factormatt6:
I call the emergency response 112, it wasn't connecting

sassysure:

It's a natural instinct for men to help women who they know have no man around them. Yes, others may wanna take advantage of it, but majority just want to help. U are a man and u know this.
He may have another agenda in his mind waiting for the ripe time but if the woman don't have any in her mind, she will see him as she sees any young man and if she is my type, she will cook and give him too. If he discover his agenda isn't working, with time, if he isn't genuine, he will start giving excuses and finally stop.
How can u enjoy your marriage when u are constantly looking behind your shoulders?
I was in that position for 2 yrs and my friend's husband was like the man of the house. Remove the other one and u will wonder if I'm his wife.

factormatt6:
. I can't argue with you, because it unfortunate you haven't been to where things are organized and Government really care

factormatt6:
. Do you know how covid-19 spread? Go look it up. Ignorance is truly a disease

karlyx:
I have been out of the country for about 1Year 6 months and I discovered recently that my wife always call one of the neighbors who is a young man to come and help her turn on the generator. We have kids and the young man has become friends with both my wife and d kids and anytime I Complained about the closeness,she defends him and even turn against me.
Can she be cheating with this guy?

Xone3:

If both parents can't be pleased with whatever you do? It is my fault right? I prefer it gets late then. Every one has a breaking point and when they act out of it, they are bastards? You're the first person that will tell me I am a bastard because everyone says I look like my father. ��

Collette9:
Do you have junior sisters?

Xone3:

Thanks , you made me smile and cry. I am actually not jobless, I have a job that means the world to me but I am tired of being the bad child. The one every family both near and far see as the odd one out. The rebellious one who is disobedient, proud and unruly. The bad influence to the other child. The one that tries to be independent and won't leave her room.

Miarose:
@Adaego5,

Don't fall for the baits..you don't have to prove yourself to anyone.Enjoy your new relationship.

@crackland, you are such a primadonna.

1st Corinthians 13:7 says,"Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things."
She played her part, loved him beyond his wrongs which she didn't count.. did he do the same? He broke it off, didn't he?
Its just a relationship that didn't work out.. no need picking her apart.
Happy holidays..

Adaego5:

Something that is not meant to be, is not meant to be that's the first thing you should know. And for the records, there was nothing wrong with me.
How else do you want to understand that the love from his side was never there or probably shortlived? When a man doesn't love a woman, don't you think he would keep making excuses for his actions?
See ehn, stop trying to open up old wound. I have moved on is that I have moved on.
I have passed my message to those currently passing through emotional abuse and heartbreak and that's my problem. So whatever you are trying to say right now doesn't concern me at all.

rockstarB:

Thanks
I'm a lady BTW

Adaego5:

Funny,
like so when I was hoping for us to work out well once again, you expect me to come out and talk about all his bad sides? Of course, I had to cover up for his faults because I was in love.
You are not me, neither do you know what I passed through with him. I am not one to come out and lie against someone.
The relationship was a terrible one yet I still wanted him,this is the real truth.

I finally moved on and realized my worth, so just be happy for me and stop whining.

sisisioge:




I'm not trying to start anything fa.

True, we are all a mixture of good and bad...no one is exempted.

And yeah, she's been wished well and advised to be cautious with the new guy. After all, life is all about taking chances. But the purpose of today's thread is to celebrate her win...she dropped the bronze and won the gold. Until proven otherwise, today's win remain GOLD . So we wish her success biko.

rockstarB:

She may have her part like you said. But it isn't her fault that the man she loved couldn't connect to her, it doesnt necessarily mean the guy is he bad guy, he is just being honest which is in fact a very good one. He could have married her out of pity and abuse her in the course of the marriage. She should applaud him for that.

sisisioge:

Chai! You just can't be happy for her without a but ba? She clearly stated that though the guy was a nice guy, he wasn't connected to her in her previous post. Infact, he broke up with her, sampled others, came back and thereafter announced not to be connected to her. Does that sound like a total great guy MO?

Yes, she didn't tell us his nasty side before as a normal human being who was still a bit enthralled by him. Now that the scales have fallen, she was able to see him for who he truly was as it is normal in all circumstances. We all tend to look back at our exes and wondered why we loved them so much when we've gotten to the point where we could analysis their good, bad and uglies with clear heads. He was a nice guy, but clearly not great.

rockstarB:

Love covers all. She was in love so the qualities you tagged "worst" might not mean a thing to her then. People have good qualities as much as bad ones. It's really nice she has moved on

rockstarB:

Probably not

rockstarB:

Na wa o. Do you expect her not to move on after the man she loved said he isn't connected to her? She is lucky to have found someone so soon, someone I want to believe is treating her right. So just wish her well and move on

bukhety:

i wish i can like your comment hundred times. my thoughts exactly. lets even assume the children are even end time children, cant the wife help out? who we marry will either make or mar us.

ChoCho54:
Our laws are very funny. And to think that people who are assigned to look into these laws would just allow this kind of nonsense to subsist is surprising.

What can 6k do for a 14yrs old?

MMotimo:
Yes, I can. If I can’t live without her and she’s genuinely sorry, only death can separate us

highflyer012020:

please i want to ask who between the husband and the wife who do you pay the house rent to. it is possible this can be the manipulative power of the wife. to subdue the man at the expense of the family, maybe the wife might be the one that built the house, even if not she might want to be the Lord of the family by seeking to suppress the will of the man. am very sure that those children obeys their mother very well. evil family pattern.