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highflyer012020:
at times it seems that nothing is in some people brain, a lot of people rants especially democrats and their apologies.
a white police officer killed a protesting man George Floyd in a gruesome way. president Trump condems the act, sacks the officers involve and reach out to George Floyd family, yet some brainless people are blaming trump for the killing thereby staging a sponsored protest against a government that fight for the interest of his people. democrats and their supporters are naive and wicked for labelling president Trump a racist. obama / biden 8 years of rules could not make laws to protect the interest of black communities in america. the democrats will not tell you that a law has been past and signed by President Trump for gender equality in america, every one irrespective of your gender or creed is equal. but this law was not passed to law during obama's adminstration of 8 years, and there were black murder during his tenure. the democrats hates blacks and african, they want african impoverish and the rid off by making black to be dependent on the white, they never want blacks to be seen equal with them, democrats wants america nation to crumble economically and politically to china, by outsourcing jobs that supposed to grow america economy to china, these democrats gave china goods tariffs free and charge every american goods, the obama adminstration and democrats want to collapse american economy through sanctions lifted from iran at the expense of america nation. trump administration just stop those nonsense, democrats knew they stand no chance against Trump that is why they have been waging war from one stage to another. but they will never win. god planted president Trump for this hour and he must complete the assignment. he has not fail God.because of coming election they are making politics out of George Floyd's death by the white police. the barricad of the white house is for the safety of the protesters because during the earlier protest there were looting and desruction of properties by the so called protesters sponsored by the antifats, no reasonable government will watch its state capital being destroy by sponsored protesters without reaction. whosover critiscews Trump for the barricade is daft

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If the Americans are stupid/sentimental enough to let Trump go,then they should be ready to turn into the next Nigeria.

daddymummy:
There is a saying that women are complex.

I asked myself:Why are women complex?

I immediately got an inspiration.

Women are trying to take the place of God in the life of men, that is why they are complex.

Normally,it is only God that suppose to be complex.

We as human beings are then suppose to grow in the knowledge of God,learn about God in our religions and then understand some secret things

about God.

That is why women also become complex so that a man will not have time to learn God but will rather spend time trying to understand women.

Is it fair?

Is it fair that there are 2 genders in this world and one gender is simple to understand but the other gender is very complex?

Is it fair to the male gender who are simple to understand?

That is why I plead with men to stop worshiping women.

Already they have taken the place of God in men's lives.

But there is still hope for the male gender.

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What hope is there?

omoiyamayor:
lol sexism is another problem in Nigeria, some people believe only men are wise or can make sense. #NoToSexism

What brought about this your statement now? Some people just like to create something out of nothing. What concerns his mistake with sexism? Do you even know the meaning of sexism?

'Clearly he hasn't done anything to deserve your heart'? You're probably not the right wife for that woman's son

Nigerians don't deserve you, Ighalo. Stay away from the SE.

Sue their black asses to court.
False rape accusers deserve nothing less than a decade sentence.

Ride on man. Your true fans dey your back

The women are not as endowed as I expected them to be

Muna4real:
I never said that it doesn't exist. I only said that I have not seen. I have not even heard. Not even in news. Is it my fault?

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You're contradicting yourself. One doesn't start a statement like 'I have neither seen nor heard' without initially being doubtful of the subject's existence.

Well it does exist,but it is HIGHLY UNDER REPORTED. And don't expect to hear about such in mainstream news. That would be asking too much of them.

Enwhen:
Apart from maybe when u are pressed and the early morning as I have said , what else ?... That a naked woman approached u in a secrete room and u weren't ready for it , and u get arouse ?, That's lust...when u get aroused , means u lust and , as such, Bleep her well ....don't claim rape.

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You don't even know what you're implying.

In other words you're saying that rape is justifiable when there's a level of sexual attraction. You're saying there's no basis for rape if a guys forces a girl that showed signs of sexual interest towards him.

Wait first,do you even know that a guy that was drugged by a girl can still have an erection? No dey say wetin you no know.

Muna4real:
Since I was born and now I am getting old, I have never seen a grown man raped by a woman. My brothers have you seen?

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No one has the monopoly of claiming rape. Open your eyes. There are lots of ladies who never report rape cases,stating reasons of fear of discrimination and ridicule. What makes you think there aren't men who feel the same way.

What makes you think there aren't men who have gone to their graves after many years of battling emotional struggles and the subsequent societal implications due that one incident in their lives that no one would ever believe happened if they were to speak up?

Why does the thought of laughter come to your mind when you hear that a man was raped? Why do you begin to see him as less of a man when he finally speaks up?

With all these things, how do you expect to see or hear about cases of man rape?

Enwhen:
How can u be under duress and be arouse just because of what u see ?... , That's lust ...men should learn how to control themselves so that they can face any situation...thats why some r gay and some are masturbating ...apart from the early morning erection , there is no erection that is involuntary , mostly the one under duress...and no man has come out to say , I was rape because of my early morning erection.

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There's no erection that is involuntary? Are you kidding me right now? Wait,are you sure you're a male?

If erection indicates consent,then pussy wetness means consent.
If erection indicates consent, then hard nipples mean consent.
If erection indicates consent,then eventual moans mean consent.
If erection means consent,then thrusting back of her hips means consent.

I hate double standards. Let's keep this energy

This thread won't make front page. Nairaland mods can be very sexist when it comes to giving recognition to men's issues.

Rozz:
Do men get raped?how on earth can a man get raped

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Stop being ignorant and try reading for once

Excellent write up. You're doing well. Keep em coming.

kiwi007:
The main reason why most of these churches are able to manipulate their members into paying unnecessarily to church. See majority of Nigerians will be shock on judgement day. An apostle said my people perish because they lack knowledge... A wise man once said if you wanna hide anything from a black man put it inside a book . The whole knowledge they use in manipulating members is in the bible. But we lack that knowledge ourselves because we are Africans that don't take time to read the words of this books by ourselves. What we only do is shout Ride on papa. When dey preach from the bible.... Take Paul for example he was never a lazy Christian me saying lazy means studying the word of God so was Jesus right from is childhood he had study in the synagogue. So you see when anyone wanna feed them rubbish through the then scrolls of recordings which is now bible they reject it fast.. And I have never cease to wonder why they stop asking questions during sermons by these suppose Go's and pastors . in the bible Jesus is been questioned immediately when he is teaching but now nobody dares question Go's or pastors.I know someone will say they do ask question during bible class,agreed. My own question is how many Go,s takes bible class and how many bible study is been broadcast life on air .

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This pandemic has exposed so much already. Those who choose to ignore these things shall have themselves to blame.

kiwi007:
See am a christian o And I will be sincere and truthful . the fact that this people is coming up with ussd code payment in this trying time is not a good one. Its making it so obvious they care more about what they earn than the lifes and wellbeing of their members, which make them not different from the government itself. For crying out loud God in heaven no dey spend money it is we human being that is spending it. So why can't they just wait till all these is over before collecting from the members again. They should make do with what they have in the church account . they (The church Go or whoever is in charge of finance ) are making it look if members don't pay this money God will go hungry in heaven or the should I say the windows of heaven will cease of Gods care and blessing ... I read in the bible when Christians are in trouble they are been help by other Christians not peter( who was then the head of the church ) then imposing unnecessary payment on them. So I say this with due respect this churches should shut the Bleep off and support their members that are loosing their job everyday due to pandemic .

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You can't buy God's blessings. So many Nigerians fail to understand this.

Well said.

Mcslize:
That's the mistake people make. They post pictures on Facebook and before they know it their inbox is filled with how far na? Oboy u don yakpa? Abeg push me small thing na ma take hold myself tight abeg.

If they can keep their life private, I bet no one will know they've travelled out. Imagine having some old pictures dated back to 2009 in your Facebook account, who will even have time to view your Facebook to know you've travelled out?

But by the time you start uploading pictures with oyibos on the background, such person is already drawing attention to himself. The rate family and friends will fload your DM, you would be surprised yourself and confused as how come?

But the thing is that no matter how one tried to hide it, some persons will still know you are no longer in the country.

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A senior colleague of mine who travelled out was fond of posting regular pictures with his new white friends and colleagues. I later noticed that he hadn't posted a new picture in the last two years but was still quite active online. I couldn't even find his sister's handle online anymore .

SweetCunt97:
Late 60s

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I can only imagine his cause of death.

foleskay:
You sef hear your self. How would you be sending people back home 5k and you expect them to appreciate. How much is 5k. It would hv been better not to send anything than sending that meagre money all the way from the UK. Cmon.

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Pest.

ogbonti:
Thanks for this exhaustive analysis of the situation overseas. what is baffling to me is the notion that someone or anyone who travels overseas is seen as a financial messiah to friends and family back home in Nigeria. My father used to tell me as a kid that there is nowhere on God’s green earth where money grow on trees. every amount you spend is earned EXCEPT you are into CRIME, you won a LOTTERY or you got an INHERITANCE. The latter is not applicable to anyone who left Nigeria for a foreign country because there is no inheritance for you from someone who is not related to you

Having said that, the actions or some of us overseas is terrible. Agreed a few of us made it to be comfortable, but a whole bunch of us are struggling too financially. The few successful ones go home to paint a rosy picture that life overseas is a piece of cake - and that if you have relatives overseas who are not supporting you means they are stingy and wicked BUT what they won’t tell you is that most of them are into a criminal enterprise or simply sailing under false colors (borrowing from credit cards to impress) or probably became legitimately comfortable financially but makes it seem effortless and easy, it isn’t

HOWEVER - i believe in giving wisely because the bible tells us “blessed is the hand that gives than the hands that takes” but never do so to the detriment of your comfort and future

For example, if you make $4,000 a month after tax (at least that is a decent earning in states that not california, new york or new england area, and you can pay all yours bills and live on $3,000 nothing stops you from giving out $100 to a family members and $100 to a friend once every other month- if you can save $800 a month

NOW that money is not going to be for one family member every month but randomly given to different ones who you truly know are in a bind- TRUST ME, you will be blessed for doing so

My rule is - stick to that budget (5% for charity and 20% savings) because i know bills and expenses will surely consume 75% of what I earn in the western world) - Now whatever i make from doing business or my side hussle is not and will never be shared with anyone- i do not give even 0.000001% of my business profit to anyone -NEVER, that is just my rule and I can’t explain it- period!!!!

Ordinarily, to even save 20% of your earnings and give out 5% of your earning as charity to folks in Nigeria means you are able to earn something decent here in America and you are not burying yourself in debts acquiring liabilities like paying child supports (that’s another story for another day) and you are not buying a new car that you do not need just to keep up with the trend, just generally living a lifestyle that you cannot afford.


So my advise is - “never ever do more than your pocket can accommodate for anyone in Nigeria regardless of the situation because you are not Jesus”. If there is a month no one ask you money or request then keep your money

whenever someone is genuinely in need (not never ending monthly need) You will be blessed when you give - because when someone thanks you and prays for you - there is a feeling of satisfaction in your soul and God listens! NEVER EVER FORGET THAT - and there is no divine rule that says if someone ask you 100,000 naira and you can only give 10,000 naira that you will not be blessed. it’s what you can give - NEVER DO MORE THAN YOUR BUDGET PERMITS

and if someone is ungrateful or acts like - i didn’t do enough, i simply black list that person and will will never get 1 naira from me again because I owe no one nothing, PERIOD!!!!

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@bolded,even your brothers and sisters may act this way. What do you do then?

SweetCunt97:
God bless that special uncle.. Dude was simply a giver, never complains. He always prepares list of people he'd give money to. People far and wide respected him sooo much. He's simply one of a kind.

Best is simply help the relative cross over so they can hustle and help others, no be to dey how many thousands come dey complain anyhow.

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You described your uncle in the past tense. How old was he before passing on?

wisdomiskey:
How dare you feel entitled to money someone else worked for?

People with your mindset often live and DIE in poverty because they spend they whole life with a bambiala mentality.

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That comment pissed me off. Nigerians are wicked shaa

PigTormentor:
I will agree that your points cover most of the reasons why some don't send money just to anyone.

Another one is that, people in Nigeria feel entitled and think that it's your duty to assist whenever they come up with another "school fees ", "rent" and "medical" stories.
They might have even called or reached out to you when you were even not in good financial position but they think just because you are in the US , then you.must be able to help.

I have told this to many people in the past, - a lot of people in Nigeria have more in their savings accounts than most Nigerians abroad.
A lot of Americans don't have 1000 dollars in their accounts, they live pay check to pay check.
So how can they help you with school fees when they have Bill's to pay.

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Just stop picking up their calls and send them money when you can. If something bad should happen to such person now,those same family members will move on with their lives.

Lol. This table you are shaking

Adex2442:
Why not??

Look at king Solomon,

Solomon was not a Christian.

Cellenero:
I will appreciate if you could talk more on these..
Learning the trade and unplugging myself from that destructive women worshipping matrix.
Trust me,I regret every single moments I had spent placing women on the pedestal.
I wish I started unlearning all these bullshit angelic picture society paints women to be.
I'm heart broken !

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Lol,the redpill rage.

Anyways, there's nothing too different to tell from what the likes of Ubunja and other redpill gurus on this forum have already said. Take out some time and read on what they've written. As a result you'll get lots of insight and motivation to make more research.

Mind you,the redpill is not a one shot administration. It has to be constant and consistent considering the fact that we live in a very infectious society. Good luck.

Las las,him go fall out and boys go handle am

maak400:
If Adam had refused to collect the apple from eve and reported what happened to God, perhaps God would have truly given him another pretty wife and put the corrupted eve away for good and we all would still be in paradise. You’re right bro, Adam succumbed to pvssy power, he was the first simp.

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Exactly bro. You got it.

Being the King Adam was,he unfortunately became a slave to his emotions. The emotions of love/lust. And it cost us all dearly.

freethinker01:
I imagined how my life could have been if I had accepted such then, I won't have any say in my life... My mom was like(she's my maternal aunt) what do u have that you're this pro ud? Told her then that she'll understand what I did then in times to come. Last year when u made my first major breakthrough, she told me she's proud of the decision I made then.
At the bolded, I've realized that a long time ago and I don't give a shit if you're the most beautiful.

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Just imagine.

Well women are fond of equating a man's worth to material things. They also believe pride should be associated with material things. This is why they get so proud and rude when guys shower them with praises.