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[quote author=GARRI (x7)]Yea, that's true.

Maybe they don't stay together..[/quote]Why won't a 4 months old stay with the mum...it doesn't make any sense...I believe that child was kidnapped.

ogugua88: Lmaoooooooo!

ijebabe: Crazyman, na you I follow come here o Hahahaha!

Morning peeps!

Sup dear...I trust your night was great how about you use the report button in my section and report a case, so we can begin to mail each other.

I noticed that mods who do not follow each other can't send pms.

I'm awaiting your report.

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Lesson over

Ha ha ha...you fell for it.

Thanks for you open mindedness and honesty though.

Good morning all, please I am a newbie... I need to start posting comments...how do I do that?

OmidanOjuloge: Walahi I no gain anytin waste of tym, and resources

Same here

greatgod2012: Yes, my hubby have them all, and i have all his........

Its called faithfulness in marriage.

More like breach of privacy...but since it works for you and you hubby, I'd say carry on.

I must commend the girl on her decision.

Humans (men in particular) are opportunistic in nature. Most of them will push boundaries and take advantage of others if they can get away with it.

In your case, your man is playing on your love for him and desire to be with him in order to get his own way, or have his way with you.

There is nothing wrong with having a relationship based on dominance and submission, but it should be loving and consensual.

Using blackmail and emotional pressure to force you to do something you don't want to is abusive.

Playing the "if you loved me" card or making someone feel like they will never find another partner or that their abuse is self-inflicted ('you made me angry' or 'if you just did what I said' etc) are classic techniques that abusive partners use to keep control of you and their relationship.

They make you emotionally and in some cases physically dependent on them and make you feel as though you can't leave or will not find a better relationship.

But in the end you'll come to notice that the did all that for their personal and selfish interest.

My advice to your friend is to maintain her decision...she shouldn't give in to his pressure.

She might end up loosing him, but at least she maintained her dignity.

Source...

Or rather she should go to her depeartment ask her HOD...the student affairs might refer her back to her dept.

FXKing2012: You state anonymous or unknown for pple to know it wasnt urs.

Noted!

ijebabe: Hehe, yes o! Happy New Year to you too, hope you had a good one.

Yea sure...my New Year celebration was great. Thanks for your concern.

FXKing2012: ...wise words without acknowledging the original author? That's an academic crime called plagiarism.

True...but in a situation where you have no idea who the author is what who then do you acknowledge?

Besides, I composed some of them myself.

See my signature and the thread below for those who don't have any.

https://www.nairaland.com/671392/words-wisdom-crazyman

ijebabe: Happy New Year

Happy new year...longest time.

Rocktation: No problemo. Anything that will add that "Dame" to ma name.

I see...don't worry I would work on that.

[quote author=Mynd_44]I am not mad ooo. Crazman know I am not na.[/quote]Me I don't know o...I can't say what I'm not really sure of.

Rocky just be careful with him, cos he looks dangerous...

[quote author=Mynd_44]Now Rocky, adjust your bra straps they are enticing me.[/quote]Wetin carry your eyes go her bra...this guy sef, I go kidnap you o!.

movmentish: Over my dead body

So you're a corpse...

So true.

[quote author=@kenyattaMoore]lol I am not a slave,I am the tough one in the relationship but I am just not so sure anymore that he will pass on a beautiful face girl and marry me I guess I am very desperate now I don't know what to do. People also tell me that I am lucky because nobody will want appart from him[/quote]Then give him a reason to marry you.

I once knew a couple who dated for about 8 years, and the guy ended up marrying some other girl. His excuse was that he has no reason to marry her. He probably must have been fed up with her, and she on the other end would have lowered her guard (female charms) thinking 8 years is enough time for them to get along. How wrong she was.

If you ask me to buy a packet of shirt from your store, you should be able to convince me beyond every reasonable doubt that - that particular shirt is much better than the ones in other dealers shop.

Same thing goes for marriage...for a guy to take that huge step and make a proposal, you must convinced him that you're much better than the girl next door. That come rain, come sunshine, your love towards him wouldn't shrink.

Prove to him that love goes far beyond beauty and I'm sure that you would have cause to smile at the end of the day.

MarioHeaven: I came across dis gal during my service yr. She told me she was a virgin and after 1 yr and few months I told her dat I wnt 2 go and c her family she acepted and a nite wt her I came 2 find out she was nt wat she told me. Wat do u advice me 2 do wt her as some1 I kept for for a yr and?

Usually I don't bother to ask a girl if she's a virgin or not.

If I love you, I'll ask you out...and if you accept my proposal, then we become lovers.

But if a girl tells me she's a virgin without me asking her, and I come to discover that she actually lied to me, I would end that relationship cos such a girl cannot be trusted.

God said we were fearfully and wonderfully made...he made us in his image and likeness.

Stop looking down on yourself. At the appointed time, your man would come for you...so please don't be a slave to anyone simply because you want him to date or marry you.

For me, I don't think I will be able to do it...love is about being responsible and living up to your responsibilities.

Washing a girl's pants adds nothing to that relationship. If she loves you whether or not you wash her pants, her love would forever remain.

If she you feel doesn't love you enough, and you're looking for how to win her over. It would be wise to look for more matured ways to win her heart rather than stoop so low to play the role of a house boy all in the name of love.

Future leader: [color=#000000][/color]..IS IT RIGHT FOR MARRIED ME TO BUILD A HOUSE FOR THEIR IN-LAWS IN THEIR VILLAGE..

You were so eager to reply yourself that you didn't bother to review what you typed before hitting the reply button.

True love exists, only if you encounter the right person. Some people have a negative experience during a bad relationship.

This just means they need to find a better match. Don't let one bad experience make you believe otherwise. There are 7 billion people on this planet, I'm sure there's a match for everyone. Each experience gets your closer to finding someone better for you.

What does he stand to gain by sleeping with his own daughter?

Some people are just wicked.

Rocktation: I wanted to ignore, buh for the sake of wareva....what's the anger about, Mynd?

Please dear don't reconcile with him...I'm tired of the competition. I want you all for myself.

Bennylove25: Hi House!
I have not served since i finished my B.sc because it was a partime programe, but now i enroled for a masters degree full time, can i serve now?

As a part time student, you would be given certificate of exemption...part time students don't usually go for service.

kenniojo: BROTHER AM VERY SORRY.... YOUR NAME SAID IT ALL... CRAZYMAN

MY GREAT PPLE WHAT SHOULD WE EXPECT FROM A CRAZYMAN? hummmm

ITS ONLY A CRAZY MAN THAT WILL ARGUE WITH FELLOW CRAZY MAN.. SO... COUNT ME OUT COS AM NOT A CRAZY MAN

Keep trying harder my dear don't give up...I believe that one of this days you'll become a great comedian.

Bidam: nobody is saying you can't prophesy..infact the bible says you should covet spiritual gifts..my brother instead of joining the unbelievers to rubbish prophesies and the body of Christ..why not intercede for unbelievers to see the light..the end of the prophetic is to establish the kingdom of God by establishing a mighty church. Every saint stirred by the truth of the prophetic yearns and declares that the kingdom is increased and established as satan's kingdom is plundered and souls are saved and added to the household of God.

My I'm not rubbishing prophecies and the body of christ.

I'm only pointing out how most men of God come on air and make an obvious observation, then claim its a prophecy.

We saw how Tunde Bakare claimed how God showed him that Obasanjo wouldn't live to be sworn in as the president of Nigeria. (In 1999)

We saw how he came back years later to say God told him he would rule this Nation.

We also saw chris okoite coming out to say how God has prepared a manson for him in Aso Rock.

Unfortunately they all turned out to be lies...obsanjo is alive today, bakare lost the elections, and okotie also lost.

Do you know the magnitude of humiliation the church suffered during that period?

Most would be christians lost their faith. Most born again christians even doubted their faith. It was a terrible situation for the body of christ.

Its ok to make an innocent statement...but when you use the name of God to back up such statement, probably for show off, then it becomes a very grave sin and you're likely to get punished.