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Nothing to say. you said it better.

dangotesmummy:
Lol. Everything in Nigeria is a miracle
to get admission miracle
to graduate after 4 years miracle
to get employed miracle
for your employers to give you your entitlements and salary THAT YOU WORKED FOR O not dash money - miracle. You will even beg,prostrate ,lobby to collect YOUR OWN SALARY

As a matter of fact that your boss paid you your salary in Nigeria is a privilege


In Nigeria every thing has been so basterdized. Nigeriand have been so abused, trampled under, enslaved and used that they don't even know hence the aggressive behaviour on the roads when driving which is even a symptom of depression and pain living and working in a toxic environment like Nigeria.

Imagine working in a company and you're promised heaven and earth at the end of the month it's stories and excuses you get why your salary hasn't been paid

Then you get home no light. You meet a nagging wife telling you how she was better In her fathers house and how you married her to suffer her .the kids come home to tell you THE school management didn't allow them sit for exams because you haven't paid their school fees

Your landlord comes demanding for his money for house rent

Nepa Bill is there you will still pay for the light you hardly use
Lawma bill is there

You drive on the road you have to have 6 eyes.2 in front another 2 at the back and two by the sides so that mad road users don't bash your car and besides the police guys stationed on the road to ensure smooth driving on the roads are either jisting away or eating or reading news paper and could care less if your car is bashed or theres traffic congestion or an accident.so you have to be extra watchful so you dont have to pay from an irregular and unstable income to fix your car


Even commercial drivers will park on the road to pick passengers and cause more traffic and delay for others going to work because they just don't care and know police cannot do anything about it because the police don't care as long as money has changed hands
You still have to buy fuel to fuel your generator and do basic things yet YOU wonder why Nigerians are so angry frustrated and aggressive. The answer is not far from you.we live in a toxic and frustrated society
and you wonder why churches are so full every Sunday with people looking for hope miracle job husband wife children etc

Actually the church is now the last hope for Nigerians that's why fake pastors aka buisness men are maximizing that opportunity to enrich themselves

So you see all these things are a vicious cycle. We're gradually degenerating into Thomas Hobbes description of the state OF nature


Living with all these daily challenges that has become a way of life there's no how your life span won't be shorter,you won't fall sick ,depressed, narcissistic or even go gaga

Efemena
Cococandy
chullisauce

Oya con put mouth

GossipHeart:
419 ??

Sorry, biitch

I'm too rich for that

Or maybe you're rich because of it. Sonofabitch.

419

GossipHeart:
To tell you the truth

USA visa is the easiest visa on earth
I'm talking from experience, sometimes i get their visa and wouldn't use and it would expire, when next i need a visa, they would give me a visa without any long story

The only thing they require from you is sincerity and honesty

USA is very empty, there are 55 states in the USA and only one state is bigger than Nigeria

They need people to come live in their country

dangotesmummy:
we're good thank God.

So how's Xmas preparation going down?

Wey my hampers?

Inside the hampers I want corn beef, Milo, saint Louis sugar,peak milk, chivita juice, cream salad,tomato paste, cornflakes then put money Inside. Any amount that comes from your heart

That's not all o.I want you to prepare sumptuous meal for me and wura the type that will make us bite our tongue. Get ready for us because we're coming December 25

This is the type of Xmas lunch we want. Infact make sure we're perceiving the aroma from the gate
then lace it with this type of meat /meat sauce
or this

taryour:
Madam. Been a while, how you doing? family and business. eku ojo meta o.

@ cococandy how you doing too and all yours? trust everyone is doing great.

We are awesome. thank you

Good morning. You just woke up.

When I saw that his first video, I knew this niccu was up to no good.

InformedLola:
And by this logic, female teachers and lecturers are sinners too abi. In fact add female entrepreneurs, managers, any female with male subordinates...

Men have been trying to suppress women since bible times .

And successfully too if I may add.

Yet they are still paranoid and afraid of women.
Always seeking new means to enforce their oppression even if it means masquerading as females online.

One wonders why.

Real horror

DarkRebel101:
It's one of those kids who have managed to steal out from the puerile caves of Romanceland.

...

His tone grows softer and he comes across as feminine only when he quotes those who agree with him. But he becomes combustible when he is opposed and bewrays himself in the process.
The true identity of a man is revealed in the face of opposition.

He needs to up the ante on his acting skills, even a gumshoe with a broken nose would have sniffed out the deceit right from the word go.

what's this?

How do people manage to be so funny but when I try, I end up flat on my face?

Guitarlife:
I assume you are lady so its expected that you learn to communicate without being offensive, that being said.

why is that reserved for ladies? Would you shrivel up and die if you too learned to communicate with respect?

I do not expect you to agree or even comprehend what I wrote. I understand it might be deeper than what your mental capacity can decipher and I aint blaming you for that.

If a lady cannot learn to manage this weakness of her man even in a relationship how will she handle such a huge responsibility as marriage ?

fix that your weakness. Don't be a burden to someone else. Especially if they didn't ask it. I assume you're an adult with sense. You should know that no one is an endless pit that swallows your bull day in day out. Fix yourself. Psycho.

The kind of mothers raising the modern girl child are primarily retired Oloshos so if you werent raised by classical parents in a sane and disciplined home setting some things will not make sense and I do not owe you any apology.

Mmm. Speaking from experience? Poor you.

Guitarlife:
Every one will tell a story to favour themselves so am taking ur story with a pinch of salt . I believe its heavily lopsided.

People can earn much and still be broke.

Maybe he is building his house or saving up for further study or investing in MMM.

Ur sense of entitlement is not justified and people are still encouraging you that he is bad.

How else do you want him to reset your brain when you become areogant that he has options outside if not to proove it to you ?

I still did it to my EX yesterday and it worked cos she chatted me.

Husband is scarce if your man loves you and you know it learn to work on his weakness and build your home.

He is a man and its your responsibity to build your home and not his.

How well you are prepared for that will tell now, I told my EX " you are watching too much zee world, face the real world and understand that you the woman will build your home and your man".

It will not be easy but then so many women running after few men.

Nature has made it so. Be wise.

This one will marry somebody's daughter tomorrow right? What's the man responsibility if he has no part to play in building the home. Is he there for decoration?

I wonder who is responsible for these sickening mindset some of you have. Grow up!

Sigh...

sisisioge:
All I did give were simple observations of happenings around you. Shouldn't that serve as enough data? I used politics, religion, family, business, power, science... sweetie I can't believe I'm still here. The question you kept asking was answered on my first post you quoted. By the way, going on and on round a circle is a sheer waste of time. Can I beg you not to mention me on this thread again? Pls pls...I already gave my opinion, which I'm entirely responsible for. Yours is all yours

thesicilian:
Yes.

Anything you can tell yourself to make your p5nis fell better.

sisisioge:
Alright, will have to leave alone. You went off rails entirely. By the way, I hope your husband is cool with him taking up your name? As in Mr. Cococandy? God forbid you take his to foster oppression . Pls enjoy your day

I went off rail? By following you?

You're still proving nothing.

Are you superior or inferior?

Does me taking my husband's name (or not) change the fact that it is a culture designed around elevating men and does not in any singular way prove that men are superior? Just like all the examples you gave up there.

You can't even support your stance. You're going offhand involving people's families without proving your POV correct while doing so.

Give me something empirical. Then you're talking.

You're only citing examples that show women have been marginalized throughout history.

Nothing in there is empirical proof that men are superior.

Following your logic, white people are superior to blacks because they took us as slaves and took our lands and culture from us?
Brainwashing us that their culture and religion is the only true one which we now practice fervently and protect with our lives. (I digress...)

But if all you typed there is 'proof to you that men are superior to women, I hope you consider yourself inferior to a white woman too. Since it's the same logic. No?

Bottom line, you can't use oppression as evidence of superiority. If anything, it proves quite the opposite. That a bunch of people are so threatened by the mere free existence of others that they make up laws, stories, religions and cultures all centered around the oppression of the certain folks who's freedom threatens their fragile egos.

How you can't see that is beyond me.
Well not really.

Which still brings us back to "if a man is superior to you, what are you to him?"
Puzzle of the century.

sisisioge:
You too? At least you aren't like the OP who was too blind to see the side of the coin my belief lies.


By the way, I still don't feel the need to explain myself one bit... It's really a man's world, the sooner we all come to terms with that the better for us all.

As it is , God created a woman first and made her lord over all animals. He thought she might need a guy and thus removed from her several bones to create men. Hallelujah!

Notice how the Bible and Koran refer to humans as womankind....duh, mankind

The evolution traced the first woman to the homosapiens ba? God bless science.

It has always been majority women kings ...the few men that made that feat are idolized . God bless the present Queen of England. Don't even try to read her story...the kingmakers couldn't wait to make a woman king!

Americans would rather elect an available hateful man than make a woman their president. Jeeeez...

Our foremothers were the custodians and the active makers of our history.

Today's woman had to fight tooth and nails to get heard enough to be considered equals with men so she could get some political seats! Whooopsidaisiesss! Wasn't she an equal all along? Why the struggle pls?

Today's woman is really an equal, she's the alpha in marriages. EOD

Yes! Now we have some smart successful women who know they aren't inferior but still recognize that in the race of first amongst equals, a man would most likely win. God bless Madam F. Alakijah, she appears to be winning on all levels possibly because she knows what she's up against and strategized . Really this battle for the superior is fruitless, know what you are up against and shoot! By the time you get to where you're going...they won't see it coming.

Whew, Coco baby...I must really like you to launch any explanation at all Enjoy your day.

DarkRebel101:
My bad. I'm finishing up on some office work and should hit the bed sheets in no time.

Goodnight.

cool. 'Night.

DarkRebel101:
Nairaland is home to the good, the bad, and the mentally-indigent. To retain one's sanity, it's best one takes the commentaries of the mentally rëtarded with a cubic metre of salt.

What are you still doing up at the time? Studying?

I hear you and agree.

Lol. It's only 4:40pm here.

DarkRebel101:
It's sisisioge's time of the month -- forgive her indiscretions.

I don't know what's going on here.
All the annoying posts on this thread. Gosh!

People and their jealousy sef.

sisisioge:
No time for plenty stories. I'm not inferior but absolutely recognize the fact that men are superior to women.

I like when they confuse themselves like this.

Example "I am not good but I'm definitely not bad". What are you? a mystery. Is what you are.

Babe There's no in between when it comes to inferiority and superiority. You're either one or the other. It is simple English. If you're superior to me that means I'm inferior to you. C'est finis.

This isn't ours to decide though, it's been decided for us a long time ago.

By who? The ignorant forefathers who used to burn people for being witches and kill twins for bearing bad luck. I think time has proven that the older generation doesn't know it all. In fact one can argue factually that it could be dangerous to follow in their footsteps in some situations. The best thing is to learn from them and not perpetuate their ignorant mistakes.

I'm not your regular girl by the way, I have above average IQ which I know a lot of men can't boost of yet,

1) Really? I'm finding it hard to believe that.
2) yet you believe men are superior?
3) pick a side already.
4) geez I'm confused.

DarkRebel101:
The OP is off his rockers.

He thought he did a good job of hiding it. The dumb thing

PaulIdu:
Jesus Christ!!!! These men have no iota of respect for thier congregation

The congregation have no respect for themselves

He is a stupid man that is why he doesn't like to say the truth.

dienlmods:
Then, why are you useless bigot protecting a lybian and Malian and allowing them to kill your own Nigerian people? Dunce and bigots can never change. ..zombies, almajiris, and afonjas will forever be diabolical evil and myopic...God punish you all evil people filled with hate and demonic envy

None of your business

ZeeAfrica:
hehehe she wud know dat m lying coz i share n apartment with my half sister. N she wud die, coz i even help her mom n brothers. Lord so much load on my shoulders

Sorry.

Who's the author of this post. I owe you one.

Tell her you lost your job.

Don't mind the ode

Pinkdiamondz:
https://www.nairaland.com/3115407/pls-sexually-addicted-big-boobs

So on this you won't cheating. ?


Look you're out of work and stressed and depressed probably and you are taking it out on her. What do you want your bride price back? Leave the poor woman before she kills you or you kill her. You are unwell! !

lepasharon:
Girlll you fineeee

Awww. Blushing. Thanks

Yea how did you really get into this.
What a mistery.

You claim you paid the bride price before even having sex with her. So that means you really did plan to marry her. So what's that about marrying for pity in your post. What pity?

Dude.