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ChiefThot:
From the days of Adam and Eve, it is clear that women crave chaos.
They are agents of it. Chaos excites them and makes their pussy wet.
She had paradise, but she craved ruin...simply because it would be more exciting.

Adam was the first simp. Instead of dealing with her emotionlessly, he allowed her bring him to her level.
This is why women hate agreeable men. Deep down a woman understands her nature and knows that she is being of chaos and so needs a man of rock to make her fall back in line for her own good when she lets her inner chaos manifest.

This is why societies of old had rules to protect women from themselves.
But feminism has unleashed that chaos and has made it unchecked. This is why these women are depressed today yet act like they are happy.
There is no structure left to help them check their chaos.

Chaos will always excite a woman. Order will always make her pussy dry.
So it is with beings of Chaos.

Respect Boss

It's as you are referring to my present girlfriend, it takes strictness from me to put her in check.

Sometimes I treat her like I don't like her.

Jennyclay:
- I'm well trained and well-mannered.
- I'm a graduate with a good job and I also do business.
- I cook so well.
- I'm God fearing
- I'm a lovely and happy person.
Etc.

Now do you expect me to settle for less? Do you?

It's not about settling for less.

Someone said you are unintelligent and I think he's right.

It's more about understanding that there's a life after wedding day that needs finances to run.

I would rather spend #1m to buy another plot of land than splash it on my marriage/wedding day and having a supportive partner on such ideas makes one grateful.

It's not about being God Fearing like you claim, it's more about having wisdom like a daughter of God.

Blackdeewhy:
Pray to meet the right partner.
And in most cases of wife turning out wicked or callous, men are the cause.
What you garbage in, is what is dished out to you.
Love and pamper her, and watch her moving mountains for you.
Frust her and make her worthless, and see your life depleted.

Are you speaking from experience or you read this somewhere?

There's nothing like GIGO in relationships for either parties, humans are unpredictable, some are treated badly but they still value their oppressor while others hate their Angel. You would begin to wonder why it's that way?

Oga rest abeg.

I can't marry a woman without flaw, I am supposed to get married to a female human not the imaginary being you are trying to picture here.

egunna:
speaks volume about ur upbringing.its deficient and unfortunately for u,a fool at forty is a fool forever.

It's more like you are referring to yourself.

seanwilliam:
someone earning that kind money should learn how to manage and cope for the main time. drastic situations call for drastic measures

He should plan with whatever he’s earning because no one is coming to save him ..
45k should be manageable for him in a month.
He should buy food in bulk with 25k fill gas with. 4k, cook 4k stew every weekend ..


His transport for the 110k job is just 6k monthly , which means he’s left with 59k.
9k should go for recharge card, nepa bill soap and barbing .

That can actually work well if implemented with discipline.

egunna:
so because he needs a job,he shudnt say things the way they are.how is saying what he said a defence for d govt.?are u not aware that even the dollar is currently not doing well.stop being blinded by misguided hatred

Keep Quiet
Old Fool!

seanwilliam:
@exco90 Both no worth am.
But choose 110k and save massively for 2 years.

Do whatever it takes to save atleast 50k monthly .

Let say you spend 1700 for food and transport you’ll be left with 60k..

Use 10k chop life , save 50k ..
With 1.2m in 24 months , u can start your own little biznesss..

The 75k is worst because you will be left with just 50k after you comot 900 x 26 days( transport fares)..

Let’s say you spend 1500 for food daily and other expenses (45k) you will be left with 5k ..
Except u go Dey thief, there’s no how u go save anything reasonable. Mind you this is raining season where cost of transport Dey high.

That’s slavery .

May God bless our husles.

#1500 daily for food?

Rent and miscellaneous nkor.

Is #1500 even enough for feeding daily, unless you will have to eat what you dislike, inflation rate is high.

For me, the permanent job is way better since the pay gap isn't much, moreover salary increments would surface over the years and their are other hidden benefits too, like promotions, 13th month, allowance etc.

To minimize transportation fares, she can find someone around your area that works there too and pair with daily to reduce cost.

matrix199:
That's not true! It doesn't have to do with genotype but immune type.



Well, I'm AS and I do experience malaria like twice or thrice a year(though I seldom sleep protected). I've never administer or been administered drip before in over four decades.


The reason why I seldom get beaten down by ailment is my strong immune termed 'Alpha immune system '. For some, they have Beta immune system, and may experience debilitating health when ill.

Okay

Thanks for the enlightenment.

Apart from Malaria.

It has to be AA.

We have one of the strongest genotype.

AS don't get sick from Malaria but other sickness hooks up fast.

Local man got tired of everything about her.

Good Thing he had everything in his name else he would be at loss now.

No room for explanations, she doesn't deserve to know what she did wrong, just hand over the keys.

Westernequinox:
Proverbs 7
My son, keep my words and treasure up my commandments with you; keep my commandments and live; keep my teaching as the apple of your eye; bind them on your fingers; write them on the tablet of your heart. Say to wisdom, “You are my sister,” and call insight your intimate friend, to keep you from the forbidden woman, from the adulteress with her smooth words. For at the window of my house I have looked out through my lattice, and I have seen among the simple, I have perceived among the youths, a young man lacking sense, passing along the street near her corner, taking the road to her house in the twilight, in the evening, at the time of night and darkness. And behold, the woman meets him, dressed as a prostitute, wily of heart. She is loud and wayward; her feet do not stay at home; now in the street, now in the market, and at every corner she lies in wait. She seizes him and kisses him, and with bold face she says to him, “I had to offer sacrifices, and today I have paid my vows; so now I have come out to meet you, to seek you eagerly, and I have found you. I have spread my couch with coverings, colored linens from Egyptian linen; I have perfumed my bed with myrrh, aloes, and cinnamon. Come, let us take our fill of love till morning; let us delight ourselves with love. For my husband is not at home; he has gone on a long journey; he took a bag of money with him; at full moon he will come home.”
Proverbs 7:1-20



Life is practical for the wise, Godly wisdom would give to length of days and peace.

This is about adultery, my dear brethren.

Not really Fornication.

Lexkenny99:
I dated this bi*ch 4 a year and 3 months. I loved this bae like my our souls were linked together from birth. I even introduced her to my family. As the first and only son, my mother wanted me to settle down quickly. My mum loved her. I really had plans for us, our future. I noticed mid last year that her attitude towards me changed drastically. I go call am, to pick na problem, chat am, no reply. I go buy gift go visit am, she go dey gimme attitude. Only for her to visit me and tell me she's ending the relationship. She said she dated me cuz made a bet with her friends. I narrowly survived that experience. Yesterday marked exactly one year she bitched me 4 an america returnee . Only 4 her to match to my apartment today, crying and begging me to take her back that the guy's a scammer and he duped her of her life's savings. She almost created a scene. Now am in a new relationship. She said she'll kill herself If I Don't just forgive her but take her back and her ghost would hunt me. Wetin make I DO?

Act like she didn't tell you anything.

Wetin you wan do before, you wan contemplate am?

I fit just swear for you, I am sure you have more pressing issues than this.

If you are still weakening by the cry of a cunning woman then you are in for a long thing.

This is really hilarious.

She's just one Lazy Woman.

dragunov:
Imagine o. Imagine the foolish advice they are giving us. Women and young girls should be put at the centre of economic drive. In order words, empower the females and disenfranchise the male. The UN is trying to change our social structure by blaming men for the woes of Africa and suggesting that women are better leaders. This advise, if adhered to vigorously will also change the family structure were women will automatically become the head of homes like they already have it in the Western hemisphere. In Africa, especially Nigeria, women are as corrupt as men. If not more. So that advise should never be accepted.

Ofcourse women are more corrupt than men and we should better stick to our old long tradition and forget about this rubbish termed civilization that's all about the West.

They aren't even talking about equality again, rather it's gender supremacy, useless set of people.

Na Schmale dae make me vex, that half-caste.

We should position women and children on the centre of economic drive when we haven't even positioned men that are capable.

Schmale isn't think straight at all, they will just go to UN meetings and be saying rubbish.

The war in Ukraine has nothing to do with us, we should rather encourage consumption of local foods and do away with their expensive wheat, any wise business man knows that knows about business would know that President Buhari isn't the only one to take the blame for this present economic failure in Nigeria, the middlemen are wicked, they inflate the prices of almost all products yet they come here to lament too and they are raking in huge money whereas the end consumers are suffering.

No one should do analysis on the Nigeria's economy again, it's truly pointless because even if you make a campaign on it, you can't stop the ignorant and tribalistic folks here that will rather vote their evil tribal/religious man into seat than vote a man that can change the economic situation of the country made of greedy people.

MemoriesAndMe:
I no be aunty bro, I'm a dude. I was talking about STDs in general - some show faster than others. Men carry certain STDs for years and don't feel it and the females feel it faster.

https://www.nhs.uk/common-health-questions/sexual-health/how-soon-do-sti-symptoms-appear/

On your other point, as a man, I wouldn't like to stress how much a lady has done for me without mentioning what I did for her too.
Same page?

You have to acknowledge that everyone isn't like you.

People like me see talking about our deeds for someone as bragging, I prefer to say what the person did for me, then person say to others how good I am.

Maybe you can condone a cheating woman but I will hate you once, no matter what you have done in the past, well maybe she got it via dirty toilet system, but I doubt that.

MemoriesAndMe:
At the boldened, men tend to carry some STDs in their system for years without noticing nor having symptoms of it. The women feel it faster than the men in some cases.

OP may have had the STD first and passed it on to the lady. He wouldn't know he had some STD without the symptoms and getting tested, so it's not ok to blame the woman all the time.

@OP, you mentioned all the nice things the lady did for you and never mentioned what you did for her. What type of relationship is this? Parasitic?

Aunty calm down.

Gonorrhea reacts very fast in a man, I don't know about other STIs but not Gonorrhea.

Moreover the thread is about the lady in question and I don't see why you want to hear what the man did for his woman, you are just being emotional.

SteadyGrinding:
Ma'am. All in all. She cheated. Stamp this

She cheated, I am glad you understand that.

If I am you then I am sorry your relationship would be in the dust.

Make her understand she cheated, don't feel any pity for her, I understand you love her, but if she's going to continue staying with you In that relationship means she has to live with that guilt all her life or she can better still go away.

It may be from that hoeing she got enough funds to be financially supportive, personally I can't forget how a woman cheated on me, I would always remember her about it on every opportunity I get to do it, that's why I say women are free to cheat but they should never get caught.

I am sorry sir, it's better to marry an unsupportive woman than the one that cheats, make you no go contact HIV or father the children of another man.

It's up to you though, I don't think with my emotions, you can follow the advice of those who do or stick with mine.

Unequivocal:
Hey Guys,
I'll make this quick.

I met this lady sometime in December and we got dating in march this year. She's really nice, her parents are well to do so she doesn't really bugs me for anything although we go on dates occasionally and gift each other stuffs.

the thing is I have some reservations about everything due to some reasons.

The thing is she just agrees with everything I say. For example, we were discussing about intimacy and she was like anything that makes me Happy is what gets her satisfied.

The major thing giving me concern is when she gets angry she can say a whole lot of really really hurtful things but when she is normal, she apologizes for them saying she doesn't know what came over her.

I have intentions of settling down with her but it somewhat feels too good to be true. I don't know if I'm looking at it from a place of previous hurt but I'm trying to be as logical as possible.

What do you guys think I should do ejoor?

The bolded is the biggest red flag, not even her anger issues.

From experience I can tell she has a hidden motive, just be careful and don't rush things.

Make her angry frequently, she can't hide her real intentions for too long, that's how the behave when they want to kill you, destroy your life or hook you with marriage.

Becareful, a green snake is under the green grass.

Yamiriflathead:
I hope international observers are watching...

Yes, they are watching and laughing at your foolishness but still the need you.

If your colonists love you then you are bad to your people but if otherwise then you are good to you people.

Keep trying to please the international community to the detriment of your local culture.
It is only a man that doesn't know his father's inheritance that buys land from his own father's plot because he must have been deceived by the seller(colonists) that his late father has no inheritance there.

Golan007:
Complete body because you be "the Rock" abi?

Everybody is a warrior in his mind.

Yeah.

It's just that only few get surprised.

Golan007:
More like, "Bros, no out me for trouble na".

Yeah, it's more like it.

I don't do social media.

But you can't say this around me physically, if you leave there with your complete body, then know that I am not African.

I hate those LGBTQ+ with passion, imagine a hyena trying to fit in amongst animals with class, they are all retards. I won't include you, because maybe na Loud dae worry you.

Yamiriflathead:
The world can never take extremist ipobs and their views serious going forward

I don't do ethnic or religious arguments.

Our history don't support rubbish, if you want to live freely as a LGBTQ+ then go to where it's acceptable.

When you go to Rome behave like the Romans, we have had enough of the western colonization, we can't accept LGBTQ+ and if I see a leader that's against it, then he has my full support.

Bunch of Nuisances.

Golan007:
I dare you to paste this on your Facebook.

Happy Daring.

I don't do things because people dare me to.

I support death to all LGBTQ+ or whatever they call them.

They are nuisance to the society, so 100 years imprisonment is a lighter sentence but death by hanging is a good one.

Why like your fellow gender sexually, when if you match men to women, a man would have more than 4 wives to himself.

This is the best time to buy a land, during rainy season, if possible you can go check the land after a heavy rainfall the previous day, so that you don't go and buy a waterlogged area.

Go with an elderly man and make sure the seller's witness is an elderly man also. Get your papers since and proceed with surveying your land.

Note: Don't pay with cash, Go to the Bank and use a Teller or make a Solid Transfer and print out the paper for reference sake, payment with cash can't be used as evidence.

Laslas pray to what you believe in so that the deal can be successful.

KemeticPrince:
Hello guys!

I need an opinion on issues concerning my marriage.

I got married two years ago, although left to me i would never have gotten married but i had to as the only son of my parent.

I live separately from my wife(a house i built, while i live in a rented place) and although we live in the same state but i can't just seem to live or co-exist peacefully with any other person other than myself.

My wife has really been on my neck lately, she came to my house last week with our child and refused to go back after a week. I am tired and i just wish to be alone please.

I am not a deadbeat dad, i give her 100k every month for food and utilities.

I just want to be left alone, i don't hate her, infact i appreciate all she does but i just love doing things on my own. I'll love my family structure to be this way, i mean coming home to visit my kids(when i have more) and wife every two weeks.

Life can't always remain the same bro.
When you go to Rome, you behave like the Romans.

You are now a Husband and a Dad, so you should behave like one, it's not about your parents wish alone, you still desire to be a Dad in the proper way that's why you became a husband before becoming a father.

Behave like a Dad, Overtime you will understand and experience the flavours, thrills and adversities in the union, when you see the frequent smiles on your wife and kid's face, their hidden blush, the care and all that.

Gradually you will leave your lonely land, it's not expected instantly. There are Introverts who are now Extroverts same way there are Extroverts who are now Ambiverts, Change is constant bro.

Change for your Family.