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Family / Re: Should I Build With Her Or Do It All Alone? by crackland: 2:14pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
sassysure:Read the OP again, very slowly and carefully this time after you must have eaten. You will see her deadline clearly in fine print. factormatt6: |
Family / Re: Should I Build With Her Or Do It All Alone? by crackland: 1:05pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
factormatt6:Giving you two years to get married to her or she walks, is an ultimatum and a threat bruv. |
Family / Re: Should I Build With Her Or Do It All Alone? by crackland: 1:01pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
factormatt6:Dude, you should not be forced or given a timeline by a woman regarding commitment and then go on to start getting a headache because of it. Yes I have been in your situation, and yes I loved her. But I'm built in such a way that when it comes to emotional/relationship matters, I like to pace myself...you may be different from me and I'm not saying you must act the way I did. When I was given my deadline, I didn't react or start an argument - I just told her okay and smiled, but deep in my mind I already knew she had jinxed herself and I was just going to play the long game by allowing the deadline pass gracefully, then watch her do whatever it is she wanted to do. You can do different though, but do you want to start a marriage on a foundation of your partner using threats and deadlines to get what she wants? 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Should I Build With Her Or Do It All Alone? by crackland: 12:43pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
sassysure:Lmao...you dey try I got 99problems but a bi*** ain't one... - Jay Z This should be the credo stamped on the forehead of every sensible man when to comes to women they are not married to. It's probably part of what helped him become the most successful rapper of his time. Girl problems are just not worth it. If she wants to walk, she should walk. The last person who gave me a deadline to marry her learnt regrettably that there are some men you just don't give ultimatums to. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: What Will You Make Of This Conversation Between A Guy And His Fiancee by crackland: 6:46pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
Street girls are normally easy to detect, it's quite surprising it took the guy this long to know who he was dating. Better late than too late though... |
Family / Re: Friendship With Benefits by crackland: 6:41pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
They already have guys to share moments of fun and adventure with, what they don't have is someone who will always give them money whenever they ask without giving him sex in return. Go and redesign your CV. 6 Likes |
Family / Re: Childfree In Nigeria? by crackland: 9:38am On Apr 14, 2020 |
Jullima:Again like I said earlier, it's surreal to imagine that a perfectly healthy person would decide not to have kids in their life. It doesn't mean that I have anything against them personally. The same way they can decide/choose not to have kids, is the same way I can decide/choose to think something might be wrong with them. No one's decision/choice is more important than the next person. That's what being pro-choice is really about, it goes both ways... 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: Tiarababy; Why Your Step Mum Abused Your Child by crackland: 9:28am On Apr 14, 2020 |
Blackpearlous:Your ability to comprehend is spectacular. |
Family / Re: Tiarababy; Why Your Step Mum Abused Your Child by crackland: 9:23am On Apr 14, 2020 |
Blackpearlous:Lmao.. When it comes to living as bums, Nigerians are among the topmost in the world...which is why a grown-up woman can go back to her father's house to start dragging wrapper with her father's wife. You're not contributing to the house, they housed you as a favour during your downtime, yet for some reason you feel you're some kind of special visitor. She's not even embarrassed. A lot of Nigerians know how to squat with other people anyway, that's why most do not see the abnormality of it anymore. It's not a bad thing though as people can go through hard times, but they should learn to know their boundaries. Both the witch burning babies and the entitled princess are cut from the same cloth. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by crackland: 9:17am On Apr 14, 2020 |
J111333:Definitely, but it's out of favour to her and not her right. She's not a child anymore and should not be having altercations with her father's wife. Both of them have issues - the witch and the entitled princess. |
Family / Re: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by crackland: 9:13am On Apr 14, 2020 |
Owerri1stSon:Staying in the house is not the problem, trying to act like a co-owner of the house is the problem. I don't expect majority of Nigerians who are used to squatting with other people to understand this though. Despite the fact that her baby was hurt by a witch of a woman, the OP is not an angel either. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by crackland: 9:10am On Apr 14, 2020 |
MistadeRegal:She is squatting and is a visitor, kill yourself if you don't like the sight of this fact. She can't be claiming right over food with her father's wife when she has a husband. |
Family / Re: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by crackland: 9:08am On Apr 14, 2020 |
SavageMaster:Of course that's terrible and has no justification. I'm just wondering why a grown-up woman who is married went back to her father's house, and is complaining about not being fed by her step-mum. Staying there is already enough. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Tiarababy; Why Your Step Mum Abused Your Child by crackland: 12:49am On Apr 14, 2020 |
rockstarB:1. You sha don't know how to keep walking on a straight line. First you were asking if I would let my sister die in an abusive home, now you're talking about what happens in your father's house - both of which have nothing to do with the context of the topic. Between a man's wife and his daughter, who has more rights in his house? Na this simple question you just dey play Tom & Jerry with since. 2. Yes, and the only way to speak up and not remain silent is to fight and invite the neighborhood to witness it. You're a genius. 3. I don't even think you understand what you wrote here. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Tiarababy; Why Your Step Mum Abused Your Child by crackland: 11:41pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
rockstarB:So you can't answer any of the questions? Obviously 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Tiarababy; Why Your Step Mum Abused Your Child by crackland: 11:35pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
rockstarB:1. The speed with which you reach your own conclusions is supersonic. Apparently, you can only have a step-mum if you come from a polygamous family...clap for yourself. 2. I can't help it that I have to deal with simpletons on this forum. I mean, at what point in question 2 is it implied that women can not go back to their father's houses? I asked a simple question, how can a married daughter whose husband is alive have rights as much as the legal wife of her father in his house? If e too hard for you to answer, just say e too hard. 3. No one said she should die in silence. I asked that after she has fought her step-mum and invited the neighborhood, do you have alternative accommodation for her when she is thrown out? 4. My questions are too hard for you obviously, I'm sure you were having a headache trying to come up with answers that won't make you look silly, hence the ramblings. I asked, what do you say about a grown-up lady complaining about not being fed by her step-mum? 4 Likes |
Family / Re: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by crackland: 11:12pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
kendrick9:Apart from talking about movies, what have you contributed today on NL? |
Family / Re: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by crackland: 11:09pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
[s] fieryy:[/s] Going through the sequence of how this teté a teté started, it is really quite clear who has been crying a river between both of us. You're a bum. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Tiarababy; Why Your Step Mum Abused Your Child by crackland: 11:05pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
1. How did you arrive at the conclusion that it is a polygamous family? 2. How can a married daughter whose husband is alive have rights as much as the legal wife of her father in his house? 3. Your solution is that she should fight and invite the whole neighborhood to a house she moved back into because her husband lost his job. Do you have alternative accommodation for her? 4. The stepmother is a devil's incarnate as far as I can sense...but what do you say about a grown-up lady complaining about not being fed by her step-mum? 5 Likes |
Family / Re: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by crackland: 10:48pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
fieryy:You're a rhesus monkey if you don't know that being housed is already a huge favour. Feeling entitled to getting fed on top of that and then complaining when you don't, is the hallmark of silliness. You're probably a bum living on government benefits for your brain not to fathom this. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by crackland: 10:42pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
Meninmen:It's amazing 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by crackland: 10:39pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
idahme:All that aside, she shouldn't be feeling entitled to anything. Providing a bed for her to rest her head is already a big favour to her. 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by crackland: 10:36pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
fieryy:Is that what grown-up married women do in Germany? They go back to their FATHER'S house and feel entitled to getting fed by their step-mum, when they aren't contributing financially to the house? 2 Likes |
Family / Re: My Stepmother Poured Hot Water On My Baby! I'm So Angry by crackland: 6:02pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
I don't know which of you two women is more silly. Is it the witch who poured hot water on a baby, or a grown-up you who feels entitled to getting fed in a house you're squatting in. Her own level of fvckery is definitely higher than yours though, that much is certain. 76 Likes 7 Shares |
Family / Re: thank you all by crackland: 2:40pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
Family / Re: thank you all by crackland: 2:35pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
Vyolet:Wha? |
Family / Re: thank you all by crackland: 2:28pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
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Family / Re: NIGERIAN GOVERNMENT Are Lying To Her Citizens! by crackland: 2:16pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
factormatt6:Who doesn't know this already? It's not news. The thing is, the method you chose to use in re-echoing that sentiment wasn't fitting. |
Family / Re: thank you all by crackland: 2:05pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
sassysure:Shey I hold you for waist ni? You think a married woman will want me around her and she no go ever think of collecting my gbola? She dey test her resolve then. My sensual energy is off the charts I have stories... I've learnt to make myself as scarce as possible around ladies I want nothing more than just friendship with. |
Family / Re: thank you all by crackland: 1:31pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
Ximenez:In this situation, just carry condom and go along because it must happen. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: thank you all by crackland: 1:19pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
sassysure:Well you digressed completely to talking about cooking food. And although the OP says nothing about his wife cooking for him, your example here shows that you were cooking for more than one person and not just a single man, so let's leave that discussion. It will always be suspicious if a married woman were cooking for just one guy consistently...e no get how you wan take explain am As for your friend's husband, my summation is that he was/is a family friend - someone known to your husband. Your friend too, his wife, was also aware he was helping you out. This is a very different scenario to the one in the OP. And yes, the guy in the OP has to be idle to always be available to put on the generator for that woman, what are you suspecting me of? A busy man or one with a woman of his own who comes around often or stays at his place, will not have so much time to be spending with his married neighbour, much less, putting on the generator whenever she needs it. Which kain yeye helping be dat one? Even if he doesn't have sense, his partner would have nagged some sense into him by now. When it comes to married women whose husbands are scarce and are lacking sex, it's important for a guyman to stay the hell away from them - I know what I'm saying... You can be friendly with them, but developing a friendship when you have no intention of collecting free punnyy na risk. |
Family / Re: Dealing With Husband's Love & Mother-in-law by crackland: 12:59pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
Sotland:Such ladies were not brought up in a close-knit family, they were probably not very close to their own mothers so you really can't expect them to understand the kind of bond a man (or anyone for that matter) can have with his mother or family. It's psychological. 5 Likes |
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