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ObalendeCMS:
Who needs a dirty, hungry naija farm tool when I can have orgasm in peace.

It's understandable, you don't have money.

No one would go for a Toyota Camry if he can afford a Lamborghini.

kingthreat:
I am very neutral when it comes to inter-tribal marriages. My current opinion is based on a recent observation. Your last sentence is the way forward. God guide you in making the best decision for your future.

Thanks a lot.

May God guide us all.

tiswell:
keep kwayet, enugu gals wen dey fvck like, kilode!

So I said something about sex?

kingthreat:
Every tribe has their own. I have had a first hand experience with Urhobo. Realized that being fetish is very normal amongst them.. Was in one of their villages and I was told that before anyone can have a house there, he must be well-grounded in witchcraft. And in the whole village, no single storey building. Drinking is part of their culture and they love parties alot. There is a lot of indecency amongst the youth especially those who grew up in Delta state. If a woman is marrying a man from there, she has to be ready for polygamy. But there are still some good people from there I know. So I will advise that you look well at the family you are getting into if marrying from there. Your woman can be good but the family can really be an issue.

A lot has really changed in recent times, though not in everywhere but I am in a town and I have been to some of these villages, before marriage I will send people to do background check of what I am getting into, if I can cope I will go ahead otherwise...

safesurfer:
You're right on this.

Many Imo men don't even want to marry their women. They go to Enugu and Abia to look for wives. It's pathetic, really.

I wonder why it's like that though.

It's the greediness of the kinsmen.

They see their daughters as retirement benefits, only the wise ones of these women tell their brothers to force their kinsmen and fathers to reduce the bride price, these set of women don't stay at home for long.

But the other unwise ones also wants to be the talk of the town, wants to make sure her bride price and marriage supercedes that of Amaka and Nneka, that's how they get to 40+ in their parents house.

kingthreat:
Guy I no know which tribe you are. But think twice very well before you marry Urhobo. If you must, make sure that the family you are marrying from is a very religious and decent nuclear family.

Enugu is my home, I am Igbo.

Why are you advising me about marrying Urhobos? I will like to hear.

I know they have withcrafts in their families but that of Igbos are daylight evil, no tribe is better but I will also like to know your reasons.

High Bride Price and Stereotype of bad characters.

Personally I can't marry from there, not after seeing what my uncle is suffering, I am either going for Yoruba or Urhobo, I can't spend millions and end up with a witch.

If I want to take the risk then it's Enugu my home state, atleast our bride prices are cheaper and our women well mannered too.

BRATISLAVA:
You don't suppose, the young ones are watching other such threads that generalize about women, do you?

The more we keep looking for two sides to the story, rather than pointing out evil once a man is behind the evil, the more the young will learn to tolerate evil and the more people will say there's something wrong with all men.

The ball is in men's court. May we all learn to be impartial to listening to things we can already see, things that cannot change what evil has been perpetrated.

What do you want to hear from the boyfriend that will justify what happened? Such listening is pointless.

Clearly there's something wrong with men if they need to hear the other side of the story.

I now understand I have been speaking with a woman.

Fuvk Off, you are illogical.

Only a foolish judge gives judgement without hearing from both parties unless in cases of murder where the killer is caught red handed.

BRATISLAVA:
Probably. But what do you expect her to think when a man just slapped her and burned down her shop and on top of that hates and berates her son?

The young ones are watching and they will start treating good men badly because of her unfortunate incident.

It's a one sided story, one person can't be all wrong, we haven't heard the side of the boyfriend.

BRATISLAVA:
Have you visited any of the male authored threads on this forum? Please do, then come back and edit your post.

Men want to claim individuality when their true colors are under scrutiny, but want to use group stereotypes when it comes to women.

Take a seat.

The use of the word Some would have been better.

MaryAye:
After taking the advice of meaningful nairlanders on this https://www.nairaland.com/7341050/he-wants-date-he-doesnt.

This is the aftermath.

I arranged for a meet-up with him to discuss my supposed assumptions. He told me, "he doesn't hate my child, but he feels my son was gargling like a mewling child."

I asked him to elucidate. Which he did and I politely told him that if he gargled, it was because he's still four. I think he should give my son time and establish a friendly relationship with him.

It was like my pep talks rattled him and he immediately slapped me that I have insulted him and trapped his pride. I was like, what!!!

This was a harmless discussion. Why did you slap me? He started apologising. He said he didn't know what came over him.

I told him to leave my shop. I told him I will call him when I'm less angry.
To me, I wanted to pipe low and take his word for it. He asked for some money to take bolt home because he didn't come out with cash. I went into the shop and gave him.

After that day I didn't call him or wanted to have anything to do with him. To my greatest surprise yesterday, he came to my shop and started assaulting me so that I can't leave. I was like, I never wanted to date you before. I was just considering your proposal.

That little tussle was what led to him scattering the fruits I bought. My neighbours came to our shop and before I knew it, he has raze all my goods.

My neighbours called the market chairman and they bungled him to the police station.

What is wrong with men this day? I didn't collect anything from him. Thank God I took the advice of nairalanders. You guys helped me to identify this before going into it.

Thank you, all.

Because of one man you decided to be stereotypic.

You are as sick as the lunatic you are dating.

Moreover I don't believe he just slapped you out of the blue when you guys were having a discussion, like you didn't use vulgar words or shout at him.

Small small dae lie abeg.

Faber:
Oga remove lucky from your statement. Chance favours the prepared. I know how my seniors bullied me, when I was some skills. I refused to give up, I worked hard, I traveled on ten toes. I wore one slippers for weeks. I worked hard, I persevered.

I was not just lucky. I keep telling people, stop focusing on results you see, have you cared to think about the process. I took people who are better off today many days of hard work and sleepless nights.

Chance favors the prepared. A striker who is always in the 18 yard box of the opponents, have a greater chance of scoring goals, than a striker who keeps positioning himself wide out of the 18 yard box. The when the well positioned striker scores, you said he was lucky to score...he has mastered the skill of positioning through training etc

Once again I run eye for eye reward system. I always bear in mind Donald Trump's wise words... " Never forget to remember those who were with you, when you were down... always remember to forget those who left you when you were down"

What can I say..

You already positioned your mindset for that and you don't want to change it.

Faber:
I run eye for eye reward system...

They were mocking me that I wrote jamb 5 times without gaining admission. Way be say some of them paid for special centers and paid some University admission brokers, where's my papa say he no dey pay shishi, that I should use my head and pass and get admission.

They were in year 4 etc I still dey house. Finally I come try other stuffs.

So I don't regret or apologize for mocking them, na them first begin. I even send one card now, he come dey say, the 1500 MTN recharge card I sent him, have been used. Saying I dey use him play, vomiting all sorts of words. Now I just called MTN, and they released the number that used the card, which happens to be his second phone number.

Some of these guys that claim they go School are horrible

People are horrible, it's not about going to school, some uneducated people are still that way too.

But don't mock them, you were just lucky that skill now pays a lot because it's not yet saturated unlike white collar jobs.

Back then these skills were for extremely poor people but now it's Lucrative due to trends.

So what I am saying is, don't mock anyone okay, it doesn't matter if they fuvked up before, everyone fuvks up.

Faber:
Guy, money way Amazon dey pay me monthly too long, and it's for a lifetime, plus other investments, piggy bank and some other platforms are also holding my invested bucks.

Even if I got bedridden (God forbid) I am covered

Yeah more like it.

There are people with more resources than you but they still fell, what I am trying to say is, don't mock others because your hustle paid off or you are privileged.

Faber:
ASUU embarked on strike, CONUA called it off...

Okay na, thats one of the reasons I no gree go School and am happy I no gree enter University one day. All these so called graduates who I grew up with, who were mocking me are today begging for money.

They were in school, I learnt driving, barbing, painting etc...plus one other skill that is very much in demand, that's spamming. Today I dey covered pass them

You might fall some day and you will beg them for money tomorrow.

Don't mock others because of their misfortune, anything can happen to anyone.

virginprincess:
It a lie,most of them are from here,come to Anioma land and see Delta beauties.

I live in Delta and we shouldn't be arguing over something we know.

Edo Women are finer than Delta Women, My girlfriend is a Deltan too, I am trying to be unbiased here.

Delta has fine women but the real fine women are not Delta Natives, although beauty they say is in the eyes of the beholder.

For Integrity sake.

He just has to buy it even if there's a 50% increase.

He's being tagged a talkative, so he has to do something to retain his reputation.

Alwaysready:
Before you settle for the second option which is better off,go and ask staffs there like 2-3 if they are being treated this way or if it's just a mere employer to employee gimmick to bring you in at all cost.

I am not the OP in question.

I just decided to answer your question though, but I think it's that way, only reputable and big companies pay such benefits to staffs.

Alwaysready:
There is also another opportunity in Ibadan on a salary of 50k and a daily meal but 7 to 3pm for morning shift and 2pm to 10pm for the other shift, a day leave every week, after a year the organization will be paying 13 month salary, accomodations and if I decided not to stay over, just 200 naira to my place in Ibadan, bonuses every festive period both cash and food.

What do you mean by the bolded before I give you my final advice?

When you become a permanent staff you get paid a 13 month salary (your basic salary only, allowances excluded) on your annual leave.

Breakdown:
If your basic salary is #50k and you receive #100k at the end of the month including allowances, on your annual leave month, you will receive #150k.

That's it.

Ibadan all the way.

The cost of living in Lagos is too high.

jeromestarks:
You don't understand 1/1000th of a woman's psychology.

Let me tell you one .
A woman's reasoning is controlled by her body!
Who she gave the first body to will always have access to it.
Women do irrational things as long as it suits their body.

Note my emphasis on "their body"

It's obvious you haven't had the luxury to be with a wise woman before.

A woman doesn't even understand her own psychology talk more of a man, look just ensure she's wise, many of these things can be overcomed.

Virginity is no guarantee that she won't cheat on you, gone are the days when women have little opportunities to cheat, if she likes exploration, she will fuvk another man even when you married her a virgin.

Pray for a wise/good woman not a virgin, I was once on this stance of a virgin or nothing but experiences changes a lot of things.

Please don't qoute me on this thread again okay.

jeromestarks:
Trump my man.


If you're having problem with you gf, fiancee or wife, check very well, you are not the one who disvirgined her.


Women respect the first things in their lives; first child has a kinda special love, first man to fvck her has a special place in her heart that you can not fill.

She will forever compare your performance (in beg and in other areas) to the first man who fvcked her.
So, you're already in competition with someone you don't know. That is not a healthy competition.
Fvck a woman you didn't disvirgin and walk away the moment she begin to give you attitudes.

Take the pain to find a virgin woman when you're ready to marry.
Better to suffer to find a virgin and have a lasting happy home than to marry the available non virgin and suffer in your marriage. Paternity fraud is real.


Don't pay Bride price, sponsor wedding ceremony and take care of in laws just to have a woman who was fvcked when she was in her best state (virgin) by a boy who gave only two eggs and indomie.
Only a virgin woman deserves your care, attention and love.

Be wise!

Take the pain to find a wise women not a virgin.

Comparisons will always be made, there's always someone better than you.

Some women still cheat on women that married them as virgins, also some women too don't cheat on men that married them as non-virgins.

It's all about wisdom, we have so many foolish people these days, then you will be expecting some wise from them just because they are virgins(female) or Godly(male).

Moreover I don't see why you are posting this on the wrong topic, you have an ulterior motive I guess, stop capping bullshit.

Tactical Analysis at play.

The Ukraine President is just plain stupid.

I heard True Love comes when you are not ready for it.

This seems like your case but you are more worried about making money.

We rarely talk about them because they occur in rare cases.

Do not panick over such things, it's one of the reasons men go after women they are better than in the social class.

These ones are looking for wedding not marriage.



I hope they find a fool soon.

Many people commenting above don't know jack shit.

Your wife is an average Nigerian Woman, nagging and always wanting more.

You can't kill yourself because you want to please a selfish being, our fathers went through same thing, some are still going through it.

Here are tips some elders use:
Don't answer her when she begins her nagging,
Don't assume she will change or try to marry another woman, they are all same.
Only Divorce her when she cheats,
Make her buy things with her own money, if she's jobless, get her engaged,
Manage her like that, our women are fully flawed, normally na manage we dae manage them.

Following

That phone has a faulty screen.

I haven't seen a fake Samsung s7 edge, just the ones with screen issues.

If the rent is expiring soon.

Allow it till then, look for a new apartment for yourself and let him have the house because it's obvious he told the babe he rented the apartment and you are the one squatting.

If the rent won't expire soon, then I don't know, na quarrel go end am.

RPG2020:
Answer my last question

I already told you, I am not emotional like you.

My mother doesn't know my father's monthly income.

No matter how loving you seem, I won't tell you how much I earn, if you pester me too much, I will tell you 30k, if you insist that I earn more because it's obvious then you have shot yourself in the leg.