Lamanii22:
Maybe she wants you to revenge her death or want to tell you something important... You guys were supposed to organise candlelight/night to chase away the dead....

Or a seance, maybe...
But heck, no dead person has a business with the living

Nyamve1:
Bro their's more to this story than what u people are thinking. This story is one sided, have u heard from the guy in question?. Tell me who will want to steal from u and all he can steal is a can of milo?. How can a man with such status (banky) notice that a can of milo is missing? U guys should think na

I don't understand. Are you justifying his stealing or what? Wouldn't you notice a can of milo has been stolen? Guy die the matter already, you no get ground.

Nyamve1:
What on earth will make someone steal milo if nt hunger

Bro, take it or leave it. It's not hunger, but greed. I'm quite convinced banky W pays him well and he's entitled to other benefits. Greed has eaten deep into most people. No matter how well you pay them, they'll steal something from you. If they don't steal, they'll exploit you in other ways. You of all people should know this

Nyamve1:
Do u have human sympathy at all? Someone that steal milo, u should've known that is hunger that cause it

Hunger? Can you listen to yourself. Did you actually think banky W would allow his chef go hungry? Do chefs even go hungry?

Davash222:
To caution your mom is not disrespect. She's your mom doesn't mean she can't be cautioned. Don't feel guilty about that.

Preach please!

gbagyiza:


It's important I agree but why can't we exercise some patience n adhere to the directives for now n when things r over, we all come together again in worship. This act is contradicting the Bible in Romans 13:1-2. I heard some Christians r saying that this lockdown is brought in to stop Christians from worshipping the Lord. Please we should live an exemplary life as Christians because we r to show the world Christ through our behaviours according to the word of God.

I don't know why it's so difficult for these religious fanatics to understand. It's just temporarily. Sigh

RuddyFusion:


It's very very important to fellowship with other brothers....That's my own view

Lol see talk

Front page worthy.
Together everyone achieves more. It's about time we beat this stigmatization to the lowest.

bigthink:
Hello guys, please I need a solution, for the past one year now I rarely use ear plugs and whenever I do I have this severe ear pains and most times headache... I also have this feeling like a liquid in my left ear...I have completely stopped using ear plugs but please what's the solution to this... I would appreciate your sincere contribution to this... Thank you.

Sorry about your plight. A visit to an audiologist in a government hospital would be helpful so as to determine what's up. Are you in lagos? If not, what state

OutharryHIV:

I'm really sorry you got it the way you did.. I'm not really good at writing or expressing myself.. took me a great deal of time to put that one together.
I can take it down if you wish.

Op do not yield to the stupid one. The wisest of us will get the moral of your story. I must commend your courage. Wishing you all the best with your fam.

SKYloafFISH:
My ex.. Hmmmm

If he tells you the day has break, you have to go out and check yourself if the sun is truly out....

If he tells you today is Tuesday, you have to call your doctor, neighbors and family to confirm if truly today is Tuesday it's as if the nigga has a spiritual ability to fool more than 20 people at a go.

Damnn! that's an incredible gift you ask me

Olalan:
Really what makes men to jump from skirt to skirt when it's not that the female anatomy is different

Difference in 'taste' bro

The truth is this particular topic has been over flogged for too long on this forum. Sigh

Exmilitant:
OP, your post is full of grammatical, punctuation and spelling errors and you mentioned doing a masters program? Jesus!!

Couldn't you simply just ignore? Do you think everyone must possess good command over English before passing a message? You're pretty much an wholesome jerk
Fcking grammar pedant

Lovelyn451:
Tchew...some people won't just respect old age. They go still dey useless themselves for small boys. How did her naked picture get to the so called blackmailer..shameless old woman

Did you even read excerpts from the interview at all? You fcking twatt

leathalbeast:
None coz its not easy to be a parent. Sometimes they say or do things that make you angry but in the end you will realize that it was all for the best.

I used to have the same school of thought when I was younger, but I disagree. The older I got, the more I realized parents have no instructional manual to upbring a child, thus not immune to make mistakes or take wrong decisions. Sometimes they mean well, sometimes they are just toxic.
But hey, we can't do without them either way can we?

Yudeeaikay:
Hi guys, so I've not gotten any response from Workforce/Sterling bank since we did the assessment centre

But just going through their IG page today I realized that they are recruiting again for the Alternative Finance Graduate Trainee Program, so if you're interested the link to apply is on their IG bio.....same requirements basically. All the best guys!

Hello. I recently applied for sterling Alternative Finance Graduate Trainee. Please how is the assessment centre conducted?

Ishilove:

Someone asked for her age, no response.


Her side, her aunt's side and the truth.

Well, I understand. True though

Ishilove:
She had been online but hasn't made any comment or responded to people's questions.

I will keep my views to myself because Nairaland has taught me there are 3 sides to every story.

If you were in her shoes, what comment in particular would you have replied to lol?

What are the 3 sides of a story if I may ask?

LordKO:


I've given you attention more than you deserve, now direct your further mention(s) to small-minded people like you.

Bumpkin.

Just one advice: Get in a bit over your head. That's how you grow and learn and stretch your ability to reason appropriately.

LordKO:



Lol. Someone of you do amuse me; if only we can always imagine the person at the other end our parents senior or superior. Oya, no vex you hear, but embrace politeness in case of next time.

It seems you're drunk and constipated with respect
Hello? You don't need respect to function in life. At the same time, respect is reciprocal irrespective of age, ethnicity or tribe.
Would you rather discipline an individual whilst subject them to emotional maltreatment? Is this your definition of discipline?
Ask yourself

LordKO:


Don't give me further reasons to conclude that you are a bumpkin too. If you don't know what it means not to hold brief for someone one, then keep quite.

If we fail to tell the girl her mistake here, she won't become a better person. Her aunt's action (first action in particular was bad), thus the reason why I've continually said that I don't hold brief for her, but the girl's imperious reply/action didn't do any justice to her also. Knowing where and when to lose honourably is wisdom, I say.

Okay if we go by what you're saying now after we let her know her mistakes then what? You keep laying emphasis on her "first action". So because of this, her aunt took it upon herself to subject the Op to emotional maltreatment. Listen to how ridiculous you sound. Why couldn't her kid tidy up the place? Had it been the Op didn't arrive there, wouldn't they do something about it?
Stop making excuses for bad behaviours and attitudinal disorders in people please
You don't hold brief for her because of you're just like her
Let love lead

safarigirl:
Nigerians are always quick to support abuse, because most of them come from abusive homes

The entire country is filled with victims of abuse, so, they think abuse is normal, that is why that LordKO person is accusing someone of having bad character simply because she wants to be treated like a human being. A country filled with messed up people, that is why government officials and every other wimp with a sniff of power, is quick to abuse them and dehumanize them, and nothing happens in the country.

The aunty that is abusing her is a fool, how do you abuse the person cooking your meals? If That girl decides to poison their food and run away, all of them will die and nothing will happen. She has already accused her of being the spawn of a witch, after all

You have in fact taken words out of my mouth
I have no idea why this nigga is condoning this inhumane treatment. Weird people everywhere.

LordKO:


How you and me go take know say she be young adult as she no come tell us her age. And if she be young adult self na that one go vex me pass citing her conceited attitude. Whatever she has passed through afterward that incident is punishment proceeds of her first offense.

I don't still hold brief for the aunt

Good for you

LordKO:
You've a very bad character. Eschew conceit if you wish to progress in life. I don't care whether your aunt intentionally left her house dirty or not prior to your arrival there - I don't hold brief for her in anyway though - but the fact that you disobeyed her request to clean the house, out of conceit, says a lot about how bad your character is. Obedience is better than sacrifice hence more glorifying.

Citing your said conceited attitude a lone, I don't have any reason to believe that your aunt is evil as you've painted her - only her husband can make me to believe otherwise in this regard.

I don't know who or how old you are, but I'm not very impressed reading this. Seems to me that you'd pass for someone who'd do something similar all in the name of "obedience is better than sacrifice", though i could be wrong. Saying the Op has a bad character doesn't help her situation in any way. For many of you here on NL, it is easier to criticize than go through similar circumstances. Some adults are just emotionally constipated and dysfunctional. She even has her own kid that wouldn't do anything.
I've also had my fair share of similar treatment from a relative, and till this day it has severed ties between us. Did everything i could, still my efforts weren't appreciated.
Op i empathise with you, I truly hope your days with your aunt are numbered

southniyikaye:
the third pics, that man ob black dress and red cap is the Don of ritualist in nollywood movies, I Don forget him name self

Bob Manuel

Blu03:
honestly. The guy is sex_starved...
After the first encounter, she should have learnt her lesson.

But will she ever?
Remember he has a nice car and a nice house

Davash222:
"He has a nice ride and nice house"



Na that nice ride and house go kee you! Aside kpekus, what else can you offer a guy with a nice ride and house
There lies the answer to your question.

You spoke my mind bro
Tueeh!!

firstclassmumu:
I have the video

What should we do about it now?

Shibaraba:
I don't cheat, but I don't think you can ever catch me if I did. As in girlfriend come meet punna for my house. Ogbeni na lie be this one. I Don see men Wey control 4 babes, still lash them that same day and them no meet.
This one just wan talk

True talk. But e be like say the guy no sabi work
Learner

Thegeneralqueen:
Instead of you to focus on your job you went about complementing her pics maybe you think she's one of those bosses that sleep with their employees.....Well you're in for a hot one hope you don't get fired when she comes back

Sick and demented

She said it was a joke. Y'all won't post that part just because you want to trend.