₦airaland Forum

Walking over a corpse is a piece of cake if she's innocent.

Previous activities make people become wary that they barely outlive some ancient practices.

Kobojunkie:
1. A traditional Nigerian man carries 100% of the financial weight in marriage. That is the culture which makes men kings in marriage. So if OP wants to kill himself. Culture sanctions it.

See your head like Culture.

Ancient African men and Kings who carried the whole financial burden had their wives supporting/handling one of their businesses or trade at the market to support the home but in this case she does something else (Salary Job) she is supposed to support as an African Woman.

Dumbass, No Brain at all, Na to type like Bot na you sabi.

Spits.

NoToPile:
SMH.

Yeah SMH

Women are to be loved not respected or worshipped.

Rules must be made to maintain discipline.

Femmyfamous4u:
Hello all, I need to know if I'm doing some things right or over reacting.

My wife and I just married some months ago and we just spend here and there on stuffs. I bought food stuffs in the house and told her I will place her on 40k monthly to cover for soups and all and I expect her to add to it if it's not enough.

I foot all bills- house rent, Power, and all . She earns a decent 6 figures salary also which is slightly higher than mine without the allowances I get.

She expects me to still give her another allowance apart from the 49k I give her for food.

Each time she buys stuff in the house she always want me to pay back in full; most times, I just pay a part of it which she always frowns and complains about.

It appears she has a notion that her money is her money and mine is ours.

My income is more than hers though.

Do you think I should still give her personal pocket money?

If you have control over your family as the head of the home, then make her spend her salary on feeding and other subtle expenses, that way, she won't even save much monthly that will make her want to rant with you someday.

She may tell people that she feeds you daily but then she knows you can do without her and you may also choose to use her words against her.

Pay all the major bills like rent and buying of properties, well if you don't have control over your home.... Then I am sorry for you.

Na Logic we dae use

Deeprooted:
What particularly is this used for?

To absorb moisture and keep the items dry, probably shoes or clothes.

CosmicDust:
She was partly sponsored there to do a Masters Programme. Few months later she got a job in a financial company and has been doing that for 5 years. Please tell me how I will be doing better than her.
I am here. I have a barbing saloon with 2 barbers, I have my own car that I use for cab hailing. And every month I bring out at least 70k to support my parents from my earnings because of their condition. I still have a wife at home. And I am not complaining. Please the situation you may considering isn't what it is.

Wow, you have achieved all these and I am sure you sister isn't married yet but you don't think about that.

Don't compare the financial capacity of a man to that of a woman, she may have hidden struggles, somehow I feel if you weren't too judgemental and started flowing with her well, you may understand her predicament.

It has happened to me, a sister too but she's not in overseas.

Goodlady:
My sister, the bill is too much.
But let me calculate well.
She counted 50 pieces of $100. That's N35m in Nigeria if dollar is N700.
Wetin happen?
Na whole house she pay ni abi rent per month?
Na full year rent ni?
How can she be earning such amount and 500 dollars ll go for house rent?
Which kind of inflation?

N3.5m not N35m.

Nor give people heart attack because you nor sabi math.

Nonybb:
These Indians you are seeing are one of the most racist sets of people you can ever encounter in this life yet the world has opened all the opportunities to them

God Bless You for this statement.

Place them above some persons and see how they treat those people.

They are even racist/tribalistic amongst themselves.

Rapmoney:
May’s sister who was at the scene said the boy read throughout the night preparing for his exam today. After his exam in school, he joined his mates to play football and that’s when he developed a seizure and was rushed to Mother and Child Hospital.

Not everyone can survive this rigorous stress to learning and writing exams, then playing football altogether.

During exams/lecture days when I just closed from night shifts, I usually find a quiet hall to sleep at every break to make sure I don't faint.

Proper guidance should be given to wards, after reading overnight and writing exams for hours, he should have simply gone somewhere to rest instead of playing football (another stressful activity).

RIP Man.

So many Nigerian Men know Fire Service Emergency Number...

Wow, who could have known.

Cheap Attention Seeker!

Stephaniegold:
And is dis the best option for him......
Even me never build my own house...I never buy car.....I never marry...I never they give my parents.....why I no go commit suicide?
My people say Adiye ti o ku ma je agbado

You haven't been in a hot seat before.

It takes a whole lot of courage to escape commiting suicide at your breaking point, I will attribute it to God rather because courage isn't enough.

It's usually looks like magic in your eyes until you realize that you are out of options.

TheMaterialist:
I don't condone suicide but i read avery peculiar
tale.


A philosopher had a friend, his friend was very
rich and powerful, he had a wife and several
children, estates and lots of servants.


The man was now very old and he had lost
interest in life, he had lost the will to live.


He felt his life was without purpose.

The rich man went to the philosopher and
discussed his problem with him, the philosopher
tried to encourage the man to continue living,
that he still has a family and servants to take
care of, that his life was already perfect and there was no reason for him to commit suicide.

The rich man disagreed vehemently, saying that
he had completed his mission in life, that he
was also oversaturated with life's pleasures and
they did not appeal to him anymore.

The rich man told the philosopher that he had
made up his mind to commit suicide.

Having tried to convince the rich man, but to
no avail, the philosopher told the rich man that
if he had made up his mind to commit suicide,
he still had to die with dignity and honour.

The philosopher advised the man to set up his
final will, and share all his wealth and properties
between his family,friends and servants.


So, the richman did as he was told.

On the day he was to commit suicide, he called
all his family, friends and servants, he told them
what he was about to do, they try to discourage
him, but it was too late.


He told his lawyer to read the will in front of him,
after he was satisfied at how his wealth would
be shared, he gave his family, friends and
servants one last hug.


Then he went to his bathtub, where a warm bath
had been prepared for him, he took a knife,
entered the bath, slit his wrists and relaxed,
while all this was happening, his wife and
children were mourning, even his servants.


An hour later, they entered the bathroom and
saw his lifeless body in a pool of blood.

Till today, most people could not fully understand
his motivations to commit suicide.

It was one of those rare situations where a rich
person commits suicide.

Your story portrays an old man not a young lad.

MrRemedyAlagbo:
I can't still regard a 20years old as man,wetin 20yrs old don see for life to make him commit suicide...

Different strokes for different folks.

Life experience cannot be attributed to age.

Some 20 year old have seen what some 40 yr old men hasn't.

CXLVII:
Just check the names of those making comments and you will arrive at a conclusion!

Never seen pained and bitter souls in my entire existence!

Why I so much believe the research that, these lots are the offsprings of the demons God banished from heaven, and fell into River Niger, later to settle in Onitsha and started procreating

How did you arrive at a tribal quarrel, this is not good for us at all.

What happened to the Nigeria Team resulted from issued unrelated to tribalism, if you hate the Igbo Tribe, I suggest you don't portray it outside, foreigners are on this platform too.

Franking:
What do they believe in? Same as you. Confused. Y'all don't know what you believe in, Mr Woke former.

You can't read where I said or they probably say nothing if they don't believe in anything.

Dumb ass, you know nothing yet you want to quote me and prove a point.
Spits.

DodadaKoKigbe:
No be by praise and worship. Team wey good, good. There are atheists team in Europe that will defeat Super Eagles black and blue.

God does not take sides in football.

Keep Quiet.

They prayed to what they believe in.

Atheist pray to what they believe in too or probably say nothing.

Una go dae form woke.

theforemost:
You are a MUMU and not a lawyer.
Ask your self if FCT didn't meet the requirements of being referred to as a state when it has all govermental council's like that of a state and they being elective.

And also, taken apart " ....25% ..." in the FCT determining the winner , would be giving the power to FCT, over and above ALL 36 states put together.
Meaning;
One who loses power of highest vote and not attain 25% but despite not having all these requirements but only wins 25% in the FCT would still be declared the winner??

You never wrote Waec or Neco or Gce.

You are so daft... spits

Na hearsay you wan take marry woman.

Please don't marry her because you will obviously apply gossips trends in how treat her.

You haven't gone for yourself, yet you are complaining.

Pro Tips:
Dress averagely and don't appear big (so they don't over bill you) or poor (so they don't reject you).

You can always negotiate and come back later to pay after hustling enough for it.

Tinubuagbado:
Easterners to the world

If you don't know how to say Nigeria/Africa to the world.

Better keep quiet.

This is how you all start instigating tribalism and hate.

Kiddogarcia:
I no dey really comment like this for nairaland,na make I just sell my market,comot body.
I've got a lot on my hands, than drowning myself in tribal wars,
Have a great day brother man.

Na we be your best plug for everything Sexual enhancement

You knew you fuvked up.

Be at Rest okay.

Kiddogarcia:
The same Yoruba's that was at the forefront of Obi's campaign, the same Yoruba's that gave most of you a level playing ground.
You can't even perform the rubbish you do here in other region.
The only crime we did was welcoming you people, believing in one Nigeria, fostering peace and unity,I know the election had loopholes, but calling us names is plain insane.

You are no better than him.

How did you know he's an Igbo?

Rubbish!

MILLERMannn:
Yes, some few years ago by one Yoruba guy. He told me to register for Custom recruitment online, which I did, not knowing it is a fake site. I was requested to pay money to continue although the money was small. I paid the money only for the guy to come later and start laughing at me.
I don't think there is any successful Yoruba guy that made it without stealing other people's things or duping people.

First scam experience was a by a Yoruba guy too.

Mraphel:
Tinubu is the best president Nigeria ever had

You were defeated from top to bottom in the election don't cry.

You and all the people who liked your post are insensible.

God, imagine the people I share a country with.
😣

OfeAchi:
Look at this lowlife feeding from mama's Bossom.
Both direct transfers and POS transactions are charged at #100.
Jump like a frog to other merchants if you aren't satisfied.

Good bye!

😅

The bolded or some insults is what you all throw ind defense when you know you have done or said something foolish.

You don't know me yet you think I feed from my mother's bossom 🤣

The funny thing about all these is that you can never feel alright.

OfeAchi:
Well, this is my business and my charges are final!
Initially I was only keen on cash transactions for my products and due to CBN brouhaha, I shut my stores for days...and guess what? Customers kept thronging my phone with calls. You know why? Because my products are a necessity and they can't get it any other place within my axis.
They pleaded with me to get POS. So I did. Therefore they should be responsible for the inconvenience I get with POS transactions.
I'm not being fair? I'm bad? Well, if you don't want to incur #100 charges per purchase, pay me with cash!

And oh, lest I forget, I only accept new naira notes.

What made me quote you wasn't POS transactions, you must be some jumping frog.

It was about transfers made to your account not transactions involving debit cards.

Go on and rant, if I knew you think lowly like this I wouldn't have engaged you.

OfeAchi:
Keep shut!
Bank charges #50 for every incoming deposit.
If you are not comfortable with my business then swerve to another merchant.
My regular customers have always been receptive of the #100 charges. And guess what? I get frequent patronising from them, unlike these one-time customers whose patronage are few and far between.

😂

Look at this one, I do transactions everyday, only deposit above 9,999 receive #50 charges, dey use yourself talk nonsense.

Moreover people now use Opay, Palmpay and Kuda, yet I went to a place and the seller still charges #100 for each transfer despite Opay being completely free, I was annoyed at the seller and had to resend #100 for the food I ate.

It happens, we are bad people but we only call the government bad 👎

OfeAchi:
Drop it and mooveeee! I won't beg or cajole you!
Will you payback the stamp duty charges I incur from my bank? #50 for every incoming transfer plus SMS charges.

Keep Quiet!

It's only incoming transfers above #10,000 and not all banks charge it, yet you guys collect #100 what are you using the other #50 for?

I pity all of you but I was happy yesterday, for the first time in 8 years I saw a true preacher and people didn't go near because he was spitting the truth, You don't what awaits you and your evil practices.

Na poverty make you post wetin you suppose go show doctor inside hospital for Nairaland.

You don't have much yet you are birthing 5 children, the ones our parents did, na we dae suffer help train them, I am sure you love such mistakes.

UrPapa:
yorubas are not lazy or hateful people
Yorubas don’t just have any connection with igbos, even according to history yorubas and igbos barely made contact
A yoruba man prefers to go to the north than South East

Your post doesn't have any meaning, you can do well not to quote me until you have something reasonable to say.

raskymonojendor:
Proof of violence.

As per intimidation. For every action, there is an opposite reaction. Why always Ibo insulting their host. The only reason this has not turned into a tribal riot is because this same Yoruba are peaceful people. If they were hausas, na another story we for dey talk now like the pogroms just before Biafra war.

Go ahead and kill innocent souls if you wish, their bloods will be on your hands till the 4th generation, if violence sorted out anything, there still won't be cries for Biafra.

The Biafran race isn't supported by all Igbos, it's mostly the uneducated, poor and loud ones that usually bring up the topic, personally as an Igbo I have been ashamed by the level of reasoning of some Igbos around me.

Most of them have no physical investments anywhere aside SE, imagine me having to sell my lands and others in Delta State then run because I want Biafra.

Nigeria is One and I want you to understand that there are myopic people from every tribe, I have met many amongst Yoruba, Igbo, Hausa, Italy, Idoma, Urhobo and etc. They are usually the loudest.

raskymonojendor:
No matter if foreigners develop a land or not, it's insulting to call another man's land NO man's land. Simple as ABC.

Even the whites that settled in South Africa, Australia, and Canada from several centuries ago do not call those places no man's land despite being the ones that developed them.

Then does it warrant the violence and victimization?

raskymonojendor:
And you will never hear an Hausa/Fula/Kanuri/Edo/Ijaw/Itsekiri e.t.c call Lagos no man's land. It's always the ibos.

Lagos has been ruled by non indigenes, most of the occupants are foreigners and the state was built by people from diverse cultures.

It's safe to call it a no man's land, doesn't mean it's not for the Yorubas.

Feeling threatened is a sign of inferiority complex, the Igbos didn't say it's their land and they are not the only tribes there, where the fault lies is that they said so, rather it's not a lie.