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Hi,am 29 yrs of age or will b 29 5 months 2 come,i really dont knw if its me or the guys r just attracted 2 me,i means guys that am older than.is it ok 4 me 2 go on a date wit a guy yonga dan me?dis happens often n its makin me feel dey r just after wots btw my legs dat dey arent d serious type cos i hardly find older guys askin me out.d last time i went out wit a guy like dat who just clocked 23 dis january it didnt tak long 4 us 2 part ways,d whole tin didnt just work-out,it only lasted 4 2 months n we both went our seprate ways.'am realy confused cos dey keep comin every now n den,i realy dnt knw how 2 go bout it cos dere's dis other guy who is realy distobin me.pls help me out!

My dear, for a girl to date a guy younger than her would be a big risk; you might love him, but question is does he feel the same way about you, is he just after your body or does he really have a soft spot for you? Can he marry you despite the age difference?

Have you ever thought of the fact that even if he proposes marriage his parents and relations might object due to the age difference, I would suggest that you leave all this small small boys and look for a more matured guy would walk you down the altar.

Where be that?

I know say you don hire ashow con house; if na condom you de find, just beg me and I go give you; no de speak in tounges.

But man must survive na

@crazykid
dont believe that one

Why don't you want me to believe it?
Or do you have an ulterior motive behind your speech?

Kelevra which rubber na.

Ah ah abi you don forget say na for Onitsha me, you, Romade and Clems de before I comot there because business no de flow for that side.

nope it should be hard to say, easy to do
lol

I wish I could believe that.

You must pay the money.

You shall be my first scape goat

Speaking from experience of course

Definately

How do you think you can date a girl and her mum at the same time?

Why do you want to eat your cake and have it?

Why is it difficult for you to control your libido?

Why do you want to put yourself in a situation that would tie you down forever?

Why why why?

Satan is knocking on the door of your future; don’t let him in; if you do and he comes in, believe me, he would ruin your future.

Oh! I feel your condition.

God go provide, you fir con de sell gala for Awka e still pay pass groundnut.

That's how to make quick money in Nigeria

You have disobeyed and must pay a fine of N10, 000 to my account; or stand a chance of being sentenced to 20 years in prison without the option file.

As money no de man pikin must chop.

Lol Easy to say hard to do

I thought we agreed that you won't be selling groundnuts with Romade and Clems in Onitsha market; how come you're still busy there

Now that was funny.

What’s wrong in dating a driver?

Really?

If Dangote, Odetola or one of those in that circle happens to ask you out; would you reject them.

Be truthful and honest in giving me your reply.

@Poster; congratulations; since you decided to play the mute role, and she saw that age wasn’t on her side, she decided to express her feelings; am really proud of her.

What location are you planning to do the wedding? I would like to attend it. .

Dani how you de.

You neva mail me or add me for your YIM o!

Why the scowl on your face. . . it's the truth.

I don't think they are that hard to get.

Just do what amebo22 said and you might just get one who would be willing to warm your bed.

Every man always want to take charge and protect his woman from preys and will do anything to achieve this,when a man's hanging out with his woman and he suddenly catches his woman eyeing another man right there in his presence,and playing funny after getting 2 sneak her number into his hands.I put this to y'all what will u do?

Well, it depends on the level of trust you and your partner have for each other; if you trust your girl, then you won’t be bothered if she eyes another guy. After all guys do eye other girls.

You later mentioned something like she secretly sneaked her phone number to the guy she’s eying; if I’m dating a girl, and she does that – then that would be the end of that relationship.

It makes no sense dating a cheat.

*Exhales deeply*

This is food section my dear.

I wonder o!

Tell your friend (X) to look for another guy; sitting there and grieving over spilt milk wouldn’t solve the problem.

So should move into the relationship market and look for someone else.

Ok. I will sleep and dream and I know that one day it would become a reality.

I shall take you to my village where you shall become my princess queen.

nope, i visited him once alone. And i had a feeling a chemistry was arising btw both of us, i don't wanna give in to the chemistry coz i know nothing will definately come out of it. A day after he asked me to come and stay overnight. Hell no, can't do that. Anywayz, we are meant to see each other at some point next week. I'm just quite confused if it's really worth my time. Coz we're only friends. I'm really scared coz i don't want a situation that will lead to sex. I don't want that. I'm very determined wen it comes to self control but i dunno how much self control d guy has,

You know one problem with girls. . .

They know the right path and the wrong path; the funniest or rather the craziest part of the story is that they would seek counsel from friends, families, elderly people anyone with the ability to advice them on what path to take.

After being advised to take to right path, they would prefer to turn a deaf ear on all the advises they’ve received, take the wrong path, make a mistake later in life and then live to regret it.

@Topic.
If you’re aren’t comfortable with him and you know that he might not be able to control himself in your presence, then why would you want to visit him in the first place, why would you want to get close to him when you know deep down inside of you that nothing good can come out of that relationship why?

Hasn't it ever crossed your mind that he can rape you?