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laidback:
The responses on this thread SHa...

Some of you are saying this has nothing to do with Islam bla bla, some Pastors also rape kids bla bla. Are you sure you read the story? WHY ARE THE PERPETRATORS BEING PROTECTED!!! Why was the Emir unwilling to assist until the pressure became a bit much? I mean I assure you if this happened in the name of Christianity, no matter who, even if a big pastor, the perpetrators would be in cuffs and paraded on TV by now. So I ask again if this has nothing to do with religion why the impunity?

I even learned that a similar thing happened before in Bida.

For those saying she ran away with a boyfriend or was enticed by money, the parents are to blame etc etc. I really pity your future. This is a 13 year old girl that comes from a humble background, so if she liked someone who had means (assuming that was even the case) how does that give the person the right to kidnap her AT 13 and convert her to another religion!!!? Are you people mad! Who didn't have a crush at 13? What's the big deal about having a crush? Did you kidnap the person because you could? If someone is kidnapped how can the parents help that? Did you not see the great lengths her parents have gone to get her back?

If you guys had actually bothered to read the story you'll see she was clearly under some sinister influence.

Chai chai chai. The lack of empathy, stupidity and more in this country don tire me. Especially amongst those of us in the south.

For the good of all that girl must be returned and the perps MUST be reprimanded. What nonsense

richardjemedafe1:
Abeg na only me see sumtin wrong in a 13 years old girl dress like this??


Abeg na only me see say e b like say d girl folow the housa man wilingly because of money??


Abeg make sumbody help me ask mama ese say when she they when them abduct ese?? Like c-riously why she they lie on ese age?? That girl pass 13y.

Is ese confortable were she is?? If yes,then let the sleeping dog lie*.
Hmm parent train ur kids up in a way that even when the grow the wil not depart frm it

Onegai:
Oya efferbodi let's laugh! It's 2016, no fight!

ishiamu:
Well I can't keep explaining but it's rare for a man to forgive a cheating GF... when even the GF don't contribute financially to him rather he does to the girl... I wonder why you can't see any sense in what I said

ishiamu:
One thing with people is that they hate hearing the truth cos the truth hurts, I have a gf God in heaven will bear me witness we've been together for 5 years in those five years I haven't cheated her with another lady, but she has cheated on my not twice or thrice still I try and forgive although I haven sworn not to forgive if it repeats cos 5 years is enough for someone to learn, but my type of men are rare my friends all cheat I see what happen around let's say the truth no need lying to make people happy when it's all a lie, men that hardly or don't cheat are 5% believe that

Toks2008:
coco i learned you are married but the way you argue is baffling to me.

Dirst i nver said all men cheat but i only asked simple question...what would you do IF...

How can you jusxtapose a cheating man and woman? how does it sound in your hear?

A man telss a new chic he broke up with his wife cos he slept with another lady and a lady tells a new guy she broke her marriage cos she slept with....and you want to tell me same reactions should come up...habba lady think...

Toks2008:
Abeg leave these small girls forming maturity and writing out of fantasy...

My husband cheats and i cheat back..foolishness wey no get part 2.

Imagine a new man in your life discovering that you left your marriage because you cheated on your hubby regardless why and you willl still expect that man to respect you?

Iranu ibere oriburuku.

jadelyn007:
I swear, I always conveniently overlooked his stupid threads and inwardly pity for the youths that would follow him blindly until I saw this thread advising married people and calling himself a counselor. There is nothing we won't see on nairaland, even jambites are marriage counselors here

opribo:
It is a man's world. The Bible has given us charge over every creature that moves on the face of the earth, so we are at liberty to do anything we like including marrying as many wives as we want. Any woman that wants to gerraway will be dealt with ruthlessly.
Go and read Genesis1:26

Toks2008:
lol...you are so funny dear.

If only you know....

Anyways its a good thing that as long as nland tarries,my threads will always be there as reference point.

We live in a cruel world of men and only the wise women understand this but the foolish still live in their dreams.

Continue dearie..whatever rocks your boat.

jadelyn007:
mumu, you are the one that is deceitful for conveniently blindfolding yourself from seeing all the women working in public parastatals, even those traders, are they not women, are they not paying bills for their homes? The fact that they don't brag about it just to massage you men's ego doesn't mean that a majority of them are not the ones funding their homes.
How many 'MEN' is Nigeria can boast of being the 100% sole provider in their homes?

jadelyn007:
you have been so stuck up in your misogynistic world you didn't even realize that 50 percent of the female replies you got on this thread are from married women, cococandy is married, so is kachisbarbie and others. Do me a favor, stick to the boyfriend and girlfriend topics you are used to. You are not even married yet you are advising married people, who even dash you counselor role, or you think counseling is by settling Iya ramotu and baba saheed figh ? Did you study guidance and counseling or psychology in school. All these cut and nail self acclaimed counselor, you are the problem with Nigeria.

francizy:
Hehehehehehe!!!

I can't imagine my wife distributing my personal belonging to other men oh! Straight up, divorce! Even if she just kissed a man (knowingly or unknowingly), then divorce is a must...

However, if am not man enough to keep myself from cheating when am married, then I don't deserve a faithful wife either...

It's a vice versa thingy...

iambijo:
if na guy, he will beat you up,emergency meeting with ur parents and at the end he will divorce you and say u bi ashawo

banmee:
You know what I think? I think you have a potency problem. You can't function unless you can dominate a woman. I bet if you meet a confident woman it shrinks up. What's with you and male dominance? You need help. Every article you post is always about the subjugation of the female species. I will pray for you. Now close your eyes.

Toks2008:
This is a thread for men and not boys please...

If you want to comment here please do so like a matured person and not one high on liquor or oshogbo weed. Its not a must to make comments an we are not in a palm wine joint so make intelligent comments or keep mum.

banmee:
Here we go again. Another chauvinistic article from a chauvinistic prick. You can never end up with an assured and confident woman. I pity the slave you end up with. I strongly believe you should emigrate to Afghanistan or Iraq. You'll fit perfectly over there. At least they think exactly the way you do in matters relating to women. This muthafucker is justifying staying with a philandering husband. Really? Come and say this same shiit in an organized society and see if they'll not throw you out head first. There is something seriously wrong with you. I wonder what kind of environment you grew up in. I really wonder. I will keep bugging you till you receive sense.

doveda:
I am laughing like a mad woman at bolded


Biko it should we lead while they follow

An0nimus:
It's alright Cococandy, I was only answering a question. Not stopping anyone from airing their opinions

An0nimus:
lol I'm not fighting, my mind couldn't just picture a scene where an accident happened and people stood there with cameras as the children involved cried and bled to death.

Terrible things are happening in Nigeria, terrible things are happening in Saudi Arabia, Somalia, The US, UK. There are terrible people everywhere. I can't and won't deny that. Just that with what I've read here I almost believed Nigeria was the worst place to live on earth.

PresVA:
The question is.. how does talking it here help the situation?
I really doubt if the white woman that helped the boy accused of witchcraft went about badmouthing Nigeria. . She saw the help needed and ACTED accordingly. . It's mostly we Nigerians that badmouth our own country while doing nothing or something close to nothing. . Besides, everyone already knows that 'everything' is wrong with Nigeria. . Should we applaud people for stating the obvious?

My point is.. ACTION speaks better in this regard. . That's all..