₦airaland Forum

Kingkum:
I have been trying but it seems my faith is not strong cos i always doubt the power of prayers, i have been to more than 20 powerful men of god but i did not see any progress(i must confess that there is one pastor in benin by name samuel osaghere that touch my soul through prayers but that is another long story) that is why i read about opening the third eye through mediation which i'm trying to do it and see things myself.

Kingkum:
YES.

Kingkum:
I did not even say a word out talkless of shouting to disturb her sleep. i use to just meditate and stare in the blank darkness like that.

Kingkum:
The issue is not praying in the same room, the problem is how she reacted to it which is confirming what the spiritualist say about her. your suggestion is well noted though

Mindlog:
You have no business having sex with his wife, even if they both agree. Encourage them that if after extensive treatment and your cousin can't still father a child, they can either adopt or get the wife artificially inseminated with chosen sperm from a fertility clinic's sperm bank.

Should you get lured into impregnating the wife the natural way, what is the guarantee that they would want you to still be alive not fearing that you may want to blackmail them in the future, regarding their child's paternity?

RightToReject:
The fact that he did not foresee her exhibiting these negative attitudes beforehand in the kind of present circumstance shows that he is not a discerning man; the fact that he has not devised a way to change it for her all this while and make her subjugable ontop her money shows that he lacks grit; just as the fact that he is still contemplating what to do after all these discoveries, insults and abuses shows that he doesn't have a healthy standard. Tell him to follow his conscience

Meanwhile, the subject question of the thread didn't do justice to the body of the thread, given that in a healthy union and circumstance like this, there is nothing wrong if a man lives in his wife's house, if his condition necessitates it, but that isn't the case here.

advanceDNA:
Me I no dey follow mád women.....

advanceDNA:
If he was the bread winner...his wife would support him and be a good wife....

Now that the tables have turned and the wife is doing well...he should be a good husband too.
No need to fear of the unknown....no need to bring ego into the issue.... if you no offend woman..she won't just wake up and send you packing out of her house naaaaa....

ExMI6:
I love things uncommon to people, i dont like a 9-5 job
I want something i enjoy,

That was how i founded my self in the international intelligence community

Born2winnx:
hello all,
they is this girl I like, we met in the club last year ever since then from a one night stand (tdb) we became friends, chatting sometimes and all... I feel like she's more opened to me than my girlfriend, which makes me wonder sometimes if she can change and probably make a good wife.
the pressure from family to get married is getting ton
on me and she's the only available option I got to
compare with my girlfriend.

Carcholce:
Based on the fact that humans are not predictable, She can decide to become a good wife or become worse after marriage. I’ll advise you marry her and see what happens after.

But if I were you, I don’t see why I’ll even think of dating her talk more of marrying a girl I met through one night stand. I mean we are all different but I am not stupid. I’m not saying you are stupid, but I am not mad. I didn’t say you are mad either.

Ishilove:
What is this new trend of wanting free nacks without commitment Abi it's not a new trend?

Iniquity upon iniquity.

Op, geddifok

toutefois:
Me:
I live in Canada and work a very comfortable six-figure job in tech. Nigerian, never married. Speak three foreign languages including French (the language of romance) and graduated summa cum laude from one of the top 20 schools in the world. I’m smart.

Looking for:
Friends with benefit in this cold country. Should be female (I’m not gay, please. Gays, stay away!!!!). Be well-spoken and intelligent, and have a job. Be able to carry on a good conversation. Don’t be ugly. Be a resident of Canada, the United States, or Mexico. In other words, live in North America. I’ll pay for your flight from any location in North America.
It’s okay if you want to start as friends first. Send me an email. No video calls. We’ll talk until you are comfortable with coming over. Strictly friends with benefits. I live in a clean 1-bed apartment with all necessities. I have Netflix, Disney+, Hulu, Crave, Amazon Prime, etc. I think I have them all. We can watch any movies and chill. I’ll provide you fine dining and hopefully we can have an enriching conversation about life, literature, and Ernest Hemingway. I cook very well and we can do home dining, if that’s your taste. If we develop deep enough connection, we can consider vacationing somewhere in North America and I’ll assume the costs. Did I mention I speak French? Expect to be serenaded in the world’s language of romance.


toutefois at mail.com

ShaqFu:
You don't say. I'm sure you're professor X and you have mental powers for you so posit that nonsense above and still feel good about it.

Oh you make such hasty generalization. I'm sure the black men you've come across are the ones who feel comfortable in wearing G-string and extremely tight Jeans showing their nipples in other to attract their spineless kind.

I'm also sure your idea of a black man rest solely on the mental, damaged and abysmal image of people like Denrele. When next you visit Nigeria, you should visit Africa Shrine and have a little chit chat with Femi Kati, let him tell you one or two things you obviously don't want to know about who and what a man is, that is, an African man.

I don't want you to know, for you to know, not all Africans are born with black skin and not all Africans are ashamed of their skin colour.

The way you generalize calls for concern, it's as if education cringed when it was told it's going to reside in that Woke brain of yours. You and your ilk should be termed the female generals of generalization.

Since you don't know what you're talking about but you like to talk anyway, you should be silent before you make a complete and utter fool of yourself... on second thought, you already did.

Gosh234:
Thanks so much , trying to forgive myself, actually hurt her so much, was just like proving to her that I love her and proud of her, people will still know, just wanna let her know I love and accept her

truthsayer009:
I feel love & respect are 2 different things sha, I may be wrong. Being with someone older will definitely cause some issues during temporary conflicts, she will refer to it from time to time.

GhostWisperer:
it is not self hate that makes black men prefer light skinned or white women.

Check the stats, you're probably trying to be a white woman with your fake hair extensions, bleaching cream and all....plus you spend 6-8 hours every month fixing that same hair and you still can't take it to the pool for a swim.

You still wear hairnet like a surgical patient.

And your parasitic nature doesn't make you a good bed companion either.

Who goes for the copy when the original is within grasp?

Most African girls are just a copy of what they see in the West on TV.

baby124:
Gender is the most rigid. It is biological and determined by your genes. It is not about behavior or pretense. This is the nonsense you people are preaching that is causing confusion. You are born with a particular gender, Male or Female! There are some, very small population of people born inter sex with their genitals and even those, the body has a preference for a particular gender. Race is a social construct and hence much more a flexible definition than gender. Gender is a no go area and no matter how you pretend, you can never change the gender you were born with as you can’t change your genes. All attempts are just cosmetic surgery.

If I attach horns and a torch to my mouth, plus wings sef, I will never ever be a dragon. These delusional lies which we let the very mentally Ill get away with are very dangerous!

truthsayer009:
I could somewhat agree with this statement, but I have a question. Isn't this going to be a recurring issue that keeps coming up?.

I tried to date someone older than me with a year, I can genuinely say she loved me because of the evidences I saw but omo the disrespect no be here oh. It was clear cut that she couldn't bring herself to respect someone younger.

I have asked women this questions offline too and the answer I get is that they cannot see themselves respecting a younger man.

SeaTrade:
I think say na only me see am
That guy na pro!
Funny enough I bursted out laughing when I got to the point in her write up that you highlighted.
E no pursue am, e just set template for her to waka on her own.

cayorday89:
Me analyzing this your advice, and he jamming another packaged lady who is also looking for the easy way out, only for them not to open up thinking they have met the savior they so much sought after, what will now be the fate of the two of them especially the child(ren) that will come out of this deceitful relationship.

emmaodet:
crackhaus crackhaus crackhaus

UyaiIncomparabl:
Instead of this epistle you typed here, why not advise him to get a job? Doesn't that sound more noble?

truthsayer009:
Ofcourse na, usually I see people campaigning for this trans thing on NL for years, and I also others asking them if they are trans or if they will allow their kids to be trans. Then they keep ignoring the question like they don't see it. Some people have sworn to always be on the woke side of life. Anything woke, they are ready to support it. Whether it make sense or not.