TV/Movies › Re: Games Of Thrones: House Of The Dragon Official Discussion Thread by crackhaus: 8:48pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
KanwuliaExtra: First of all VT is a man of free will. He already knows he can’t win with his daughter or with Daemon. Both are major threats to his throne.
If Allison is his daughter’s best friend nko?  That 12 year old is totally out of the question. VT has related with Allison for a while and had come to feel comfortable in her company. Allison is more woman than the “child-bride”.
Most importantly, VT knows his daughter will catch H-ell as heiress. Without a son, his legacy is in jeopardy.
Yup! Too bad. But he made the WISEST DECISION.
Rhaenyra may be a tomboy, but she is still FEMALE. No female can survive that Targaryen male chauvinist madness o. Ask Daenerys Targaryen(Mama DROGO). John Snow took her out when she became too hot too handle(bed mates or not).
The Targaryens at very good at 2 thing.
1. Inbreeding. 2. Eliminating themselves. Wo, we go soon see the result of this his WISE DECISION...  He obviously learnt absolutely nothing from the old king Jahaerys whose WISDOM is the only reason he (VT) became king in the first place. |
Family › Re: Marriage In This Economy by crackhaus: 3:00pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
You guys are funny.
Here's a young woman who desires to have something doing for herself before venturing into a marriage and becoming a burden on a man, and y'all are encouraging her to not have personal ambitions.
Na wa... |
TV/Movies › Re: Games Of Thrones: House Of The Dragon Official Discussion Thread by crackhaus: 2:24pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
aieromon: No peace here please 
You're right about the path of least resistance. Let's blame the king's grandfather and all the Lords who voted for Viserys to be made king at the expense of his much older female cousin.
Once again, no peace allowed. Vawulence is what I myself came to witness on this show anyways... I'm with you  |
Romance › Re: Does it make sense to go on dates as a Nigerian man by crackhaus: 1:39pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
tensazangetsu20: At the bolded yeah definitely but we are talking of the vast majority of Nigerian men that are ugly handsome guys still get sex without paying for anything. A mutual friend of ours had a lady pay his flight ticket so he could come to Abuja for sex but this guy is handsome. Bro, a lot of times it has absolutely nothing to do with how handsome the man is. Some men simply know how to "work" a woman's emotions enough to have her desiring/wanting him without the need to stress him out. |
Romance › Re: Does it make sense to go on dates as a Nigerian man by crackhaus: 1:32pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
tensazangetsu20: I have this friend who called me today telling me that he's done with dating. He just got a graduate trainee role at GT and he said going out on dates and getting to know women et al aren't looking funny on his finances that he's just gonna go visit prostitutes whenever he has the urge and since he's so busy at work or with work he's only gonna be able to go maybe once a week or once in two weeks and this got me thinking does it make sense to date as a Nigerian man?
Let's say you earn 150k a month. A typical outing in Lagos could set you back by at least 10k and that's just to meet and know each other and hang out. Now imagine doing that 3 times a week. These frivolous outings that guarantee nothing to you could pretty much be eating up all your salary if you aren't careful at all.
There are men that do get sex without spending or going on dates but these are like the top 1 percent of Nigerian men probably by looks or social status considering that the vast majority of Nigerian men are ugly (I inclusive) does dating make sense for a Nigerian man? Datings are just one part of it the extreme energy and time it takes to keep up a relationship is also something else entirely. Thank God for me oo...  I honestly can't remember ever going on a real date with a "prospective" girlfriend/fvck buddy in the past, I very rarely did that and I can count on just one hand how many of them I had to take out first before we got close. The trick is, and like I always say, ONLY/ALWAYS choose women who have chosen you as well... This is very important cos it just makes everything go easier & smoother. Even if you have to take her out, you won't feel pressured into doing too much and she wouldn't mind. Afterwards though, it's quite necessary to go on outings every once in a while with your confirmed partner/gf/wife. Nor go dey do pass yourself unto say you wan win any daughter of Jezebel... Abeg o! |
TV/Movies › Re: Games Of Thrones: House Of The Dragon Official Discussion Thread by crackhaus: 1:13pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
KanwuliaExtra: Hmmmmm! Awon ti de o! See as Daemon dey melt at the sight of Rhaenyra. Even tbe Rhaenyra no get shame too. Which kain “dragon egg” she go collect for midnight? 
The chemistry between them is a already a global phenomenon.
Can’t wait to see how this all plays out. Glad the V.T. (abeg dem names too hard to write- I will abbreviate jehely) did not pick Lord Velaryon’s 12 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER as “ replacement wife”! The old man would have waited TWO GOOOOOOD YEARS to “YERIMA” her.  With all those diabetic sores that won’t heal on his body?
Tueh! Putting everything in consideration, this would have been the wise/preferred decision... At least to guarantee peace. Picking Alicent Hightower (his daughter's best friend) as a wife was/is actually the start of the crisis that's about to commence on this series.  Totally bad play on the King's part. |
Celebrities › Re: Deleted Birthday Photo:kate Henshaw Displeased Over Judy Austin Action by crackhaus: 10:00pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Rozross: I wonder why a fellow woman will knowingly cause another to be unhappy. Once I noticed your marital status I avoid you like a plaque ( ask crackhaus � ), I’ll rather remain single than cause harm and damage to a home. My heart goes out to May Yul Edochie and as for husband snatcher Judy, she can never be happy in that marriage, she should right her wrong by taking her L and beg May Yul Edochie for forgiveness Is this how to avoid someone? Mumu...  |
Family › Re: Dear Husband, Are You Sure You Are The Daddy Of Your Children? by crackhaus: 7:48pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
Regex: I won't do it secretly. As he is being born, we will check it, and still go other places and do it. I trust you... |
Family › Re: My Sister Is Draining Me Financially by crackhaus: 3:58pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
Chidiesta: I am not a fan of boarding school I want her to attend a day school and with my friend so I can video/ call her anytime I want so she won't feel left out You see that option about putting her in a boarding school, that is the best solution honestly... and this is coming from someone who has had a personal experience with stuff like this. During holidays, she can go stay with your friend, not your sister anymore because your sis won't be happy that you took the child out of her house in the first place. As for having access to your kid, you can make arrangements with the management of the school to suggest times during the week when they can allow you have video calls with your kid. They will allow it. Good luck. |
Family › Re: Dear Husband, Are You Sure You Are The Daddy Of Your Children? by crackhaus: 3:49pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
Cuterboy: Women tend to pick offences when you try to do DNA. A man will want to preserve his family by not breaking the trust Do it secretly if you have doubts, there's no excuse good enough to not do it. |
Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by crackhaus: 8:00pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
Na wa...  |
TV/Movies › Re: What Series Are You Watching Now? Part 2 by crackhaus: 4:42pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
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TV/Movies › Re: What Series Are You Watching Now? Part 2 by crackhaus: 4:28pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
GloriousGbola: every time i do it, it fails.
i am tired.
show us your ways o wise one  [img] *insert gif link* (has to end with .gif)[/img] I don't do anything more. |
TV/Movies › Re: What Series Are You Watching Now? Part 2 by crackhaus: 4:12pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
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TV/Movies › Re: What Series Are You Watching Now? Part 2 by crackhaus: 2:37pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
Faboosuarez: Why is Noone talking about the fact that those clowns court just poisoned Viserys, that scene where he banished his brother and he was sitting on the iron throne, he scrapped his hand on something. dude is weak just like daemon said A throne made of swords, and you think it's unusual to get cuts sitting on it once in a while? |
Family › Re: . by crackhaus: 2:31pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
Please wait for a man you will be physically attracted to. It won't be hard, lots of attractive men around.
I'm saying this on behalf of that man though, he shouldn't be with someone who will end up thinking she did him a favour by marrying him.
I wish I could talk some sense into him. |
Family › Re: Why do women turn men who declines there advances to enemies. by crackhaus: 1:42pm On Aug 27, 2022*. Modified: 2:57pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
oldienavie: I have got turned down by women sometimes in the past and never had a problem becoming friends with those women.
But almost all the women I have turned down or attempted to friendzone when they attempt to date me have resulted into a sort of cold war.
The latest is a very good female friend, who attempted to pair me with her younger sister. At first I was considering the sister and was making moves and advances, but the sister was very cocky and rather "proud" so I moved on mentally and would only check up on her occasionally.
Now the sister is in full pursuit mode, literally doing everything to get my attention and wanting us to date, I have codedly let her know I am not interested in anything more than friendship.
I never toasted this lady in question I only discussed with her elder sister about the possibility of dating her and the elder sister linked us. Now that I have moved on, the elder sister who used to be my very good friend seemed to have gotten the message and she has been rather cold towards me.
So why is it so difficult for women to accept rejection from men ? This depends on the personality of the woman. I'm still very good friends with at least four chics that had wanted something serious with me in the past, but I didn't want/take them serious past the FWB zone. There are some women however who by some devil's possession think too highly of themselves (especially when there's nothing particularly exceptional about them). These are the ones that have a hard time accepting their L and staying cordial with you... If you ask me, it's good riddance. You should not desire having such women in your space, not even as friends. |
Family › Re: Wives And Mothers, I Need Your Input by crackhaus: 1:20pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
Emaprince: Women sha. You are here making your husband the villain. You didn't tell them that you cheated on him with other men(according to you) when you were married ..and that led to your divorce.
You should be thanking God that he is kind of enough to bring you back. Something 98%men won't do. If other men will drill you while you were married, who knows how many that had their way when you were separated. But that man is not even worried over that. He isn't concerned that you may still be seeing those guys..but here you are - the true villain, being all suspicious and worried over the mans relationship with another woman.
Its really a know fact that those that cheats the most do the most suspicion and accusations. LOL... Receipts  |
Romance › Re: There Are Too Many Red Pillers Offline by crackhaus: 12:42pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
Nonam: As civil engineer. I have spoken face to face to more than 500 men within four years. I always discovered one common thing about them..... Majority of them are redpillers.
There are too many men who have swallow the red pill offline. Still not enough, honestly... |
Family › Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Man Earning 100k In This Present Economy. Ur Sincere by crackhaus: 10:20am On Aug 21, 2022 |
Blessedmercy8: As usual, I'll ignore you. So don't waste your time. You wish...  |
TV/Movies › Re: What Movie Are You Watching Now? by crackhaus: 9:52am On Aug 21, 2022 |
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Family › Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Man Earning 100k In This Present Economy. Ur Sincere by crackhaus: 9:38am On Aug 21, 2022 |
Jovialjune1: Hehehe on point 
Let me not talk too much, I don't want to reveal bag of bones  Ahh you sef, so you have seen me too? For where?  See all of you claiming to know a nigga that doesn't know you.  Should I also send you a DM finally so you can be alright? |
Family › Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Man Earning 100k In This Present Economy. Ur Sincere by crackhaus: 9:32am On Aug 21, 2022 |
pansophist: Honestly I've tried so much for a long time to determine where that mentality comes from. I think about it alot. How lots of women operate from a position of perfection, that showing up with body is contribution and valuable.
My conclusion is that its a feature of weakness, or as the bible put it, a weaker vessel. You know, empty can makes the loudest noise.
Because to be fair, I've seen few women that are hardworking and strife to bring value to the table, that think in terms of contributing not just suffocating others. It's an energy thing. All women have the ability be strong, but most choose to be weak instead and be a burden to others.
A woman that have achieved literally nothing with her life, except bad behaviours, entitlements and false heightened sense of worth would feel she is a catch and better than a hardworking man that have build himself up front scratch. The most obvious reason off the top of my head for the bolded text in your first paragraph: MEN  Too many men these days make women feel that way about themselves. I've never imagined myself propositioning a woman for a relationship/friendship more than once – She turns me down or makes it hard for me even if just minutely, she will be ghosted instantly. But there are other men who go out of their way to move heaven and earth just to impress a woman who's likely coming into their lives just to add more financial responsibilities to him. @second bolded text; Na their way – pathologically delusional. |
Family › Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Man Earning 100k In This Present Economy. Ur Sincere by crackhaus: 9:20am On Aug 21, 2022 |
Blessedmercy8: I've seen you wella and you don't come close to my type. Forget the hype that rozz girl was giving you by always asking if you're married. Na her type you fit trip not me.
Pack well. Nor be me you see abeg, OR are you just using style to say I should send you a DM? I know you've been waiting for it for years now... I will send it babe, so you can finally see me and we can roll...  |
Family › Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Man Earning 100k In This Present Economy. Ur Sincere by crackhaus: 9:08am On Aug 21, 2022 |
Blessedmercy8: Na your type? All these dry nairaland men with akward looks, what makes you think I would want to have anything to do with you?
How were you on your lane? You came to comment on my post and you're claiming you're were on your lane?
Just stop clicking on my post. Ok? You don see me before? Babe you go drip with wetness oo, no jokes...  |
Family › Re: Men That Cry On Their Wedding Day by crackhaus: 9:06am On Aug 21, 2022 |
ecolime: Men who cry on their wedding are Princesses
This one off me  And they should be given Tiaras to accessorize their outfits.  |
Family › Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Man Earning 100k In This Present Economy. Ur Sincere by crackhaus: 8:59am On Aug 21, 2022 |
Blessedmercy8: Dirty slap dey hungry you. Stop mentioning me. You know you and I don't agree. Just go and mind your lane o.
All these old nairalanders are the reason I keep changing my account, yet una go carry una unwanted face dey pursue my post up and down.
Please, I want fresh peeps in my space.  Na you first come mention me when I dey my lane, I replied you, now you don turn am around say na me dey pursue you.  This gender sef... Okay I'm pursuing you, you're a sexy woman... I want some of you. Happy now? |
Family › Re: Single Life Is A Scam!! by crackhaus: 8:58am On Aug 21, 2022 |
Ayamatanga0: I must confess I enjoy reading your posts, but you need to understand something bruv, the OP was simply a "spur of the moment" post, it wasn't based on any sort of assumptions, facts, anectedotes or any sort of antecedents. I simply wrote what I observed, whilst deliberately avoiding any inferences about gender and capped it with a catchy topic . Live and let live has always been my motto, being single or married is by choice, both have their merits and demerits. After all we have "married singles" 
Happy Sunday!! Na now you talk well. Happy Sunday to you too. |
Family › Re: I've Finally Made Up My Mind To Join Illuminati by crackhaus: 8:56am On Aug 21, 2022 |
Do you know how to join, or you're just daydreaming? |
Family › Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Man Earning 100k In This Present Economy. Ur Sincere by crackhaus: 8:50am On Aug 21, 2022 |
Blessedmercy8: Yes we are still a big catch to reasonable men outside this forum where you all have a warped mentality about women. Only here on nairaland do men reason like this and I'm glad my man is not here and doesn't even know about nairaland. Mercychen I'm sorry to say this, but you are really NOT a catch. And this has nothing to do with you as a person, because I actually hold the belief that a "majority" of you ladies are NO catch in anyway, shape, or form. Just try to keep yourself grounded, Inugo... |
Family › Re: Single Life Is A Scam!! by crackhaus: 8:43am On Aug 21, 2022 |
Ayamatanga0: Make of it what you will, marriage is a beautiful thing when it's with the right person.
Have a good evening everyone! Even with the right person, it can still get ugly sometimes and you'll start to wonder what you were thinking when you decided to spend the rest of your life with your partner... There are no manuals to these things — No one can/should stand on any authority to decide which between marriage & singlehood is better. Both will come with their positives and negatives. The point is to make your personal choice, deal with whatever outcomes you encounter without trying to force/convince other people to accept what you think. |
Family › Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Man Earning 100k In This Present Economy. Ur Sincere by crackhaus: 8:13am On Aug 21, 2022 |
pansophist: Youre talking too much. Women are their own worse enemy. They give stupid advice, believe stupid things and never for once put themselves in the place of the man.
I can't imagine a woman that I want to marry to be assessing my salary. I'll feel like a wallet, financially objectified. So as sophisticated as I am, it's just my money you're interested in. How about earn more and support me? Is marriage not teamwork again?
No wonder old cultures choose suitors for their daughters. If not, this lady will cruise to seventy years old still waiting for the perfect rich man in this Buhari economy where the average Nigerian don't have 30k cash in the account.
Surprisingly, she never saw herself as a burden. A man that is productive and earning 100k monthly is not good enough, meanwhile you, the woman that earns nothing is the catch. Women sha.  They always believe they are a catch nau, it's one of the major psychological problems bedeviling a majority of Nigerian women today. |