₦airaland Forum

@ op you do realize this applies to the woman too right? But everyone expects her to be satisfied with rice for the rest of her life though. It's the reason some women win the award for the most unfaithful wives. It is well...the problem you are having is one your wife will also have oo..

sukkot:
[b]not exactly true. there is a general saying amongst men in the west. WHEN THE MARRIAGE PAPER IS SIGNED, S-E-X STOPS. lmao. let me tell you something, its only a mad man who will be satisfied with eating rice for the rest of his life. any sane person will go crazy eating rice everyday, no matter how sweet the stew is. so then the onus is on you to create an environment to where you can try to enjoy rice for the rest of your life. one of those environments is separate rooms. i dont care how much in love someone think they are. you are going to get to a point where you are sick and tired of sleeping with AND COPULATING with the same person. and this is where men who are tactful and sophisticated come in. you try to create an environment that enables and not disable your -s-e-x life. there is no such thing as ' if you dont like sleeping with each other again then there is a problem' . there is no problem in that. it is a natural progression. there are many couples who are together and love each other but are in s-e-xless relationships after many years of being together. but you have to make it work. separate rooms is a start. [/b]

When a man loves a woman, he wants to be a part of everything in her life. He massages her stomach when she has cramps during her period, buys her brand of tampons or pads for her without even asking her, buys her drugs if she has an upset stomach, even knocks on the door to ask if she is ok when she stays too long..... Infact @op, when you eventually (if ever) love a woman, you would have cause to laugh at this topic of yours because you will be so ridiculously into her business you would wonder why you ever thought a wife could end up being as undesirable as a sister.

I am very happy to hear that you are a catholic. I am one too and as God is my witness and with all the strength I use to defend my faith, I must say that you have spoken the truth and nothing by the truth so help you God. You didn't even add the one of molestation.

Tallesty1:
very fuuny, dunno why ppl automaticaly conclude that any person who reveals the truth about some priest is a protestant. I'm catholic bro. A die-hard catholic.

Do you know even in Lagos here, Idumota to be precise, a Muslim bike man had a little accident with a Christian car driver and immediately brought out a dagger and clearly said in broken English when people tried to stop him ' make me deal with this infidel'. Imagine such a person having the backing of the government, who will be safe.

Ok type in Islamic agenda for Nigeria on google and you will see different articles on it. I understand your fear so much for I have felt it too but I decided not to live like an ostrich burying my head in the sand because I dont want to face the truth. Read on the Abuja declaration of 1999 and know beyond any doubt that greater powers at the top mean to make Nigeria an Islamic state and they have the funds to do it. Only prayers will save this country believe me.

kestolove95:
y not giv mi source to ur claim?....i hv been an active listenin ears to d national assembli activities since 2003..no member has eva raise dat issue..pls lets kip dix country,its d onli one we have..dnt allow d white men religion to divide us...GodBlessNigeria

I understand that when the issue was raised and the possibility of an amendment was raised, the Islamic reps there said the country should be ready for a blood bath if they amended those parts of the constitution in anyway.
Don't take my word for it though, you could google it to read more.

kestolove95:
kip it to urself op...d president nd d senate president ar xtain,if it matters dey for don make move to amend d constitution..abg we not complainin..leav am lyk dat.

It has recently come to the public notice that the Nigerian constitution mentions the sharia law 73 times, Grand Khadi 54 times, Islam 28 times and Muslims 10 times. And...........There is not one single mention of Christians, Christ or the church in the whole constitution.

Scary thought really and even more so when the fact is considered that one of the popular presidential candidates,had sworn to bring sharia to the whole country in 2001. This then begs the question....what are,Christian Nigerians supposed to do now? What will the enlightened and forward thinking Muslims...mostly westerners...do now? Vote for a condition where they would be forced to live under a merciless law that would cut their limbs or take their life without any room for repentance or rehabilitation should they commit any crime? How about the Christians who the,constitution does not even recognize at all...should they vote to put a government in power that will have enough control to convert or kill them?

Then, should the above people choose not to vote the above government, what options do they even have left? Remain with a weak government that has so much flamboyant and careless corruption, clueless and ineffective handling of problems, insecurity from criminals and government agencies alike?....The list goes on.

Truth is we are stuck between the ocean and the deep blue sea...The incumbent is no good...the opposition is suspiciously dangerous to our health.

One then asks, is there another presidential candidate somewhere who though unpopular and poorly funded has the pedigree to lead us to the promised land. If there is anyone, then we as Nigerians should rise up and back such a person to lead us.
If not, then may God save us all.

The same reason you would want your sister or daughter to be married and not acting as bed warmers all their lives... Duh!!!,what's the big deal indeed!!!

Guy tell mum to provide hostel money, while in school make good friends that you can stay with while on hols. Run away from that house before you get frustrated into doing yourself or your dad harm. You are a man now. Stylishly take control of your life, u can even get a small part time job. Thank God you are not helpless and completely dependent on him. Tell mum of your suicidal thoughts, it will surely motivate her to assist in your independence.

About the emotional stuff, don't worry, God is your father in heaven and on earth. You need no other. Ok? Take care.

God bless them all!!

If two of your children are fighting and start killing each other's family, which one will you cry fire on? Have you forgotten Jesus came to save the whole world, sinners and righteous, Christians and Muslims alike. We are all God's creation and His children. Any lost soul, no matter how deserving causes Mary sorrow because we are all her children.

Hope that makes a little sense.

delishpot:
She never begin cry blood. Dem dey behead christians instead of her to cry fire on the tormentors of her so called children. Make she save those tears. When muslims take over the world, kill all christians abi na catholics, she fit begin the cry. She go cry a river of blood.

Funny...F...king is a gift from God. No need to honey coat...

GooseBaba:
Correction: bible god himself spiritually fuvk mary... stop sugar coating..

Take it easy ooo, Muslims don't worship idols ooo. They worship God, old testament style and are only repeating/remembering the complete love and trust Abraham showed to God by being willing to sacrifice Isaac, and God provided a ram instead for the sacrifice. So just because we don't share their religion, doesn't mean we shouldn't understand it a bit

SirHouloo:
1 cor 8 vs 4
4 Therefore concerning the eating of things offered to idols, we know that an idol is nothing in the world, and that there is no other God but one. 5 For even if there are so-called gods, whether in heaven or on earth (as there are many gods and many lords), 6 yet for us there is one God, the Father, of whom are all things, and we for Him; and one Lord Jesus Christ, through whom are all things, and through whom we live. 7 However, there is not in everyone that knowledge; for some, with consciousness of the idol, until now eat it as a thing offered to an idol; and their conscience, being weak, is defiled. 8 But food does not commend us to God; for neither if we eat are we the better, nor if we do not eat are we the worse. 9 But beware lest somehow this liberty of yours become a stumbling block to those who are weak. 10 For if anyone sees you who have knowledge eating in an idol’s temple, will not the conscience of him who is weak be emboldened to eat those things offered to idols? 11 And because of your knowledge shall the weak brother perish, for whom Christ died?

@op...u know there is no smoke without fire. Even you have got to admit that some guys have shown ladies pepper. If ladies avoid poor guys, there surely must be a reason.

We have all heard of poor guys who were all nice n loving while poor with a good girl who waited on God to uplift them, only for the guy to get rich and dump them because they are now too old or too low for their level after 5-10years of courtship. Or the ones that the rich girl loves and marries anyway and they turn her to punching bag and use her money to carry other girls.

A beg guys wicked ooo, I know that you know this. So as you are advising girls, also consider them as your sister and give them advice on how to protect themselves from certain type of men.

You never know a poor guy's true character until he becomes rich.

Be like say Na true too.
I remember one elderly priest that went to pray for a wealthy man's house warming.
One week later, d man n his wife ran to him saying they've been hearing a baby cry every night.

Long n short of it, d guy later confessed to using a baby for a ritual. True story, heard it over 15 years ago.

People get mind sha.

And every other person making derogatory comments, as long as two facts are at least true: God Himself chose Mary and She carried Jesus for nine months and gave birth to Him the way your mothers gave birth to you, then all I can say is imagine God and Jesus seeing your comments.

Can a person claim to love you and hate your mother? Not quite likely.

Just passing by, saw your comment and had to wonder....you do realise you are talking about the mother of Jesus right? Incase, you don't understand imagine listening to your own comments from another mouth but this time talking about your mum and dad..Nasty feeling I bet.

Try fear small ooo, no be anyhow person you dey describe o. Na chosen woman by God himself to be a mother to His Holy Son. Bros, just take your time for your own sake. Silence is golden sometimes.

Peace!

barcanista: oga d koko be say Mary no be virgin. Joseph shine d kongo like mad.....


And I hear say dat guy "thing" long and fat wella...

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yungmill: Can you pls relate what you just wrote to the topic.
Can a boy see his father working in his office when he is in sch learning, kids can learn how to cook from their mother by watching her cook can I child learn how to do what his fathers does like say, flying a plane buy watching his dad!!!
Pls use proper synonyms

@op you are very funny share. You have not seen a man who left his wonderful cook of a wife for a woman who doesn't cook or wash because she doesn't want to spoil her nails? And he hires a servant for her.

Guy a beg leave all these story ooo, before women will come now and say any man who has no job or no money is not a responsible man because he should have been watching and learning from his father for the last 10 to 15 years how to earn and provide for his home. After now, we will say a girl that can not stay with a man who has no job or money is a gold digger. But we no wan marry woman way no fit cook? Common men!!

Una too dey worry. Leave Mary alone ooo, if you don't believe, your loss, if you believe carry go dey enjoy the benefits. No fight for church, pray make I say AMEN!!

Try and even Google this our Mary sef, see how she is soooo close to mankind appearing all over the world and leaving behind unexplainable miracles. Even scientists who are usually atheists leave catholic church alone as they see too many things their knowledge can not explain. So tey she appear for Nigeria where girl wey never go school before begin speak queen's English to pass her message along.

Forget ooo, better pally this our Mother ooo, a t the last day, if you are wrong, nothing lost, if you
are right, Na window you go take enter heaven o, incase your sin plenty.

After all, nobody has gone to heaven to ask God the truth and come back. Na wetin people like us teach us we dey take fight here like say we even sure.

Holy Mary, Mother of God, I dey your side kampe like Aki n Pawpaw. Nothing dey happen. God no go vex say I like Him mama too much.

50calibre: You're bleating like a sheep!!

After saying all these nonsense, you're going to wait for a man to come and marry you, if no one comes, you remain single


And when a man comes to marry you, you'd abandon everything & follow him, you'd drop your name & adopt his, you'd become his possession and when the time comes, you'd spread your legs wide for him, 9 months later, you pop out little humans who will bear his name.

Looool seems like men & women are not so equal, are they?

Hmmm, and after saying all these 'sense', you will still go and look for a woman to marry so that society does not call you gay or impotent.

And after you marry, you pray that she gets pregnant so that you won't be called infertile and can have children who will bear your name and increase your worth among your peers.

Your wife bears your name but can always leave and bear another man's name, the children bear your name but may not be yours and if they are can always decide to change their name when grown: daughters will, sons might.

Loooool, seems to me that society equalizes us all..

Guys who have ever loved a female in their lives should be championing things like this especially those who adore their daughters. You are not always going to be around to protect and provide for her or your future grand daughters. So the best you can do is leave a better world for them where they can be happy and fulfilled.
Women make the world go round, men are the foundation holding the world. Both together control the world.

Come to my bank, invest in treasury bills and earn millions in interest every month at no risk.....unless Nigeria scatters....

Such AA self righteous pompous write up.feeling cool with urself so u r probably a guy with no idea of the challenges of being a woman. How some don't do any of ur above named bad manners and still have difficulties in getting a good husband. U r just thriving on a woman s weakness and fears when her biological clock is ticking to come and give reasons why she is not married as if u are God and know all d secrets of d world. Subjective and sanctimonious write ups like this are d reasons why men keep expecting to find good wives without thinking of making themselves good husbands cuz any negative situation must be d womans fault.

My heart is full of fear n pity for all Ɣ☺Ʊ who take such great joy in insulting d mother of Jesus. I know He will respond to Ɣ☺Ʊ as anyone whose mother is insulted must respond. Monitor ur lives closely from now on and know dat God is not mocked,

Its not their fault, na their own state policy be dat. But Federal registry na carry go for everybody n they r even more recognised n accepted internationally than all these local govt or state registries.

Go to d federal one just opposite it. Ɣ☺Ʊ pay 1k for a start, then 5k after 21 days during d oath taking. Shikena! If Ɣ☺Ʊ like be based in d moon,nothing more than dat.

I don talk my own. Guns and bombs kill in Nigeria just as they do in Yankee.