₦airaland Forum

onatisi:
Life is short
Live it with fun
Stop been negative
Life is too short for one to live a negative thinking life
Kudos to this woman ,she is having her fun while she still can

LoveDecay:
Women are becoming duller everyday... so if I kill a person you'd do the same.

Because, he cheated. You feel the responsible thing to do is to cheat as well knowing fully well this will cast doubt on the legitimacy of all your offsprings - as is happening at the moment to this women in this case.

Onegai:
I don't agree in theory with Jungle Justice nothing works in Nigeria, especially when you are dealing with someone uncivilised. Someone taken to the Police station will be bailed by the leader of his gang and come back to mess you up. Bariga, Somolu side is a mess and yet the Police cannot fish out the cult members killing themselves (even though they live in their midst). A lady hit my car at night, instead of her to settle amicably, drove me to the Police station and started speaking Hausa to them (she is not a Northerner) to sway them into charging me with something and scaring me off. They started insisting only I write a statement and were ready for trouble. Until I showed them my madness and I knew what was right legally. Then the police insisted on seeing the owner of the car that night and told my mum "your daughter has a bad mouth", meanwhile the lady had gone from accusing me of attempted kidnapping (I shi.t you not) to sitting down mutely. When my mum came around, she started deploying "Christian Mother" technique and my mum and sibling were forced to drop the matter. If I had a big stick covered with nails and a chain in my car (like I used to plan on having ), I would have broken her windscreen in retaliation. Because the NPF that was supposed to be objective took a side before I had opened my mouth. Same with a friend who came to see me: an okada guy ran into his car (checking out some girl in tights crossing the street, all the men were). He started laughing but to his amazement, the okadaman picked himself and accused my friend of hitting him (how can a stationary car at a traffic light hit you??). Other okada men surrounded him and started beating him up, he had to run inside a nearby building to hide. The NPF did absolutely nothing and only started showing concern when his dad and military boys showed up. His father told him "next time, have a gun or a whip in the car" (man was a military man). Had he been taken to the Police station, he would have had to pay bail for a crime he didn't commit, right under the sign that says "bail is free". We live in a jungle, sometimes you do not have the luxury of being civilised all the time. No matter how much you want it.

janellemonae:
You conveniently left out d part dt the husband had cheated on the wife several times in the past. In ur head he wasn't wrong to "engage in a sexual relationship wt another woman". Right?? Typical.

tearoses:
Hi Coco
The whole system is fkudup
excuse my french
people take law into their own hands because the police don't do anything
Ive heard of victims reporting to the police and they get locked up instead

Something needs to be done about this jungle justice because one day it could come to our doorsteps and God forbid an innocent person gets killed or injured
people will also begin to settle scores by shouting thief at their "enemies" and straight away a tyre gets put on that person and that's the end of that persons life....... no questions asked & no one held responsible.

I've read conflicting stories about this case
some say be is a boy who stole gari
some say he is a phone thief who multiple stabbed a woman with a dagger and who is currently fighting for her life in Hospital
regardless of what he is, he should have been handed over to the police

The value of a human life in Nigeria is very low

Kimoni:
Don't even look too far...she asked him in one of those chats up there, "you have had your own extramarital affairs, did I question you about their families? I forgave you and moved on, why are you not doing same". And of course, he was silent when she brought that up.

@topic: No justification for what she has done, but he has no moral right to question her loyalty. And who knows how many babies he has also aborted during his numerous affairs?

My only question for the wife and all those who do revenge relationship is - Why another married man? Must you also destroy another woman's home? And why make babies only to murder them? Even school children cannot claim not to know about protection.

This couple deserve themselves IMO. They should both spend eternity in the same cell. God help their kids.

iykedare:
Everything shouldn't be about gender war.

intruder15:
hmmm. Dis ur write up sef. After reading it i was hoping to see m or f. Since u hid that part, u can tell me which one are u.
Did i hear u say trespass? While legally married to someone is there a term called trespassing in such case? Whether one lives at sokoto, and d other at jalingo, i dont see one going to d other's house irrespective of d time as trespass. My 2 cents.

Onegai:
He broke her leg. She's currently on crutches. The case got charged to court. His place of work was pressured to sack him. She took his gist to the bloggers as a deadbeat dad. He's defending.

Very boring Assault case. I've heard of much more interesting cases, nothing like a man dying and multiple kids and multiple wives. They can bring their babalawo to court

5minsmadness:
They broke up following irreconcilable differences i.e she had an affair and got pregnant.
He works in zenith.
She works as a businesswoman.
She lives in a posh area of lagos state. Rent is through the roof.
Xomplained that the man abandoned her and the kids i.e child support and stuff.
However she is making good money from her buisness.
Man ignored her complaints.
Sge claims that one day sge was coming out of her gate when the man attacked her and broke both her legs with a hammer and walked off.
Has been demanding compensation.
He has been quiet
She approached a well respected lawyer who is very passionate about domestic violence.
He was outraged by her story and took the case as one of senseless domestic violence.
He put pressure on his workplace(zenith bank)
He got sacked.
Now he is responding.
Says he never broke her legs. Her lover did it by mistake while trying to hit him.
Says she had affairs and has veen bringing out proof.
Says he has been paying for the kids(which she refuted) and has brought out proof.
You can read the rest.
You're up to speed.

emperorchedda:
Now put yourself in this scenario: You are from a poor
and wretched home, your mum is a widow and barely has enough
to feed you and your four siblings twice a day. One day you and
your sibling fall ill and your mum needs to raise about 2k for
treatment, considering the fact she's extremely poor 2k is a very
large sum for her, so she begs a very strict friend for money to
start up a petty trade of garri, he gives her a very strict time frame
to pay back, she starts the busineess and only makes about 1k
profit in a week, she plans to do the business for two weeks in
order to get enough money to treat your sibling and yourself, one
day a young man zooms into the market and makes way with her
tray of garri (this is where the money for your health and even the
capital is) claiming he was hungry, the next day your sibling dies
because your mum couldn't raise money to take her to the
hospital, now it's your turn get treated or you die. Fortunately your
mum sees the thief in the market few days later (this is the thief
indirectly responsible for the murder of your sibling and might even
rob again and indirectly murders you this time), what will you do to
him? Don't lie that you will hand him over to the incompetent
Nigeria Police because he will just get a bail of 5k and carry on
with his theft after few weeks. If you remember the implications of
his actions in your life and that of other who he may indirectly kill
again you will be VERY HAPPY to watch him burn to death. Don't
blame jungle justice, blame the security system of Nigeria that
can't punish a criminal in a way he won't ever go back to crime, if
this keeps happening people will RIGHTLY keep taking laws into
their own hands, no one here is barbaric until you step into their
shoes

KBdownloads:
[size=16]na this grown-ass criminal dem dey call 7-year old boy?! where was the police when he was busy stealing and killing people? fvck the police jare[/size]

dangotesmummy:
forming feminist?

What is feminism?
who are feminists?

According to you feminists are those who flaunt cleavages

Use only the concepts you understand it's meaning

It's not by force to use a term you don't know What it means just because you heard someone saying it

Cococandy come and put mouth here I'm reading a lot of clownish posts

5minsmadness:
Well, what do you know. Good for you, ma'm. I'm so proud
Oya lemme leave u this morning. Busy day ahead

5minsmadness:
Haaaaaaahahahahahaha!

Cococandy a confirmed hypocrite!
This is pure gold

So now you get to see the other side of the coin,
Not a pretty picture is it?

5minsmadness:
Surely you're not supporting the woman in this

She cheated on him! Doesnt she deserve a fate worse than death? Isnt that what you preach ALL the time for cheating husbands even those that cheat only once?

Don't be hypocritical now.

thorpido:
A man was beaten and burnt to death for stealing but reports say he wasn't a seven year old.
It's barbaric anyway.

lepasharon:
Lol I sense sarcasm sis

Lennycool:
The fear of witchcraft is directly linked to the general education of the populous. The more educated the population of an area is the less witches they perceive and vice versa.
Africans think they are the ones that started witch hunting. But the truth is compared to the Europeans we were all learners, yes the white people once believed strongly in witchcraft. The Malleus Maleficarum translated as The hammer of witches is arguably the most damning text in all of literature. Written in 1486 by Catholic Inquisitors, it prescribed how to kill, torture and identify witches. And for almost 200 years it was the best selling book second only to the Bible. The book with sponsorship from the Pope killed tens of thousands of women accused of witchcraft.
But today people in Europe are smarter and no one talks of witches again. Why?
Education my friends is a mind opener.

oatzeal:
Once again , am here, ..... If u tell your pastor or tell his relative, it will make it worse.

There is no man a woman can't handle.. Study ur man and handle him. IF YOU TAKE TO SOME ADVICE HERE, IT WILL ONLY GET MESSIER.


he has reasons for shouting at u, if u can't detect the actual reason, play round it... That's why am giving u tips.

Possible reasons why he shouts at you... I used myself as an example.

Again... Some men don't like to be slowed down., They like it wen dey say ABCDE and u continued ..FGHI..

Only smart ladies can cope..

Another way is to always assist him not to be late. Wake him, help him pick what he may forget,
.

Help him to be faster at anything

... Am not saying you shud not do your own, but be involved in his own , at least for this time, please


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Dont see it as selfishness on his own side... Or slavery on ur side. JUST DO IT , u will get amazing result.. You will ask for A, he will give you AAAAAAAA, he will notice it easily wen u re not happy, he ll listen to you and change completely.

PRAY TO GOD, WITH SINCERE HEART, ASK FOR WISDOM TO BE SMARTER.... GOD WILL GRANT IT UNTO YOU..

jarmy:
Show more submission to him. Stop arguing with him. Give your suggestions when he ask for it, and when you do, do it with respect. You have not being satisfying his ego!

rocoh:
I understand, give what you can give thats all , its very simple.No fighting no fussing , just give them the amount you can afford.

DarkRebel101:
You should post the picture sometime; I need something to make me laugh my brains out.



Aha, I almost thought you had a thing for dead and defunct Nairaland accounts. You know, like a form of e-necrophilia.

Here's the link to my mention: https://www.nairaland.com/671147/what-series-watching-now-part/509#50535198