₦airaland Forum

ornicus:
you are really naive if you think the quality of public education in america is poor because of unions and not because of government neglect.

unionisation protects employees from the incompetence of corporate overlords
the banking industry has no respect whatsoever for its workers.
they are expected to work overtime without compensation
they often work for years without any form of raise or promotion, because the banks can get away with that
that is partly where all the big profits those banks declare come from.

if you're a corper, you will learn soon.

i worked in a company where the management did their best to destroy the union, and the reasons became apparent when the company suffered mega losses due to the cowboy attitude of the executive finally coming home to roost.

right in front of us, people in branches of the company that were not unionised and could thus be cheaply disposed of were let go.

This after the CEO looked us in the eye in a meeting and said no one will be sacked.

I witnessed same thing this year, when some non unionised people who worked under me were let go.

these are people who worked on weekends, during public holidays, who were on call 24/7; people who had literally shed blood so the companies operations would not be hindered. they were paid less than 400k severance benefits for 10 years of work. all because of a misguided management decision that will still bite the company in the arse

some silver spoon quota system pricks will call such people lazy drones. but those drones have given far more to the company than the jokers in the executive

ornicus:
The bloat in most companies are the over paid executives, a large number of whom are adding zero value.

Unfortunately, the banking sector has never been unionised, which is why at the first sign of distress, the exemplary leaders throw the crew overboard.

Please spare us the right wing capitalism solves all bs.
The country that celebrates capitalism as a cure all has a shrinking middle class, those worthless drones as you call them.

dingbang:
they just recruited, it is called consequence management. Most bankers dont plan ahead, they feel they will die on the job, very sad. Every banker should have ten back up plans

lilbest4:
lol. Bro you quoted the wrong post. People would think it's you I'm insulting

lilbest4:
I've actually read this exact same thing on one white feminist's twitter account so it's something they are trying to sell to the world.

lilbest4:
lol you are a very big dull human being

Athena4:
The evidence is in your mother. She was a good manager wasn't she?. Women are not home managers alone.Same skills can be applied in the corporate world. Women deserve the accolades they get.

lilbest4:
your point?

kennydotkom:
I agreed with you the major key to make woman libido high is money, but am trying my best, cos am the only one working, she doesn't go out often, atleast I established her with small scale business. and i do assist her at home, wash my clothes, her clothes, and kids cloth on that Saturday morning, she usually commend me that I hv always relief her whenever I return on weekend.

SageMK:
Don't listen to thośe stupíd modafúkers telling you that your wife is cheating or those advocating you to have it from someone. They are only out to destroy homes.

The truth is your wife doesn't enjoy having sex with you.
You don't satisfy her needs so she has given up on sex.

Be dominant, sit her down and have a discussion.

Let her know you are ready to try something new and it's either she's open to fixing it up or a permanent solution.
He cabt jst become dominant overnight, she already knows he is a lovestruck fool with a conscience, she wont buy it. I saw somebody mentioning doing house
Chores in your own house after working all week and having only weekends to relax and even travelling. How did ur life become like this?
Anyway its only people with d fear of God and a conscience that this can happen to. Men of nowadays are just pathetic. Feminism is winning o. Jst sad

Chronicgenius:
Ewo!...Olamide self na scam las las...To think I was actually commending the guy yesterday for sticking to d same woman DAT gave birth to his first son makes me feel awkward���

CorperKola:
Pdp supporters are educated and rational unlike the other lot, educationally and mentally disadvantaged.

ornicus:
It's odd that ALmost all the vocal pdp supporters minus adeyanju are all rape apologists.

plaetton:
And you are a potential rapist. I stand my ground that I believe the accuser. I also believe Ese Walter who accused the same pim.p of sexual malfeasance back in 2013. I believe the numerous women who are coming forth to narrate their experiences with this serial sexual predator.
Now, with all that, I do not believe that this monster will ever see a day in criminal court, let alone prison time. That is the reality of this failed state.
I and other well meaning Nigerians will lend our individual voices to encourage sexually abused women to stand up and call out and shame their predators.

You must stand with the victim or stand with the predator. No neutrality.

paraltero:
The burden of proof is on both parties! Prove the person's guilt or prove your innocence. You are asking the Dakolos to provide proof but not the pastor to provide proof of his own innocence.

Keep standing up for rape o. Hopefully it doesn't hit close to home for you then you'd watch others ask for evidence.

paraltero:
And is there any evidence that he is innocent?

To start with, he has been accused publicly thrice now. Of all three, he has not provided any evidence that shows that the accusations were false and this is the first time he is even giving any sort of considered response to the accusations.

You people that are calling Neymar upandan, that same Netmar provided proof of his innocence. What is Biodun's proof? His word?

Mizwisdom:
See them, they'll excuse every rape case because they are also guilty

plaetton:
You goofed , and Trying to make a little sense now ?

We all know that there is no justice in Nigeria. No one deludes themselves that this matter will go to a court of law to be judged.
However, the public outcry, his other victims getting the courage to stand up , to bring the sexual exploitation of women by pulpit pims like this guy and numerous others like him to shame condemnation is the very least that we can all do.

This jingle of " he's innocent until proven guilty " is nonsense here. Like I said before , the likelyhood of this monster being prosecuted in court in Nigeria is nil.

The preponderance of evidence, his past, shows a pattern of sexual abuse of women. There isn't a shred of doubt about that.

plaetton:
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So let's not pay attention to her because, according to you , " women can be devilish ".

Unbelievable!
Just unbelievable!

Don't you have a mother, sisters or daughters?
Idi.ots be quoting Neymar's case up and down .

PHIPEX:
Am a guy and I know the danger of being accused of rape but what fact are u expecting from a possible rape of 20yrs ago?

There seem to be a pattern and considering the caliber of the accuser and what she stands to lose you'll agree the accusation has substance.

paraltero:
I find it interesting that you're desperate to prove the pastor's innocence and completely sidestepping the fact the he's just as possibly guilty.

CookieLaVee:
You lots know nothing about this monsterous thing called Rape. You know nothing really.
I only pray that none of you all asking why she didn't come out early or why she continued with her life after the incident and chose to come out now, experience this or have someone close to you go through such.
I don't know the actual truth or what really happened but please, let's learn not to ask some insensitive questions when dealing with rape victims. We only end up dessuading other victims from coming out.
If some of us start recounting some horrible stuffs that happened to us, I think this country and the world at large will be better because we will get to see most people for who they really are. Anytime someone founds his/her voice to open up about such abuse, please do not question the timing.

SayNoToRape

Omooba77:
Truth be told these Togolese can lay tiles like machine. You dont need to be chasing them around to finish your work, they are focus. Above all they are quite cheaper.
We Nigetians need to search our souls, we are all in the habit of quick fix to wealrh and everything!

bukatyne:
Even his wife carries herself as a subordinate.

No offense.

Angelfrost:
It goes both ways sir... Character is unique, and can be masked by situations and condition. A true woman of virtue will remain so regardless of personal achievements.

I know a lot of women that financially carry their husbands without disrespecting them. You would think the man is the breadwinner with the way she submits.

It all comes down to who you meet. I have been privileged to meet such ladies, so I speak from experience.

Macwrites:
Crazy Macho mentality.
What's the meaning of "Man of the house"?
Why can't he serve himself? Or even cook himself?
What's wrong with calling him by his name? Is his name not to be called?

This entitlement mentality is detrimental to some African men, and is destroying relationships.

GogobiriLalas:
I hate men like you more than the devil...all male feminists should be killed and their carcasses fed to dogs. You don't know what the eff you're saying.

Angelfrost:
I find the topic/heading of this post very dumb... And quite "Nigerian"!.. Refined and successful men like Fela Durotoye, Bill Gates, Mark Zuckerberg, Otedola, etc, will actually laugh at the falsehood... Why do poor men, and money miss roads in this part of the world think so naively?

I believe we addressed this issue of stereotyping... All women are not the same, just like all men are not the same. You don't paint all members of a gender with the same negative brush because of 1 or 2 bad experiences.

Respect, or lack of it, is not exactly a trait directly linked to one's financial status: A naturally disrespectful person would be that way whether rich or poor... That's like saying humility comes from lack, while wealth compels arrogance.

All I am saying is: Your friend's wife is probably naturally disrespectful, not necessarily because she is wealthier than he is.

...And I sense he needs to up his game and work on his self-esteem... That kinda includes you OP.

Marrying a woman financially better than one is, doesn't mean that will always be the case. With determination and unity of purpose, the husband can even become financially better (Ask Fela Durotoye).

Conclusion: Ignore the topic, and marry that good woman regardless of her financial stautus if her character is pure gold. Most evil and saucy ladies don't have a dime to their name... Same for men too.