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Brother leave Christ Talk. God self would not be angry with you if you had good sex with her. lack of sex by you contributes to her mood swings and she's too stressed

She Really Needs stress released

If you Don't Eventually get married in Three weeks cuz of this reason thats when God will gets really Angry at you!

Bible or Not. Christ Or Not! Scripture or Not! you got sex her. you can't Be holier than the Holy

Donbabaj:
I could be happy now but the next minute, she changes mood all of a sudden. We dated for over year after someone match make us but this mood swing things continued overtime so sometimes I get confused even as i really tried managing the pressure. She's a nice girl, takes good care of me, buys clothes, cooks, always wants me to look good but the problem is the rate which she switches mood easily.

Financially, we are both average earner but I think she earns better pay than me.

For instance, recently we got a new apartment - 2bedroom flat but whenever I say something she doesn't like or she doesn't want to hear, she just reacts like why would I say such a thing. All the while we were dating, we never stayed with each other as we stayed in our parents house. Fast forward* most times, as the man, after switching mood, I try to pacify her by petting and apologising but she doesn't just want to listen.

Just today, we were playing with each other on the bed, touching each other (not sensitive part) and she wanted me to kiss her. So I told her jokingly that "but you know this is not biblical" as an advocate of no sex until after marriage. I have never had sex with her either. The next thing she said, "why are you talking like this" she stood up, went straight to the sitting room and slept there. I went to meet her there to pacify her again but she wouldn't listen.

Please note that I have not and can never beat or abuse her cos I'm a Christian.

I'm just tired. She's really getting on my nerves. Our wedding is 3 weeks time but I dont just know what to do. People, friends and family are already aware of the impending marriage but I'm afraid that if a lady can switch mood like this, who knows what will happen tommorrow. I cant sleep in peace...

Please advice. This is happening right now.

Don't feel bad! it's never too late. you might still be the next Wole soyinka. You'd be surprise what would become of your English Soon enough. i promise you that

Hustle Bro and make money. let your account and pocket speak for you

Takeit2017:
God why? Why me?
I dnt have confidence speaking good English always Craming what to say?

Please help me.

you right! it's the money that make us travel for greener pastures cuz truly there's nothing greener there cuz there's no place like home

If not for these hell hole of a country leaders that are blind and know nothing about running a country. Nigeria would be the best place to live

NigeriaB:
Nigeria is a beautiful country with a beautiful God, plus;

Beautiful and gorgeous women

Beautiful opportunities if only you can see beyond where you are rite now.

So, provided I have money ,I stay in Nigeria my country and enjoy all its splendor.

ya right

FeliciaOja:
Ever wonder why pastor children turn out to be worse than their pastor parents?

your story is same for over religious parent.

FeliciaOja:
It is now I understand what being strict does, it makes you live a life of pretence, cos when I got into University I wanted to explore everything  I didn’t have the chance of doing at home.

I drank alcohol like crazy, smoked weed, hung out with rich boys, partying, doing drugs but when I go visit my Parents, I still act like that innocent girl they have always known.

My Dad’s strictness led to my Pretence, if he had drawn me close like my mum did, I would have been a better kid.

When parents use strictness to shut down a kids curiosity instead of guiding them, you are making matters worse for that kid. Because eventually that curiosity will lead them into adventures and exploring all those things you refused them to..

Looking back, al the flogging I received from my dad only made me more stubborn and ruthless.

Nothing really changed? Until my mum made me change for good.

Parents need to use wisdom not force..

COngrats to Him! it's still nothing new. he is only Privileged! e no mean say make we wey no get the opportunity go jump inside river na lol

Great100000:
A Nigerian prodigy, Damilola Arowolaju, has bagged a PhD in Law from The George Washington University, in the United States of America.

Damilola, who hails from Omuo Ekiti, in Ekiti East Local Government area of Ekiti State is the son of a former Special Adviser to Governor Segun Oni on Due Process, Dr Bayo Arowolaju

Damilola, who was also the President of the 2020 PhD graduating students, was garlanded at the university’s virtual convocation ceremonies held on Thursday, May 21, 2020.

The former Special Adviser who confirmed this to journalists in Ado Ekiti on Saturday was elated that his son could be decorated with such a high academic honour at the age he secured admission to the University of Lagos, where he studied Sociology.

He said:

“My baby, Dr. Damilola Arowolaju, with the grace of God just graduated with a PhD in Law from the George Washington University School of Law, Washington DC, USA.

“He gave an address to the fellow graduands as the President of the GW Bar Association. Graciously, he did this at 24 years of age, when I was just entering the University in Nigeria for my first degree. May our children be higher and be more successful than us all. Amen

“I am overwhelmed, speechless and flabbergasted by this outstanding feat. I am excited and more motivated to do more to uplift humanity”.

Arowolaju appealed to the Ekiti State Governor, Dr. Kayode Fayemi, to rejig and expand the scope of the State’s scholarship board to be able to benefit the children of the poor, who are outstanding in their academics.

In a video clip containing his speech to the graduand, Damilola said he shall continue to promote justice for all manners of men, irrespective of creed, race and class.

The swaggering academic added that no sacrifice is too much to make to protect human rights and promote self-respect among humanity, describing these as the best way to entrench equality in the system.

He said:-

“Justice means making huge sacrifices that would guarantee all constitutional freedoms for all and sundry.

“When I say justice, I mean for both innocent and guilts. The one that brings equality, stability and raise the hope for a better society. That is what we should all pursue using morality and the instrumentality of Law.

“My graduation today was a result of the sacrifices made by my parents to ensure that I excel in my academic pursuit”

https://tribuneonlineng.com/24-year-old-ekiti-indigene-bags-phd-in-law-in-us-varsity/

haha you no well

stevmatt15:
So because you made it, you have come out with a story to tell, so that we will be thanking God, abi?

Me too I slept in Buhari toilet when we were serving in the Army.

We're not Ghost Haunters But from the look of things judging from how you narrated the story
The lady spirit was just unrest and willing to let someone know of her dead body within the room
It's normal bro just that its always family members spirits go disturb and appear to like that
in your own case i would just say she probably made appearance for awareness to let you know or someone near her room aware of what happend to her in the room

Cloud699999:
Good morning Nairalander,

It all started Last week When a neighbor next to my apartment died without nobody noticing for 2 days until she started smelling. We didn't actually suspect that it was from her room until someone came looking for her because she wasn't answering her phone, which was still ringing inside and the door was locked from the inside that was how we knew she was dead, already swollen because the last time we saw was Sunday night and we didn't know untill Tuesday that she was dead.

All this happened last week. Later that Tueday family and friends with police came to evacuate her corpse. No foul play or any struggle seems she died in her sleep. She was young and a very playful lady and lively. She is 36 years old single mother and she lives.

So the haunting started 2 days later. The First one happened around 2am, My girlfriend said she saw someone looking like standing by the door outside just staring straight at her, there was no light and the window was open, so when she pointed torch light she saw nothing but when she switch the torch light, she saw the shadow of the same person. That really scared shit out of me because she later told me in the morning.

The second was last night. Someone was banging seriously on the toilet window because it's an iron window. The banging continue for almost 3hours. It was double banging as if someone was knocking hard. I doubt it was someone when I try I check I couldn't find anyone there, few minute later the banging continue till around 4.30am when mosque call out for prayer. And I could here some here some sound like someone walking in the next room where she died, no one was home. Her sister refuse to sleep in the room so it was locked.

Please help, how can I get rid of this unwanted disturbances. I don't know what to do. This last night scare me to the bone. The funniest thing. No one heard this banging except me. The other neighbors have different theory.

Anyone experience this kind of thing before? How did you handle it?

sighs! this meme should do

Natural441:
My fellow nairalander let us discuss the reason men lose interest in there women after few years in marriage.

I'm sure that must be sarcasm

GistmeBlog:
See how beautiful the interior looks. There is really money in the music industry. SEE PHOTOS

Now OP tell us where you belong among the category cuz it takes a thief to know a thief

binarymachine:
Source: https://flipmemes.com/2020/04/26/8-type-of-guys-ladies-should-flee-from/

Don't mind them and they are praising them for mere borehole and them too taking pics flaunting their office like they have motives with the act mtchewww nonsense!

BigTableShaker:
Ordinary borehole in 2020?!
I blame the fucking masses.

Governments stand because people sit; if people stand, governments will sit!

An Eye For an Eye won't lead us no where

Yobabad:
Why must the do that? Muslims can never do that kind of gesture to any religion in the world, why being fair to them when they can never be fair to others. Most Muslims can never wish happy Christmas or Easter, but some none Muslims will be wishing them happy Salah. Muslims are very bigotry. The criticize any Muslim who wish a none Muslim well.

see talk! entitled man ko, en subtitle man ni. guess you wrote this to gain womens attention but its bullshits all the way
sense of entitlement are for women not men

Dyt:
Never ever
I mean never settle for an entitled man

YES i can sponsor any random homeless person on street in SCHOOL. hahah

Johntemmy:
As stated on the topic.. Can you do it?

right about that!

Ryan03:
una dey make me laugh for this forum. Guys use to be the ones doing these stuffs. The girls got wiser and took over the game now the guys are crying like they are innocent. Lol, make una chill, we are reaping the fruit if our labour, make we dey play am dey go.

in many homes in Nigeria the wife don't know the true source of income. and don't get me wrong please not saying not to tell wife.
my point is as Nigeria Is now we all know "Ole ni everybody, eni ile ba moba ni barawu"
i never try to question anybody's source of income ever in my life and never will i.
every man for himsef. make we all sha dey alright be koko

Oluromantic:
Source of living is irrelevant. Lol. When u want to marry, don't tell ur wife and her family your source of money o.

Haha! you funny! you act like you not a nigerian, me and you know what the question was aiming at?
it's not a matter of questiion being polite but a matter of irelevance!

Oluromantic:
He asked a polite question in a polite manner. He doesn't know and he wants to know. What is his occupation? Simple!

i mean no Disrespect but instead of plying to know his Occupation Why not just Face your own life and work to better it even more than E-money himself

its a matter of how well bro not how far

JasonScoolari:
Please I want to ask, what is the major occupation of this E-money?

i admire your approach! i sense maturity there!

Ndubuisipaul1:
What where you expecting ? A fight ? Maybe from some else but not from me...

Bro Take Heart! Na one of those things. in this era of social media no more love na just to dey play along with eachother

You break up with a girl in the morning before night she don dey date 20already

Gone are the days our girls weep for break up now they already got backups waiting in line for you

Not even waiting in line dem don dey share your food with you already

Never take any girl serious again. LOVE AND relationship not like before in our parents Time
Social Media don spoil love affairs already

use this MEME below to smart up bro and ginger yourself cuz more of this still coming your way. Bleep love and Bleep Dating!

icetrimz:
I would like to go symmetrical to the point. But before I proceed, I will like to say sorry to whom it may concern. Yes people I did it, I went through her phone. I broke the rule and went against my instincts.

In fact, I'm writing this with pidgin so as to carry the street along. so I invite ma babe come house today, the babe too cool, silent and has this innocent look and all. As she enter house, the first thing wey she ask me be say make i go buy her pad... i swear i shock. i nearly fall sef, but as a "niggarrrr" i no tok, i just waka jeje go buy am come, i even buy fruits join sef as a beta pikin ... lol [ well, im not laughing shaa o] I later move go market buy catfish cook for her, just to make sure Jesus is happy with me, his son.

So later in the day, i went to play around with the boys as madam dey "flight mode" I came back around 9pm and met her sleeping. I waka go kitchen go take something, then i see her phone for there with 8 missed calls from the same number. As a retired agbero i sensed something was not right about the calls. So i jejely and smoothly snicked back to the room and placed her finger on her phone sensor to open it. After unlocking the phone i went straight to the rest room to settle my curiosity. omo, as i open whatsapp, enter the caller name chat, naso i collapse.......... athink say na only that one, as i enter others naso i paralyze. what i saw was UNBELIEVABLE and beyond my mental absorption. The one wey one paddy dey complain give am say she no sabi suck preeq na im wound me. I lost my breath for a moment and nearly went to join my ancestors.

Please help me. This is 3am and I'm still in deep pains. I can't seem to walk, my sight is going blurry too and i don't know what to do about her hereafter

Please how do I get my legs working again so I can at least walk back to the room and sleep first??

keep decieving yourself, there's no rules for what you should and should not do.

Just make Sure You get money and with it appear rich as you are and trust me every other mistakes or shits would be overlooked

MONEY IS THE KOKO

iamyemiakins:
SEVEN THINGS YOU SHOULD NOT DO WHEN MEETING YOUR PARTNER'S PARENTS FOR THE FIRST TIME.

This is a major step in a relationship, so the first impression can be a lasting impression, believe me when I say that.

1. PLAYING WITH YOUR PHONE

Avoid being on your phone, texting, checking your mail, facebooking or chatting. Sometimes most of us do it unknowingly. It is true some chicks do that just to keep themselves busy, but your spouse parents might feel dismissed and think you are not interested in getting to know them, especially, So avoid your phone at that first time.

2. LIE TO MAKE YOURSELF LOOK GOOD

Being fake instead of who you truly are is a mistake that can upset your partner's parents, and even your partner. Remember, they may get to know who you are later or in your absence, and it could really hurt your relationship. If you have told your partner the truth about you and your partner has accepted the kind of person you are, his/her parents should be able to do same. So there is no need of lying to attract their likeness.

3. BRINGING UP A CONTROVERSIAL TOPIC FOR DISCUSSION

Please don't bring up a topic like Religion, Politics, or s3x for discussion, even if you know that your believe are in line with your partner's parents. Some people still consider it bad for bringing up such topic for discussion before them. Concentrate on getting to know them more rather than those topics. If they keep discussing such topic among themselves, do more of listening.

4. DON'T GIVE LONG SPEECHES, MAKE YOUR SPEECHES BRIEF

Despite the fact that they are very interested in getting to know you, they also do not want to spend the entire time listening to your life story. Don't tell them stories about how your father divorced your mother when you were a teenager, how your community people burnt a woman to ashes for insulting her hubby, and all that. Make your speeches brief and interesting.

5. PUBLIC DISPLAY AFFECTION

Yes, public display of affection can be wonderful,but there is appropriate time for it. This does not mean you have to become cold, distant and robotic. Feel relaxed, interact with them gently, smile and be friendly, but make it neutral, rather than behaving as if you are desperate to have them as in laws.

6. DON'T FINISH ANY FOOD GIVEN TO YOU

Whether the food is small or plenty, and no matter how delicious it is. Never ask for alcohol if you are asked to make a choice of drink. Don't be carried away. This is very important.

7. DON'T PASS THE NIGHT THERE

No matter the persuation, don't pass the night in their house on your first day of visit.


You can also add yours...

https://m.facebook.com/103658061331200/posts/7-things-you-should-not-do-when-meeting-your-partners-parents-for-the-first-time/120618422968497/

Don't Stress Yourself Over Nothing Bro. Your Sis is Okay.

An another Candid advice from my little brain! i recomend she should be taking herbal mixtures! those things do wonders in woman mentral inbalance and restoration

the likes of gudugudu, gangaria and many more, she should just be taking two spoonful mixed with lime every morning and night of every three days and in two weeks its a thing of the past already

AcuraZDX:
Help! My Sister Is Seeing Her Period The Second Time This Month

Please Doctors in the house, my younger sister is seeing her period for the second time just this May.

She confided in me so I promised to ask questions.

She's 21 years of age.

She saw her period on the 4th of this May and today being 20th, she's seeing it again.

Although before she saw her first period, she was recovering from Malaria and that means she was on drugs.

Please this is a serious issue and it's giving me concern.

She has been staying with me in my house since the lockdown started and I can verge for her.

Please your kind advice is needed.

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sorry to say but your marriage is finished

DaddyOpe:
I got married to my wife 5 years ago. Before we got married, she dated a guy. We all stayed in the same area. I live here because it is close to my place of work. Her ex lives in the area. He does building contractor. While they were dating, I met my wife. I was able to convince her to date me. And since the guy was always travelling, I was able to get close to her. I think I won her finally after we had sex. Because that first day, I scattered her brain. She later left the guy. I proposed, she accepted and we got married.

I will say, at that time I got married to my wife, her ex and I were on the same level financially. But, recently, the guy has turned to something else. He does building for people overseas. People said the guy's work is good and he is always getting contracts. My wife said he had a 2.1 in Civil Engineering. He started selling cement. He is now a dangote cement distributor. He built a duplex at the junction of my street. He has 3 cars in the compound (he recently bought 1 car during this lockdown that people are saying no money oo). I and my wife do not have any car. I am still a tenant. We have to pass front of his house every day.

During this lockdown, my office has being delaying salaries. It has not being easy. I have had quarrels with my wife in the past but yesterday was the worst. During the quarrel, she said she regrets marrying me. That if she had ignored me and married her ex, she would have being living comfortably. I almost beat her up. Then she told me that this her ex paid her school fees in 300 and 400 level when she almost pulled out of school for lack of finance. She regrets paying him back by leaving him to marry me.

Since then, I have not being myself. I just created this account to express myself.

haha

longetivity:
my bloda run for ur life else......... it will end in tears

and after doing that, wetin you kon gain?

Mrkcee:
Ifam d man, I'm killing both of them.... Then kill myself

Alaye we Don See worst already nothing New To We Nigerians

dre11:
https://thenationonlineng.net/fg-to-nigerians-prepare-for-the-worst-on-covid-19/

Believe This cooked Story at your own peril

lalasticlala:
This Anita And Jide story is trending online. Who do you think should move?

Jide earns N15 million per annum as a banker in Port Harcourt while his fiancee, Anita earns N42 million annually as an oil company worker in Lagos.

Jide asks Anita who earns much higher to quit her job in Lagos and relocate to Port Harcourt and look for a new job after their wedding.

The story has sparked divided reactions on social media.

Who do you think should move?

Una Get Economy Before? Have We Not been In recession ever Since? so all these shouldn't be New To .You

matrix199:
We need the economy to be reopened.



It's quite obvious this government is going by the rise in coronavirus cases in extending the lockdown/curfew. Another proactive measures should be adopted in curbing the spread of coronavirus because the lock down/curfew didn't work, isn't working.



If the government continues this trend, recession is inevitable.

and The Oga patapata of them All Is MONEY! from the way i see it. it might be cuz she sees you are not financially buoyant enough is why she's been repulsive sexually

From what you said, you asks her money to make bigger money but these females generally don't believe in "i want to" of making money. their brain has been already programed on "ready, available or made" MONEY.

my opinion though

cuz if you are giving alot of money from time to time trust me she wouln't be closing up that thing in the middle

thorpido:
You dated her enough to know her response to matters or were you two just fvckin?
Na now you wan bend person wey stiff?

You're thinking of quitting the marriage without working at it so your child will suffer?You've got to man up.
People may hardly change when they are grown.You need to talk to your wife from time to time and make her see reasons to compromise sometimes.
The best way to encourage someone to give is by showing examples of giving too.Make sure you do this to your wife often - time,attention,help with house chores and money.

You smart

xareal:
Bro if you're looking for a wife,stay away from an undergraduate..e get why oooo

You said it all

Nwodosis:
In any relationship no one knows who is actually using who untill the relationship ends! It is like a game, but this one is a mind game, you will only know the winner (user) when the game ends.