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Her words are uplifting because she blamed your wife and not you.
Yet you claim to love her.
Ode.

Omegalala:
Thanks Hitunnu. Yours has been the most uplifting words.

In fact the 1st 3 months when they left, I was depressed. I cried for the first time since secondary school. I lost weight. Started smoking to while away time.

Na this new babe popped back my mojo.

Not blaming my wife and not justifying my actions as well.

Like you said God will see me through. I don't think its the worst thing that can happen to someone.

BellaElla:
Op men like you disgust me
Look at you talking about love
You are selfish
Anyway I don't blame you
You don't even know what you are getting yourself into.
If you had an inkling, you would not have been here yapping about pro life bla bla
Na ur children I pity, they would grow up hating themselves and resenting you. They would end up clinging to their mothers.
Why do you want to bring children into a world of competition and jealousy
I don't even care about u, you and ur baby mama can eat shit. It's those children that would grow up with esteem issues i feel for.
U think polygamy is easy. Hahahahaha.
Say goodbye to peace of mind. That ur side chic u are in love with. Lmao. She's gonna taste bitterness.
By the time your legal family starts fighting her for your properties, she would know something.
I am from a polygamous home. It messed me up. I grew up with so much hate in my heart for my dad.
I made sure I married a man from a lineage of men with self control.
10-15 years from now your gonna regret this decision.
All you would left with is a flaccid deek and resentful children squabbling over what properties you have left.
But what do I know? your a man in love
Follow your dream, marry your princess and ride into doomland

Lol

Well I'm happy for you that you love the second wife because the first wife is already in the U.S where it even gets lonelier being single. she might also be getting down with her own side dude over there as you speak.

you may not be at a loss when you find out since you already have someone else that you love.

3KINGZ18:
wow is dat s'mores

nope.
Just Plain marshmallows on whip cream topped mocha.

Breakfast

You still want help with the bills?
When will she have the time to go early hat income if she's spending her life running after you, picking up after you and making sure everything is spotless

Greece
Paris
Dubai (first was a rush didn't spend time at all)
Bora bora
Japan


For now.

VEIL1234:
Vancover, Canada.

It's quite beautiful too.

ismail0007:
Orlando, USA

It's beautiful. You'll like it

fellis:
Hahahaha

Very concise and straight to the point

Stupid posts like that require not a lot of effort to respond to.

Fool

Someone probably put him there hoping he will die

promisechuks:
your opinion

exactly

Sounds like Rabies

Oh you're a fisherman? Never mind.
The fish and worm lines connected in my brain just now.
Which makes me wonder why don't you have your own boat?

Just curious. what's with the boat?

Home is where the heart is.
Good luck to you in all your decisions.

Feel really heartbroken for this woman. Gosh.

This issues has nothing to do with social media.
Focus on the topic

Acidosis:
I'm aware sis. That woman got married over 15 years ago (before Facebook and other social media) yet she failed.

With social media, we should expect more disastrous and devastating events in the coming years.

Y'all mind your business

Let's not make fun of the OP. It's hard for people to leave a bad union if they are emotionally and financially invested in it.

Best of luck lady.

Umm but that happens all the time.
It's like the required daily anthem.

And y'all don't even need any guy from Italy to come prompt you to start abusing Nigerian women.
It's a favorite pastime for many of you.

Then they get upset when you ask then if their mothers are among the prostitutes and gold diggers.

Goes Both ways huh?

Richy4:
So to you that was a simple question..... How nice will it look if some guy.say from Italy comes to Naira land and open a thread and ask "why are Nigerian women prostitutes and Gold diggers.."

he goes ahead and narrate some silly story that could be a rare occurrence to judge Nigerian women..... and every men here backs him up and agree that every Nigerian women were indeed prostitutes and gold diggers.... I suggest you use your brain sometimes please...Don't just make comments because you wants to...

Ambiguous message.

Beautiful photo

@OP read their comments and judge for yourself.

@your predicament, I don't know how long y'all been married but if it's only been for a short while and with no kids involved, the earlier you dump the user, the better for you. So you don't become a single mom raising kids by yourself in future.

I've seen your other posts and at the usual risk of being labeled a divorce advocate, I'll give you my honest opinion. No pretense or goody-two-shoeism.
......
Someone is using you to get papers with the intention of bringing his main woman to the USA after he's gotten his papers and you're still there calling him your husband. What do you think will happen when she gets there? That three of you will live like one big happy polygamous family?
You know better.
He will dump you on his own terms.

I know it's heartbreaking and not what you want to hear. But it's my honest opinion. Versus the opinions of those who will lie to you.

I honestly wish it works out for you both.
If you can find a way to FORCE him or CAJOLE him or BEG him to stop liking the woman in Nigeria, you'll most certainly be making wasteful investments in that marriage.

You sure he's not sending money to her? It would be very unlikely that he isn't.

Is sex between married couples a sin? Why does it have to avoided during fasting?

weird things

CFCman:
Noted

Are you the husband in question?

dangotesmummy:
then how did the baby come out because she's sounding very stupid

But you believe Mary was a virgin when she had Jesus?

If you do, Apply the same faith here.

BTW a virgin can have a child. Virgin in the sense that there has been no penile penetration.
Doesn't mean that other things couldn't have gone in and out of her vagina meanwhile.

Consider artificial lubricant for the dryness.

ganye1:
The keyboard warriors do not understand this and that is why they continue to show their ignorance and insensitivity on the plight of the Fulani men. The Fulani herdsmen who live a nomadic live have advantage over the settled people when it comes to war. They retaliate to make a statement that you can't take advantage of their isolated brothers and attack them and go Scot free. They hardly attack first but when they are attacked they always retaliate no matter how long it takes.

You're obviously a deadly liar. One can't debate with a deliberately mischievous fellow like yourself.
They hardly attack first?
Wonders shall never end.

ganye1:
Obviously you think the lives of the the corpers is more important than that of the Fulanis but they don't think so. Since nobody deem it necessary to acknowledge their loses and offer them even simple condolence message the resultant retaliatory attacks are natural consequence. We have to change our mindset and accept the fact fact that live is sacrosanct whether it is that of the Fulani man or that of any other person.

@bold, I think you should preach that to the Fulani you're so avidly defending. Is there any tribe in Nigeria who has more disregard for lives than them?

You went to kill people and died in the process and you want us to cry for you?

You're a joker.

Why are you people doubting her?

ganye1:
This is a right step in the right direction. It is a welcome development that the Fulani me are being talked to in order to solve the problem. Their people and their cattle were killed during the post election violence of the 2011 presidential election and this is the main reason for the recurring violence in the area and any attempt from the side of the government to talk to the fulanis and other ethnic groups is most welcomed.

The post election violence was carried out by who? Was it not Buhari's supporters that went on rampage killing those who they thought were responsible for his loss?

What about the youth service members who died in the fiasco. Have their family members migrated all over Nigeria to kill people on their farms and destroy their properties? Just look at the ctupid reason you're giving for justifying evil.

You start a fracas and maybe lose some of your own people in the trouble that you started and then blame the whole country for it?

Disgusting POS.