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Go take your meds.

bbmpin:
[color=#000050] I "Do Not" stand for violence in relationships but when i hear airheads like you talk like this, i will "delightfully" understand why any violent action taken against you by your partner is justified

It's wrong to hit anyone Male/Female, Human beings shouldn't hit one another, Period!!!

I don't think that a "mentally sound" man will be aggressive towards his partner without some form of "physical/psychological provocation" clowns like you stoke such provocations

Feminism is about having a "voice" and being "heard" not by being a fastidious retárd

Did you loan out your senses or you inherited such ludicrousness?

What kind of "well mannered, mentally sound" woman attacks a man #REPULSIVE TOAD [/color]

pcguru1:
Well true but I'd rather not hit back because regardless of the explaination you will still be termed a woman beater unless she's a threat to my life

The only reason I would not hit a man back if he hits me first would be if I think he's strong enough to do me serious harm should we go into a fight.
Otherwise, I'll hit him back.

People will always have stuff to say about any gender hitting back. The man would be termed a woman beater if he hits back at a woman who hits him first while a woman would be called disrespectful feminist if she hits back at a man who hits her first.

All of those are BS to me. If you know you can retaliate without causing yourself more harm, by all means do so. What people will say should not matter.

The only exception is when your response is not proportional to the initial assault. Say a person slaps you and instead of slapping back, you hit them on the head with a heavy object or stab them. Well that's a different scenario and most people will blame you justifiably.

Otherwise tit for tat.

If a woman hits you first. You're well within your rights to defend yourself.

That's a great deal

Why hasn't she been arrested?
No wonder he broke it off.
Psycho

Greenbullet:
Even if he has passed the state of post polio syndrome, he will surely have residual polio in him,I am not tryiy to discourage her,just being plain truthful, any virus that dosent have a cure can never be fully expelled from the body .why do you think HIV doesn't have a cure ,it's because previous cures could not expel the viro fully thus the virus regenerates itself.

Oh god. Go back to school

That is really cool

Intrepid01:
Lol...they don't live with the kids....this is how it works...

They have some kids from the estate that they have adopted , although they still live with their parents. They calculate their feeding allowance per term, school fees and other upkeep allowance per child. Depending on your capability you adopt a child per session or for the whole primary or secondary school education.

All these children are registered under a colleague's foundation while interested people adopt them by catering for their living and education.

You'll be shocked that what it takes to cater for a child per term isn't up to what we as individuals blow on irrelevant things.

CreamyMoltenLar:
Hol' up, doesn't that mean his wife and side chick were cheating too? Maybe he became traumatized by his cheating wife and sought succour elsewhere

Or maybe his wife got traumatized by his cheating and sought succor elsewhere

1bkaye:
Exactly. I understand where they come from in the sense that if I put myself in the shoes of someone with that mindset when it comes to marriage, I would likely feel the same way, but then that's the whole point of the feminist movement, to challenge such notions that the woman is not an equal and should be walked all over. Only for those who are being forced and want sha though oo lol, because oddly enough there are some women who are happy to play such roles and that's fair enough, since it's about having the freedom and liberty to make your own independent decision, whatever it may be.

@bold Exactly. Versus trying to fit all women into a behavioral or temperamental box using culture and religion as a tool.

The fools shouting 'ready made' all over the thread. Have you paused to think that maybe 7yrs ago he probably had nada?
Can you be trusted to make a simple comment that puts the blame where it really belongs rather than let your women-hating pathetic selves show all the time.
Jeez. Disgusting.

ikp120:
Shey she dey look for "ready made"?

You know how many people wey don toast that babe? But she no go gree because all she want na "ready made".

Abeg both of them na players in their own fields.

Silly

NaWetinDey:
You dated her for 7 years and you are still with him so much that you don't even know anything about him.

Well, I put it to you that he's only been your moneybag and never your option. You had other men who kept you busy for a whole 7 years so much that your so called boyfriend married without you knowing and nobody who knows the two of you knew to tell you.; not even his family member.

You lie.

you're ridiculous

There are many men like that who don't even know it

freecocoa:
Lol, you are right, marriage cures feminism.

I'm so glad to have joined the league of no-longer-bitter-women.

You're not serious

1bkaye:
Lmao girl they come up with all sorts

The thing is sometimes I can understand where they come from. The definition of feminism is that it seeks equality (social, and otherwise) between men and women.

For some of them marriage is an opportunity for the man to dump on the woman and have his family walk all over her. No better than a glorified 'housemaidship' where the woman should be eternally grateful that a man considered her worthy of bearing his name.

You can understand how that definition of marriage and feminism don't go hand in hand.
For those who marriage is a partnership and all the parties give respect as they expect, feminism is not mutually exclusive.

xynerise:
Which part exactly?

All the parts

Or how feminists can't be married. Phew

1bkaye:
A lot of people in Nigeria don't actually know what feminism means to be honest, that's why you can be trying to have a serious and objective discussion about it and one arindin will come and trivialise the conversation and start talking about cooking as if we don't have more salient points to be focusing on

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freecocoa:
Hello there.

Still a feminist?

Now I'm confused.

According to the experts I can't be one since I'm married and not a bitter single lady.

xynerise:
Good to know you have seen the beauty of marriage. It is obvious that most of the so called feminists on NL are just frustrated single ladies . The day a man propose to them,marks the beginning of sabotaging feminism.

is that right?

Ode. How are Those her mates with male children more fulfilled than her?
Like many of them are not sitting there enduring cheating and domestic violence while praying and fasting their lives away.

Really brainless fellow

That's wrong

BoboYekini:
No be Cococandy younger sister be dis?

Depends on how old she is.

Psychiatric hospital

If you think the answer should be different because it's a widower who's involved and not a widow, I can't take you seriously.

Bye

Diplomat or not, the average white man has more rights in Nigeria than Nigerians. It's disgusting.

Vanceastro:
lol. That guy must be a funny guy. BTW there are people who undergo multiple degrees in different schools. Just saying...

Oh so you're very poor but attending several universities at the same time

Brainless liar

Vanceastro:
So make I go meet TEHN so them go ask me anyhow question.

It's called verification. If you're genuine, your story will hold.

You want people that will give you their monies without question because we pick them up from the street right?

Vanceastro:
lol. Who told you I created a sob story about soup... Or did you in your omnipotence decipher I opened the thread as a sob story?
And since when on nairaland did I say I want to buy a car?
I am sure with your 60+ iq there will be people that find your post 'intelligent'. You might even have a boyfriend! Smh!!
I wonder why god had to put me in this low-iq country, wasting my genius potential!
A country where e-begging is a scam
A country where having more than one bank detail means you are a fraudster..yea right because one can't have up to 5 names.

@bold


You're genius alright.

You've successfully sold your stories to many.

Now put them in print and sell them as fiction. Who knows you might give wole Soyinka and chimamanda adichie a run for their money.

NaijaMutant:
The letter was not written by a faceless anonymous group but by a registered group of Fulani herdsmen

What is Buhari waiting for before he arrests this killers

But he will rush to arrest people who have done the nation no harm nor killed any souls just because they want to be free of the bondage called Nigeria.

Wicked soul

nysot:
As in ehn,he didn't see my teeth before o and didn't know I was a black monkey. He was busy calling me mummy and begging he's about my nephew's age blah blah.
Now he's still the one advising mummy to go and marry SMH.

Obviously a chronic entitled lad who gets upset when he's not indulged.

The same black monkey you were begging money up and down?
Calling mommy, no shame

Vanceastro:
lol. Why did you mention my moniker in your thread? Black monkey. See your teeth, no go marry, dey there dey pack other people children full for your house.
Nonsense! Mention my moniker again you go here whee!

Vanceastro:
who is Jtizie? BTW I am not jtizie.
So if someone has 2 different account details He is a scammer?

Okay so you have money to buy car and you're still begging?
Me I don't have money to buy panties yet I leave people and their money alone. Nobody owes you anything. Stop hounding folks asking if they have anything for you. Harassment is illegal
You even have money to operate several bank accounts and nairaland monikers. Money that you should use to feed yourself. You are here creating sob stories about egg soup. Mtchew