, I realised we are just fighting nature. Monogamy and taking of vows are mere culture of the Europeans . They are not part of God's inherent plan for man and woman relationship; they were rather invented by men who think they are now very civilised to know more than God. Every census in every country, we have more women than men- nature. A man produces about 120 million sperms cell per day while a woman produce 1 egg per mont, nature.
Based on the above natural occurrences, it is glaring that man is naturally designed to be polygamous. It is for this reason that despite the way polygamy is hypocritically being condemned by all, it is still very much in practice , wether directly or indirectly. You claim to have just one wife, yet you have at least , a side chick that is 100% loyal to you, you guys copulate at will, but because you didn't take her to either church or registry as told by your slave masters, the side chick ain't your wife and you are a monogamist. I laugh in spiritual language when I see people reasoning that way. The truth is , men are naturally polygamous, most men are polygamists. If you are married to just a lady and u have side chick, you are polygamous, if you have more than just a wife at a time, you are polygamous. It is time women learn that all men are born polygamists and learn to handle such issue with care so that they can enjoy worry-less and happy marriages. What I preach is moderation , I don't preach monogamy, when I know it is a war against nature , a war nature is sure to win. Yea, nature always win even in the most advanced countries of the world. |
Romance › Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by cococandy(f): 7:18am On Jul 20, 2017 |
pocohantas: Hahaha. Pour a fellow human acid because of an adulterous man?
I should go about soiling my hands ? ? And if she dies? Or I get caught? To think that his definition of a smart married Nigerian woman is wonderful. 
Why do most men get angry when women say they can't fight for such men. Seems they enjoy seeing women tear themselves. So they can sing their anthem on how women hate themselves  Exactly Please, you people should stop this beer parlour gist. The population of men in the world, is estimated to exceed that of women with over 65million.
In Nigeria, National Bureau of Statistics, currently estimates the population. At 98,630,184 males with 94,762,333 females.
The last conducted National Census in 2006, had more men than women , with men @ 71,345,488 and women @69,086,302. I understand the whole there are 5women to 1man appeals to the pehnis ego...I understand. Whatever gives them a Hardon I guess  Many of them live in their illiterate bubble of '' I'm a man. I'm special because of that. Women will worship me'' . The reality is hard to accept. |
Romance › Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by cococandy(f): 7:14am On Jul 20, 2017 |
waladis: Do you think it's that easy if you are not spiritually strong to keep a vow in a country where the women population is almost triple of the men's population plus all what you see everywhere you go now are seductive women especially the new generation of young slay Queens telling the old ones to park well or sẹnpẹ/retire  Who counted the women? You? Your joysticks tell your brains to speak and you just open mouth to speak with no statistical certainty. |
Romance › Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by cococandy(f): 7:13am On Jul 20, 2017 |
And then go back to the same man? Over and over? You must love women who have no self esteem or sense of self worth. I'm gonna ask you as man, would you do all of these to your wife's several side kicks and keep staying with her? . boiz2men: so this is ya new moniker abi... yeye mosquito
and yes.. every one i find out with lose their pretty face....... killing them would be too merciful.... i would want them to look into the mirror and regret their every action and the chicken hearted will eventually commit suicide.... |
Romance › Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by cococandy(f): 7:11am On Jul 20, 2017 |
You sound so pathetic boiz2men: i do not wish you bad but if it turns out ya husband is one of those "dogs".... i wonder who you would confront when you catch ya husband and his side chick smooching....
dont be too quick to say things with all seriousness if you dont have a first hand experience.. (in this case, you as a wife).
as for other females trying so hard to heap all blame on the man....... my guess is , you are all unmarried with no experience..... i think only that amarabae girl or somthing is married here... go read her contribution and you all would see y i think shes married.
if i were a lady, i would smartly (without being caught) kidnap the side chick and pour acid on her face and see if my husband would find her attractive again.. and i would make sure she never looks attractive ever again....
side chicks dont deserve getting married
p:s i dont cheat.... so i can make such judgment... |
Christianity Etc › Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by cococandy(f): 5:07am On Jul 20, 2017 |
PDPGuy: You no lie  Although some pastors like to be in the know about every single thing in your life 95% of them have sinister motives |
Christianity Etc › Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by cococandy(f): 4:41am On Jul 20, 2017 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by cococandy(f): 11:39pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
sammykess: ^^^^some churches go as far as suspending the person Probably Because the man married the one the pastor is fvcking . |
Romance › Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by cococandy(f): 10:59pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
GogobiriLalas: Because the stupid white man's nonsense is evolutionarily and biologically unrealistic, statistics show that more baby girls are born and women outnumber men 5 to 1, if a man that's meant to be managing 5 women at least is being monopolized by one of the women, what happens to the remaining 4 women? Hence the growth of baby mamism, oloshoriosis and side chikism  Peniis statistics |
Romance › Re: Why Do Side Chicks Break Homes; Why Can't Women Support Each Other? by cococandy(f): 10:58pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
Blame anyone but the cheaters themselves |
Agriculture › Re: Caught Python Alive In My Farm In Nembe, Bayelsa State (Photos, Video) by cococandy(f): 7:24pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
Love the Igbo you're speaking . Makes me miss home  |
Family › Re: 17-year-old Girl Who Got Pregnant At 14 Shows Off Her Cute Family by cococandy(f): 4:49pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
better go back to school little girl |
Family › Re: Why Nigerian Men End up Marrying old And Worn Out Caucasians by cococandy(f): 4:44pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
It's all about gold digging mostly. Most of them are gigolos marrying those women for economic benefits. It's really that simple |
Family › Re: My Wife Have Started Again by cococandy(f): 2:19am On Jul 19, 2017 |
Its normal. I get attached to my cars too. Had a little 'quiff' with DH when it was time to upgrade.
But.... it will pass. She will get attached to the new one and when it's time to upgrade it, you'll probably go through this phase all over again.
And then that will pass too. Everything in life is not a crisis. Play it by the ear |
Literature › Re: The 13 Best Horror Books To Relax Your Mind by cococandy(f): 5:38pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
banmee: You missed one; Read The history of Nigeria. That shiit will scare the crap outta you. 
#Jaqenhghar #cococandy Gotta agree 1 Like |