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bebe2:
How many pple walked past dat child on their way to church



But it had to take tattooed oyibo woman who probably doesn't believe in God to rescue the child

Judgement go too sweet ooo

tearoses:
My dear even dangote is suffering and smiling
Has he never been late for a meeting due to bad roads
Has he never lost a family member due to fake drugs and bad medical care
even he if he has an unexplained headache has to jump on a plane and travel 7 hours somewhere
Does he not experience delays due to pot holes in the road
he cant fly everywhere

You are right, we are the ones doing ourselves.
fake this fake that
even big stores sell fake stuff
Its so sad that we are the ones doing ourselves.

tearoses:
That is what I fear the most too
Medical services
Even when you are picked up to hospital there is no guarantee that you will be treated if there is no one who can pay.
when I go I take shedloads of medical supply's with me cos you cant even be sure that the paracetamol you are buying is not fake.
Then followed by armed robbers high on igbo who even if you give them what they want will still shoot

bebe2:
My niece in law, she died oo

She was 19yrs old.

Dats not the worse part, she died in severe pain. A week before she died her dad returned her to her mum saying he is tired dat she is not getting better.

The girl call me one day crying that her mum is beating her. I was so angry, I called the mum and out of frustration spoke rudely to her, she said the girl doesn't drink her medicine until they threaten to beat her.

I apologised and begged her not to beat her but to take her to the hospital the next morning. They said they are taking her to church and the pastor said the battle has been won.

After another round of shouting and apologising they took her and said the doctors has finally given her a diagnosis, dat it's not cancer like I said but Arthritis.

That they need money to buy drugs, I sent them money promising to send more. Within 3days the girl died , the mum ran home crying . The rest of the family followed her back to the hospital only to get there to meet that the girls dad has taken the body to his village for burial.

And dat was the end of osaherumwen.

babygirlfl:
I can't wait too dear. Eagerly waiting for the arrival of our queen. I keep coming to have a peep on Nairaland just so I don't miss the birth of our queen.

Greetings to the ladies..

armyofone:
Abeg o wetin poor guy go use cheat ? Agege bread?
Biko, tails get lengths

PresVA:
I wonder what makes some guys think that they're better than a lady they've slept with or share same lifestyle with. .

You sleep with a lady you term a runs girl/ashawo and you think you ain't ashawo too?

JonTal:
Yes @cococandy. I quite agree with your point of view that the op and his other friends are not better than her. So one of them should marry her but, not that innocent one. But what can we do? We can only talk here on NL

JonTal:
Now if you got the @op very well, @Gaborone and @EfemenaXY, you will notice that the op and other friends sampled her, but not this particular friend who wants to marry her now. This is the reason the op has drawn his attention to the fact that the girl is a pro. So the guy should not be the one to clear the mess from the floor even though he is insisting on going ahead with his plans.

banmee:
Lol.. . .thanks. I need to watch how i make statements that generalize people on NL. I don't want to offend the few normal people on the forum.

banmee:
It's been a while i've cooked. I am going to cook something extraordinary and share it plus a $1 walmart gift card. Will that do?

banmee:
Oh my!! Mrs foodo, don't tell me you're Ibo. My bad. I did say when i was young. I'm an old man now and so my perspective has changed about life. Sooooooorrrrrrrrrryyyyyyyy.

banmee:
Growing up, you couldn't pay me enough to date an igbo girl irrespective of how beautiful she was. I don't know; there just something about them that gives me the creeps.

EfemenaXY:
When a guy wants to shirk responsibility for a pregnancy that might be his, he suddenly remembers the lady in question is a "whöre" who's had multiple partners in the past. Nothing new there.

It's also expected that you'll paint her character blacker than black in an attempt to exonerate yourself. Nothing new there either, but remember we've only got your side of the story, so we'll be inclined to take what you say here with a pinch of salt / at face value.

[b]The reality is, you're in a tight spot and there isn't much else you can do but play along till the baby is born. Don't get roped into promising marriage. Neither of you are mature enough to handle that and the foundation can best be described as shaky.

Wait till the baby is born then get a DNA test performed to determine if you're the biological father or not, then take it from there. But remember, even if it turns out that you aren't the father, that doesn't absolve you of your misdeed - of sleeping with a minor. You still need to face the consequences of that action and hopefully, you'll learn from it.

Everyone makes mistakes but the important thing is learning from them. In the meantime do all you can to make mother and baby comfortable. Show her family (through your actions) that even though you are remorseful of your misdeeds, you aren't a bad person, but a man willing to take responsibility for his part in this. Start footing some of the bills, ensure she's registered for antenatal care, go with her and demonstrate not just financial but moral support.

Be good to her. So even if it turns out that the child isn't yours, her family will be less inclined to take legal action against you for bedding a minor.

Now is your chance to right your wrongs. It won't be easy but chin up and take heart.

All the best.
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ifyalways:
Chilisauce where I for dey see $$$, for my ice fridge fish business?
You'd be in takoradi? Wow, that's my place oo. Elmina and Cape coast are other lovely towns you can check out.

Morning Efe and Byvan.

Coco, when are u sending my $$$ down payment for our e-omugwo? As my house gal runs no click, omugwo must enter o.

EfemenaXY:


Morning ladies. I've missed you all sha.

Coco, how far? Hope you're resting your feet these days? Not long to go eh?

tonychristopher:
Th ratio of igbo men that married outside is very low even if they will marry they marry from near by tribes like cross rivers and Delta

An average well brought up igbo lady wants to marry an igbo man and will marry one but when the bad ones with dirty history doesn't see husband they end up as available becoming desirable


Look at tonto

byvan03:
Don't mind Coco, the only preggy around here is hers .