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Family / Re: My Husband Starved Me Sexually For 2 Years by crackland: 8:48am On May 20, 2020 |
femi4:Bruv, most of them no even know where their own G spot dey. That's the problem... 6 Likes |
Family / Re: What Do You Think Is Wrong With African Style Of Parenting? by crackland: 8:42am On May 20, 2020 |
nunnu:This is true. |
Family / Re: My Husband's Family Is Sucking Him Dry by crackland: 8:41am On May 20, 2020 |
Liliantalks:I am not one of such men. And even broke women can have very nasty, controlling, and entitled attitudes too. You can see a lot of them on Nairaland. 4 Likes |
Family / Re: Nature Didn’t Wire Anybody To Be Anything,society Did by crackland: 8:34am On May 20, 2020 |
JourneytoEL:Lmao..you have completely turned facts on its head just to make a flawed point. Name one Nigerian woman belonging to the economic upper class who identifies and vocalizes as a feminist. Feminism in Nigeria is the tonic for women who grew up in poor/less than average homes. A woman who from childhood had always been exposed to the best education, the best opportunities, unlimited funds from daddy/mummy, these are the ones that never needed feminism to be anything - they already had access to the things women like you think feminism will achieve for you. While you're right that a woman from the upper class will not be seeking desperately to marry a man who will increase her financial status, she still won't marry down. Her ideal man will be from the same circle, and this also proves that nothing has changed. If women really think change has come, they would marry men with less financial weight regardless of their status... because from the ages, it's always been men marrying down. The only change women want is on the part of men, not themselves...and that will not work. It's either all of us remain primitive, or all of us become modern. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: My Husband Starved Me Sexually For 2 Years by crackland: 7:40pm On May 19, 2020 |
sassysure:Na dem full everywhere oo |
Family / Re: My Husband Starved Me Sexually For 2 Years by crackland: 7:27pm On May 19, 2020 |
sassysure:A lot of them don't know this, and they wonder why reaching an orgasm is like the tip of the Burj Khalifa to them. Na only to dey make funny sounds like marine spirit dem sabi... 5 Likes |
Family / Re: My Husband's Family Is Sucking Him Dry by crackland: 7:17pm On May 19, 2020 |
pocohantas:Na wah. Come, local champion... what do you want? 6 Likes |
Family / Re: My Husband's Family Is Sucking Him Dry by crackland: 7:03pm On May 19, 2020 |
bukatyne:Like a "woke" Nigerian wife. 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Husband Starved Me Sexually For 2 Years by crackland: 7:01pm On May 19, 2020 |
johnkey:Lol.. |
Family / Re: What Do You Think Is Wrong With African Style Of Parenting? by crackland: 6:45pm On May 19, 2020 |
bukatyne:You know.. The thing is, unless you want to be a 'yes son', 'okay son', 'whatever you want son' kind of parent, there'll always be something you do that will cause a child to think you're not doing it right. 18 Likes |
Family / Re: My Husband's Family Is Sucking Him Dry by crackland: 6:34pm On May 19, 2020 |
Anni3e:All this hyperventilation because you're not sharing bills with your husband. How is that my fault? If you were really a provider and not one of the cave women, I see no reason why you should feel insulted by my comment. 4 Likes |
Family / Re: My Husband Starved Me Sexually For 2 Years by crackland: 6:23pm On May 19, 2020 |
Orgasmcoach:Her problem, just like most women who have never experienced it, is that they don't even know their body enough to get themselves to orgasm. Even if you give them iron sponge to scrub, they still won't know what to do or how to go about it...so depression will continue to plague them forever due to lack of orgasm. Read Sassysure's comment and see woman wey know what's up. I don't know what kind of orgasm coach you are sef, you don win Nation's cup before? 6 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: My Husband Starved Me Sexually For 2 Years by crackland: 6:10pm On May 19, 2020 |
sassysure:I no even fight oo.. I was defending Bukatyne from some ratchet reptiles laikdat @bold, you no see how my heart dey beat for your other comment |
Family / Re: My Husband Starved Me Sexually For 2 Years by crackland: 6:08pm On May 19, 2020 |
sassysure:Kai... Kill me 7 Likes |
Family / Re: What Do You Think Is Wrong With African Style Of Parenting? by crackland: 12:54pm On May 19, 2020 |
Una own children go still complain about una own style of parenting. Just wait small... 121 Likes 5 Shares |
Family / Re: My Husband's Family Is Sucking Him Dry by crackland: 12:50pm On May 19, 2020 |
Acidosis:In 2020, Nigerian women still don't want to share bills equally...they'd rather behave like their primitive fore-mothers. They ought to take a cue and learn from women who are civilized. Times have changed but they'd rather remain cave women. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: My Husband Starved Me Sexually For 2 Years by crackland: 12:39pm On May 19, 2020 |
Orgasmcoach:Oga/aunty coach, tell your female patients to learn how to climb and ride. By controlling the depth, rhythm, and direction, they will cum easily. It is their cum, they MUST work for it and not just lie/bend over and spread nyansh. A man is already responsible for his own orgasm, adding a woman's own to this responsibility means working two jobs but only getting work benefits for one. No one is a donkey. 25 Likes 3 Shares |
Family / Re: Nature Didn’t Wire Anybody To Be Anything,society Did by crackland: 12:26pm On May 19, 2020 |
emmaodet:And there is usually AC on the bridge abi, or at least a good view with fresh air. The work no dey strenuous. 4 Likes |
Family / Re: Nature Didn’t Wire Anybody To Be Anything,society Did by crackland: 12:23pm On May 19, 2020 |
JourneytoEL:So what is responsible for all that? Nature or society? With all the talk about how times have changed, are Nigerian women really ready to change the above narrative, or should the change ONLY happen on the man's part? Are Nigerian women really ready to stop waiting for men to deliver them by increasing their financial status? I don't think so... Reality does not show it. Nothing changed, it only evolved. 7 Likes 3 Shares |
Family / Re: My Husband Starved Me Sexually For 2 Years by crackland: 12:11pm On May 19, 2020 |
bukatyne:Girlfriends don't stress/nag as much as wives. Where will a man get the strength and patience to be Don Corleone of pucci, with all the responsibilities and expectations on his head as a husband/father? Na who no get wetin to do or think of, go dey kill himself on top of woman to make her cum. If a woman wants it, she should stand up, climb it and gerrit. 16 Likes |
Family / Re: My Husband Starved Me Sexually For 2 Years by crackland: 12:07pm On May 19, 2020 |
That woman is talking in the rubbish, she's hyperventilating in the nonsense... You go provide for woman, take care of her financial needs, help her out with the chores...and on top of all this, they still want you to provide orgasm for them. As what na? Is the man a work horse? Madams out here, please work for your own orgasm. Get on top of your man and ride him until you explode on your own. Make e be say una still dey work hard for something that benefits only you. Men did not come to this life to satisfy women. 26 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: She Keep Sleeping With Him Without Any Commitment by crackland: 8:44am On May 19, 2020 |
Dainy1:Lmao... A pussy-whipped nigga Next question, how old is your friend? Does he also call the other two ladies as often as he does this one? If not, then he's definitely still in the fantasy phase. He will wake up as soon as he's overdosed on the kitty. Leave him be, I know his type. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: My Husband's Family Is Sucking Him Dry by crackland: 8:36am On May 19, 2020 |
meetme01:Let them? Why do we have to let them? Isn't it basic that a wife should be earning enough to be able to cater for herself and her children, just in case her husband slumps and dies the next minute? The real problem here is that too many Nigerian women want to depend on their husband's wealth, or rather they want to fall-back on it. They have no bigger ambition than this. Thank goodness I was not brought up around women of this sort. Some people are simply generous to a fault and I bet the OP's husband falls in this category. He's not the first of his kind, and as a matter of fact I have a personal experience with such but I'd rather not share here. The success of men like him almost always depend on the kind of wife he has because it's only a woman who has no financial weight in the eyes of her husband that will have no influence over him when it comes to financial decisions. FACT. A husband who knows that his wife is at a financial level close or equal to his, will not take her opinions lightly and will want to find a way to heed to her warnings - this is a simple truth most women still don't want to accept. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: She Keep Sleeping With Him Without Any Commitment by crackland: 8:08am On May 19, 2020 |
Dainy1:How old is she? Although I've met a few ladies over 30, one even 36 who had this kind of behaviour - but characters like this are mostly associated with younger women. I think your friend should enjoy it while it lasts, that's what I used to do when I was still in the world. Just tell him to ensure he always uses protection and he must not catch feelings, there's a very high chance he's not the only one she's having sex with. But if he intends to define the relationship and take it more seriously, he should talk to the chic and tell her he wants them to be exclusive. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Nature Didn’t Wire Anybody To Be Anything,society Did by crackland: 7:48am On May 19, 2020 |
emmaodet:Lol, I didn't even want to deal with that army example that was brought up earlier. This is a discussion I've had with someone - a cousin, Major in the Nigerian Army who is stationed in the northern theatre, right at the epicenter of Boko Haram territory. There are no women there, SIMPLE - it's not for argument. That women are recruited into the army does not mean they are sent into battle and like you rightly pointed out, they are mostly stationed at camps and tasked with handling intel. Others are used to interrogate and thoroughly search females who have been captured. The ones who have been trained in aerial surveillance will be flying above (still with a male co-pilot). When it comes down to fighting at the front in any warzone (anywhere in the world) where soldiers spend weeks at a stretch in harsh conditions, they don't want to take a woman who may start seeing her period and then become deadweight to members of her team. Not to mention that even without that, women are just not as strong, fast, or have the stamina to match up with the men in such situations. This is a weak-link no soldier wants to gamble on when you're faced between life and death. Even well-trained dogs see more action on the battlefield than female soldiers. And that is just one occupation, there are countless more like it. Even you sef bruv, you're a sailor right... how many women dey your line of work? As a crane operator, I've only ever met one female operator (she's not even Nigerian) and this is despite the fact that all we need to do to operate these giant machines, is move a few levers and press buttons. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: Nature Didn’t Wire Anybody To Be Anything,society Did by crackland: 7:05am On May 19, 2020 |
Plead:Not at all. But you're asking the wrong question. Here are the right ones which you can ask your lady friends on the thread: 1. Are they comfortable being married to a man who contributes only 20% to the financial purse of the home while they contribute 80%? 2. When they are done birthing and nursing a child, are they comfortable having the man stay home to be the nanny and housekeeper while they go out to earn the bread? All the above questions are for the long-term, not temporarily. Note that it's women who are naturally the nannies, housekeepers, and less of the financial contributors. So for anyone to even believe that times are changing (as y'all have been announcing) or that the modern times are no longer like the primitive times, then the answers to the above questions would be a definite YES. So please go on, ask away...get your answers from them. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Nature Didn’t Wire Anybody To Be Anything,society Did by crackland: 6:57am On May 19, 2020 |
Hathor5:That's all. There's hardly any job that is balanced in terms of gender ratio (50/50) - it's either men are more, or women are more. And that was the point of the list, to show that your claim about how majority of jobs are gender balanced came off the top of your head with no facts backing it. 5 Likes |
Family / Re: Nature Didn’t Wire Anybody To Be Anything,society Did by crackland: 7:26pm On May 18, 2020 |
Hathor5:Hunting has evolved from using spears to catch game for food. It now means working jobs to provide. Until women become and are very comfortable being long-term sole providers (or more of the financial provider) while they let their husbands stay at home to be nanny, cook, and general housekeepers (or be less financially capable), then nothing has really changed in the modern world compared to primitive societies when it comes down to the point. You also claimed that most jobs do not rely on physical strength and as such a wide range of jobs these days can be done equally by both sexes. Well, this is a far-cry from reality because just as hunting evolved from using spears, physical strength also evolved into mental strength (rigor) accompanied by physical stamina to withstand stress and physical risk-factors. This is a list of jobs that are at least 80% dominated by males despite developments in technology and robotics: The full list goes all the way to over 300 and it doesn't get equal gender representation until about 190, more than halfway through. Also put it into consideration that the percentages above will definitely be higher in a country like Nigeria where women are more into jobs which allow them to sit pretty in an office or for those who are business inclined - they'd rather go into baking, tailoring, event planning, cooking, make-up, etc... Anything which doesn't involve the exertion of mental rigors. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: Men Should Undergo Vasectomy For Family Planning - Facebook Feminist by crackland: 5:23pm On May 18, 2020 |
These issues are quite simple and straightforward - the partner who doesn't want more children ought to do something about it by taking control of their end. Personally, I don't see how my partner will get pregnant for me when I don't want her to and this won't even require a vasectomy. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Please I Really Need Your Advice On This by crackland: 5:18pm On May 18, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:He has done enough, more than enough. And to think the ingrate is still mouthing off when she should be showing appreciation to him every morning, is utterly despicable of her. Where she stays should not be his problem even if he has the spare resources laying around. 4 Likes |
Family / Re: Why I Stopped Eating Meat And Fish And Now I Can't Find A Wife To Marry. by crackland: 5:10pm On May 18, 2020 |
Carchoice:Nothing do you bruv. Everyone is entitled to their choice 6 Likes |
Family / Re: Would You Sacrifice Your Job For Your Family? by crackland: 5:08pm On May 18, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:Na so... |
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