₦airaland Forum

KingExalted:
I wish the ICPC is genuine and real. Tracking poor masses and keeping blind eyes on the real thieves

Shut up my friend.

Most of you don't have common sense, how will eliminate the source that's difficult when you can easily remove the links that are easier.

leisuretym:
You don’t think about the consequences of your actions, you turned Naira into hot cake and offered her no job , free the girl and sack the bank staff, she’s only a hawker looking for a job to do.

Shut Up my Friend.

plaindealer:
When igbo celebrities support obi pandora, they are wise, but when Yoruba celebrities support Tinubu, they are not wise and they must be bashed, ridiculed and insulted.

Must every Nigerian like or support what you like and support?

Do you not see the reason why they say you people are toxic, crude, crass, aggressive and violent?

You, people, are too socially, culturally and politically underdeveloped..





Abi how hard is it to respect other ppeople's constitutional rights and freedom?

There you go with being tribalistic, you are really something.

Imagine a child supporting those who put his/her parental family in suffering and extreme poverty just because he/she feels they are good or because they gave him/her something nice.

Tell me you won't bash such a child and hey don't quote me next with tribalistic comments before you annoy me.

Eniola Badmus getting slammed is because she's a black sheep among the herds.

How can you choose a man that's sick and old to be a President of a suffering nation, a man with bad moral records, a kingmaker that gave us one of the worst president so far.

I don't hate him but he should forget about presidency, retire and enjoy his old age without pressure from Nigerians.

We all know what we suffered from this PDP and worse APC government, I have noticed that it's those old men that are close to their graves that supports APC and PDP because they are very much full of tribalism and really have no future that will be in jeopardy.

See the price of Fuel and etc, then as a public figure you will come out to say you are supporting those making things difficult for you in this country, I am sure she doesn't feel the heat either else she won't have the nerves to collect a few coins and campaign for Rubbish.

Well deserved Bashing, not every celebrity is wise.

Eye Service.

Abeg rest.

You are being biased here.

She may really try to separate you and your brother, those selfish set of people always get jealous even when it doesn't affect them, if you get another woman, it's the same thing.

On the other hand, your brother should treat your fiancee with respect, why say things like he will send her on errands, it's very much okay to send her on errands but saying it and actually wanting to do it shows that he doesn't respect her that much.

Give both of them rules and boundaries so you can have peace of mind, it doesn't matter what Madam A and Mr. B is to you.

Any male child who joins hands with his mother to abandon his father is a fool and he will surely suffer the consequences later in life.

Women are emotional beings and as a man you have to be logical and make reasonable decisions.

My mother always hinted that I move only her and leave my father that he has been miserable all his life, giving several useless reasons, but alas both of them are in the new house.

I do think men should give money to their wives in front of their children, the one you give in the room, she usually claims it as hers, she may not be a bad mother or wife but that's how they are wired, once you let your guard down at old age they use it against you.

A friend of mine allowed his father to die last month out of hunger, I really pity him because he's foolish and has been brainwashed by his mother, I usually give his old man money when I am around but when I came to town from a week travel, I was told he died and hunger was the cause 😥.

Unless my Father tried to kill my mother sometime ago, I don't see another reason why I won't help him, we all make mistakes and women do many mistakes too but cover it with emotional manipulations so you see them as victims or saints.

Some Foolish men think too high of their mothers and they assume mothers are always right instead of using their brains.

When see finish don enter.

Just move on.

Highly sought after and 70k in the same sentence, you must be high.

Don't leave your job bro, I school in a Federal University and I work too, but of them are full time, it's stressful, yes but worth it as you have a reliable backup plan should incase one of them fails you.

Keep your stuff going, there's nothing outside, I don't know your morality level, but making a lot of money requires some levels of immorality, so I suggest you keep your birds in your hands.

princeemmma:
How much do you pay as offering in church, is the money worth giving to God

Aje shut up your mouth.

Yen yen yen yen.

What's your business and how much I give to God, all these churches really needs to start paying taxes.

jeromestarks:
She's a wife material.
She's very nice. She doesn't waste my money. In fact, my ATM card with over 600k in the account is with her since last month and this babe hasn't spend a dime from it.
She's respectful and she's a woman who hate violence.
She's calm to the people she loves and fierce to those who try to hurt her loved ones.

She's beautiful. Dark. Tall. Intelligent. Smart. And loving.

She's great with sex. Her pvssy is tight and the rhythm it gives me is pleasurable. She usually ask me if I'm satisfied or if I want more.

She can cook. She said the food we bought lack taste (to me, it's fine but she cooks better).

I love her body. It hasn't changed since the first time I met her when she was 16.

My parents love her like their daughter.



Yes, I was the first to mount her. She was just barely 17 then.

Aje

You be hypocrite, Big One.

You go round telling people to marry only virgins but you see nothing wrong in deflowering one before marriage.

No matter how stupid I want to be, I don't go near virgins, if she's one I will leave her and tell her we can't have sex, I respect them a lot.

Very shameless human being, do as I say but don't do what I do.

Zeezenho:
Outside my family nah only my afonja friends they beg like hell.i wonder why they are not making it in their darling Lagos.

Chaii, I am not trying to be tribalistic here but Yorubas can beg for Africa.

They criticize you when you refuse to give them money whereas some of them may even be richer than you.

You can mingle with the rich and still be poor.

It's all about being around people with positive energy, there are poor people who intend making their lives better too.

Don't generalize because even Dangote was once called poor by Late Sani Abacha's Wife, but heck he's trying his best.

So you are also poor to some persons, I will advice you stick around intelligent people, if you avoid those who are poor, the rich people will also avoid you because they know once you become richer than them which may be possible then you will also avoid them.

Personally I think with this your mentality, you need to be avoided by both rich and poor.

Offer B, so long you will get the job.

It has more career benefits and a higher pay too.

They can battle all they want but not another ASUU strike

Jeweltz:
This guy has been all about virginity and virginity since we start talking. This is a guy that might've had uncountable sex with all sort of women in America o. Now he comes and he said he love his wife a Virgin. I only ever had about two sexual experience with men . Never seen a grown man obsessed about virginity like that

It's not about the numbers for him, it's about the irritation knowing that his wife has been docked before by other men.

He may decide to marry you anyways if he really loves you but that type of man won't respect you same way he will do if you were a virgin and trust me just one fuvkup is enough to send you away.

Some guys don't care that much they will be okay so long the numbers aren't much. Well, like the 2 you claim.

virginprincess:
Such an ugly old man,some women are trying sha.

Are the women any better?

Jennyclay:
I hope he has money to take good care of them

He shouldn't put someone's daughter in poverty.

I checked your profile and I discovered you are a young girl.

Wow.

What exactly are you trying to prove, your recent incessant hate and foolish comments won't get you anywhere.

No wise man will want to wife you rather they will all use and dump you, becareful and say things cautiously or rather wisely if you can.

Very annoying story.

Nigerians like oppression too much.
Chaii.

You think everyman in their 30's living with their parents is poor or have no planning for himself.

I always see your type setting standards for people because they attained some steps, it's very common with our foolish Nigerian girls but somehow you chose to be a foolish Nigerian man.

The year just started and you have already started mounting pressure on people, I don't see the hurry to live on your own when you don't intend getting married in a few years, one can comfortably buy all the properties he needs when he gets married.

Moreover you don't know how everyone lives, some of us carry 75% of our parental family bills while we plan for ours and others, some guys living with their parents pay more bills than you.

If you don't have family issues there's no need moving out until you want to, just hustle tight and save a lot.

Being lazy has nothing to do with staying with your parents, if you rent an apartment today, after paying your rent you can become lazy again, then hustle to renew it then become lazy again.

Oga OP rest, if we say make we count financial achievements, you nor go see people brake lights.

Spicycat:
Wait are you saying she's hiding from you because of sex or is there something else you're not telling us.

What do you think?

Well she's took my kindness for foolishness, I took very good care of her when she became sick three times in one month, I always checked on her everyday, paid in full for all her medical bills and she assumed I was madly in love with her or I won't dump her if she starts misbehaving.

That's it, her level of thinking was low and I left her for good without even thinking twice, she was marveled

I like women who are wise, a guy spending and taking good care of you doesn't mean he has no options or sees you as gold, I do same for everyone I care about but she got it all wrong, even if it was so, she's not supposed to behave that way.

Well, that's her business now.

For the sex part, I heard her testimonies from her friend who finds delight in backstabbing her.

Dshocker:
Be fooling yourself....

Why the lies?

I didn't say it so you believe me because even if you come down to my ghetto in Delta, you still won't believe, I am only giving the OP some support.

Zonefree:



I don't want to believe deafness comes with lack of brain.

Stop acting all smart, anyone can get scammed irrespective of your mental capacity.

Count your loss and move on.

You can never kill the bookies, there's a reason why Man City and Barcelona drew today.

It's not rocket science, football is now business.

Forget those saying stake responsibly, try your very best to stop because you have already started placing big stakes you can never go back to small stakes and that's where your dilemma begins.

Same thing I did Mid-November but in my case I chose her myself.

She wants me to finance her fantasies and to think her parents are very poor.

Anyways I left her something she won't forget in a short while, I gave her the best sex of her life and up till now she can't face me directly, I heard she hides whenever I pass her vicinity.

1 - To define success in my own terms and not the societal terms, I am now contented with what I have while I struggle for more, what I mean is that, I have learnt not to be desperately in search of things I desire.

2 - Investing in a woman is a total waste of time, once a better man comes, you are done for... I knew this from others experiences but I wanted a first hand experience, alas I wasn't proven otherwise.

3 - There are good friends and there are bad ones too, one snitched on me and my dept coursemates went mute till now nobody talks in the group chat out of fear whilst another gave me a fine African T-Shirt out of appreciation.

4 - Financial Education is very underrated, I ran into debts twice because of poor understanding of how to manage funds but alas I learnt.

5 - Helping your parents doesn't mean you must have much, with less than a million naira I can now see my parents getting younger, spend for them while you can because you might be the only one who would do so and you may never get another chance to do so.

6 - Lastly, Life is very unpredictable, don't stress yourself over something which you have no control over.

lhordspy:
God Bless Nigeria .

Lights on the road but not on people's houses.

I don't want to insult you.

WhatCanIsay:
Softening stage of propaganda

Be ready to see more of this kind of posts in Nairaland within a 2 months time.

One will tell you how Putin called him lovingly and confessed his love for Nigeria and Nigerians.

Some people wey no de reason well go de buy the gist hook, line and sinker.

Lol una never see propaganda in action... welcome

You choose what you want to believe.

Someone from Ghana also testified about Nigerians too.

All are not lies.

Ransomware:
Why did you punch holes in the note. If this was a misprinted dollar bill, it will worth almost 100x the legal tender value

The Bank perforated it.

Crystalom5:
seems a lot of us here need to deal with jealousy. And rightly so, the rate of cheating is just so much that most of us are now extra cautious and wary about any relationship between any guy and our girl.

But never the less, you should never be so cautious as to be afraid of being hurt so much so that you don't even give your trust in the first place.

You need to give that trust first

What's good manners to you anyway and how do you know that you'll have the same good manners for the girl?

It's easy to know what you want and how the other person should behave. But very hard for us to think, what if I'm the one misbehaving? What if I'm demanding too much or the impossible? But more importantly, what if what you feel is respect is disrespectful to her?

Your girl is also human and not some sub human that must bow to your every wishes. She also wants equal respects and love.

Now imagine you thinking you are giving her all those but in her mind, you aren't. Simply because what respect means to you doesn't mean the same to her.

Most of these things can be solved by communicating more. But instead, we run away with our ego forming hard man

Like I said, the complaints I get, is that I am stingy, they never complain about me being disrespectful or uncaring, I think I deserve an A+ in these areas.

Personally I know I find it hard to forgive and that's my issues I am yet to rectify, for the part of me being jealous, I don't know how to share a woman, the moment you are caught cheating that's it, we quarrel because I will pour out my pain then it's quit, I tell you to breakup because you won't see me anymore.

For the part of being stingy, only those numerous girls that live above their means think I am stingy, I can't be in funding program claiming I am in a relationship.

For the part of trust, I never monitor a woman, these things come to play after sometimes because I am unpredictable, I will love a woman like a fool and it gets into her head to think I can't stop all that immediately, so they start to misbehave then I stop being nice and call it quits.

Well I can't change who I am neither can I tolerate rubbish, I believe I haven't met a girl matured enough (irrespective of age) to understand to understand how it is to be loved, well I will soon.

All my ex always come back but they don't get to see me same way they left me, my recent ex we broke on mid November, she is full of pride and has been sending people to stalk me and her friends I know to talk to me and she hides whenever she sees me, she insulted me so much on how stingy I was despite me doing my best.

She thought because I loved her I will be foolish enough to waste my future resources on her, well the love died the very moment she insulted me. It has been so.

Well for the records, I will never date a poor girl again, worst still a jobless one.

Someone is about to get burnt.

Leave rotten meats for the Scavengers (Vultures and Hyenas), well unless you are one too.