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Hi Guys,

I is really interesting reading abt this here on NL. I have just started an online masters deg program on Purchasing and supply chain management(PSCM), with a UK university, and from what i have read so far, i am sure i am going to enjoy it. And they are also accredited with CIPS.

Thanks

naija_swag:
boring in Ph,unless u dont have some money to spend.that city rocks.

That is why she needs peeps to take her out, she wouldn't know how interesting it could be by sitting at home.

The.King:
I know i made the right choice. See, when u are truely led by the Spirit of of God, u can't go wrong.

Bros, there are many spirit-led peeps this days o, i know of one that didn't make it to the altar. e be like say d spirit lead am go a different direction 1 week to the wedding day.

pro01:
^^^ ask your mum who's your true father. I bet you look like his best friend. Twack.

, lwkmd, now i am convinced, i bet u just found out who your real father is, na wa o, y she do like dat na? hmmm sorry o,

O king:
Bros you have a big problem o!but i think your underlying fear is psychological.i have this feeling that a woman in your life you once trust or respected cheated that is why you have this morbid fear of going thru the same thing.but nevertheless,if you take the statistics of married men and women who cheat that of men is higher(60 to 40%) (check this site http://www.womansavers.com/Cheating-Infidelity-statistics.asp). so how come the women are not complaining more? in this life,NOTHING is ever certain. but that does not mean that we should not do in life what needs to be done at each stage in life.If you refused to move forward in life cos of one fear or the other,u cant achieve anything(getting married is a stage in life you MUST reach) you just have to have faith and strong belief in God.

This was the same thought that went through my mind also.

@OP did ur mum cheat? is that why you are so bitter?

6. Wouldn't you rather be with a girl whose lifestyle you understand well from her pics (abroad based girls) as opposed to someone who pretends to be holy but is a total LovePeddler (naija based gals)?

Babe, i am still trying to understand what u are insinuating in this statement, how does your picture show your character? or the way u live ur life?just because you live abroad, it suddenly makes you a better person? obviously, its not just your brother that needs to change d way of thinking, u need to work on yours too.

Am just me:
Pls leaders of 2mrw try 2 b checking your english

@Poster; uv probably bin cheating on her or perharps there is no trust btw u 2 else give her your password n let her read al comments uv bin giving on NL. Ladies have 2 trust their men enuf b4 they can let em be.

U wey de talk say make person de check english, u don check ur own? Please check your spellings, before you criticize another person's own,

Hello Dr. Kathy, Its really wonderful discovering this thread and what you are doing for people. May God Bless you. Anyways pls i have a little issue.

I recently noticed that i was lactating during my last ovulation, very little though, on my right breast. Please i want to know if that is normal, as i am not pregnant, and i havent done any D&C, in fact i have never done any D&C before in my life.

I just got a bit worried, please what do you think? is it normal? Thanks.

Monogram Doctor:
Sure, your boss who is a married man did that attempt because of your mode of dressing.

Let us tell ourselve the simple truth, "the way you dress will determine the way you will be address".

Good, you might say that the man has no self control. I agree with you. But let me ask you this simple question. Have you seen where they put monkey and banana together and nothing happen to it.

In a nutshell, the man saw your expose body and thought that you are one of them.

Who is to be blame?

Lets learn to dress well always.

Are you listening to yourself? This is a work place we are talking about and not a hang-out or a club. I dress formal to work, skirt suit, or trouser suit like every other girl he has 'chased' there, so mode of dressing has absolutely nothing to do with it, a he-goat is always a he-goat, even if you are a stick with a hole somewhere on your body. I don't know what you mean by exposed body, please could u kindly explain that. thank you.

Monogram Doctor:
Sweetmum, you didnot tell us the whole truth so that we men make know what to advice.

All the same, I am telling you that if you are not interested in your boss you will not know that your boss is interested in you.

I don't agree with u there, I am passing through the same thing with my boss and trust me i am not interested. In my case he is an elderly man with big kids and he does everything possible to have his way with me. There was a time he was so mean to me in the office, just cos i told him i can only see him as a father, and not as he wants. if i greet him sometimes, he wouldn't answer me, shouts at me at any given opportunity. Right now, he has realized that showing all that behavior will not change me, so he tries to be extra nice now, still having the hope that one day it will happen.

So my dear, whether u show signs of interest or not, it wont stop the man from disturbing you.

THE AMAKA:
[color=#ff1199]what's with all these senseless threads? and if you were to open this, why not in the celebrities section? SHIOR!!!
anyway the guy has been married for at least 4 years now.
name is Chinedu I. . . something.[/color]

i hear d marriage didn't last, heard d girl left him, don't know how true tho'

@ OP, Omo i no understand d kind relationship wey u get o, abi u de do other things wey u never tell us? Just cos u come on NL, she vex so teeeeyyy she break lappie, very soon now she go tell u say make u no de hang out wiv friends again, if u no gree, she go break ur leg, by d time una go marry, come old, every thing wey u get for don break finish,

but come o, e be like say u get money sha, na y she de do like dat, as she don see say u buy anoda lappie, she go soon break am again, get ready.

But seriously speaking, that is not a healthy relationship, there is no trust. and without trust, hmmm, i reserve my comment.

leaderone:
Good evening all,

i've been following your discussion for a while and would like to say that it has been both informative and refreshing, keep up the Good work.

i strongly believe Obj did what was best at the time, its unfortunate things are falling apart.

I am trying to understand what you are saying, that what OBJ did by choosing a successor for a country based on whatever reasons he had is better than allowing the people of the country vote whomever they think its best for them.

I think that is bullsh!t, He should have just allowed the Nigerian people to vote for themselves.


If only Donald Duke was allowed to be prsident, i bet you we would be having this conversation.

for companionship, security(financial n emotional), procreation.

its not all dat,
how do u dance to this? abi na to dance like oyibo? , cant really get the lyrics either.

i think it should be trust, understanding, tolerance and patience on both parts. cos when the novelty of the love fades away and reality sets in, with these attributes, the marriage will be just fine.

Thank you so much every one that has contributed. this has been so educating.

@OP,
Please please please, beware of some people o, the world is very deep now, so many things are happening even under your nose.

I heard of a story that happened in port Harcourt recently. A woman used to leave her baby with her neighbor( a young sweet lady)whenever she is going out or a bit busy in the house she would leave her baby with her. What she didn't know was that this lady on her own part was seeing one man staying somewhere abroad. They met online, the man came down to naija, and saw her, but said that before he proceeds with the marriage the woman has to take in. Obviously they did what is supposed to be done and he went back. he still communicated with the lady, she told him she was pregnant, and after a while she told him she had given birth. Now what she was doing was that any time dis woman drops her baby with her, she will be busy snapping the child, n sending pictures over to the man as the baby she had given birth to, for him. Even when they chat with a web-cam, she would show him the baby. He kept on sending down cash for the up-keeps of both 'mother' and child while preparing to come down to marry the woman, and carry his 'family'. He came home to naija, saw the lady d first day and of course with the baby, d woman as usual had gone out. The next day he came back, d lady was not there, but he saw the woman with her baby sitting in front of the house, he carried the baby, played a bit with him, and asked the woman where the 'mother ' of the child was, the woman told him that she was the mother, n the man is like, what? this is my child, and bla bla is her mother, she gave birth to him for me. And all hell was let loose, the woman called her husband from work to come and hear. that was when the man knew the truth. And the woman found out what had been going on, and this man was going to arrange to take the lady and the baby. Now the question is what if this hadn't happened, that is how the woman would come back home one day and find d lady and her baby gone.

So my point is, the poster should not be too careless when it comes to her child o. Cos so many things are happening now.

As to the over friendliness, i think the lady should not use direct means to cut out d woman, cos its not everyone that will understand. she shd just get a lock for her door, lock her bedroom at all times. and try not to be in a bad rapport with her neighbour.

questions 4, 5 and 6 are just stupid, those are for teenagers.

Please fellow nairalanders, i need ur advice.

I work in a construction firm and its not a permanent job as the project we are handling is finishing soon. I have been able to save up a little bit and i want to start a business. I am a bit confused as to which one to start. If i go into buying and selling of clothes, shoes and accessories, i have realized from past experiences that most times there is plenty of credits involved unless u open a shop for it. A friend was suggesting registering a company name and handling company supplies. But like i said, i am a bit confused.

Please i would appreciate your advice.

thank you.

nas 00:
It depends.
If there's enuff evidence say d opposition kolo pass Yara dull, na to 'maintain' with Baba go slow for damage control.

But d [b]'aboki' has been more than a disappointment. [/b]
Gaskiya!

Shikena, on point

thanx a bunch, i will definitely try it. but do u think i can get sesame oil in naija? i really appreciate this, pls do u know of other ones?

ok, i am learning already, lol
so please which one will u teach me, thanks.

any of it o, it could be chicken, it could be beef. I tried one before, chicken curry sauce, and i want to learn more. I know about sweet and sour sauce, but i dont know how it is prepared.

Please can you share, if u do. thx.

Please, who can give me recipes for various chinese sauces as its not all the time one feels like eating stew with rice or potatoes, so please, ladies in the house, help out pls. thx.

Love was blind until it came across a very well skilled optician. And guess who that optician is? HURT! Now love sees twice as before.

WORD!!!!!

Hurt truly opens d eyes of love.

you forgot to add dat u pay 2000k every month.