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Family / Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by crackland: 11:17am On May 14, 2020 |
CAPSLOCKED:Bro any man that remains in the house eating his wife's money after life happened to him, is on his own. Same thing I've always stated here. He ought to move far away from her and only visit occasionally to see the kids. If it's not against his moral/ethical codes, he can have a side-chic at his new base to release tension once in a while. 12 Likes |
Family / Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by crackland: 11:14am On May 14, 2020 |
UjuJoan2:Not an easy feat at all... Glad to know you understand there is a superior gender. 13 Likes 3 Shares |
Family / Re: Placing The Wrong Emphasis On Work (aka Earning A Living) by crackland: 10:28am On May 14, 2020 |
But Bukatyne, you're indeed a trailblazer... There's no place for argument. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Placing The Wrong Emphasis On Work (aka Earning A Living) by crackland: 10:07am On May 14, 2020 |
ibkayee:The person that show was meant for knows he can't give a concise answer to his own irony. Stating it again is for emphasis, right emphasis this time... Not the one on the heading of the thread which got y'all worked up. Dunning-Kruger sure understands the science of humans, he is a genius. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Placing The Wrong Emphasis On Work (aka Earning A Living) by crackland: 10:02am On May 14, 2020 |
[s] pocohantas:[/s] And here you are replying me, fulfilling my heroin addiction. Dunning-Kruger is a genius.. 7 Likes |
Family / Re: Placing The Wrong Emphasis On Work (aka Earning A Living) by crackland: 9:59am On May 14, 2020 |
[s] pocohantas:[/s] Madam, I do not care about anyone answering me...although you just did since you can't help yourself As long as my comments are being read, the ministry is moving. 6 Likes |
Family / Re: Placing The Wrong Emphasis On Work (aka Earning A Living) by crackland: 9:56am On May 14, 2020 |
choice17:But won't it be so hard to just leave when she lives in a rent-free condo inside your head? 4 Likes |
Family / Re: Placing The Wrong Emphasis On Work (aka Earning A Living) by crackland: 9:51am On May 14, 2020 |
crackland:Can someone please help me answer the question here, or maybe explain the irony in the first paragraph. We don't need the thread to be derailed once again from its purpose by engaging in chats about who insults, who is important, who should leave and who should stay, etc... This is not anyone's business. A thread about work/career is not for KG1 psychoanalysis on people's personalities. They will say have civil discussions but na still dem dey first start to carry on uncivilised discussions. Dunning-Kruger is a genius. 5 Likes |
Family / Re: Placing The Wrong Emphasis On Work (aka Earning A Living) by crackland: 9:11am On May 14, 2020 |
Acidosis:Tor... 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Placing The Wrong Emphasis On Work (aka Earning A Living) by crackland: 8:58am On May 14, 2020 |
choice17:Exactly... They are simply trying to gaslight her into: 1. Stopping her posting of topics/opinions which they don't fancy. OR 2. Continue posting but ONLY post what they like to read. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Placing The Wrong Emphasis On Work (aka Earning A Living) by crackland: 8:48am On May 14, 2020 |
Mynd44:Isn't it funny how right in the same sentence where people should be allowed to have their own choices, yet when the OP has chosen to abide by her religious beliefs and still chose to share tit-bits of it here for anyone who cares to accept it, you claim she is pushing it on people. Pushing it with what please? A microphone on one hand, and an automatic machine gun on the other? 9 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Placing The Wrong Emphasis On Work (aka Earning A Living) by crackland: 8:33am On May 14, 2020 |
Acidosis:Add religious fanatic (Christian) to that. Typical expressionions of Argumentum Ad hominems... Bully tactic 101 Placing the wrong emphasis on work suddenly means people should ONLY get married and not have a job/career. Is it the phrase "wrong emphasis" that is sooo hard to understand? 5 Likes |
Family / Re: Placing The Wrong Emphasis On Work (aka Earning A Living) by crackland: 8:03am On May 14, 2020 |
emmaodet:Amin 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Why Don't Husbands Have Issues With Their Father In Laws? by crackland: 7:19am On May 14, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:?? |
Family / Re: Why Don't Husbands Have Issues With Their Father In Laws? by crackland: 7:15am On May 14, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:How old is your longest friendship with another female please? 1 Like |
Family / Re: Have You Ever Lost A Dear One That Makes You Cry Till Now? by crackland: 9:21pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Family / Re: Wives And Submission To Their Husband by crackland: 9:01pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Kuns84:This is doubtful. I just went through the post history of the Fuzzywhatever. Since Dec 2 2019, about 98% of its posts have been directed towards Bukatyne - sometimes quoting her directly, other times throwing subs. It's definitely an alternate handle run by someone with something very personal against Buka which is why I believe it may not be the person you're thinking. But I have a very fair idea who it might be - FountainofLittlelois 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Have You Ever Lost A Dear One That Makes You Cry Till Now? by crackland: 8:52pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
sassysure:Okay then, lemme edit.. |
Family / Re: Wives And Submission To Their Husband by crackland: 8:48pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
@Merahki Now you I can dialogue with. Leave Bukatyne alone na, woz your own? Tell me, lol 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Have You Ever Lost A Dear One That Makes You Cry Till Now? by crackland: 8:18pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
sassysure:Bear hugs |
Family / Re: Should I Build With Her Or Do It All Alone? by crackland: 5:39pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
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Family / Re: Should I Build With Her Or Do It All Alone? by crackland: 5:34pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
sassysure:I've always been a lover, never a fighter... Cam to ze oza room, lemme show you wharamean |
Family / Re: Should I Build With Her Or Do It All Alone? by crackland: 5:32pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
Abeg make una let a prince announce that he is a prince. If it was that easy, you sef go and come from a royal family. |
Family / Re: Should I Build With Her Or Do It All Alone? by crackland: 3:40pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
Rubbish... Na film una dey act for here sef. |
Family / Re: Should I Build With Her Or Do It All Alone? by crackland: 3:38pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
sassysure:As vain as this will seem, I'm usually right most of the time. It just takes a longer route for certain people to get to a destination I already arrived at in my head hours/days before. |
Family / Re: Should I Build With Her Or Do It All Alone? by crackland: 3:32pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
factormatt6:Is she going to read this? Lol.. Okay so the simplest way is effective communication. You both need to sit down face-to-face and talk. And I don't mean arguing, I mean talk. You give her your own timeline and state the reasons why you would like her to be patient with it - she should not respond when you're talking, only listen. When you're done, tell her it's her turn to inform you of her own timeline again and state the exact reasons why it is really important for her to get married within that period. You should not respond either, only listen. The next step is to reach a compromise. But you have to know that reaching a compromise is not only your responsibility, it is equally hers as well. She must first have it at the back of her mind & understand that she will not get exactly what she wants, you must also have it at the back of your mind & understand that you will not get exactly what you want either. Once you both have this mindset, half the job is already done. Now depending on the reasons you had both provided earlier, you can draw up a plan together that will place both of you somewhere with the semblance of a middle ground. Remember this conversation has to involve a whole lot of things - financing, personal goals, educational commitments (if included in the reasons), etc.. None of you should emotionally try to blackmail the other person. She may feel the urge to tell you that there are men who have been asking her hand in marriage and she has been refusing them because of you - this is emotional blackmail, and is a warning sign. You may also feel the urge to tell her that there are women who have been offering you their hearts and bodies and are ready to wait for you - this is emotional blackmail too, and is a warning sign. By the time the conversation is over, there's a very high probability that both of you would have agreed on something IF you were ever truly in love with each other. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Should I Build With Her Or Do It All Alone? by crackland: 2:53pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
factormatt6:Bruv, your matter don dey taya me. You want her to be patient with you, but it seems she doesn't want to be patient with you. This is a clear-cut issue. Maybe you should talk to her again to make her see reasons with you, but if she still insists on needing her space...then let her go. |
Family / Re: Should I Build With Her Or Do It All Alone? by crackland: 2:49pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
sassysure:Come sef, the girl the OP is talking about is 25yrs old. Not like that age makes it okay to keep any woman waiting without defining where the relationship is headed. But for someone who feels she needs to be wedded within a specified time, there are much better ways to go about it than using threats and ultimatums. |
Family / Re: Should I Build With Her Or Do It All Alone? by crackland: 2:26pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
factormatt6:Bruv, I'll be honest with you. 1. If you let her go, you will be doing both of yourselves a huge favour in the long run. She gets to be with someone who is ready to marry her ASAP, and you get to focus on those things which are more important to you while nurturing another relationship with someone else. 2. If you marry her, you will be doing it as a favour to her because of the attitude she's putting up and not because it's really what you want. You may grow to resent her because of this somewhere down the line, or you may not and everything will work out fine. The choice ultimately is yours. 1 Like |
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