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Bros no mind me o. When I was growing up I too like football. Emmanuel Amuneke used to be my team mate in my secondary school team and our street. Although he was my senior by a couple of yrs, he still played with us for the Junior Team bc of his small statue . I managed to break into the Ajegunle U13 Team. Taribo West too was in that team.
Na my papa say make I face my book o. Na so I stop ball to face my sciences seriously. Mayb me too for been play for Super Eagles o. Obafemi Martins used to pick ball for us when we played at white sand pitch at Orile, in Lagos in the early 90s.

All the same I thank God. Today I am an Oil and Gas professional(thanks to Daddy) + Soccer analyst(my first Love).

chai..

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Bros no mind me o. When I was growing up I too like football. Emmanuel Amuneke used to be my team mate in my secondary school team and our street. Although he was my senior by a couple of yrs, he still played with us for the Junior Team bc of his small statue . I managed to break into the Ajegunle U13 Team. Taribo West too was in that team.
Na my papa say make I face my book o. Na so I stop ball to face my sciences seriously. Mayb me too for been play for Super Eagles o. Obafemi Martins used to pick ball for us when we played at white sand pitch at Orile, in Lagos in the early 90s.

All the same I thank God. Today I am an Oil and Gas professional(thanks to Daddy) + Soccer analyst(my first Love).

chai..I hail o, u be boss....

missempress:
All thanks to everybody who has contributed to this issue, I ve made up my mind on what to do now, infact I didn't post the lengthy message because of how stingy he was, I was just bothered about his level of exposure.

But I have been made to see other things I was not paying attention to before, I ll just have to let him go, and pray the right man that ll make me happy, ll come along.

Shalom everyone.

that's the best my sister, just free him, ur right man will surely show up, and he will make u happy, he on his own will also get his own type of gal that will love him as his....wish u d best...
Shalom

Sister, I no sabi wetin to talk, all the comments just de make me laff...
But sincerely, I don't think his problem is poverty jare,
C,mon, how can he collect the #1500 dt u were given in a parry,
How can he price bike up to the 7th bike just because of #30 difference
How can he keep eating in your house without him giving u something to eat in his house
How can he tell you to come down from a bus just because of #10 increase
I think dey said men get ego, dey like to prove to dir gals dt they are able, how come ds man no dey prove his ego....
How can he not know the meaning of lol, lmao,lwkmd in this jet age? A PhD student?
I think he has personal problems, for heavens sake I know young men who grew up in d village, many came from broken homes, many sponsored demselves, see dey av developed demselves so much.....
Abeg, free d guy o, even if he is rich, he will still behave like dt oo,
Someone like me can't marry him because I no go fit cope, he go rubbish me one day in d presence of friends and families....and he wouldn't even know that....
Well, may be u can teach him with patience sha..but..
And the funny thing is dt there are hundreds of ladies who will love him as he his, just free him and let him get his type of lady...

Those men made naija proud during dir dayz.....

goodheart4God:
One of the greatest gifts a man or woman can have is to have a spouse that they would be able to work out their journey and make it work. When I was a teenager I used to read a lot of Christian marriage book and I was even counseling marriage couples on how to make my marriage work.

Fast forward to my time, I won't say I regret my decision of a choice of spouse but I would have made a better choice if I didn't allow love to override my sense of reasoning. I never wanted to have a home of cold treatment, malice, lack of communication, not being able to manage financial situations, etc. I always told myself my hubby and I will share finances 50-50 and I will always take care of myself while we use our savings for investment. I had always say he would be my friend and not my husband.

But all that didn't turn out. Cos I ended up with a man that took my simplicity and his love for him to ride me and abuse me emotionally. No plans for the future, extended family needs comes before mine cos iyawo can always take care of herself.

A man that doesn't believe in communication, keeps malice at any slight issue. Talks and shout at you. Doesn't believe that women have a say in homes. That a man can have as many female friends as he wants and still talks to ex girlfriends without regard to his wife feelings. If a wife talks to a male colleague too much it is an abomination. A man who says don't try to justify it because you are a woman.

Advise to the singles, don't ignore warning signs. If you guys don't share the same ideas, values and goals concerning marriage. Take a long walk and don't say age is no more by my side. It is better to marry at 40 and be happy that marry at 20s and be miserable.

All the same, there are still good moments but the core areas that means a lot to me is missing.

I REST MY CASE

hmmm.....

Ginaz:
If I should tell you about my father eh, in fact my brother you will be the one to disown him on my behalf . he's too somehow and anyhow

lol

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queenfav:
@realberry pls try to change your impression of marriage.You can have a wonderful marriage despite your all you have seen in your family.My parents are separated,I was raised by a single mum.My dad till date doesn't even have my number,cos he was never there for me.I owe my success today as a lawyer to my mother.I am sure you have not seen the worst of marriages.

As someone who was mediating on at least 3 divorce cases a day,I should not even be getting married with all. I have heard a lot of sad/negative stories to the point that nothing surprises me anymore.From a man who woke his wife up in d middle of the night,bathed her with acid simply because she bought a land.Abi is it a woman who was sleeping with her husband's younger cousin that was living with them?Yet,I still believe that marriage is a beautiful thing if you are well prepared and do it when its right for you.With God,financial and emotional maturity,there's nothing you can't survive.My mother always taught me never to judge a man based on my father,or what I see as a divorce attorney.

Today I am engaged to an amazing man that cares for me more than he cares for himself.Trust me when I say I am more than willing to spend the rest of my life with him.In the pastI, didn't want to ever get married,but my mum would tell me to reject it for myself!That I will have a happy marriage,and I started making a conscious effort to work at my relationship.There is no perfect relationship/marriage.The key is to apologize and laugh it off.understanding is very important too.Many get married,without trying to understand themselves to a point where they can cohabit peacefully.I have a very hot temper but he has figured out a way to calm me down,me too I have to bend in most cases and swallow my pride to apologize to him when we have issues.


Never for once has he raised his hand to hit me,or disrespect me.Not all men are physically abusive,there are still men who would never hit a woman!He doesn't have so much money,so I am not even with him for what he can do for me.I am with him because I love the way he loves me,and I have come to love him more than he loves me with each passing day.I see in him the accomplished man he would become in future.With me by his side,there's nothing he can't achieve because I am willing to support and encourage him in his dreams.Marriage based on deep love will always find a way to overcome challenges.Hold on and I am sure you will meet the one that will make you come and modify this post in a few months time.
As for those saying those who have been. married for less than 10 years should not talk about being happily married.I pity you!More than 50 percent of the divorce cases I handle happens between couples married for less than 5 years.[/b]Newly married couples have a lot of issues ranging from family interference,adjustments to the quirky habits and values of their partner.He may want the light on at night,while she doesn't sleep with lights on.Probably they were just seeing on weekends during courtship so one had to succumb to the will of the other.Things like that are the issues they face,for the immature ones it can lead to their divorce.That's where he/or she says their partner doesn't respect his/her opinion,simply because they couldn't find a way to resolve little issues.

The grudge of those small things head on to affect the big things.Before you know it they have drifted apart and calling up a lawyer to file for divorce on grounds of irreconcilable differences.So,for someone to have crossed that. 5 year mark means they are done with the adjustment stage in marriage,therefore more compatible and mature to handle challenges.

tx you o, some feel because ur marriage is less dan 5 yrs, den u no fit talk about sweet marriage yet until 10 or 15 yrs and above....pls tell dem o.....

sonofananimal:
sister! This is just the starting,

Just let it reach 10 years and that love will fly like a bird.

And this time, commitment, perseverance and tolerance will take place, that's when you will feel the full taste of marriage, but many people fail this stage!

I mean it!

brother, no it won't......

Marriage is sweet my brother if it is based on love not money, looks or whatever....
Married for less dan 5 yrs and I must tell u, it keeps getting sweeter by d day...
I love my hubby, I cherish him, i don't disrespect him, it never gets into my head to talk anyhow to him..,God forbid, funny enough he in turn loves me so much, he doesn't disrespect me too...we talk, we gist, we pray together, we get involved in church activities together etc
He makes money, I make money, he has access to my ATM and other passwords, i av access to his own too, no dragging of money or unnecessary matters...we are best of friends...
To him, life is not hard, to me too, life is easy...
So, OP, dir is hope for you, many marriages are sweet bt seems d crashing ones are more. May God help you.....

hinwazaka:
Lies, most fuel stations from Berger down to Apapa are either closed due to absence of the product or selling at 115-120 naira per litre. The marketers have vehemently rejected the new mirage adopted price. It is only in your house that Conoil is selling fuel at 85 naira.

bros, y na, oando at berger sold this morning at #86.50, I saw it with my korokoro eyes.....with very small queue..i no be APC or PDP, bt make we say d truth if need be......

Lionsclaw:
ok I get your point. Yap their wealth is obviously getting to their head.

Sorry for my harsh tone, I dont joke with kids, yet I was too rash. Sorry and happy new year x

OK, happy new year to you too, ur response is cool sha, u are great,nairaland kids wouldn't respond like ds...

Lionsclaw:

I have nephews and if I found out that any of my siblings spouse is smoking shi.t while breastfeeding I will fight to take possession of that child till the mother comes to her senses. Just like coco is doing

On the other hand if you dont see sense in what coco is doing then you have no brains. To you everything in life is petty and u can afford levity

oga, u are right, bt not to the extent of IMPERSONATING THE MOTHER...haba, that's not cool, also preventing mother from seeing 7mont old baby isn't fair, am a mother and I know wat am saying, 7 month old is still a very small baby o..

Chai, am so disappointed in davido's dad if d story is true, thot he was very responsible and respected in d society na, y should he do that, as for d coco wey wan impersonate d mother, may justice prevail, as for davido.....I rest my case....

Delivering free within Lagos..?

Loll, funny o

Really wondering y its hard for pp to believe the op, this thing happened to a relative of mine few months ago, so it's not new at all.

jstmee:
The killings of shitte in zaria has nothing to do with the sunni. Shitte are claiming an authority and they think they are above the law. what ever kind of law stated in the country the shitte can boast of goiin against it, they dont ask but they take, they feel they are unstoppable.
Stopping high profile men from passage was a normal thing, even when they are not performing any occation as long as their leader is passing, then every body must stop.
the shitte once stopped late rilwanu lukman former minister of petroleum from passage, he has to turn back and cancel his appointment. Followed by the emire of zaria as it even went brutal when his body guards tried using force, the king manage to escape the scene with broken glasses on his car. Earlier this year they stopped a whole governor yero from passage as he was patient and ask his security men not to take any actions. Finally they went further to stop a whole COAS, meeehn they have gone too far this time.

It is obvious that the killings of shitte was not just because they refuse to give passage, but because they where on the black list of this government. there cannot be two government in a country, one must fall. the government have security report of weapons they posseses, they have security report of soldiers his raising, the shitte is a treat to this givernment.

Finally, what I observe with nigerian soldiers is that it dosnt matter whether if you are shitte or sunni, whether christian or pagan, whether ipob or massob, whether hausa , yoruba or igbo, if you mess up with them, they will just waste you.

are you for real, so dey had initially blocked emir of Zaria, a governor and anoda former minister of petroleum, just learning ds for d first time, dose pp get mind o, probably dey have a godfather somewhere.

Onegai:


https://www.nairaland.com/889053/pregnancy-pregnant-going-through-high

yea, this is the thread I was trying to refer her to.

O my.....

Op, there is a very cool thread in ds action, I mean health section, on pregnancy, its very cool, very nice thread, try to join d thread, dey mainly discuss on pregnancy, u will really enjoy being among pregnant women.

Eyaaa.....

Hmmm, God help us o, I heard a similar dream twice within d last 2 weeks, people were flying to meet Jesus bt I didn't go, I wept bitterly wen I woke up, and I prayed for grace and Mercy,
The coming of the Lord is very very near, not even a matter of 5 yrs, what if he comes before d end of today or before d end of ds week or before Xmas, unfortunately, a lot of people live like as if dir will be no end, as if dey will live on ds earth for ever....
OLUWA SAANU FUN MI O...

I hope say gotv go show d match sha

Eyaa

I no understand sef, despite all the money wey dem dey steal, dir life still no dey better, see as dem look.....

Pls anyone preparing for public health west Africa 2016, abeg holla, and it seems submission of form ends by Dec 31....

BlackAlbino6:
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Egypt coach, El-Badry, vows to deny Nigeria Olympic ticket
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Egypt Under-23 national team coach Hossam El-Badry remains hopeful they will progress to the semifinals of the 2015 Africa U-23 Cup of Nations, despite getting their campaign off with a draw against Algeria in their Group B opener in M’Bour on Sunday.
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El-Badry
Zamalek winger Mahmoud ‘Kahraba’ Abdel-Moneam headed home Mohamed Hani’s free-kick to give the young Pharaohs the lead on 54 minutes, but Algeria levelled matters through USM Alger attacking midfielder Zinedine Ferhat 10 minutes later with the Egyptian keeper Mosaad Awad largely to blame.

“Keeper Awad’s error cost the team a goal but such kind of errors are frequent in football,” El-Badry commented after the match.

“We were close to winning the game, especially in the first half, but we failed to capitalise on our goal-scoring chances.

“We didn’t lose the game. There are two matches remaining in the group phase and we are determined to earn positive results in these games to advance into the semis.”

The Egyptians will be looking to seal their first win of the competition when they take on Nigeria in their second Group B outing tomorrow.
www.vanguardngr.com/2015/11/egypt-coach-el-badry-vows-to-deny-nigeria-olympic-ticket/
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we will do our own talking on the pitch....

BlackAlbino6:
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Team Secretary Egbaiyelo Tayo Forcing Golden Eaglets Stars Bamgboye, Michael & Orji Okonkwo To Sign Representation Contracts
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Allnigeriasoccer.com understands that the Team Secretary of the Golden Eaglets, Egbaiyelo Tayo, is trying to force a number of players in the Nigeria Under 17s squad to sign representation contracts with his nominated agent under duress.

This website can confirm that the affected players are Kingsley Michael ( Football College Abuja ), Funsho Bamgboye (Aspire Academy ) and Orji Okonkwo ( Football College Abuja).

Orji Okonkwo was supposed to travel to Italy last night to begin training with Spezia ahead of completing his switch to the Serie B side in the January transfer window, having been issued a visa by the Italian embassy in Lagos.

But his trip to Liguria was cancelled at the last minute, with Egbaiyelo Tayo informing the teenager, Football College Abuja and his representatives that he has a better deal for the player at Chelsea .

The Nigeria Football Federation official is engaged in conflict of interest and wants to destroy the career of Orji Okonkwo.

Football College Abuja higher - ups have asked Egbaiyelo Tayoto provide evidence of his communication with Chelsea and he has not been able to produce it.

Nigerian agents have insisted that their greatest competitors are not their foreign counterparts but a number of NFF officials who are involved in the illegal trading of players especially after major tournaments.
http://www.allnigeriasoccer.com/read_news.php?nid=17110
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that's bad , haba

Not cool

Wen I was single, I didn't understand the bible verse " if a man cannot provide for his family, he is worse dan an infidel", bt wen I got married, I understood it clearly; a woman is laid with so much responsibilities, taking care of d house, ensuring d kids are well dressed and fyn, ensuring the husband eats at d right time and dresses well, etc, if u come join it with providing money as d bread winner, honestly, d woman can quench, of course she must bring in some cash, bt not as d bread winner for God's sake, its not easy, any man dt can't provide for his house should be stoned abeg....sorry Op, am just talking generally, am not directing to ur husband o.