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Riele:
Is that the point here ??

Why is it paining you
Did i make you a LovePeddler

There is nothing like chosen husband or wife
Jst pple that are compatible or not
You shoukd find out from other spiritualists, and you are not a child, by now you should have a spiritualist you trust or a few sef

Many wives have infected their husbands with hiv too

wallace1:
Just want to know which of the two is a better career.Your opinions needed!

Do you want to choose a career and whats your position now?

I like law, buh what discouraged me in secondary school was the thought of cramming so many things, I am in the final stage of ican now sha
Law jst has so many branches and i really like that especially the areas concerning business and commerce.

funmisticqueen:
It wasn't the women who changed, it was simply a role reversal. And men do not like the experience being in a woman's shoes. So they cry and wail that they are being emasculated because they can't take what they mete out to womem

Didnt you see where he said he didnt control her or bully her when he was rich, i think thats what is paining him
He prolly feels betrayed at this, this is prolly one of those lovey dovey, soft kind of man
I feel bad for him and at the same time there is some truth to what they are saying.
U need to become a realist and stop your victim mentality
There are many men where the man doesnt contribute as much as the wife and everything is in order, and nobody will know, because the man is in charge and the wife accepts it like that.

My advice is always simple as always no matter what some pple will say

Dont ever marry a woman you cant control
Be 100% sure you are the one dictating or setting the pace of the relationship and that she accepts it and is comfortable with it!
You should be the one to provide day to day need s and wants considering ur oncome and savings too
I suspect you were never really in control buh she tolerated you cos you had money to provide comforts
She was the one that decided the level of your family expenditure and comfort or standard of living before now which shouldnt be so.

Lemme goan look for olosho to be dating quick quick

Don't worry about all this, make money now, in 10 years time you will still be knocking all this girl's age grade
But you go be sugar Daddy

pazienza:
The purpose of dribbling and all elaboration is to score.
Ronaldo gives you that. He scores, assists and helps team win while keeping it simple. Some of us like simplicity.
CR7 has proved himself a better footballer all round than Messi. He delivers for Portugal and his club sides. Messi is a very limited player who needs Barca system to thrive. When the going goes tough, like in later stages of the UCL, Messi goes missing while CR7 brings on the party when the going becomes tough.
Messi is no equal to CR7, he is only winning this 6th balon d'or ahead of CR7 because CR7 was robbed last year. VVD definitely would have been a more deserving winner than Modric was last year.

The way i see it, the reason is that messi is not a typical goalscorer, his aim is to influence the match
And he can do this by scoring(ronaldo level goalscorer) and creating play(he won an award few days ago for being the best playmaker in the world)
So when the going gets tough upfront he drops deeper to create play because like i said his aim is to influence the match in his teams favour and he has good goalscorers too in his teams
Do you know how many world class goalscorers are in argentina?
Ronaldo on the other hand is only a capable goalscorer and nowhere near an adequate playmaker, so you have to surround him with good midfieldiers and pacy wingers and a selfless striker.
Mechanical dribbling actually looks fake and too try hard, before performing countless stepovers to dribble one person, messi has dribbled two peopke in one swift movement
Messi's dribbling is actually simpler, again this explains why he is able to do it consistently(highest number of completed dribbles in the last 10 years)
So baba there you have it

pazienza:
Ronaldo dribbles past players steadily. Even last UCL against Atletico, he dribbled past three players before he later scored a hat trick in same match.

Even his dribbling is too mechanical, comical stepovers, and his goals like i said are mostly tap ins, you cant compare them to the beautiful goals messi scores.
Messi's style just has the edge for me
And messi's dribbles are far better thats y hes averages far more dribbles
Messi is also a far better playmaker, possibly the best in the world too(because of his vision, passing and dribbling)
Ronaldo must be respected, make no mistake about that.
Messi is i think at least 50% better than him especially now
2007-2010 they were prolly very close but not now
So its fair that messi finishes his career with more ballon D'ors

calculator123:
Let me ask you a question, and I am doing this on the assumption that you are not biased.

Does 2017/18 and 18/19 season look same to you?
Ronaldo was good but Modric was exceptional. it's not everytime you win a golden ball at the WC, it's not everyone who has the privilege of playing in the final of a WC( a luxury Ronaldo doesn't have).

17/18 season, the WC was the biggest of events. A player performance there was the season definer. Ronaldo did well there but Modric did better

Apart from that, Ronaldo is a mechanical player, there is no joy or magic in his play
Hes a boring, cold assasin who thrives on tap ins , like someone said he hasbt dribbled anyone in 3 years.

Route99:
I thought it through my friend. Not all women are like what you described. There are women who will tell you they cannot date someone who isn't good in bed, there are women who insist they must taste what they're buying. It's better they communicate rather than keeping it to themselves, or assume their partner isn't serious about his or her stance.
It saves everybody stress, there's no need pretending. Pretence could be what lead to the OP's case. This issue has lead serious problems in relationships, as partners even go behind and engage in sex, even while in a relationship. I'll prefer you tell me in the beginning to avoid stories later. I won't judge you for it. I'll understand that we're just two different people.
And no, he wasn't the cause. There is no need pining your ideology of 'sex and relationship' on him.

Those women u mentioned at the beginning of this ur post are in the smallest of the minority

BRATISLAVA:
next time she will do it again and come and tell him the truth. But has that stopped the problem? No

Lol i used to manipulate my parents that way whem i was very young.
I would steal stuff and readily confess n then remind them they said we should be honest, pls dont punish me for being honest
Big teary innocent eyes

Sorry why are you paying subscription fees for exam
Its not necessary naw

cerpvad:
True. But when you do all these things too much, she go misbehave. Therefore once in a while, show her the opposite of these things to reset her brain

Exactly, av seen this firsthand, personally i cant do some things 4 a woman sha
Its beta 4 her to think am proud than d opposite

She started dating you so that you can get her a job, when you get her a job, you can be sure your relationship is over. You are even afraid of the girl
No wonda u give pple like pocohontas mouth
Shame on you

pocohantas:
Biko, pussy is strong- german engineering. E no easy to withstand vigorous knacking, yet bottom plate never fall. OP na prick, can't make up his mind to be soft or hard

What kind of fuckery is this
Lol
Na only person wey get pussy fit write this kind mumu thing

TheWrita:
I know some people here will start calling the dead girl a 'runs' girl and victim blaming.

So using someone as an example to deter future practitioners is vimtim blaming
What she did is morally and legally right? abi
I think its very possible to think about things holistically, you can point out my points above to try to deter young girls from towing the same path
And at d same time condemn and make sure the killer is caught.
Not everyone thinks frm one side of the brain.
That someone's dead doesnt automatically mean they are blameless

Gandollaar:
And your dirty mind told you she did that to seduce you bah?

D point is not whether am her target, she may not have a specific target and she may have. My point is it is very sexually arousing and she did it intentionally.
It was intentional!
Calculated
Premeditated
Foreplanned
U understand?

Zane2point4:
Honestly I doubt this problem will stop, as long as our women keep dressing seductively i dont see it stoping o.

You do one, and swear you wont again till next month,
Next hour your driving around and view this curvy hot mini skirted girl with pecky boobs arnd the corner, and you make a u turn asap.

As in, i couldnt agree more, yesterday i met a girl that slimfitted her jeans, jst that part where her ass cheeks will be, buh she didnt do it correctly so it was slanty and jst plain obvious. The tin jst tire me.

So that pastors can have the opportunity to brainwash you regularly and encourage herd mentality.
Its like a babe carrying her yansh by herself to a guy's house so she can get fu*ked, lol.
Being a pastor will prolly be d best job in the world, Can you imagine standing in front of a crowd of people, wearing nice and expensive clothes, looking all fresh and charismatic and BOLDLY telling them give me your tithes and offerings, i am not asking you to do this for me, i dont need your money, I am only doing this for you guys so that God can bless you.
Picturing this in my imagination alone gives me a kind of high i havent felt before.
I will definitely be called one day!

daddytime:
Hmmm

Words, particularly hurtful words, when said can never be unsaid.

This is one reason why I try as much as I can to avoid a confrontation or banter of words with my significant other. Most times I just take a walkout.

Those words you uttered are pretty well hurtful and confidence-wrecking.

Keep on doing the best you can to make her see how sorry you truly are, she'd eventually come the corner albeit not entirely forgetting your true opinion of her.

I have noticed in real life actually, its pretty common for a woman or lemme say i have seen many women who will even tell their man to his face sef, i knw i love you more than you love me blah blah even girlfriends and still choose to stay with the guy, every1, even guys like being in love even if the object of love doesnt quite reciprocate the same way. And being realistic here sef, i think its very difficult for 2 pple to feel exactly d same way bout each other at the same time
E.g Its wen she has withdrawn from you now emotionally that you knw you love her.
Like i said i see this all the time.
The good news for you, like i said earlier is women and even some men put up with this a lot.
And this example, i think d woman really loves you and is a good person.
From wat u describe, i am falling in love wif this woman already, she is quarelling wif u and still cooking n fu*king you. Lol.
She'll still forgive you. You jst have to convince her you didnt mean wat u said.
And work on urself, i think what you have is almost perfect in behaviour at least cos i dont knw how she looks.

stag:
Is the only problem here losing his job, money?

- No stories of infidelity on her part?
- Had there been relative peace since the marriage?
- Can we then say that, apart from her love of money, she was a good wife?

But bro, how can your brother be in a contract job and he fixed two of his in-laws in ‘well-paying’ Federal Government jobs with job security while he worked in a place without job security?

Ur bro is a little dumb

pcguru1:
lol imagine don't mind him it's for Desktop o, no wonder people get scammed easily

Thanks for d correction joorh. Cant you swap graphics cards for laptops too just like desktops

Mckandre:
its for android phone

Thanks man

DameB:
There are men stabbing, flaying, strangling and killing their wives daily all over the world.... Before the end of the week you might even see few of their stories...

I am not denying that, there are women doing same all over the world too, you may also see the stories before the week runs out.
Why the different reactions to this cases. Thats my question, so u missed the point entirely.
Why the different reactions, men are just not as good of a victim like a woman abi. Smh
Thats y i started with can u imagine if it was d oda way round... To help with ur comprehension...

blackpanda:
So u are judging this woman based on ur bias against all woman. You don't know the facts of this particular case, neither do u know the character of any of the parties. As such it is not ur place to judge. Many things happen behide marital closed doors that u don't know

To begin with, you cant be serious,
This is a case that has been decided by a law court. She is a convicted criminal. This isnt a social media trial like some people specialize in.

DameB:
I give up .... Hands in the air... Even the untrained lawyer in me see you run... Chuckles

Na so naw
My point exactly

grandstar:
At long last, a sensible post! Phew

Why can't people reason she might have pushed to the wall through abuse and she didn't know when she lost it? There's no sense of empathy or compassion from these online crutics

Can you Imagine
Just imagine it was the other way round
Justifying a man stabbing his wife.
Online feminists would have sentenced and killed you already.
Saying the man may have been pushed to the wall thats y he killed his wife.
A man is suppossed to walk away in the face of provocation, but a woman can stab her husband cos of provocation. Abi and we should have empathy. Abi
Sango and Ogun will judge you!

DameB:
Why would you want to CONTROL another individual?
Being respectful, submissive and deferring to a husband is an individual thing.... irrespective of education and profession

Women that live in COERCIVE CONTROL sometimes end up killing their spouses.

The word Control has been given a bad name, why should you have a problem with a man controlling his wife.
I am sureyou have a job, do your bosses not control you in your job
Do your parents not control you
What does respect, submission and deference to her husband mean anyway for a wife.
We like to sugercoat things too much
Even if i am referring to strong influence or persuasion, its still a form of control.
Influence is a form of control.
Why would you have a problem with that?
I guess the lawyer in you is coming out.
I have a younger brother for a lawyer and his attitude is that of arrogance and feeling like he knows everything on this earth. So naturally, we argue a lot.
So i'll definitely think twice about anything serious with a female lawyer.

DameB:
How about Peter Odili and Nyesom Nwike that are married to female lawyers? So female lawyers should stay unmarried because of some bad eggs?

Murder or manslaughter can be committed by people from all walks of life.... Don't generalize it...

I think the correct thing no matter how controversial (idgaf) should be dont marry a woman you cant CONTROL.

Whether lawyer or not is irrelevant

Neoteny:
It's both a career and a retirement plan.

Incidentally, why would anyone trust a man who rose only to the rank of a captain before retiring?

He was a pilot baba not in the armed forces