joseph1832: Lol. Take it easy. You didn't end the ashawo beer parlor thread, trolls did, except you're admitting you're the troll behind those account that contributed to the end of that thread.
Beside, I don't believe crackhaus is a redpiller. Neither do I believe you chased him away from here. Lol
larride: The only question here is that if the shooter was on the roof, who killed him? Secret Service? There's no report yet about who gunned down the shooter, just that the shooter is dead.
EreluRoz: beefy indeed, I know a nairalander who has this type of body and he's not a teenager. Please go and get fit and trim down and stop making excuses for your potbelly like crackhaus and qtguru
Fucking them, this I get. But wifing them? I mean, I get confused.
Of course, not all turn out to be bad choices... But not nearly enough to erase the bias.
Damn, even when a good majority of single women are walking bags of brokenness, hurt, and unresolved issues from bad relationships with ex boyfriends, it's now the one that added a child(ren) to the equation that'll be better?
Omo, the math can't math abeg. It's just gonna be psychological issues multiplied.
I'm just glad that more news like this keep coming out. Many women are not as innocent as they love to claim.
Remain small, Nigerian women who have been doing these things with their nephews, younger cousins, and young neighbours will soon be exposed. Dem plenty!!! 😅
Worryingly: Because i learnt it may be a chromosomal issue, so I'm trying to consider all possible causes. The doctors said as long as I'm taking in though, then its not from my husband. But I'm a bit concerned that they are not recommending any test for him as pregnancy is a fusion of both man and woman
I see.
It could be possible you know something that the doctors, with all their training and experience, don't know yet.
Meghan Markle has Nigerian ancestry. In one episode of her podcast Archetypes, the Duchess revealed that she discovered she is 43% Nigerian based on a genealogy test she took in the past.
No wonder she exhibits 43% Nigerian women behavior...
Worryingly: Yes. He was also advised to take Reload for Men. Just incase it's an issue with him, even though the doctors disagree
You're getting pregnant and having miscarriages, please explain how you still suspect the issue is with your husband... Perhaps I'm missing something 🤔
Seun: It's called consensus decision making. It breaks down in large groups, but it works if the group is small. A marriage consisting of a man and a woman is small enough for consensus decision making to work as long as each party is reasonable and wants the other party to also succeed. For the sake of harmony, the husband's wishes take priority in some areas and the wife's wishes take priority in other areas.
I think you have it mixed up.
Consensus decision making works best in large groups where the majority can win a vote. In a group consisting of two people, you can't have a consensus when both parties have opposing ideas. At best, what you'll have is a compromise.
In marriage, it becomes an issue of who should compromise more and in what situation. You captured the essence of 'compromise' in your last sentence.
Valoromega: I've been married for 2 years now with a new born baby. the issue now is that anytime we have issues my wife always threatens to leave. she will arrange and bag and say she's leaving. this has happened more tha 4 times, basically anytime we have issues as a couple.
She will say she's still young and she can't take any nonsense in marriage, Mind u i have never hit her before so this isnt a case of domestic violence, just normal couples issue.
I'm tired of this and i'm thinking about my options right now, I want to tell her to leave but she should drop my child for me. she can't use our marriage as a threat everytime we have issues
RepoMan007: 1. how will competwncy be established when vocatuon of both partner doesnt cover such issue? 2. your example of accountant managing finance is not appropriate. in marriages with no accountant, who manages it? besides accounting is centred around book and record keeping and not administratìon.
Kelechi009: Go in peace ke?! No oh, I am not a preacher of love, I am not here to preach love at all.
I am not trying to correct you, I am here to tell you that you're mentally deranged, you both should get your head checked in the psychiatric wards.
Mental illness is YOU trying to quote a text from a book you do not believe in, a book you hate & despise, a book you believe is a myth but you constantly quote it. You must be really CRAZY!
If you know you are not a BASTARD, refrain from this mentally ill behaviour.
FatherCHRISTMAS: Let her be. I like her that way. You have to be an atheist to understand truth. The moment you are able to hit atheism, that means you are no longer following blindly. That's means you are on the path to discovering truth. You cant find truth without first questioning the age old teachings
Kobojunkie: 1. The Bible does no such thing as you claim there. Rather, Paul and Peter, both of whom lived in the Land of Canaan, during the time that was the Last Days of God's Judgement against the Nation of Israel(and Judah) under the Law of Moses, for reasons best known to them chose to assert the stance of the Old Law of Moses where married women are concerned. Jesus Christ, God's New Law, however, made it abundantly clear that in the Kingdom of God
▶ Marriage is of the world of men and not of the Kingdom of God - Luke 20 vs 34 - 36. This is to echo the fact that God Himself cursed marriage from the beginning(Genesis 3 vs 16) and that which is cursed cannot be of the Kingdom of God. ▶ There is only one head over a man and a woman in His Kingdom, and He alone is that Head/Teacher/Authority/Master - Matthew 23 vs 8 - 10 ▶ All men and women in His Kingdom are equaled (No hierarchies) exist in His Kingdom- Matthew 23 vs 8 - 10 ▶ There are no blessings in the Kingdom of God on those who choose marriage; only those who chose to live as Eunuchs have God's special blessings - Matthew 19 vs 11 - 12 ▶ Those among the women who would choose to have children should weep for themselves and their children for it is those of them who would live as Eunuch(and the barren among them) that are blessed by God - Luke 23 vs 27 - 23
This can't be normal
None of the passages you quoted here said those things you attached to them. Not a single one.
And which Paul and Peter lived in the land of Canaan?
UjuJoan2: Nobody is the HEAD. Husband and wife are co-captains, and each have their own roles to fulfill, both equally important.
It’s easy to say people should defer in area where they are not competent, but what if you married a know it all? Who thinks they always knows what is best for the family?
Conflicts will certainly arise, and it’s only fair for women to defer to men if they refuse to listen (which for me is out of respect for their age, since most husbands are older than their wives, not because they are men). But if a man consistently makes bad choices, and refuses to listen to reason all the time, then the woman has every right to reject his decision.
EreluRoz: Nobody is dragging head with any man but let them be head in it's complete sense by providing and making sure his wife and family lives a luxurious life else the head will be dragged the moment they start demanding their wives contribute financially.
Women are created to enjoy their life and care for her home but modern men have successfully pushed women into hustling and providing financially which is why we record more divorce in this generation than the older generation.
Men should safeguard being the head or ready to share the head.