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hammerF:
Dont let Afonja deceive u, no such law exist.

More importantly, wat law protects u and ur daughter wen Afonja and Aboki kidnap one, rape and force into marriage/Islam?

That is y we dont value u girls in igboland, ur simply a lower intelligent.

I will specially write a will telling my daughter that i love her with the things eternal but love my sons with everything material.

I have given her the share that belongs to her, love and protection, wat was left, i gave to her on her wedding day.

She got the best of everything and i will always love her. Hence she is not included in my property distribution.

U call us animal but want to inherit animal property. Is it not animal property u people are after?

The animal dont want u to have any of his property, on that matter, his sons are favored.

unstableaswater:
U better start preparing for a boy, if ur interested in inheritance matter. Let me share with u a secret, 95% of igbo men today between 25 - 35 years get disappointed wen their wife give birth to baby girl as a first child. I know this becos, i am one of dem. The minute u give birth and it is a girl, i am still single and searching. Dont think, it is dated becos it is very much in vogue, the we are modern stuff is all in ur head. Igbo culture is the apex of all Africa culture and Superior. U cannot get more modern than igbo culture, we are leading the rest.

davidif:
Dude it doesn't matter whether it a tradition or not wrong is Wrong! The fact that something used to be done in the past does not mean it was right back then. An unjust law is still an unjust law.
Culture is supposed to be dynamic and open to scrutiny of modern day perspectives.

In Calabar back in the day twins were seen as evil and had to be killed but today the practice is no more. In Benin kingdom human sacrifice was practiced until the British came and burned the whole place down. The same should be for every tradition that violates the rights of every human being.

DarkRebel101:
Where's the birthday cake?

baby124:
I picked up a few things. You are controlling and paranoid. You also like to see yourself as perfectionist and you demand the same level of perfection from your wife. That can be boring and stifling.

Also the fact that your wife does not confide in you and cannot seem to make mistakes without seeming like she is talking to her father can be very stifling. The only thing silent treatment will get you is for the both of you to drift far apart.

Silent treatment is only effective for a very short while. What it really gets you in the long run is that your partner can do without you emotionally because silent treatment causes the person you are punishing to eventually learn to emotionally protect themselves against such future abuse. Only immature and petty people engage in silent treatment. There are better ways to approach disagreement. I think you guys need counseling. From what I see your wife is tired of your rigid, controlling and paranoid ways.

What the hell do you mean by you dreamt she had an affair with someone. That is so wrong.
I have had an experience with someone like you before on that issue. I can tell you for free thatvthe person was extremely insecure, immature and emotionally manipulative. I ended up running from the person after a while because it just became draining and depressing after a while. So please work on your self and your insecurities. Stop dreaming senseless dreams that you think will put your wife in check and give you a chance to manipulate her. You will eventually push her out. It's better to do what you are being accused of than to be innocently accused.

You feel the need to control your wife's life that is why she is rebeling against you. Everyone deserves to have a level of control or say over their lives. Because you married her does not mean she does not have plans, thoughts or opinions. You need to stop forcing your opinions on her. Your opinions can be suggestions not orders. The fact is you are dehumanizing her and making her look like a child if she cannot decide for herself is she wants to wear a cloth given to her! You may provide all the money in the world, but keeping her personality and what makes her human is more important than any amount you can provide her. You really need to watch it or that woman may run away from you one day.

SirVintageCock:
The sole reason why I don't waste my time writing epistles all in the name of advice.

Op, you creates problems in your home, you jump to nairaland for advice. And then.......kaboom you use our individual posts as an aphrodisiac to have rounds of mind-blowing reconciliation sex you will never had ordinarily.


Buncha m'fuckers.

ccffwx:
It's high time we all stop pampering rape. Men especially have to take the step that they won't be reduced to animals. Making jokes of rape and refusing to accept responsibility has led to this. Very soon, some deluded beings will come here and tell us how the baby dressed seductively to attract the rapist so that they can satisfy themselves that the blame is not theirs. Very sad.

Ioannes:
Beautiful. I like that bun you put on your head.

fyxboss:
I know you from IG too

bukatyne:
Happy belated birthday. Wishing you all the best in life.

Regards to your family

Richy4:
Sometime I just feel like we guys are being insulted by some of this write up....How do u feel u can secure an adult that got mind of their own.. we are not kids that could not differentiate between right or wrong...Any man that wants to be promiscuous did that with a sound mind...he has the right to say no to the so called strange woman assuming he wanted to...escort him to the gate?...As in kindergarten school levels..

Some times we hear things like she SNATCHED him away from her....Haba!!! just call men inanimate object now...that would have been cool...only some animal or inanimate objects can be snatched....Not someone that got a mind of his own..

Any man that wants to leave you....If you like cook chicken marsala daily for him, clean..wash till your hands got pilled.....Call him honey,sweetie, sugar etc...If he want's to go, no matter how secured u feel you have done on him, he will and some will roll with some one you are better than in all ramification ...I feel so sad seeing ladies fighting over a man...if he puts you in a difficult position, why not confront him instead of the other woman..........You ladies should stop treating guys as if we are fifth graders...we are Adults

thorpido:
Belated happy birthday.

lofty900:
Are u really 27?
I just dey look u

sisisioge:
Happy birthday omoge...May God continue to rejuvenate you

eyinjuege:
Happy birthday cococandy...

Even though one isn't sure if this is a prank by the OP

BoboYekini:
I want to rip you apart but for old times' sake

BoboYekini:
Most women. You know it's biology, not my fault.

BoboYekini:
Hardly. Cars are designed by men, for men. The sense of balance, split decision-making, spatial awareness, calm and even physical strength required to be an expert driver - these are things women do not possess. It's cut and dry.
P.S. Ain't you passive-aggressive these days

johnson232:
A woman can't do anything that involves stress efficiently...it's a natural thing. God didn't make them that way...When considerable number of women can't replace tyres & u want them to make good drivers?

herzern:
22,000??


That's almost an half a plot of land in my villaqe