₦airaland Forum

YelloweWest:
This forum shaa. I wonder what kind of men are here
A child has been raped and instead of condemning the bastard who did it everyone seems to be blaming the lil girls who knows nothing

tearoses:
LOL I wrote green fingerred and NL changed it to manipulated
NL I hail
You know sometimes when you leave them alone they grow better than when they are looked after
Just that I like the arranged look

My friend of mine has one garden like that. She leaves the back to grow wild and Foxes, squirrels and other wildlife come into the back bit.
sometimes even in the afternoon.
Beautiful

PresVA:
Firstly, your wife has to be patient and work with you... putting pressure on you will worsen it.. her threatening to go outside for satisfaction is utter nonsense to me ... You're willing to deal with the situation, why can't she just support you?

Coming to your issue, could it be you're always so anxious during sex? Because I know lasting long in bed has a lot to do with the mind..how relaxed you're et al..

Also, have you considered satisfying your wife through the oral route? Most women experience orgasm through @ral sex.. then, hand stimulation too..

You can also consider seeing a good urologist.
All the best...

tearoses:
They are gorgeous
I think they have a mild scent too
Your friend is lucky to have them and the roses bloom at the same time
he/she must be green fingered

tearoses:
Hi coco
I think its a peony
it only flowers in the spring/early summer
Is it this one?

toshmann:
Wait a minute, let me get this right.

Buhari spends our money to arrest Dasuki, so he can recover our money and use it to arrest Diezani, and recocer our money from her and use it to arrest Okonji, and recover our money and use it to arrest GEJ, and recover our money. . Uhm, what was the aim again?

francizy:
That's the problem I have with you guys. You hate criticisms. The guy only made a statement and all you could do is tag him an enemy. You should rather resort to stringing up intelligent discuss rather than resorting to insults. Reply her/him based on her/his comments and not based on religious sentiments. If Cococandy/Kingtom hated your religion, you'd have seen her/him on countless threads bashing your religion but s/he has never done that yet you feel comfortable with tagging two of them enemies while also calling your fellow human a dog. No religion is perfect and I can criticize mine, especially in the areas where the preachers have commercialized the activities, I hope you learn to criticize yours too, especially in areas where you feel your imams aren't doing it right.

Peace..

vanguard90:
Same way yours makes room for it I guess.
Coming from a maggot that confirms she's a dog

vanguard90:
U, are the only dog I see around here

vanguard90:
And yours are above that of ur man? My earlier assertion still holds then

vanguard90:
So, your own desires are above that of your boyfriends? U, ma'am are a dog

Onegai:
Flowerpot arrangement.

If you have a balcony that gets a lot of light, you can do a flower arrangement there. Get some plant containers (the made in Nigeria ones are decent and the medium sites is from N600), stack them on top of each other and grow something colourful like Vincas (Rosy Periwinkle) in them. It seems this is the season for Vincas to bloom as everywhere I see them, they look stunning.

vanguard90:
Mofos who don't know shii about Islam running their stinking guts they call mouth.
Islam understands a man's desire is generally greater than that of women and that is why a man is allowed to take up to 4 wives, it is not as if it is compulsory. if you are OK with one, fine, if u are not marry up to a maximum of four.
The real hypocrisy here is the society condemning polygamy but celebrating infidelity.
Islam doesn't ban male female relationships but strictly prohibits anything that'll lead to infidelity, is that too much? I understand even Christianity frowns at it too but just not as much as Islam.
Also, Islam understands sexuality well and that is why early marriage is encouraged, it is not like you are being forced to marry early, but if you feel you can't handle your desires, it is better to get married than commit fornication.
The hatred for Islam is just so annoying these days, it is not like you are being begged to accept the religion, why not just practice your believe and leave others to theirs.

Don't quote me if you are not .......

ifyalways:
Hmmmn.

So this Buhari government have ALREADY received a $5million cash fund to aid the current " merry-go-round" corruption cases, trials or whatever-you-may-want-to-call/it" ?

Eye opener!!!!

Who received the said funds? How was it used and by who?

These people are codedly sharing and chopping money while bamboozling the hungry and jobless masses with " we are pighting Kwarruption"

opribo:
Ehen, so she was married before and divorced and yet she is throwing another public wedding. People should at least respect themselves if they don't want to fear God
If a woman is remarrying it should be low key now, how many times will you call the public to come and witness marriage to the same woman by different men. Doesn't speak volumes.

queentessense:
what we ladies fail to realise is that we are at the receiving end of every relationship including marriage. ..but marriage is a safety net for us...
outside marriage you face abortion ,multiple sexual partners (it's not often one ends up getting married to her first sexual partner), stds heartbreak. ..
with marriage you are protected to some extent, the law has also come to our rescue...gone are the days when men divorce ladies without repercussions, at the very least there are monetary compensations....
what law protects a girlfriend? ??...it's time we recognised authorities and laws for what they truly are...for our ultimate good

banmee:
My honorable Minister, the point is, where does it end? Jungle justice is too ingrained into the psyche of the average Nigerian. Imagine that there were no people around and the guy decided to retaliate? There probably would be a homicide as we speak. Nigerians can't continue to use the non existent judicial system as an excuse for perpetuating illegality. Change needs to start from each and every one of them. They like blaming the leadership for their woes forgetting that they are the cause of their woes. The leaders they have didn't just fall from the sky. These leaders were once average everyday Nigerians who grew up with a phucked up mentality and are now leading them with the same jacked up mentality. Anyway, you are the only normal minister in PMB's government but one tree cannot make a forest though.

AreaFada2:
It seems 9ja condones jungle justice a lot.
If indeed the man touched her, he just got away from a sexual offence & assault.
He won't be registered and monitored as a sex offender. So other women won't be protected.
She just committed assault & GBH. And got away with it.
The court ought to weigh if the force she used was commensurate, since she did not deny injuring him.
But to most Nigerians, this is just grammar.
Supposedly educated people applauding violence is shocking.
It shows that things don't work well in 9ja, weather it's light or law enforcement/justice.
I had a chance to cheaply use agbero or senior police officer relative to kick out a chronic debtor tenant. But instead I used the long drawn out legal process. Costing more money.
No body is gonna bring change, no matter campaign promises. Changing from a lawless, violent to a civil, cultured and law-abiding society must begin with us.

banmee:
For the sake of knowledge, i will enlighten you. In Normal societies;

1. Guy touches a girl inappropriately.

2. Girl sues guy for sexual assault.

3. Girl becomes rich and Guy probably goes to jail. it ends there.

If for some reason Girl is insane and decides to take the law into her own hands like a Nigerian, it becomes;

1. Instead of Guy to be in trouble, he then sues Girls for assault and becomes rich.

2. Police file charges on Girl for criminal assault and Girl most likely goes to jail for a long time.

Bros, in normal societies, women are praying some random guy touches them without consent so that they get paid. In Nigeria where the law does not exist, it is jungle justice all they way. I'm glad you agree though; Nigerians are not normal because this scenario would most likely not have happened.

Mayflowa:
Agreed the men are somewhat lazy and greedy as they could run nursing program by themselves but remember they have to work. However, they always always pay for their wives education. In fact they bring these women from the village to set her on this track hoping to enjoy the huge salary together/ This is never to be! why? Women find it difficult to manage success more so, harder with greedy man flocking around you

slam7000:
They are more like investors. Bringing your wife over to the USA etc and encouraging her to go into nursing or other health care job is an investment for these guys. Gold digging is a harsh word.