₦airaland Forum

CHoccolaTE:
Lmao, god abeg oo, so because somebody didn't accept you for who you are, and kept demanding more from you now means you should go overboard and start deceiving yourself that you and biological women are the same?

This your post only goes further to prove how unhinged trans people are.

WhisperedNoise:
Interesting arguments.
Call me transphobic but I think it's a mental challenge for someone to identify as another gender.

ahnie:
You don tire abii J?
Abeg leave me joor.

sisisioge:
We met when we were both getting inducted into a professional body like that. At that stage, age brackage was mostly plus or minus two....it was safe to match cos we finished school same year and had a lot in common. He is all taller and more advance too . Besides, when the age discussion came up, I told him mine and guy conveniently agreed its same birth year. I wasnt really into him then but we were always in and out of each other's lives. All the while, I had been vocal about not liking that kind of relationships whenever discussed it....funny, he was always asking me . Then when we got really seriously, he woke me in the middle of the night to confess. It was a big deal for me.

ahnie:
Lolz
The gladators are here
The free advise above really cracked me up.

angelfallz:
Lol, at least virgins are scarce not that there are no more virgins. I would be among those that would marry one of the scarce virgins.

CHoccolaTE:
Yes, its me indeed ooo

I might be feminist but trans ideology is something I will never support.

Gosh234:
While discussing with my woman last night , I was assuring her how much I love her irrespective of anything then I pointed out the two above incidence
To my greatest surprise she became angry eith me
In her words
a) She detest dating underage, how she found herself in this mess she can't tell

b) I should go ahead and tell my mum and elder brother (they just talk via phone) and even all my friends

c) I make her look desperate, that she is loosing interest already

d) I insulted her and she can't trust me again

NOTE
a) I promised her that no one will know of the age difference even if they know she is older

b) I never mentioned her age to these people or the age gap

My crime is that I admitted that she is older and I am proud and love her wholeheartedly

I don't see this working out again
I feel so belittled
Gosh

sisisioge:

You guys will not kill me. It is a sensitive matter for her....bad enough that she got into it without knowing, worse that you're discussing it with your friends. I remember mistakenly dating a guy who is 2yrs younger. We are in the same professional space and he is way better than me. We had been at this date me I no date you I date you briefly for about 8yrs before he came clean with the age difference thing to me. It was mad o....I just dont like the idea of being older than him even though it didnt seem so and I never suspected for 8years! The moment he told me, I just wasnt really interested anymore. Yes it is silly but it is what it is.

Biko stop discussing the matter with people...she sef should stop dating children . Sorry, had to throw that punch in so you could see how it feels

Em222:
I am a graduate but lost my job so am struggling to come back to my real self so I need a working class or real time bussiness woman who will help me to come back let's build a home together I am a litle bit fair tall handsome youngman in my early 30s so am looking for a serious woman within the age range of 27 to 42 to marry lets start making kids no much time so if u r interested u can call me or chat me let's discuss I am serious about this 08164084891

bukatyne:
My dear Choco Choco, is this you?

Fantastic submission especially the last paragraph.

truthsayer009:
The funniest part of this whole discourse are Nigerians who move abroad for a 2 year postgraduate and start forming support for all this groups. In my head, I am like ahn ahn, Amaka you that just travelled 2 months ago, you have started adding rainbow flags to your BIO and preaching support for trans. They want to feel among & quickly throw their culture away to the dirt just to feel westernised.

A big reason why I can never bring up my kids in the US, their legs are never going close to that country. Europeans are a little conservative in those areas.

bukatyne:
Happy new year.

Where have you been?

Karleb:
Normal definition:

Someone born naturally with the female genitals, boobs and virgina. Someone with the XX chromosome.

Trans Definition.

Someone who identifies as a woman. What does she identifies as? A woman. What is that?

Then they go into a endless loop of circular definition.


To the trans if you believe in your mind that you are a woman, then you are a woman irrespective of your natural gender. You just happen to be in the wrong body.

Ishilove:
If I believe I'm a zebra, that means I'm a zebra.

Got it.

Kobojunkie:
It matters a while lot.

Getting well "naturally" means not having to take any artificial concoctions, not even agbo in order to recover from a situation. Needing to take drugs and injections in order to get well means your recovery was facilitated by the medications, not natural.

Karleb:
Yes. You didn't get well naturally.

Because you took artificial drugs.

Tonero5200:
I would respect them more if they come out to say it's ivf

Merxi:
Good evening everyone, I need your candid opinion as I am about to return my proposal ring to my husband to be. We plan on traveling out of the country next year after getting married. All of a sudden he has been insisting on us not having a court wedding. He just wants us to do traditional wedding and that’s all!…I have tried to change his mind but he is really adamant about it. This is someone I have been dating for close to 6 years

NoToPile:
Mr crakkhaus

Where have you been.

opeyy:
Whilst it is true that men are the biggest hypocrites of all time, that lady doing that is disgusting! Even if I was in a complete stranger's house and an older, even sister/brother, not to speak of mother, was sweeping, I would most definitely take over!! Common, this is basic home training!

We should not lose ourselves because other people are not acting right. Two wrongs don't ever make a right. Don't let anybody turn you into who you're not, it is not worth it. Always stay true to yourself and be on your best behaviour by doing what you know is sensible and the right thing to do.

descarado:
Where have you been?
Happy new year,crackhaus.

Gerrard59:
Has OP tried Northern Nigerian Christian females? The ones raised in Adamawa, Taraba, Sokoto, Kaduna, Plateau, Gombe, Bauchi? My hypothesis is that due to the general conservatism in the region (Islam is a very conservative religion), they are not too "open eye" like their Southern counterparts. They don't easily follow social media trends. Check all the hashtags of social media trends, I have not seen a video from a Christian female raised in Northern Nigeria. From Buga challenge to that of Beyonce or those during the Covid-19 lockdown. Also, I don't know any Northern Nigerian Christian female who is a popular feminist, offline or online. Due to circumstances surrounding being a Christian in the region, they hold steadfastly to the Christian faith. You rarely meet a fairweather Christian who was born and bred in Northern Nigeria. From the tales about Nigerian women being peddled online, there have been little to no descriptions and stories about the females in the north, Christian or Muslim.

In summary, for you to find a homely, dedicated, traditional, western-educated wife who is a Christian, head to Northern Nigeria.

UjuJoan2:


I have experience. When you’ve been married as long as I have you need to be creative with your arguments

UyaiIncomparabl:
The both of them!

The mother for having an entitlement mentality.

And the son for not being well trained by his mother to have collected the broom from her to sweep rather aided his mom to fuel her entitlement mentality!