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Jman06:
And how much is the partner and co-owner of the family bringing to the table

Op gives 100k just for food o. Children' school fees and house rent is not included in that 100k! Besides, it appears you didn't read where op said he has a project at hand that will increase the family's finances when it matures or you just want to type jargon in order to be seen as woke by appealing to the selfish women in this forum?

Op is doing more than enough for his family already with that 100k he gives for food. Some of you who are against the op are not even doing half of what he's doing for his family!

I don't know about having a wife at home...

But I feel 100k a month should be okay for food for such a family, they're not much and the children are still small, haba mana. This is Nigeria, and the times are not favourable to those even earning as much as OP. The couple should be proud and work together towards their future ....

Let's see..

HALF A BAG OF RICE: 25K
FULL PIG: 40K (or you could sometimes go for a portion of a ram or cow or buy a full goat. It'll last that family for more than a month, with their almost always not at home schedule)
DRIED CATFISH: 20k (could be more now. The last I bought at Liverpool in Apapa is still at home)
CRAYFISH, STOCKFISH, EGUSI, OGBONO, HAUSA LONG PEPPER: 35K (All from Liverpool Apapa)
On top of all these, I sometimes get fresh catfish anytime I need Banga soup or peppersoup. (Note that all the others could last more than a month, stretching to even two and three). Well, it still depends...

Still..

All these are if you want to be extravagant. I only buy staples and meat like stated above(I'm greedy for meat). The rest can be measured and you'll last for more than 3months spending less than that 100k a month on food. Provided you buy pepper and tomatoes in baskets, grind and refrigerate them (you'll be shocked at how much you can save if you do that).

Maybe it's because I'm not always home or we don't really eat much like other families..but I'm sure my daughter would've complained if it's not always enough. These days, I've gone crazy with okra, and I'll always buy and make it myself to mix with whatever soup is made at home.

After the major foodstuffs are made available, it'll take another 2-3months before meat is exhausted but rice and some other staples could take more than 3months before we finish them. So before I spend up to 100k on foodstuffs again in a month, it'll take that long. (Note that I hardly eat outside, except drinking peppersoup and buying kpomo and that's only when I'm where I get my voltage high )

So, what are they eating that will be taking more than 100k each month? At least for a period of time, that should hold the house, plus their children are not even grown...


But ...
I'm sure the real issue the OP's concerned with is not all these.

The woman has denied him sex and he feels he's doing his duty as a man and husband and deserves more affection which prolly includes mind-blowing sex.

Now, I saw people making a list of all the stresses they perceived the woman must be going through.

I'll say, the man should check again and see what he could do to reduce it and that's after speaking with his woman. Number one on my list is, I can't stress any woman with me with laundry (Not when I have the means). So he should fix that and maybe spare a little more for cleaning the house. (But if the man has plans to increase the family earnings and this could affect that project negatively, Ii feel he should call his woman and speak with her to get her understanding and cooperation). Yet, it depends on many other factors too..
Let's not talk about cooking (cos I tend to have something with any good female cook. So if I'm ever married, my woman better be the one making my food, else... No one can blame me, I like good food and those who make them. )

Then if this continues, ah, baba has finally achieved agbako.

The iya no longer finds him attractive or someone else is thoroughly farming on that land.

nepapole:
There is no love in the uk.

There is no serious person here... Weyrey ni everybody.

"The UK is too busy, lonely, depressing, and stressful."

He said that 👆

It's a secular world. Love has many meanings. Just people imposing their own meaning on others.

Even if the kingdom were to surface now, none of you would probably recognize it..

Since you guys don't even recognize the kingdom you pray and wish for is an alien one.... 👽

SMH

inoki247:
Av come to realize this Life is a Place we only came to die....


All the thing we think we gather on earth ambition all na cruise na everything death go colet....

The worst part death no dey look age face the Young ones are not immune to death likewise the old ones....







RiP Imole....

Fact...

Only to go through the same cycle again.

Life begets death...

Just two extremes. Existence and Inexistence...

Without one, the other won't be.

warrenweste:
Nice one but be careful of crocs 🐊

If it were this ancestor, I would welcome the crocs....

After all, I heard their peppersoup always makes front page on Nairaland...

Too much enjoyment...smh

dazzlingd:
Music comes in any form, a music doesn’t even have to have a lyrics to make meaning.
There’s no restriction in music and no compulsion to sing with lyrics either.
What will you say about Waka waka samina samina it’s time for Africa. Please what are the lyrics.
Even Michael Jackson song sometimes don’t carry much lyrics.
Even fela sometimes sings about bombom and sex
What of jazz? Is jazz not music and yet no lyrics

Lyrics is good, but it does not always define a good music

If you want lyrics, go and listen to poetry

Word ..

Sounds could even be chaotical brought together and still make some sort of sense.

Ever listen to frogs and crickets doing their yeye orchestra?

Majesty7:
Always playing the victim card. You called me names without talking to you nor me ruining your name. You are being scolded and you are now playing the victim card.

I am not a bad person and I am sorry if you feel offended by my words. Next time, learn to respect people's opinion. Life is short. Let's do what is RIGHT. Thank you

I really don't have the strength to feel offended by an anonymous moniker on an anonymous forum. Laziness no go gree me...

My saying "onigbese" was meant as a joke in the first place hence my even bothering to do small free advert for AB as I've patronized them once and became an onigbese (I wonder how you find this word offensive) . Today, I'm eligible for upwards 5-10m with the same bank but I'm not collecting as my business doesn't need such infusion of funds at the moment.

You're too serious brother....smh

Majesty7:
Who is onigbese in the real sense between you and I? I don't patronise them. I have their offers on my table requesting for funding. I don't do fraudulent activities neither do I encourage it.

You are the onigbese. The problem is your reasoning which obviously you lack. How can you manage a business when you don't even know who a debtor is? What a failure

Smh

Continue...

Majesty7:
You guys love to fool yourself. Nothing will happen. They are illegal and can't report shit. Forget about them. Wipe your contact from their system and live your life.

Onigbese spotted...

Can't say I know much about loan apps. If I ever needed another loan, AB always there to collect from..

Probably High Killer HBP..

Comes like a thief in the night. Strikes like a viper...

Before my heart go betray me and attack me, I go don die tey tey...

Family will now be home expecting mama, only to be brought this sad news...

Inside life...smh

Albinoflash:
just imagine,so me wey dey owe like 20 apps I no suppose breathe ba,na dem dey even beg me now ,dey have called my contacts no remedy,and recently I even observed they don't even give dem much airtime to call so dey always try to use the WhatsApp call,I dey pity dem sha but naija is just something else at the moment,and we gats survive by every means available.even my contacts dem understand d situation fear no let anybody even ask me howfa unless u get the money to give me

Onigbese number one .

Nigerians and this loan thing, e get as e be. Zero credit worthiness.

Those guys have your BVN and will be watching your account. The day small osusu mistake find its way to any account linked to your BVN, hahahaha...

You for kukuma use the loan run small arbitraging o. At least hope for dey to survive and pay back...

And you people should not abandon everything after pictures have been taken o.

This went ahead to build "a tunnel like passage".....smh

He don create location for boys to use do hideout

iamtardey:
investors… epl no be magic dudes

Investors money ke?

Abeg no dey play...

Money wey d awon werey don pack give all those small girls socialites finish?

Nigerian football still far from that. Even our own tiwan tiwan players no go gree come back house come play. Let alone the big boys for EPL and others.

You wan turn awon omolomo to cripple for life. NPFL go jhus render them useless even for small muscle pull ...

Albinoflash:
Just imagine ooo, because of loan app person dey commit suicide,even federal government dey owe gbese..dat person corpse should be exhumed and caned for wasting a soul for nothing

If I had the means, people like this are among those I'll resurrect, make them pay for the loan even if it's to enslave them, then I'll kill them myself..

Padipadi:
Ok. This things are kinda real. The one I wanna know is if ghosts are real. As in those called Akudaiya that died before and went somewhere to start another life.

An energy body that retains any sort of character/attribut after any form of disembodiment.

As for reincarnation. OP is probably correct with the energy conservation and conversion talk. All forms of energy is always recycled, split (and who knows if there's a way we're currently unawares of where energy is born from nothingness ).

But I still hold that very few instances exists where the recycle will let anyone retain any memories or traits or mark.
Seen first hand the mark aspect of these recycling talk.

But whether a former trait or mark is retained or not, all energy will always pass through this processes, oftentimes coming out with several other atoms added or removed. But at the end of the day The Recycling Has Happened

pyyxxaro:
The caption should be

BUSINESS MAN MARRIES 7 UGLY WOMEN 😝😏

Beauty they say, lies in the eyes of the BEER HOLDER

Oh, okay..

So how many billion dollars entered this app creation? Like those that came before it: DOA

Something that could've been left for each DISCOs to handle individually and according to their territory of operation....

Awon oni yéyé...

iamtardey:
make we sef dey buy big big player from epl like the arabs

With which money?

Ladymillion:
they have your BVN no which ensures you repay the amount borrowed

Why would anyone even take a loan they're not confident of paying back in the first place?

One must fully understand the plus and minus of their life before doing such. Unless you plan to escape and abandon any financial transaction with every financial institutions that will require your data.

Unless you want to do like my neighbors daughter. Took so much from MFBs and left for Mauritius.... That girl has always been a hard baller,....smh

donleo92:
I don't owe.....

and I detest borrowing, I prefer to make do with what I have.

Get the feeling...

You're like my royal self. But when my business needed a push, AB came to the rescue.

Paid before 8months though and the people been enticing me with 5m loan, but I currently don't need any.

charsoso:
I personally know someone that committed suicide because of one of these loan apps. It's not a joke

On top ordinary loan app matter?

When most of these pur women dey boldly owe LAPO and escape....

That person na needs to be resurrected and killed again..

These doomsday sayers as you call them are probably right.

Right in the sense that no civilization lasts forever. Time will either finish us all, or we find ourselves being dealt with by the aliens this guys worship... .
But I'm confident that our current civilization has not gotten to its peak not to talk of dwindling, we're still on the upward flow. Unless the aliens they always pray to cut the days short.. . Or man could foolishly trigger a global evolution in a direction that the Laws/Nature/Existence would make sure man as we know it is completely eradicated.... And completely replaced....

Even at that, this daddy would be long dead before then....

The bible says the earth will remain forever even after generations of civilization has come and gone. Don't know, I personally don't agree anything can remain forever except the Almighty Ever-Present Energy ....

It's all a huge what ifs at the end of it all, with zero certainly...smh

Basicend:
Another endangered specie, about to be teared to ashes by a daughter of eve.

If the situation is not longer favoring or adapting to their game-plan, they switch-on their victim mode and destroy the partner by all means.

We are still trying to get over Spanish FA president matter and Mason Greenwood, then this. .

Women in the West seems to be over-empowered and are spontaneously mis-using that privilege as expected. .

The sad truth is, what she says to the media, is not always what she says when she is alone with the dude. .

Women these days and oversabi be like Tinubu and Amala. Worst is, it's his fellow men that are now treating his fvcckup...smh

Yet, I find it funny that they're linking it all to his career. Abeg, what's the connection?

Who knows the kind provocation involved? She'll probably deny any sort of responsibility.

Yet, I can't find it in me to support abuse of anyone, woman or not. Relationship he could use the chance to abandon, the big boy is a yeye child.

AllenSpencer:
Can imagine the money lost tonight!

Less than 1% envisaged Israel’s defeat.

Cannot even explain how he lost! After that lunch that got him, dude just went into defensive.

See you,

I'm still wondering how he manages to beat people. With that his cowardly tactics..

Israel too dey fear blow. When I was younger, I could've beaten him ten out of ten...

Now, I'm very lazy ...

I like the boy sha, I hope he comes back strong and claim back his title from the coward that stole it...

AllenSpencer:
Can imagine the money lost tonight!

Less than 1% envisaged Israel’s defeat.

Cannot even explain how he lost! After that lunch that got him, dude just went into defensive.

See you,

I'm still wondering how he manages to beat people. With that his cowardly tactics..

Israel too dey fear blow. When I was younger, I could've beaten him ten out of ten...

Now, I'm very lazy ...

I like the boy sha, I hope he comes back strong and claim back his title from the coward that stole it...:p

Chochovini:
Any speaker in tongue that‘s not the Holy Spirit that‘s leading Him or her is merely blasting nonesense. No apology.

Any tongue that does not have an interpreter is a mere cacophonous Noise. Again, No apology.
Ok, Check this out;- what really is
“bababababababa-yayayayayaya-mamamamama RUBISH.
Which tribe on the Earth speaks like that if I may ask?

You people fail to understand even your Bible.

When the apostles of HighPriest Jesus spoke in tongues, there happened to be people of other languages understanding that it's their native language that was being spoken. It wasn't the meaningless gibberish you people speak this days.

No spirit involved, just arrogance and eye service.

Everytime you people make this same mistake...

Nothing sinful in intercourse between two consenting adults.

Society has made you people see something quite natural as a sin. Your biology and nature says otherwise. Deal with it..

MaxInDHouse:
Madness doesn't mean the brain is dead it simply means malfunctioning of the brain so a madman or madwoman will continue to say what has been programmed in their brains.
To know how sound they are it's not about what they are saying but ability to work in line with what they're saying, of course an insane can only mimick what has been programmed in his brain he can't do anything to prove he knows exactly what he's saying that's why James said faith without works is DEAD! James 2:18-26

Not always...

You've not really seen real madness. You'll even be forced to agree that they're operating on a separate dimension... SMH

We grew up in the ghettos of Lagos in those years, we've seen confirmed real mad people, no earlier programming involved in their performance...

It's maybe the subconscious taking over.. as we all know, the subconscious is erratically crazy...

Morning Max

BobbieZion:
Nigeria's economy defies arithmetics.
Foreign exchange.

Our own always different.

Nigeria is not normal...

Umahi advices Peter Obi?

Will he listen?

No. Why?

Probably cos HighChief Umahi is not a madman... Heard the bugger only takes advice from madmen..

Everyone knows the judiciary is almost non-existent in this country. Ogbuehi PO should keep quiet and let the ThugLord run the country the way he sees fit. After all, ogbuehi PO is not any different from him.

Btruth:
Go boys. I knew with diligent Intel, this Boko boys will be defeated by God's grace. God will see you lots through in Jesus name 🙏

Dey play....

No terrorist group can operate with this much success without the government's permission.

Unless you still continue to believe the lie that the BH boys are better armed than the NA.

There's illegal business going on wherever there's this so called insurgency. And only eediots will permit such nonsense in their territory.

TheBillyonaire:
The Judgement was written by Tinubu Legal Team and submitted to the Presidential Election Petition Tribunal panel to read.

They were paid off handsomely.

I hope Tinubu succeeds, I wish him well. Now I know crime pays, and not every criminal can be caught . Peter Obi needs to understand that Good can only defeat evil with a tint of entropy. There is need for the good to wage war for liberation of a people

Fact of life...

The man's like a demigod, a true untouchable.. if you know,you know.

Where have you been this man? Not been seeing your comments.

Morning.