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Staying anonymous won't work here.

Talk to your husband about it, show him the videos you recorded then both of you can go to the school principal to report the case, show him the video and make the school board understand that aside it being immoral, you also don't want your kids, siblings, distant relatives or visitors to witness such embarrassing scenes.

Don't send them the video and they should not tell the students how the report came to the Principal's Office, so that you can remain anonymous to the students.

It's a fine step you are taking, your children will be blessed with good morals.

ValCon888:
It can only be Africa.
Ignorance at its peak.

Anybody that truly thinks the horse rose up because the girl is a virgin needs help from a mental institution.

They didn't tell you to believe it.

You aren't wealthy enough else you would go there and see for yourself.

Try it with a Virgin and non-virgin, argue reasonably next time.

Bobbiee:
Marriage is for the propagation of the species and to ensure controlled population. Think about it.

You marry so that you can breed kids. You stay married and are expected to be faithful to your spouse. Else, you would be at liberty to sire children with multiple spouses as many as possible. There's only so many children a single woman can give birth to. Men stay fertile all the way to old age. Without the institution of marriage, many men would have over 100 children walking around.

Any other reason is totally useless and born out of sentiments and societal expectations. Is it companionship you seek? That's what family and friends are for? Is it constant sex? There's brothels for that. Someone to split the bills? Get a roommate

Coming from a very logical point of view.

You can't differentiate the daughter of a rich man and that of a poor man anymore.

They all dress and look rich but when you get close to them, then you realize that some are leeches while some comfortable.

The ball is always in your court to run or stay.

DukeNija:
Wait till you marry her

Yeah.

There won't be much difference I believe.

I have dated some girls before and they are worse off.

Not marred yet.

But I wish to have a partner as understanding as her in my next life.

Though she's flawed but I know I can manage.

RenegadeX:
What I noticed is that people with money lose a lot with betting. You stake high on a seemingly sure odd and those small odds spoil. I can't count how many times 1.12 have spoilt my game where even 2.65 came. You could have divided the money like use 350k to bet on the Man city to score two. And stake the remaining 50k on Brentford to win at 18 odds. You would have gotten 900k. Brentford had a chance to win the game they are not a baby team.

Even me my mind was telling me to put 1k on Brentford before the game started but I was skeptical. When Brentford scored the first goal I went and put the 1k on Brentford to win but the odds had been reduced to 5.50 and I won.

I even played Bournemouth to score 2 goals and above and odd was 2.70 judging from their meeting at the carabao cup last week.

In all sir it's time to call it quits, resist the temptation to chase your loss. Let your job and family be your prime focus. You can deactivate your account or write the customer service to do that for you.

How can winning #2700 and #5500 make you comfortable, you should probably quit too.

adunola01:
My brother, I am currently in sad mood now I lost 400k yesterday on man city to score 2 goals.. imagine what 400k can do for me..I have lost a lot on gambling, I just pray Allah can forgive me.i have been ungrateful to Almighty Allah. I wasted 800k meant for my house project in 2 weeks on gambling...God pls forgive me.i am weak.i am 100% sure am quiting this time. For past 15 years I can't move forward because of betting. Am just crying why I found myself in this mess...am disappointed in my self. Shame on me to be in this kind of situation...devil has won.God pls forgive me.am sorry

Bro I am not any better than you, I have also lost the money meant for next year house project and I am in debts of almost 300k as we speak as a result of betting, from playing for fun with #100 to very high stakes.

But I believe by God's Grace I won't bet ever again, I seek to live a good life and that's final, one can't live a fulfilled life as a gambler, even if the money is there but there won't be happiness.

terrezo2002:
May God open your eyes friend. One of the activities of the devil is to blind eyes to the truth.
Know this little spiritual truth.
It was greed that made people to start kidnapping, prostitution, armed robbery,drug pushing.
Every sin has its demons. The demons dangles its reward in front of people to lure them in. The demon does not take control of the person the very first day the person started, that's why it is easy to stop when you just started. A lot of people always win in their first few bets. Little by little, the demon takes its hold on the person and when that is achieved, it becomes very difficult to get out except by God's grace.

Know this also.
1. Demons can influence your bet games. They can make you win and lose.
2. Demons can give you revelations through dreams; a mad person predicting; or other means of games to bet on.
3. Demons can make you bet against your wish.
4. Demons can make you choose games you didn't wish to play.

I am not expecting you to believe me. Those who can relate will understand.
I am sincerely praying that you should understand this even if it is just a little.

This is so True, 100%

The moment you even try to stop, they give you some winnings to draw you back, you might win big today but if you check the backlogs and the ones you will lose in future then you will discover that you are just wasting away.

Gambling is definitely demon, there's no system you use that will make you kill a bookie.

Your problem is that you believe everything these pastors tell you
How then will she be happy with you when they have accused her twice and you believed them.

Every man faces hard times, it has nothing to do with spiritual forces. Na people dae lose money for Crypto, you nor get money reach anyone before.

So because of your greed we should then pray for depreciation of our currency and further suffering of Nigerians.

It will even drop to #100 and you will cry bitterly.

If not for greed you have asked properly before investing .

Magnoliaa:


Another one.

All of you people that this guy has scammed and sold cold zobo and bobo to y'all, una no go come out come stone am (to death)?

(Erm, I know you, Connected, have not bought. I was just speaking generally, lol).

His post reeks of stupidity, I was really irritated, I always see him spamming threads and I decided to check it tonight.

You can't even talk to a 18 year old woman like that, she did know you lost your senses of reasoning.

I wanted to buy your book or at least get the free one but after reading your post, I am convinced it's a waste of time and money.

You are just lazy and want him to do all the work.

My present girlfriend is very poor in bed, I haven't cummed anytime we have sex.

I should tell you that you are lazy, don't want to put in effort, very unromantic.

Conquer these issues and see him falling head over heels for you.

As it is now, it's only a matter of time before you have a sexual replacement.

Few tips:
Initiate Sex
Do a lot of pre-intimacy before lying down like a log of wood
Try sex styles with him, they can be painful but it's worth.
I am not married but I think good sex helps men not to cheat.

Bloooody:
I was in a tight situation and had to borrow 50k from jumia pay.
But I can't such a huge amount of money

Pls I want to know If these people will come to my house?

Has anyone else here defaulted from paying them

The end consequences will be too much for you to bear.

Don't always assume you will be in this miserable condition of yours forever, the moment you try to step up, you will see this challenges bringing you down.

Saintinoo:
Talking about respect, i dont want to sound all good, but this lady will yell at me, belittle me, make it look asif she is doing me a favour. Imagine the lady you want to marry saying that she wish she can turn the hands of time.

Talk to her about it.

Make her understand that she should respect as you respect her, unless she wants you to change.

I should also say that there's nothing good about a girl that doesn't respect you, forget all those qualities you mentioned, after the see finish stage of a relationship, if she doesn't respect you, dump her.

I wonder what she even offers you, virginity blood can be gotten anywhere, same way as a caring girlfriend but respect mbannu, the only thing a woman can accord me for all I do for her is respect and appreciation.

fadilaMaikiriki:
Not someone, but some persons. I've been mocked because of it. Even here on nairaland and offline too. You won't understand because you're not in the situation.

You think that's something to even make one depressed, people have far more situations than yours, very obvious ones if you ask me, it's not even obvious unless one looks at your feet and most mature people won't make a mockery of you.

So I advise you stick around people that are matured, it's not about age.

fadilaMaikiriki:
Wow! Are you serious? I've never seen someone with toes shorter and thinner than mine.

I do this all the time. I mean stretching them. I don't know if that will make much difference/change.

Appreciate how God created you.

Having the finest body won't make men not use and dump you if any choose to.

fadilaMaikiriki:
This is not a nice thing to say to someone.

You have inferiority complex.

Those type of feet are common with short women that also have thick bodies.

God created you without disabilities but you are here trying to make yourself look disabled.

Because someone insulted you using your feet you then chose to disturb us, do you know what others go through everyday and they don't come online to disturb others even though they have smartphones and data.

Cut them off and allow us to rest.

We have bigger problems.

Our local media don't sugarcoat things like the Foreigners do.

Even amongst us we are afraid to go to some of these states all because of hearsay.

Eyinju112:
my case is quite different , I was dating this guy he lived around me but he moved to Ikorodu due to one reason or the other, I’m not the type that post bf, so I never posted him till this fortunate day... I posted him with a love emoji. Then a friend wrote me saying who’s he? I replied he’s my bf... the guy laughed and said somebody that did naming ceremony last week and will even do intro this week lol... I was short of words. I confronted this motherfucker and the bastard said he’s only marrying her because of the pregnancy that he doesn’t love her.... it’s me he wants and bla bla... tell me where my fault is?

It's quite the trend now.

Women marry who's ready while men marry who they feel can keep a home, then they all cheat.

I have been unlucky with women and I can't do distance relationships else I know some girls that appear good, to think I intend settling down late 2024. Well I guess at the end of the day I will have to stick with my parents idea of getting an Igbo Woman from the village.

My Ego can't allow me condone infidelity and it's what these modern women specialize on, you may assume because she's quiet she won't cheat and she will prove you wrong.

Eyinju112:
That’s not true... no man is single out there, every lady is a victim here...they lie to us of been single and when we discovered we been lied to they tell us those things... If you’re not a lady you won’t understand

There are a lot of single men out there but they are too broke to be accepted by you women who raise your standards so high.

Only the married men and those in relationships who have arrived can meet up the demands you guys make.

To think you women don't add any tangible thing to one's life makes the whole thing tiring, I am getting my babe a new phone on Friday and I will break up with her soon, she's not good in bed, doesn't have money, no pure logic and still have multiple guys she calls besties, I have made her fresh in a few months although I haven't caught her cheating red-handed but I can't marry her, I better let her go now so that one of those guys can wife her.

The men around her are too much, she can't chase all of them because of me if I marry her.

So you see, men aren't the only liars out here nor women the only ones getting scammed emotionally.

Eyinju112:
1.I married her because of the pregnancy, it’s you I love.

2.Where were you when I was marrying that woman..

3. I couldn’t tell you because I love you and I don’t wanna lose you

Fine Babe wey dae follow people husband.

pretydiva:
2 billion naira for this mediocre building? . I thought I was going to see sky scrapers. It will never be well with our portions. Bunch of thieves

You intend building a skyscraper with 2 billion naira?

You will surely be left alone in it so that it will collapse and fall on your silly head.

They are all useless.

I know we shouldn't speak bad about the dead, but look how he ended due to his bad attitudes, when you are about to get drunk due to some certain circumstances, you call someone you know to drive you home.

From the video, it was obvious the staffs didn't do the recording because one could clearly hear a lady saying, shey nor be una dae work here, she refused to offer any assistance until one of the staffs (maybe a senior staff) stopped her from recording.

Yet, they found a way to still upload the video to paint the hospital bad.

Nigerians or women rather always looking for people to blame and fall.

aluyapreston:
happened to me too

It's obvious you didn't cum, so the medicine wasn't helpful, the beauty of sex is orgasm mostly for the man.

To enjoy sex for a long time, take your mind off the pleasure, make your mind uninterested but your body fully into the sex, with this method you would cum whenever you want or when you feel your partner is satisfied.

I am not writing off these medicines, but I don't subscribe to them.

My girlfriend has an ugly girl and a handsome guy as an unmarried couple neighbours and she always wondered why he chose a girl like that.

A good observation made me understand that she's very respectful and appreciative, when I told my girlfriend, she went mute.

We deserve respect for the efforts we put daily as men in becoming hosts to the society, no matter how little the monetary outputs are.

For the single women, ask around a man never jokes with a woman that respects him, so an increased respect from women will get many off the dating market.

Havesomesense:
I have dated my girlfriend for 2 years now, so far so good, but I think I will do better on my own.

My reason for asking my question is because;
1. I hate it when my girlfriend is sometimes emotionally down, I will have to cheer her up and I don't like doing that but I have to do it. e no dey sweet me.

2. We are no longer living together. Early this year I relocated to another state because of my work and we don't have numerous intercourse like before.

3. I will not be ready for marriage in 5yrs.

If you have a good woman beside you, try your very best not to lose her.

She also cheer you when you are emotionally down and it's also stressful for her.

You can lots of sex later, that's not an issue.

If you discuss with her about you not being ready in 5 years time then you can move ahead from her decision.

I didn't see you complain about anything else so I guess you got a woman many men would do anything to get.

Some unwise people will just come out and be making stereotypic suggestions and proclamations.


Other unwise people will also thread their paths.

ObalendeCMS:
Fool! I do hookup or olosho sometimes. I just can’t stand naija girls as some can be very “irritating” and annoying. It kills my vibe makes me
angry.

I don't know what warranted an insult.

Do whatever you wish.

advanceDNA:
We dont marry early anymore...instead we get exposed to sexual contents like porń at tender age...pórn and masturbatìon go together...ask anyone that masturbates..there is always a visual or mental assist....which is poŕn.....

Take away poŕn and u will fix a lot of sexual and mind derailment.... some people's mind are messed up because weird poŕn like bdsm and masochism is the first thing thier eyes/minds got exposed to.....

You are so much on point.

The sexual contents in some people's head has altered their mode of reasoning and the economy is so bad that people can't marry, it's not as if the women have good sense of understanding.