₦airaland Forum

fkdmods:
Which kain tin be dis na?

truthsayer007:
Perhaps you have a very big ass, coupled with the fact that u nw have a fine face. You can't blame them .

Anyways, I just looked up the meaning of rapist apologists lol, I just learnt something new today lol . Never heard the word b4.

DammyOlu123:
You're under arrest!!! For torturing fellow human beings...

But this must have tasted soooo good. I officially change my name to Mr Damilola Cococandy!!! Now I'm family. Where is my own??

edwife:
We thank God.

Absolutely not, just a distraction. Too many kids around, i blame glo. besides same old same old.

By the time i get back home, i am worn out and i just want to relax my brain.

edwife:
We have been busy dear, the more you age and the kids grow , you just have to jump at more profitable developments. Building yourself is key here.

How is ada nne doing?

edwife:
My ladies miss you guys.

efemenaxy
chillis
cococandy
byvan
kimoni
ifyalways
damiso
naijababe

How are you doing? I smell Christmas and you know me, i get agitated like a 3 years old.

Benita27:
There's an aura that comes with having a "father figure" in a home, more especially when daughters are involved, most broken homes have seen on the grounds that the woman was caught cheating... "Divorce" was inevitable.
Base on a clear observation, these fathers left their cheating wives with their girl-child and these women tend to be bad influence on their daughters who end up being very wayward future prostitutes in the making. As for the boys we're told they have a survival instinct, i really can't relate to though!. This thread is prompted by one among many have seen, her father isn't aware of the kind of life she live as i know he loves her but, she fools him a lot and i know she would have been better off with her dad.
Why Do These Men Leave Their Daughters In The Hands Of A Promiscous Wife They Divorced?.

eyinjuege:
Its true.
I heard about the cases.
Hmmm, and you can trust how we can overdo the powder thing, especially for those rashes that kids have. Powder seems to be the solution for nappy rash, skin rashes, eczema, and now even for circumcision
Anyway, I pray Nigerians won't start coming down with such cos na everybody use talcum powder till now sef. They always smell nice
And how else will people know you're nursing a baby

Francheezy:
I'm sorry to hear that, it's because you are not classy.

Ishilove:
Wow...that is extreme

Cancer is common now because of all these chemicals that are incorporated into our products. So many of them have no business being inside our bodies

Ishilove:
Jeez. So what happens to people like us who grew up rubbing Tony Montana and Enchanter?

In the first of what looks to be many verdicts and/or settlements involving allegations that Johnson & Johnson ignored a possible link between cancer and its talcum-based products, a jury in Missouri has ordered the company to pay a total of $72 million to the family of a woman who died from ovarian cancer

eyinjuege:
Do you know there's an inconclusive link between powders containing talc and ovarian cancer? This is in women who have a history of application around the genital area. I don't know though if your dusting powder has talc in it.
Anyways, try and raise your child well. Let her have confidence in herself.
We do have female prostitutes who are circumcised, BTW. That certainly didn't help them (and not all prostitutes start the trade from dire financial circumstance, some are just greedy n lazy)
Many girls who act up and are promiscuous do it NOT because they actually enjoy the sex (we have very few nymphomaniacs) but for deeper psychological reasons.
Watch your girl child like a hawk (even male children are not excluded these times we're in ).
Don't leave them (boy and girl ) alone with any uncle/aunt. You and your spouse must be actively involved in raising them.
Teach them from a young age to confide in you, to know nobody is allowed to touch them around their privates. Believe them when they tell you things, and be there for them always

Francheezy:
You look clean, have you ever been harassed?

Alariwo2:
dress as you wish to be addressed..

most of them wear erotic rags, some wicked body grabbing clothes that even you on suit will be like damn!
but you can't talk na... as gentle man wey pesin be

Francheezy:
It's only dirty girls and skreps that get harassed, clean and classy ladies don't get harassed.

Alariwo2:
but it's d truth na
don't we see them? spaghetti tops pelu bum shorts
some will carry overload without bra.. I think they do it deliberately tho.. to 'kill'guys

Miggs:
You small boys never cease to crack me up.What if i told you all the ladies who shared their "harassment' stories liked what the men said and did but are upset at the men because they carried out their actions publicly and not in private area or in a hidden/dark corner

MizMyColi:
Experienced Papas Mamas and Doctors, please help me chook mouth inside this matter o.

So an aunt saw mum bathing my daughter and started asking why we didn't cut off that thing in her hoohaa.
I started wailing that it is not even something any mom in this age should consider.

Then she said there is an alternative.
That leaving it like that will make her too "active"
That alternative is dusting powder.
Dusting powder!!!

She says it will kill some cells that cause the need for too much pleasure.

Please don't read and waka pass o.
Let us deal with this matter.
People need to be aware.

I am concerned because I wouldn't want to my girl to grow up and start being promiscuous. I heard a story of one waka waka lady who claimed that it was because nothing was done to her hoohaa...

Is there even any truth in that?
If there is, are there ways one can prevent such?

Should the hoohaa of our female infants be left just as they are? Any risks.

Help please

Abiagirl777:
God's grace and may you find favor in what you see,I'm also happy you considered that your body needs to rest from childbirth.
Met a 41 Yr old woman on my last ANC visit who was visibly disturbed and without asking her she told me that day was one week she had an evacuation for a 40 WKs still birth,her unhappiness was that just 2days after the evacuation,hubby told her they'd start trying for another boy.meanwhile she has 2girls1 boy already, so she came secretly to choose a family planning method but alas the hospital says they need her fucking husbands consent.
Ma'm Glossy you are a strong woman.

starbuck:
Chaii cococandy..... It's well ooo
Abeg package me for bag when next you are coming back Nigeria

DarkRebel101:
Good to know that I have a partner in crime.

Yet society would berate you for being a woman that doesn't like to cook. The problem is we focus too much on what roles we think suits a particular gender rather than on individual ability and personal interest(s). It's just like expecting that every man should grow up loving and being able to play football simply because football is a manly sport. What if the man prefers basketball or badminton?



It's not African to hire a cook? Who made that law?

We always say we are in Africa, or we are Africans -- are Africans born with two heads or six fingers? I think Africans feel too important and are a bit self-absorbed. African men need to wake up to the cofee smell on the wall, the world is fast-changing and some of our cultural beliefs have grown obsolete with time—e.g that cooking is not a man's job.

Culture did not just magically appear out of thin air, people created culture, and if people can create culture then they should just be able to refuse it as well especially when it doesn't jive with ordinary common sense.



You are right that it's an almost unrealizable dream but you should also remember that it took millenniums of social conditioning to put in place what we have today. We shouldn't expect that all of that would dissipate within the span of a few heart beats.

We should rather seek to recalibrate the general mind-set little by little, putting it at the back of our minds that a journey of a thousand miles begin with a single step. We can begin to effect this change by raising our sons and daughters differently. It's what we pass down to them that would obtain during their time.

Sotenna:
I understand what you're thinking, but don't feel offended. He didn't mean to insult the ladies.

I think he meant the man is a coward. I personally think the man is an animal.

Sunnymatey:
Some men are not just qualified to be call men. They are shemen Its unfortunate the women is suffering for someone else sin.