₦airaland Forum

beardedboy:
America and cho-cho-cho-cho. Their people are killing each other like fowls yet they won't attend to it. Instead they busy themselves with affairs of other people.

Well, the shootings and random killings shouldn't bother Trump as long as it doesn't get to Washington DC. Hypocrisy at its peak.

Yet, some bigots and wannabe Jews will still come and be supporting the deluded country that calls itself world police.

You dey mind dem?

luvyaself95:
Like i said before only God grace balance the equation.
but mek i say this 2 and 3 months is too short aba...

If you say so....

However, I don't believe in all that.

For marriage to work, there must be real commitment from both sides to make it work.

If you say it is by the grace of God...I won't dispute that but the question would be 'what is the qualification for that?'

I have seen couples who are traditional African worshippers who live happily and peacefully and Christian couples wey dey tear cloth steady, and vice versa.

donlittle25:
see quote

Bro, their matter taya everybody na.

For two people wey don sabi each other for almost 20 years to dey quarrel and tear cloth almost every time... I nor think say na how courtship long reach be the issue. How you see am?

theButterfly:
Good question, although she said they couldn't compromise | neither of them wanted to cross over. Your question reminds me of arranged marriages, which have significantly low divorce rates, compared to love marriages. Arranged couples stick together no matter their differences, albeit families do their best to match their kids w| someone compatible. They don't have the disposition seen in many love marriages [you choose your own life partner yourself] that they can walk out of their marriage if it doesn't meet their expectations and find someone else.



True. Sometimes you just can't work around differences, no matter how much you try. There's no point in them staying married if they're both miserable in the marriage and if they've kids who are soaking in the toxicity in the home. Had they taken their time to know each other instead of jumping into a marriage 3 months after meeting, they would've realized that they were two different people with way too many differences and incompatibilities to get married.

Know each other?

That's actually a concept that I can't understand.

Two mature people should be able to make individual attitudinal adjustments to make their union work.

We have seen marriages fail despite courtships that lasted over 10 years.

A friend of mine courted his wife for 15 years and they have a 13 year old son together. They only just got married two years ago, but na everyday we dey mix cement take patch the marriage....

Longevity of marriage is essentially based on dedication, sacrifice, tolerance, loyalty, forgiveness, respect, understanding, partnership and friendship...

luvyaself95:
Why 3 months of relationship lead to marriage will not crash even 3 years courtship Crash...
only grace of God Help balance the equation...

Oga, there are no set timelines for courtship anywhere in the world.

My wife and I didn't court for up to two months before getting married. We are happily chasing ten years of marriage together, and everything fresh like say na today palm wine....Lol.

Marriages fail, partly or wholly, because the parties, either singly or jointly, are not ready to put in the right amount of dedication, patience and sacrifices required to make it work.

ibrahimsalam:
how can you understand what he is saying when you cannot read to understand

Understand that nothing you wrote abi?

magoo10:
That is what buhari wants
After making sowore popular around the world they will foolishly release him.

What is this one saying?

escodotman:
History don't lie and remembers everyone accordingly. Buhari would be remembered as the worst president of Nigeria since independence.

During Buhari's time;
Economy became worst ever
Insecurity became worst ever
Unemployment became worst ever
Poverty became worst ever (even his follow Northerners were the most hit)
INEC became an arm of the APC
Senate became a rubber-stamp
Rewarding crooks and corrupt people after joining APC
Unlawful arrests and illegal detention the order of the day
Disobedience to the courts
Tribalism, bigotry, ethnicism were the benchmark of his government.

One thing is for sure, Buhari won't remain on the seat for ever.

The set of people Nigerians should feel sorry for are the ones still cheering him on despite his obvious failures.

You are just a pained citizen.

Please, keep your ethnic and religious bigotry to yourself.

I am sure you don't travel around the country to see the improvements in our infrastructures. I am sure you are one of those that desire a return of the old order of 'reckless corruption'.

BobiNick:
Probably in the same angle. That's the main point. Seeking advice and following that advice is keg. Whereby you don't seek the advice and decide to go about it your own way, don't you expect your elders to now caution you if they don't see it as the right way?

So all circles down to one thing, you should always look up to your leader (don't bite the finger that feeds you). You either seek their advice or listen to them when you don't.

If you worked for Dangote and after a while he positions you to set up your own factory somewhere and you start making excess money, will you call him your Godfather? Even if you don't call him your godfather, will you always be loyal to him because of the position he has placed you in life?

Just simple logic but at the end, because it's all politics, we got it twisted by the godfather name. It's just a natural thing that we all live up to, always be loyal to who placed you in a position of power.

Your analogy doesn't fit.

I think the important thing is serving the interest of the masses.

Does the advice or rebellion serve the interest of the masses?

Any loyalty that doesn't serves the yearnings of the electorate makes no sense at all. That's the crux of my position.

BobiNick:
This is sad but makes sense. Many might not see the truth and condemn Oshiomole, but truly this is politicians for you. Oshiomole fought so hard to ensure the end of pdp in the state after their terrible years of ruling. For anyone in Edo state to boldly come out and say Oshiomole did nothing in Edo state, I believe that person needs a mental check or maybe that person is an indomie generation kid.

Many see Oshiomole as someone who wants to be a Godfather, but if you look deeply that is not his agenda. He is only trying to protect what has been planned to work for the country because we all forget that the oppositions are never sleeping till they regain power.

Obaseki might be doing well as a governor in Edo but he is being ungrateful for forgetting how he got into that sit. Trying to follow the instructions from a past governor of the same state who fought tirelessly to bring you to power is nothing to do with Godfatherism.

There are issues that can be sorted out without the media and so when it gets out to the media you know that there is already a dispute. That dispute is being sponsored by the opposition or the moles of the opposition who want to take advantage of the situation and that is the direction Obaseki has chosen to follow.

We all think it will end well with him if he continues like this but we forget that those who laboured to put one in power and knew exactly how they did it can still do it again especially when they are still in powerful position. Don't also forget that the normal citizens who really vote care less about who would take power because during elections they only focus on the money being shared and even after that, these results don't count as victory because we all know the story and how every politician that looses an election will run to tribunal.

Obaseki should better wake up now because as long as he is in Apc he can't defeat them in this way and the worse mistake he will ever make is the assumption that the doors of pdp is open.

Not a bad write up, albeit lengthy.

I think you missed it when you said 'trying to follow the instructions of a past governor'

Do you mean 'seek advice' when necessary? Or take instruction?

daewoorazer:
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Buhari, Atiku, APC, PDP and all their cronies are all mad together.
May their generations never know peace, Selah!
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Oga, better go and look for something and eat.

Atiku get children o. Abi u be him pikin?

The honest truth is that Atiku won't rule Nigeria.

His antecedence does not support such lofty aspiration. That is a price he would have to pay.

He can't have it all, no one can. Times are changing fast.

Africankel:
Fabricated news. I know the writer Bisi Olaniyi personally, we have a very cordial relationship. And I can tell you for free that Bisi is a close ally and loyalist of Rotimi Amaechi.

If this happened in Rhythm FM, why is the news not airing on Rhythm 93.7fm or any other station. More so, Viewpoint is aired live on Saturday morning, at no point did we notice disruption from anyone. How possible is it for anyone to just walk into a studio when a live show is going on?

In addition, the oil in question is controlled by the Federal Government, a smart person would ask why Wike who is an apposition Governor would want to suppress an agitation directed at the federal government and Shell.

Oga, make we hear word abeg. No one is a kid here.

TimFisher2:


Fabricated lies from APC henchmen just to bring Gov Wike down
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Gov Wike must surely come out victoriously!

Oga, Wike and his team dey like agbero things.

Everyone knows this.

Nempi:
How does he think picking unnecessary fights on all fronts will help him?

Surely, he doesn't see any problems with picking up fights....he (Trump) represents, more often than not, the exact same curse words he uses on others.

Kingrexyl:
Chest beating as usual

Don't mind the 'old' man.

The presidency has now become an item that anyone can pick up and give to an Igbo man.

I really think the tag 'elder statesman' is being misused these days.

I am Igbo and from the same state as former Gov. Chukwuemeka Ezeife. However, I believe that the Igbos must earn the Nigerian presidency. No amount of threat or blackmail will change anything.

BlacSmit:
Festus Keyamo is an evil man. Who would always be against the masses

Mtchewww.

Festus is one young man that worked every inch his way up.

I see no reason for anyone to beef him.

Cantonese:
Question: What questions might they ask him.

Answer: 1. Several bordering on looting of the treasury in Rivers state during his tenure.

2. Using the security agencies in Rivers state to cause chaos

3. Why does he roll his eyes like that. Is he a frog?

Do you know Rivers state?

Nearly all schools, health centers and good roads in Rivers state were built under Amaechi.

It is not enough to make allegations against people without proofs.

Did any senator from Rivers state try to insist on questioning Amaechi during the ministerial screening?

iammo:



watch how unpatriotic people insult nigeria , forgeting it happens else where , even snow bound countries are worst

...

They are inexposed bro.

Why would anyone insult his country because of a flood situation?

Mtcheww.

chii8:
They have started bending rules to suit their friends oooo

Amaechi deserves to take a bow and leave.

What questions might they want to ask him?

We like to make issue out of nothing.

Abeg, find another thing talk....

Lawalemi:
Igbos love to make their money unlike the other tribe that wouldn't mind begging for remnant

Reno said what he said because he is not a true Nigerian.

I am Igbo. You will find Igbo beggars all over Igboland. At motorparks in Aba, Onitsha, Umuahia, Enugu, Ekwuluobia, even in Lagos etc.

Reno is just an adult kid....

[quote author=TheWrita post=80309499][/quote]Tragedy?

Oga, you guys have to stop. The ethnic tension being generated is absolutely unnecessary.

Nigerians and people from all over the world die daily from road accidents, illegal migration, armed robbery, kidnapping, banditry, drug abuse, human trafficking, cultism, suicide etc.

The world is experiencing increasing insecurity and Nigeria is not left out. Instead of summarizing all forms of criminality into 'herdsmen killings' or 'fulanisation', we should be looking at plans and strategies for widespread and sustainable social and economic inclusion in view of the rapidly increasing human population.

We must quit being petty over sensitive matters. There is absolutely nothing wrong with what Prof. Utomi submitted, both in timing and content. We all can't join or allow the senseless ethnic war to fester.

JudgeOGBUNABALI:
Then Nigeria is finished ... If that's all the Asorock urchins could make of the genuine concerns from well meaning Nigerians.
Mr Buhari, Nigeria is older than you. It will still exist long after you have joined your ancestors. Fear God and do good today. Sycophants and jobbers will want the status quo maintained ... But patriots have seen a dangerous pattern and will wish you get off your bums and arrest the runaway security situation asap!

Oga, you don't seem to have what to say.

It is glaring to, even the brainless, that these people are only exploiting the death of the woman for political gain.

Viralmula:
This pat utomi isn't a proud Igbo , over the years I have noticed how he runs from the Igbo tag , nawa ..

Runs away from being Igbo? What are talking about?

Prof. Utomi has never been Igbo. Please, don't drag him into your tribal pettiness 'cos you want to score cheap points.

GraGra247:
Fulanis made you rich... and so we should start celebrating their senseless barbaric killings or what?

Pat Utomi, you are more than this.

What nonsense is this one talking about?

No sensible and properly educated person attaches tribal sentiment to criminality.

thesicilian:
The fulani slaves are beginning to reveal themselves.

No doubt, you are a petty tribal bigot and will never understand what Utomi has said.

cucumbae:
That money is meant for troops allowance who are fighting bokoharam.The general decided to launder it to be shared by his senior officers colleagues in abuja.
Even the allowances is not paid in full. The officers will divide it into three,give the soldier one part and take the remaining two.

In Warri, all what you said is termed 'carry talk'.

JasonScoolari:
I am not against the new passport carrying herdsmen inside the 64 pages, as we still have few good herdsmen going about their business peacefully, what I am against is Killer herdsmen and the way other nationals threat our passports.

The peaceful herdsmen are not a few please. They are the overwhelming majority. Besides, why have all crimes been summarized into 'herdsmen killings'? Are people no longer dying from armed robbery, kidnapping, cultism, ritual killings, human trafficking etc?

Why are most of the complaints about destruction of farmlands coming from Southerners whereas the vast majority of the farmlands that were/are destroyed are in the North. Why do people like to politicise insecurity? Why aren't we talking about fixing insecurity? Are we saying that it is okay for innocent Nigerians to die from other criminal activities, but from terrorist herdsmen?

I really don't get what is going on.

AmiciLord:
Apostle didn't checked the other pages before posting that sh*
Apostle need better slap...

Apostle who?

That guy is no Apostle.

These are just bunch of opportunists reaping off on Nigerians while causing widespread division and animosity.

[quote author=smogup post=80099554][/quote]Mcthew.

Una nor really know wetin to complain about again.

smogup:
Buhari is the worst calamity that has ever happened to this country.

He selects the court orders to obey and the corruption cases to prosecute. Yet, some demented souls believe he has integrity.

The country is on fire, foreigners are killing Nigerians with impunity, even his people in Katsina are not spared. And he wants to reward them with land.

You said his people are not spared yet he wants to reward them with land.

You well so? Nor let hate for Buhari ruin you sha.

Iyajelili:
The man called Buhari does not listen to advise unless it is one that would favour and benefit his retarded cows and fellow herdsmen. Who we offended to deserve that idiat of a calamity is what I don't know

If you aren't given to pettiness or myopic, you would probably be seeing the RUGA proposition as a possible solution to resolving the costly, agelong crisis between farmers and herders, which has claimed countless lives and caused the destruction of wanton agricultural produce, livelihoods and impoverishment.

I am sure it is people like you that consider the term FULANI as prefix for herdsmen. In case you care to know, my grandfather was hugely into animal farming and I know influential individuals, including monarchs, across southern Nigeria who own cattles. Is there a law in Nigeria that prohibits members of other ethnic groups from engaging in animal husbandry?

You really need to stop displaying crass ignorance in the guise of opposing Buhari and the RUGA initiative.

izombie:
Obi you are a liar. Buhari has many achievements and i will name but a few.
Buhari has a degree in protecting terrorists.
Buhari prefers lives of cows over that of humans.
Buhari has the accolade for ruling nigeria from overseas.
Buhari is a bigot and a tribalist.
Buhari has A1 in seeing nigerians suffer.
And most importantly, buhari is herdsmen and boko sympathiser.

Who sabi you?

No be you get your mouth?

Mcthew.