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hopefully this ain't some kinda joke post.


Listen fella, you are looking at the negatives.
How easy it is to do that.

Most people wish they done well enough for themselves to
be earning what you are earning.

You had the diligence to get educated and have steadily progressed professionally.
You've done well.


Now, you are feeling a bit stagnant for whatever reason.
But this actually is a good sign that you have ambitions that you believe you have not attained.
You are challenging yourself.

What to do now is turn that feeling of disappointment and depression into a driving force,
rather than make self-defecating comments.

There is a great upside.

Be well.

My name Femi, 08083427728
Give me a call if you like.

...you mean internet has reached the great state of WI, America's Dairyland?
Welcome! Welcome!

chikk: u're a confused man. U dated a woman for 6yrs and u make this statement? Who then are u going to marry and how long do u intend to date the person. Infact, wickedness is more like it cos from what u just wrote, she's not the right woman for u to marry. Yet, u want to keep her. Till when pls? And who'll marry her after u don useless her finish? Mtcheeeeew!!!

maybe u want to find out how old the guy is first uh?

If he started dating her at 20, he'd be 26 now and just getting
in marriage mindset.

lame toasters on the thread.
they can't even be subtle about it-
come to my school boys, uall need reconfiguration, realignment and reorientation.

190: Should i talk

Dunno 190 baba, your hate for Nigerian women is well documented.

Abi you've had a sudden change of heart?

khukhi: I've had to pay for dates to save myself from embarrassing situations. This happened to me twice. Went out and the guy seemed confused when he was supposed to pay cause apparently he was waiting for funds to be cleared by his bank ...and I was thinking yeah right.

So I ordered the starter and main course. I was starving cause we'd been drinking the previous day and I was kinda hung over .


Imagine the embarrassment when he was still waiting for funds to clear 2 hours later. Fortunately I don't go out without my own cash.

The next time he was buying everyone he knew drinks in the spot we where at. Then the next thing he claims to have lost his wallet but he had it with him, it just had no money cause he was playing big.After he did that , I cut all contact with that hot-for-nothing nigga. Realized he was just a pretty face. I don't do broke men - I've tried I just can't . I work too hard and I need an equally hard working partner. Especially one's who tell lies and have no clear career path I'd rather be a cougar in the next 20 yrs if I'm really stranded than provide for a man at my young age.

Yeah still...I don't ever remember on day in my life dating a Nigerian girl and when it was bill-time,
she reached for her (huge) bag to get her purse. They just look the other way, or know to
check their BB just that moment.


Funniest thing about Nigerian women is they want "quality men." The best of the best-
yet they broke as hell, can't speak or write good English and are completely rude and disrespectful.


Sorry, we don't need no pigeons either.

there's no science to it but it isn't exactly luck either.

maybe somewhere in between

Killz.:
[color=#000030]Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah. . . Sharrap!

Tell your mother you have been a very st[i]u[/i]pid girl, let her forgive you then you have your baby and move on with life. When you were havi[i]n[/i]g sex, did you call me? Did you ask for my advice? If your mother had told you to leave that boy alone, would you have listened? "He told me to have se[i]x[/i] with him, i refused but i later accepted". . . Errrm, you'll accept the pregnancy also. Pls, for once in your life, be responsible and have this baby. I pray it is a girl, so that she does to you what you did to your mother.

Congratulations in advance. . . If you think of aborting this baby, thunder fire you! [/color]

killz a bit harsh but there is some true talk in it. @op take note.

kinda lame to label yourself "richer" than the guys you date don't you think?

having said that, can i get a date?
can i? can i?

@op, eh!ya! my guy i feel your pain.
she done a number on you.

don't worry. it will pass.
time heals all heartaches.

...thing is there prolly is no better woman for
a Nigerian man than a Nigerian woman.

Simple math.

Be well.

@op, try to hold on. don't give in.

You are naturally feeling that "passion" because you are at
the age.

You sort of have to just open yourself up and be more accessible.
Yet you still have to be firm about your beliefs and values.

The right guy will come about soon.
You'd be surprised there is one young man in your church or neighborhood who
is not bold enough to approach you.

However don't expect that he might be a saint or virgin like you.

You have to kiss many frogs to find your prince.

Be well.

i am for free speech and freedom of expression but that cugresources dude is a pure knob, really.

i totally agree about his mental illness.
where does one begin with people like him?
is there a cure for stupidity?


people like these is why ethnic cleansing has ravaged our beloved
continent. be wary.


this is dangerous.

Yo y'all take it easy on it the yoruba men bashing.
I've heard this story in all colors and tribes of men.

Men are mean.
Women are just as ruthless also.

In life we just gotta learn and move on.

Love is a true and beautiful thing but
some of us have to have our hearts wrecked b4
we find it.

There is always a good end to it all, if you realize how wonderful life is.
Never give up.

@OP, there's light at the end of the tunnel. Trust me babe.

Be well.

I don't think one's puzzle-solving abilities help much considering real-life
application programming (for the most part) requires nothing but good logic and simple algebra.

Model web apps in line with what you are trying to develop I think serves you better.

The problem with contests is if you don't win you pretty much burned up
a bunch of time.

For working programmers, it doesn't work.

We gotta eat Seun.

annawhite: maybe dis amebo guy needs to mind his gaddam biz and not stick his balls where it dosent belong!

FYI genius, you are on a public forum.

I am not surprised what rotten discourse can come out of your mind.
After all you are one of the Nigerian girls we are talking about.

annawhite: anoda stingy man on the loose!
Na im type dey give im girlfriend N60 for okada!

maybe the broke ass chic needs to get off her lazy behind and get a job.

@op, see the guy.

white, black, red or whatever color you want 'em,
make sure you pack the greenback.


women are women worldwide.

bad idea.

My own question is:
If my gf has never in her life given me "t.fare," or never sent me credit,
or never "borrowed" money when I needed it, or never ever ventured to pay for our
meal when we go out, or has never bought be a BB, or never bought my ticket
when I wanted to travel, is she stingy?

Thank u jobfront 4 d
Constructive advice.

Boys just done tire 4 these women ehn!

All me fine African princesses may una no vex
We luv ya but make una try too 4 us

scarphase: scarphase: @ poster....I wld advise dat u ar careful cos guys of nowadays are mostly after da space btw ur legs!....am a guy so I knw wat am talking abt!buh u neva can tell......jst shut dem legs(didn't say dey are open) and see who waits!.......ma twenty kobo advise!

subtle toaster. haha!

Frankly, I wouldn't even label it just "Nigerian" girls.
Women, plain and simple.


"What do I like about women?"
I have no idea any more.


I've had my gut ripped out by a couple of women Nigerian and non-Nigerian,
so I dunno.



To my fellow brothers, try Catholic priestdom

Laila Ikeji: The answer is simple dear:

'cos their vision is as short as their third legs are!!

Used to hav ds normal young guy I dated. I gave evrything for him, was ready to stand by him tru thick n thin.

only for him to cheat on me.

av sooo moved on though and nw he wants me bac.

bt nahhhh, am much more high up now.

we usually don't appreciate what we have until it's gone.

applies to both guys and gals.

omo @190,

that chick really did a number on you bro!

chai!

the guy just dey vex go.

eh ya!
poor guy sounds like he's gonna be calling her tomorrow.

"just to say hi"