₦airaland Forum

sisisioge:
I agree that she distance herself from him biko for her safety and sanity. Fetsish people are mostly unstable small minded humans who believe the worst of the world...their native doctors too always target their closest F&F as their worst enemies. About the inlaws, she mentioned that they take their counsel from him.... the dreadful spiteful venous husband might have turned them against her. Better to stay safe than be sorry around them

Carot:
Crackhaus so nice to see you

Richy4:
<<U are making me the devil's advocate and it's not nice

<<When there are trust issues in a relationship, even if u like, explain how heaven was made with good evidence, someone who doesn't trust you will never trust you..

<< I believe that Sandra gave an explanation on how the Icecream money came about but due to trust issues, John wasn't buying what she was selling to him...and Sandra knowing the kind of man she married cannot kill herself just because the John refused to believe her because of his difficulties in trusting...

If there's no trust in a relationship, it's as good as dead... Some people naturally have trust issues and it's the worst set of people any sane individual can encounter because they will drive the person insane..

Sometimes though I ask myself, is online world different from offline world? Because I know lots of people who can help friends genuinely... If they get here online, do they act differently? It seems I am the only one who doesn't see anything wrong with giving loosed change to a friend's family whom Everyone knows traveled out.. it's weird

Regex:
Yo man. Where have you been?

Richy4:
Yes she should have told him... But due to experience, subsequent events may have occurred that led to her not speaking out or forgot to speak out...
I'm not trying to be the devil's advocate but sometimes frivolities like that might not matter..

Karen2024:
No at 26

About 8 years ago, Morenikeji decided to buy a land and informed Dotun about it. Dotun suggested that they should buy the land in the name of the child they hope to have one day. They agreed on a name and bought the land with the name, and Morenikeji built a very beautiful house on it.

That was how Dotun encouraged Morenikeji to buy many other properties in the name of the unborn child.

truthsayer009:
Lol, it's possible though. At least RMD was one of them, haven't heard anything bad from him all through his marriage. Maybe they just kept his own quiet as he hasn't offended Gistlover yet.

Blessedmercy8:
I think thats what I'm going to do based on our last chat.


Here's my doubts. From the way he sounded in our last chat few mins ago, I don't think he my kinda man.

Is it proper for him to be telling me this?

Blessedmercy8:
Yeah. Thanks bro. You've really spoken well. I just hope I don't end up hurting him though.

truthsayer009:
This Godly men that Nigerian women seek of is what I don't understand, majority of Nigerian women will completely dislike the idea of marrying a man that is actually Godly, because they are conventional and old-fashioned, similar to a Fuddy-duddy. Most of those relationships doesn't even get to the serious stage because she is already complaining of the whole thing being boring. I don't feel the spark bla bla bla.

You want a Godly man but your crush is Burna Boy & Kizz Daniel? It seems everyone wants a bad-boy that would be faithful. Why is Kirk Franklin or Tyler Perry not your crush instead.

Mariangeles:
Anybody who hates truth will hate me, and if you hate truth, don't like me.
I don't have respect or value people who abuse power like our politicians.
I hate unfairness.

When I registered towards the end of 2017, as early as 2018 was when I started noticing mynd44's bias because he was too obvious. He can't help it. Shame!

One time, when some nairalanders were going at each other, mynd44 came to that thread and deleted the comments of one person, leaving the insults of the other person to that other person undeleted, then others came and they ganged up against that one person, and I was observing.
I dare say mynd44 allows bullying on nairaland!
Using another man's business to do paddy paddy.

Seun needs to thoroughly look into what is going on in his forum, otherwise we'll take it to him on twitter, since that is the place one can get his attention.

Mynd44, do not delete this post.
I dey watch you!

ibechris:
My advice is this, let him buy a sperm from a donor and let him drug his wife by himself and insert the sperm into the wife.

This is doable!

Just advice him to do this instead of involving u.

Richy4:
Hope you were not being sarcastic... Because It is cheating / infidelity in my opinion without even putting religion into it...A situation by which couple were no longer living together, but are still legally until a judge grants them a divorce is separation...Key word is Legal..

And you know there are three kinds of separation...
<<Trial separation: When spouses needs a break from each other, while contemplating whether or not to divorce..
<<permanent separation: Spouses lives apart without any intention to reconcile, but were not divorced
<< legal separation..an arrangement by which a couple remain married but live apart, following a court orders

In this case OP and his spouse were just on a trial separation...and she cheated while legally involved and u said it wasn't infidelity?

lilyheaven:
She had so much money to buy a new a land , when they had one already.
At least she would have used the money to start a new business for her husband.
Then develop the land they had already.
I wonder where all the love they shared with travelled to?

Tonero5200:
I was supposed to buy last year, they discouraged me saying I was too young and had to report me to my uncle.. this time around have made up my mind to buy it ...I be 21 next month, even though I leave with them that doesn't mean I can't rent my own place... but why pay rent when I have my own personal bunk separated from theirs. please all what's the legal age to own a car in nigeria?... because I spoke to a cousin who schools in in canada telling me as far as 16yrs old do have cars of their own.

please note I clothe myself
I feed myself for some time now.
I think I'm old enough and they should respect my decision.

Mindlog:
Why should "physical sex" turn me off?

There is nothing Nollywood about it, in some communities it is a historical fact that when a married man can not father a child, a relative of his is called to "step in" and the resulting pregnancy and eventually, the child born bears the married man's name and the community recognizes that as so but in today's world where just with click on an internet-enabled smartphone, people can be "informed" say na another man give im wife belle. Is there a guarantee that the male relative that "helped out" would still respect the couple and not rub it on their face, would not start making unnecessary financial demands. In today's world, it is better to go anonymous or go adopting if the wife agrees.

When I decide to write a movie script, it will be a psycho-thriller based on a schizophrenic, who is an adolescent institutionalized in a psychiatric facility not Nollywood levels.