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Don't listen to your people's advice. Drop your pride, do as if nothing happened. Go and visit your wife without prejudice. A wise response turns anger away. The way you approach this issues will determine your next level of parole in life.

I give you 1.9m now now

You said she just lie down there. Is it missionary style only? Even missionary style get advanced stage. Have you tried doggy. You are yet to wake up her sleeping sex crave. You are too gentle in bed.

Very poor reasons.
Today in Nigeria, military men are being killed like flies because of failures in those leaders entrusted with democracy.
Sectionalizing and tribalism is the order of the day because leaders see the share numbers of their people as a force to drive home any evil plots.
When democracy is hijacked and leaders starts misbehaving, you expect everyone to misbehave also, because we are in a democracy.
When democracy is hijacked along with all institutions that guides democracy by bad leaders, everyone will not become bad because it is democracy. In Nigeria today, no politician can move from point A to point B without Security forces.
Innocent citizens are being killed "up and down" without a solution.
Any government that is entrenched through manipulations in the name of democracy should be called to order, it has no respect for the constitution in the first place.
People are deprived of their rights and nobody says anything. The same right that the constitution bestows that should be celebrated under democratic dispensation.
People are oppressed, cheated, deprived, shortchanged, kidnapped, killed, tribally blacklisted and so on and so forth and the international communities playing politics with all these things with no improvement.
Then from one small corner, a young man now thinks outside the box, the box of constitution, and the whole world is shouting democracy.
May the Almighty God deliver the African man from the African mind to be able to practice democracy.

Penguin2:
I left this till today that is Sunday before I ask this question so that we, the body of Christ, can deliberate on it.

Last week, the entire media space was awash with the news of the sack of about 38 pastors by Living Faith Ministries Worldwide aka Winners Chapel.

Those who broke the news claim the pastors were sacked because they were not financially fruitful but Bishop Oyedepo, the General Overseer of the church, in a counter, claimed the pastors were sacked because they were not spiritually fruitful; they were not winning souls.

But does either of the reason justify the sacking of a pastor?

I ask this because before someone is called a pastor, it is supposed that there must have been some calling from God. A voice must have spoken to him. Like some inner prompting must have occurred that made such a person decide to answer the call.

Now, when that person decided he wanted to answer that calling under Winners Chapel, I’m sure some sort of screening occurs for all applicants and the successful candidates are subjected to some period of training.

At the training or during the training, the candidates, I suppose, should be made to understand the word of God better, understand the church’s tradition, philosophy and theology. But most importantly, the calling of the candidates is subjected to test to determine if they were truly called by God or if the voice they heard was that of Satan or the yearning for the material accompaniments that comes with being a pastor.

Now, at the end of the training period, successful candidates, who passed those tests, are consecrated as pastors. At this point, the candidate should now enjoy all the benefits of his office and some security of vocation being that his calling has been vetted.

In the Catholic Church, at the completion of your seminary training, you are ordained ‘a priest forever in the order of Melchizedek’. Nothing you do will ever make you stop being a priest; whether you are not financially fruitful or not winning souls.

Well, that’s the Catholic Church. But isn’t that the template that the training of pastors for organized religious institution like Winners Chapel should take?

Or do you think that God can ‘uncall’ the ‘called’?

Penguin is a bird of reason!

OAM4J
Lalasticlala

IF YOU ARE CALLED AND YOU THINK MAN IS THE ONE UNCALLING YOU BECAUSE HE IS THE PRESIDENT OF THE MINISTRY, THEN GO AND PROVE YOUR CALLING BY OPENING YOUR OWN MINISTRY. DESIGN YOUR OWN TENETS AND RUN IT THE WAY YOU WANT. IF YOU WIN SOULS OR YOU DON'T WIN SOULS, IT REMAINS YOUR MINISTRY.
STOP DEBATING WHAT YOU ARE NOT ADDING ANYTHING TO.

don4real18:
Some months ago, I was supposed to get married to a lovely lady (Alias-Celia) whom I thought the universe made just for me. I find it unfortunate that this beautiful story was just never meant to be. This write-up is my story.
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Five years ago, while we both stared at the moon sitting in my compound and telling tales of our childhood, I studied her profile. She had a perfect-shaped jaw with rounded edges, full lips, and her ability to smile with so much ease. Her skin glowed against the moonlight, and her aura filled with so much innocence. It was no surprise when I finally popped the question asking her to be my girlfriend.

Four days later, I got a yes as her reply, and it became a beautiful relationship. Our companionship was a show of true love, or so I thought. She taught me to be a better kisser, and I made her be a better lover. We did almost everything together, and when challenges came, we solved them even though she was stubborn; A bit more than me.

Many moons down the line of love and sometimes distrust, she was to relocate to the FCT, the state where her family resides. I knew I was going to miss her, and it wasn't easy letting her go.

We did part ways at the airport, and ever since then, we were always on calls. I did notice later that I did most of the calling, and as time went on as it must, the regular calls became once in a while, and soon, it became longer.

I did play a little with other girls and tried getting into a relationship with others, but it just didn't work out. Perhaps, I wanted the kind of love that they could not give in return. It was no surprise when years later, my calls with Celia became regular and, I didn't mind doing most of the calling.

Soon, I traveled to Abuja, and she didn't seem enthusiastic about seeing me, even though my love clawed at my heart with a renewed burst of energy. This time, I decided that I wouldn't let go. I stayed in FCT for a while, I met her family, and I guess her feelings returned.

I returned to Lagos to continue working, and some months down the line, I was in Abuja again to see the one that I loved. We agreed that she would have to come to Lagos, and some months after I left Abuja, she arrived in the rowdy Lagos.

She met my family, and I popped the question, "will you marry me?" in a romantic atmosphere, and she was so happy that she was going to spend the rest of her life with me.

We made plans until the event of Corona took place, and it greatly affected my business. I became broke, but that didn't stop me from traveling to 3 different states to meet her family members and her pastor in FCT.

We did agree that we were going to have a small wedding, and the day of the introduction came, and I traveled with my family, spent a lot of money on hotel bills, etc. It did go well, and that was when it started.

She reneged on our agreement on the size of the wedding. She told me that she wanted to have her dream wedding although she had no money. I could not bring myself to spend so much on a wedding only to end up eating hand to mouth in my marriage. It became a back and forth argument. Her dad wanted it small, but her siblings wanted it big. My mum did try to advise her, but she felt my mum shouldn't have a say in her wedding being a supposed generation Z.

I did have to look for ways she would be happy without spending too much. Then the counseling issue came, and I was informed to come back to Abuja by her pastor. It was inconvenient, so I told her to recommend virtual counseling because I'm not ready to go and spend a lot staying there. She was mad at my response, saying that it was disrespectful, suggesting such to a supposed man of God, making it disrespectful to God.

I did try to let her know that we could use the money to do something else, but she was adamant. After some time, I did succumb to her demand, but she felt that it should not have led to an argument in the first place and decided to call the wedding off. I tried calming her down and even suggested that we postpone it, but she wouldn't budge with a reason so petty. It hurt at first. It made me lose focus for a while, but I guess I've pretty patched up now hence my decision to share with you all.

God bless us all.

She even disrespected her father.
What do you think she will do to you?
She's started already.
Let her go.

Cotounou Ambassador? E get why.South should wise up. If not, I see strangulation of the SWSSSE.

I didn't lose my vote.

Still using Divide and Rule.

1. Look for a trust worthy person along with you, go and beg the one you owe that you will pay when things get better.
2. Look for money, do your clearance and go for NYSC.
3. I expected you to ask for financial assistance by posting your account details. God can touch someone heart to help you.
Finally, you are a real man. You are not doing badly. Such is life.

She is gaming you with.
1. Your family
2. Church things
3. Now the child.
4. Be careful
In conclusion, the child is not yours

Do not criticize his write-up. You have to know he is under a satanic attack. PLEASE FIND YOUR WAY TO A PLACE CALL LIVING FAITH CHURCH ,WINNERS' CHAPEL, CANAANLAND, OTA. And God shall set you free . IT IS SPIRIT AGAINST SPIRIT and not a police matter. I COVER YOU WITH THE BLOOD OF JESUS CHRIST.

Woman, stop destroying your marriage. Just read and try to understand what Mutter wrote.
There is no man that chose to marry you out of all the women out there that do not love you. You want your husband to understand you and your constant insult?. Submit yourself, be respectful and recover your marriage. You are still in the tempting phase of your marriage, just 5 years. Work your marriage with patience and understanding.

Holy Ghost FIRE!

Iran will end up destroying itself.

Take it. Then drink a lot of water and take ibuprofen or paracetamol. You will be just fine.

Nigerians!!!
Just tell the President to invite his in-law
and hand h him over. Why waste public funds on adverts.

Let the word COVENANT be changed to agreement. The more you look the less you see.
He wants to enter your apartment anytime he seems fit, is it SPIRITUAL or physical entry?
If you have not seen something you won't understand.

GFICECOLD:
Everytime me and this my girl fight she will insult me first not once not twice if m even talking she will end the call on me saying I complain alot I keep warning her about one particular thing let's leave respect because there's no respect there again I don't even know if she value me again, she takes her male friends so serious that if I even talk she will talk to me anyhow, my birthday on whatsapp it was on pink background she wished me happy birthday without posting anything I kept quiet but if so called bestest(a guy) the quote that came out from her mouth was unbelievable I talk to her about it she said it just came out from her head its nothing, there's no day she and a particular guy will chat she will repost nonsense conversation, if the guy post her picture she will repost I kept quiet but she still continue I talked to her about it for her to say okay m sorry have heard you she ignored me I was still like m I not talking to you she replied me with OK no problem, I called her she said if I call and that's what I'll talk about she won't pick up I told her I'll say it, I called her she didn't pick she said she was busy doing something with her mom I said okay. I called her later again she didn't pick about 6 times she didn't pick up the next morning I called her the same thing until I messaged her on whatsapp she said she don't have anything to tell me that's why she didn't pick up, I got angry I called her and qsk her can she do like this to her friends she shouted at me and told me getout she cut call I called her then she was saying its because she's dating a baby everytime I talk I complain then I ask her okay till I die before she will stop I asked her if she can stop all this nonsense will I just sit down and talk or complain she said that's my business m a baby then she ended the call and blocked me I called with another line she did d same thing again. She's a benin girl but I don't understand why she's always like this and if she's telling me or complaining about something I apologize so it will die but she its like she want to be right even when she's wrong, to just forget her its difficult. If I don't talk to her for a day its like m not complete please how can all this thing stop its disturbing because like now m nobody, if I talk she'll say m complaining, if I ask her something she'll say it's useless its meaningless,please what's my wrong or if person over soft is it bad or loving please

SIGN OF A YOUNG MAN UNDER A SPELL.

Please add me. 07054791082

Why are you judging what has not been revealed.
Let the people be the judge.

rejoice4eva:
Please, admin and naira Landers, help us push this up. This community is yet to have good access to digital communication,even though
Ipesi Akoko is in Akoko South East Local government area of Ondo State. It is home to about 20000 populace with their people all over the world.

It has a college of education. It is home to Ebomi Lake. A potential tourist attraction of international status.

A network provider has erected a mast for over 6 years and the project is uncompleted.

Please any one with any assistance on how this community can have good network access should help

This era?
This one na una village witch o

MizzAJ:
the fact that u slept with a married woman who claimed to be a single mother doesn't give u the right to advise men not to marry ladies from delta state ... its nobody's fault that u slept with her...blame urself for it ... there are good women im delta still and men are steadily getting married to them every Saturday... men way don loose go day blame entire geographical location for their inability to control themselves

If you don't pay the bride price of a woman in Delta state, like Urhobo, properly, they can frolic outside without consequences.
Most of the babies you have amorous contact with have this knowledge.

Have you heard of orchitis?

Don't remove that baby and regret it later in life

I want to sincerely thank you for saving your brother from the hands of those masqueraders.
I pastor a church and will never allow such.
That Pastor is evil.

With a master in Education, you are a hot cake.
Look outside your vicinity.

Sidelining the most qualified igbo man for Alkali was very calculated.
Now you should believe when IPOB said they had no hand in the Owerri vandalism and freeing of prisoners.

This is deep.

Guy, you're a good scene reporter.
You can just imagine how it happened from the write up.
Trailer has gone way.
That is what over speeding can result to.
RIP to the one that died.