₦airaland Forum

1) Paragraphs are really there for a reason. Use them.

2) she's supposedly bad. So what is the problem with her leaving?

More to the Point. You're a terrible person. The only thing you said she did to you was dressing the bed while you're still in it or telling you to move when she wants to sweep. Not ideal but not enough to label her as a bad wife.

That's why you told her two days before leaving the country and abandoned her afterwards? Really?

I'm sure the only reason you came back was because your work permit failed.

No you are afraid of being faithful to one woman

eberetos:
Ladies have sex around & we are scared that they can't stay with one man.....The cheating rate is getting high... In this world where a woman will be on phone having sex with another guy & may be speaking to fiancee same time.... ...in this world where ladies will have sex with ex few days to wedding......in this world where DNA fails.....In this world where if you don't have much money, love becomes an issue.......In this world where ladies have opened legs for many guys & cant stay with just one joystick.....Fear!!!! Its not just a fear of committment, but fear of cheating....

Officialkplus:
Admitting to be a lesbian, lesbianism is against the rule of Nigerian law/(abi na constitution )

Rolls eyes

Aren't you a rapist apologist trying to divert attention from the assaulter by blaming the victim?

Rapist

baba4thegehs:
WIcked DEMON

She just ruined the poor dude of his daily means of survival.

Not to say what he did was good! But she's curel to have pushed it this far.

Na thunder go fire her for anywhere way she dey.

Omole Olodo rabata Ashewo Oloshi.

Akoja360:
why was the so called tips so accessible for squeezing?
the suspected tips need to be brought in for questioning..

You guys are disgusting

WebSurfer:
They will not dress decently going out.. causing troubles everywhere... how come no one asked how her tips got so easy to squeeze ? No bra abi ?

The guy should face the trouble he requested for too anyway..

You're stupid

Officialkplus:
If you think she deserve to be arrested click LIKE

If you think the guy na BIG MUMU click SHARE

Arrested for?

The universe would curse me if I ever agreed that women are liabilities after everything my mother and all my female relatives have done for me.

Not to mention the hardwork I've seen women especially in the Nigerian society do.

DarkRebel69:
If I ran a blog, would you accord me leeway to blog about your beautiful dimple(s)? I mean, who would have thought that having a pothole on one's cheeks could become a thing of profound intrigue.

Thanks, anyway. I would surely put all you've said into consideration.

Yea you should do that. Blog I mean.
You write very well and I was even thinking of saying that but got carried away with the topic at hand since.

you know it's something I'm passionate about.

Take her advice

You're a dude trying to perpetuate the female gold digger stereotype

Nigerian misogyny is second to none
Husband that died 30 years ago?
Tufiakwa

Onegai:
Sister, I haff done all dat shiii and still nurring! They cut her hair though (made me mad). Sigh. This lack of hair is derailing our grand plan of marrying a rich white Boi (aka Prince George Windsor)

Oh I'm sorry to hear that.

I'll say genes are probably a part of it too. She was born with plenty hair to begin with

Onegai:
Cococandy, please I have the most important question on this thread so abeg answer:

WHAT DID YOU DO FOR HER HAIR TO GROW LIKE THAT?!!

the most important question

So I didn't cut it at all since she was born. Almost 17 months now.

I use Vaseline blue seal on it to keep it oiled and moisturized. You can use any gentle oil/moisturizer of your choice. Apply when the hair is damp so that it seals the moisture

I only comb it like once or twice a week to avoid breakage. I comb in little sections starting from the tips and then progress to the roots. It will reduce the pain for her.

You can use water as a detangler or buy a detangling spray to use before combing it. No detangler is better than the other in my opinion. I've used expensive ones and sometimes I use very cheap detanglers from the dollar tree, they all work the same and water works just as fine.
Just don't comb it when it's dry or dripping wet. Damp is best.

Protect the edges by avoiding styles that pull on the edges. And most important (I know you know this) no hard chemicals especially relaxers.

Oh and good nutrition but you already know that too.

byvan03:
Wowwww!!!all that her hair?

AWESOME!!!!

I'm jealous of the hair.

cjones500:
Well there's no way I can prove that to you, so its left to you to blv or not. Or you wan use style take throw me bill to prove it?

No. I don't need anything from you to prove anything. lol. That's very funny.
Go ye henceforth and pamper your wife. Have a very nice life sir. Bye

chillis1:
Local Seun*? I do international abeg. How my little god daughter doing?

She's doing great. Thank you

byvan03:
I guess he realised you aren't the ex that rocked his boat . How is my DIL ?am sure she is big babe now, send my kisses .

Hahaha. He calmed down. I guess everything is cool now. I hope so.

Your DIL, She's doing great .
Sneak peek

chillis1:
Why did you quote half text.
Sweetie miss you. I was in prison oh. Just got released

I missed you too.

That prison sentence was very long o. What did you do? Rob Seun?

Now let's talk about genitaliaa.
Having balls (scrotum) is supposedly a sign of strength. It's all too common for someone to ask "do you have the balls to do this or that?''

However even a 10 year old child learns very quickly how fragile those sacs and their contents are. Smh. Don't even look at them too hard or they hurt.

A pusssy (vvagina) that is supposedly weak, takes a pounding and is still like nothing happened to it. That same pussy bring forth a human being into the world and goes back to work unbothered.

Hmm says a lot about what the real problem is doesn't it?

About that 'why are you driving like a woman?' question which is common in nigeria.
Research has actually shown that women drivers have way less road accidents than men.

Why they keep insisting on denigrating womanhood at any given opportunity, I still can't understand.

chillis1:
Nice read! Why did you stop at just english language?

Take for instance in french language..
An office(le bureau) is described as masculin " he" while a kitchen(la cuisine) is a "she ".

A knife

Where have you been

You couldn't be anymore correct if you tried to.

Ever since my subconscious self woke up to these subtle indoctrinations of male superiority, I make great effort never to use those word or phrases in any situation. Sometimes I fail because I'm as much a victim of the society as anyone.

But I know That's how children are raised to think that anything feminine is subpar and then girls grow up with low self esteem which then affects their performances....but I digress. Not because they have actually done any research that proves feminity is inferior.

Feeble minded people tend to believe that male superiority is a divine order whereas it just a result of centuries of subtle indoctrination.

byvan03:
I see you guys already kissed and made up .

It seems so. That's what I'm sensing too.

cjones500:
I dey pay scatter and steady, my wife know sey am weak in that aspect of super-glueing my hands. Na part fof the reason wey d matter dey pain me sey na 1 yeye ex she think sey she go dey use try keep my toes on the ground. Fire! hell naw!!

I don't believe you. You sound stingy.

Which God? The one created by hornny men?

Adeoba10:
God said marry one wife, BUT if you have the capacity (both financially, physical fitness) you can marry 2 or 3. And also if you can live among 2women with justice and not biased, u can marry 2wives,not that after marrying the 2nd wife, u start maltreating the first wife. If you are not financially bouyant to carter for 2women, is not a most for you to go for the 2nd wife. And again, it must be with the consent and awareness of the first wife b4 marrying the 2nd wife. God didn't compulsory 2wives, but ONLY IF...

Good for him

Your mom is brainwashed. Nothing spiritual here
Sadly, it might have to run its course before she will see the mistake she's making.

If she so insists on going to see the man, tell her someone will definitely have to go with so she doesn't end up on human parts dealers chopping table.

Ask her to think for herself: if the man has been truly promoted to brigadier general, why does she need to borrow money to go see him? Probably to help him with.

Just try to see if you can get her to use her reasoning abilities. I know it will be hard

Would you shut up ?

Sebastine1994:
Beautiful daughter you got there. Hope you won't repeat your mums story. Don't abandon them. All these rivers girls, I dont trust you guys. I stayed at bonny island once and I got a closer view of how you guys act. 80years old woman is still putting on trousers. Skin tight. With lipstick. If you dare call them mama, your own don finish.

Because people know that women are more discriminated against than men.

Lol. I feel sorry for you if your story is true.
Trust nairalanders to go dig out the past. I'd even forgotten that milk story
Please send those boys to the orphanage. Human beings are incomprehensible.
This man that supposedly can't take care of two children will probably end up impregnating another woman soon. Irresponsible people

I thought they said polygamy helps them not to cheat. Dogs

cjones500:
Ngozi, na so u dey always bill ur husband like sey hin be ATM machine. see ur mouth like " See the way the post will get two likes now cos of me" nor let me change am for u ooo.

Donatus go and be your wife's ATM too. Maybe she will stop talking to her ex