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CAPSLOCKED:
THAT'S JUST THE FACT. YOU'RE HUNDRED PERCENT ON POINT.
THIS IS WHY I TELL MEN TO NEVER BE WITH A WOMAN THAT EARNS MORE THAN THEM. INFACT, LEAVE THE MARRIAGE ONCE YOUR JOB IS SHAKY. DON'T EVEN WAIT UNTIL YOU LOSE IT BECAUSE HELL FIRE IS BETTER THAN A MARRIAGE WHERE A WOMAN IS PAYING YOUR BILLS.

UjuJoan2:
I agree . . . I will never respect any man I have to feed. I just won't be able to.

I imagine it may look unfair as that would mean men have no room for failure, or they will never find love. But that's just the reality.

Being the superior gender is not an easy feat!

ibkayee:
Lol I don't think you quoted yourself and asked someone to answer it just for emphasis for some reason

pocohantas:
No, you actually care. You are waiting for who will reply you, so that you can drag the person into your endless arguments and semantics. Which by the way, is like heroin to your system

Rest biko. You have tried for today.

pocohantas:
Oga, go and rest abeg. Nobody is going to answer you. Highest, you will loose guard again and get banned. Bye bye

choice17:
Exactly, there's a 1001 topics on NL/family section to read from. If they find hers offensive, why not leave quietly like I always do; rather na bashing and frustration upandan

crackland:
Isn't it funny how right in the same sentence where people should be allowed to have their own choices, yet when the OP has chosen to abide by her religious beliefs and still chose to share tit-bits of it here for anyone who cares to accept it, you claim she is pushing it on people.


Pushing it with what please?
A microphone on one hand, and an automatic machine gun on the other?

Acidosis:
Oh now you agree these elements actually bullied her?

choice17:
bukatyne!!
Some of this bitter women want to guilt trip you to act in accordance to their expectation, please don't conform.

Your write-up is not for everyone, Your opinion is your opinion, stick to to it. Some people are benefiting from it.

Mynd44:
The OP is pushing her religious shaped beliefs on people. It creates issues. Allow people have their choices. Having a family isn't compulsory and not a precursor to happiness

Acidosis:
So how would people know what works for them without people like OP?

To say marriage is not for everyone while still spending most of your time on family section, for me, is cra.zy. If marriage is not for everyone, then the so called everyone shouldn't be here in the first place. It's like saying WEALTH is not for everyone on an investment thread. That's a stup!d idea.

Some of you are just bitter, it's very obvious seeing how you folks descended on the personality behind the post. You people have called her old school and all sorts without even realizing the fact that no sane man wants to spend his life with a problematic modern and overly exposed man-woman. There's something about her you lots hate so bitterly.

emmaodet:
It's well.
Thanks for the words of encouragement because even though am married and shouldn't be worried, i have brothers, family and friends close to me i won't wish they marry these set of ladies.
By the way, you are my wife namesake and i like your comments.

Sixfeetbelle:
Okay.

Sixfeetbelle:
This assertion is wrong. Women aren't at war with themselves. They have successfully maintained friendships that last over a long period of time even if they argue and disagree with each other occasionally the years, as is obtainable with every human relationship.

Over-familiarity is the major cause of problems between MIL and DIL.

sassysure:

Kuns84:
Fuzzywuzzy is ran by coco.candy. Plain and simple!

sassysure:
Thanks.
I'm gonna delete that post as seeing it is rattles me.

sassysure:
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sassysure:
Go away!
Mtcheeeeeeeeeew


Yeah, u are right most time logically.
Just that we are too sentimental and biased to see that.

When it comes to matters of the heart, we tend to use the heart instead of common sense and that's why we are hurt always.
Love is not blind anymore

sassysure:
Good then
I'm beginning to like you.

Then, can u take it further by doing court marriage.
Non of your people will be in attendance. Just u and her and a witness.

Crackland, come and see your fellow man wey his heart dey beat around his woman
Not yours that is frozen

Repent and let love fill your soul and rejuvenate you
Love is a beautiful thing

sassysure:
I have to agree with you on this.
U are right.
She went about it the wrong way.

factormatt6:
. Please can you suggest ways to go about it?

factormatt6:
. She just been calm yesterday and today not that she is given me attitude. I just want what is best for both of us. I never resent her rather if she can be patience with me, I respect and value her the more.

sassysure:
I missed that part

Maybe, I need the food more than you

My submission is still the same for the guy.
As for u, (ishi òkpùkpù) , look for translator
Don't make your woman reach that position or better, go for a woman who can waste away 4 yrs or more without blinking and age is still on her side. Mid twenties.

Though, I will not outrightly tell you to do it today or tomorrow, I will look at your actions, if nothing, I go vamoose

@@op is the type that will disappear
His tone at the beginning summed him up. We still have court marriage.
I did mine with 15k or was it cheaper?
Have forgotten. So cheap. Two or 3 witnesses and court officials and viola, I have fulfilled all righteousness

factormatt6:
. Funny I did tell her that but my love for her, I over look it. I have history with a lot of ladies, I never believe I could fall in love but with this girl the world can come to a stand still.