₦airaland Forum

tosyne2much:
This world is becoming something else.. Make God destroy the world this night make everybody go rest jawe

tosyne2much:
Seriously? Nawa ooooo Lord have mercy

tosyne2much:
This write-up will be very useful for guys who indulge in premarital and unprotected sex, not me


Cc
Lalasticlala

bukatyne:
Take a kiss for the bold

I have not noticed women have hatred for each other any more than guys hating on each other.

Amelian:
My dear don't mind men.. They always want to knock heads of women against each other.. And the same men will also say women are resentful of each other.

God is my witness.. Some Women has been a great source of joy, help and assistance to me when am in need...likewise me to them ... . And women will not ask her fellow woman for sex when she wants to help financially.. She will help , advice and go her way.. But men! God forbid... U must have sex with them or no help. As if God use se3x swear for them.
If not that am dating a wonderful guy and he is nice and supportive.. I will just say men are thorn in the flesh... But make I no talk too. Much..
Men face una front and leave women alone to sort themselves..

BIGGMAMA:
I would love to read your input Nne because you are very intelligent.

BIGGMAMA:
Cococandy

oloyede252:
you don't like the topic because it as to do with women alone. if the topic was about both gender you won't have problem with it.
as you said both gender engages in the act of resentment but women have taken this to a whole new level.

TomHagen:
You and a particular group of people have this irritating habit of turning every thread into a male v female issue. I am sure you have no idea how stupid the highlighted part of your comment is.

AlfaAce:
you don't resent your fellow women, is it the same with them? Hw sure are you?
98% of women are just like that,jealous,resentful and they can gossip and backbite for days.My neighbour can tell angel michael what she saw satan doing at God's backyard.

MadamExcellency:
Folorunsho Alakija is a Billionaire', Stella Oduah is a corrupt politician while Patience Jonathan, who opened the first community bank in Rivers State can't make money.


Kikikikiki!

Keep deceiving yourselves. Among the three women I mentioned, she is the least to become a self-made billionaire without corruption and government dash dash.

Someone said import waiver is corruption because the bulk went to Easterner but allocation of Oil Well freely isn't corruption worth probing.

Diezani Madueke (who we were told that her wages can't buy her golden ornaments) can't in any way be compared to Folorunsho Alakija (a mere tailor) in anyway in Oil business and operations, yet her oil deals are corruption while Alakija's is doggedness.

Who be mumu in this contraception called Nigeria? Why not treat everyone equally, irrespective of region and use the same rule of law for every Dike, Tope and Haruna for a mutual sense of belonging.

luciouscookie:
OOH my God!!!!! And to think Nigerians are busy discussing cucumber SMH.

Maaamaaa:
I'm amazed at the extent people go to, just because they think I did not listen to their advice.
Someone found me on Facebook and rained curses on me.
I have called on the moderators to delete this thread but they don't want to.
I totally listened to the words of everyone here and I thought about it all for a long time before settling for a decision.
If I've offended you in any way by this post I'm truly sorry.

Whatever decision I took if it turns out good or bad, I'll suffer it alone.

Thank you for your words and please I want the thread shut down. Thank you

tchidi:
Hello!! How una dey? Here's what I've been up to. I missed you all...

SAMBARRY:
exactly. They expelled her from Lagos state polytechnic she didn't complain, havard con dash am free admission now jealousy con dey worry them.shebi una say make she leave kannywood she Don go so why body still con dey pain them. Shey make she no pay her bills and feed her family again?

I'm sure say THEY were expecting her to beg as she no con send them e pepper them well.I feel their pain

Ouchhh

danjumakolo:
Hmmm kannywood shud really thank God for fighting,defeating and removing the agent of the Freemasons from her midst...let her go n dine wiv the jezebels...

Only God knows how many children lives she would have misled in the north who would wished to dress and b like her....

Ishilove:
Professionals in hymen breakage?

Kolababe:
UK based Nigerian medical doctor and humanist Ijabla Raymond, is really angry with Nigerians over their reactions to the recent leaked sextape of Miss Anambra, Chidinma Okeke's sextape. Read the eye-opening write up...

one of those moments I feel ashamed to be a Nigerian. I don't understand why there is so much hysteria about the leaked sex video of a private citizen. In my opinion, this should not make the news. There are far too many sanctimonious and judgmental people who take it upon themselves to be morality police in this country. They pontificate on how sinful sex is yet they seek out the leaked sex video and all forms of porn on the internet.

The morality police turn a blind eye when prepubescent girls are given out in marriage to men old enough to be their grandfathers but as soon as consenting adults engage in premarital or gay sex they start twitching. How is it anybody's business what two or more consenting adults choose to do with their bodies if they are not hurting a third party or forcing you to have sex with them?

Do you want something really worthwhile to talk about? Do you want to talk about something that every decent person should be angry about? I will give you it. Only this month, the Emir of Katsina reportedly married a fourteen-year-old girl, assaulting her dignity and innocence in the process but our society hardly took notice. Child-bride marriage is so common in northern Nigeria that it is considered a normal way of life.

This is a matter that has serious consequences for the lives of young people. It should concern every citizen because it destroys the lives of our children. It stops girls from going to school to get an education, which in turn affects their prospects of getting good jobs and becoming financially independent later in life. These girls are more likely to develop abnormal connections between their vagina, bladder, and rectum during childbirth, which then causes them to become incontinent of feces and urine. The resultant malodor very often leads to isolation and social ostracism or even divorce by their husbands who simply marry the next child-bride. It is a lot of psychological trauma for anybody to deal with let alone a teenage mother. These young mothers end up begging on the streets when their elderly husbands divorce them. Sadly, their children are left to the mercies of hostile step-mothers and may end up as street beggars just like their unfortunate mothers.

The evidence shows that children born to educated mothers have better outcomes than those born to teenage mothers with no education or job. When you educate a woman you empower the whole family and by extension the society. Look around, and you will notice that the most progressive and affluent societies in the world are the ones that have educated and empowered their women. It seems to me that the Nigerian society is confused and has its priorities the wrong way round. Why are we angry when adults (married or not, gay or straight) engage in consensual sex but turn a blind eye when children are raped by adults in the name of tradition?

As a secular humanist, I do not look to any religious book or gods for morals. I apply reason, common sense, judgment, and empathy in decision-making. If two or more adults engage in consensual sex and this does not harm anybody then it is none of my business. Period! I think our self-righteousness and propensity to be judgemental come from religion. Islam and Christianity condemn homosexuality and consensual sex between unmarried adults but are silent on the matter of pedophilia. Catholic priests have gained an ugly notoriety for sexually molesting young boys all over the world. The prophet of Islam married a prepubescent girl when he was in his fifties and many Muslims cannot be persuaded to abandon this practice. Despite unparalleled religiosity, our society is one of the most decadent in the world - we are almost always near the top of the list of the most corrupt countries in the world. Many Nigerian children endure years of sexual abuse by close relatives such as uncles, aunties, cousins, house-boys, house-girls or family friends. To think some of these perverts are now sitting in judgment over Miss Anambra and her friend is nauseating and outrightly hypocritical.

http://www.newseveryhour.com/2016/10/miss-anambra-sex-video-medical-doctor.html

helovesme:
You are right.

Rather than just "close eyes" and put the child in a nursery and pay nursery fees or use a registered/qualified child minder, they go the cheap route and employ these "nannies". Most of these nannies are either illegals or people on holiday but looking at making some quick cash.

Who in their right mind force feeds a baby? It's no surprise why nigeria has one of the highest child mortality rates in the world. Be not deceived. Many kids in nigeria have died this way but as there's no autopsy or surveillance camera, the adult simply states that the child's death is unexplained or blames it on some spritual force that has attached the child.

MrPRevailer:
Have you not heard of human ritualist, native doctors. And accounts on how many became rich through them?

SillyMods:
Any decently educated fellow will understand that if there was any govt that didn't have to borrow, it was the Ineffectual Buffoon's.

So, if the IB who didn't have to borrow, not only borrowed but borrowed to finance looting, will it not be hypocritical to criticize a govt which inherited a screwed up economy, an economy in recession, for wanting to borrow to finance capital development? Wicked and selfish!