₦airaland Forum

Justleaveme:
thank you sir for these. Trust me this word is more comforting.

E de do me somhow, say girl I been de with go turn family member. My conscience go disturb me

with time it will be alright. try to get her off your mind as soon as possible

if they love each other genuinely, please leave them.

On your part, try to control yourself and don't be too frequent in their house.

phemmyfour:
Not enough? You need to review your Biology class

the last time I check, it takes long for carbohydrates to be converted to sugar that the body need compare to some of these things.

CandyOps:
So if them ask you "what are the sources of sugar (or glucose) to the body?" you go talk mineral abi?

hmmmm, make I ignore you first. merry Christmas

omoadeleye:
Sheybe s/he will be taking all these monosaccharides and disaccharide food

abi?

socialmediaman:
Your body can get sugar from other healthy carbohydrates

Agreed but sometimes its not enough

seborrhic:
So anyone that takes 5 bottles of soft drinks a day comes down with diabetes or cancer?
Illiterate!

I believe what she meant is that excess sugar could lead to diabetes

DarkJeddi:
Her body needs carbohydrates..
Not sugar..
They are not one and the same

what's the end product of those carbohydrates?

phemmyfour:
All your rice, eba, fufu etc already contain more than enough sugar needed by the body. Why add artificial Sugar to your struggles

sometimes its not enough.

but your body need sugar too? that means you don't usually take bitter stuffs nor do rigorous activities?

Congrats though, its not easy.

Men can practically do anything to get high and are discovering new ways everyday.

Kobojunkie:
Any individual who has yet to learn self-control or self-discipline where the things of this world is, is not ready to make a committed where God is concerned.

Buddhist monks, who know no God, have self-control and throughly disciple themselves daily in order that they may reach their enlightenment. How much more then a one who claims commitment to God?

hmmmm....

the urge will always be there, it's only for you to be discipline and anytime the urge come, distract yourself, don't keep thinking about it, get busy and all that until the feeling temporary goes away.

mastering how to control that feeling is the best.

imagine! na to quietly pack his belonging and leave her, dash her everything including the bride price. She is not sorry for her actions.

Congratulations to them

Congratulations! God is always faithful

most ladies don't go through that very painful natural process again....
meanwhile, in as much as child bearing process is not easy, being a man is something else, just that most men don't talk much about what they go through.

Na so, swag.

too much money!

Newyorkitis:
Oga mi, this is what i have been advocating for: Marriage class. But most of these new churches wey no get branch for another place no dey take am serious. They just dey happy say wedding take place for their church.

I dey also pray to marry who never finish her sexual bundle before i marry her.

Amen to your prayers

una no do marriage class?

Let her know the consequences of her actions, seat her down and talk sense into her.

some women no dey try at all, only if she knows what her actions could lead to.

Congratulations

Things fall apart! This one is out because someone died and the parents are rich.
A visit to some government schools or community schools will shock Nigerians especially the rate of cultism in secondary schools.

Na only God fit help us from this mess.

xpool:
Hmmm, their homes now will be like Fuji house of commotion, with parents trading blames over their children waywardness.

Exactly. Parenting is not an easy task, may God help us.

more revelations, parents really need to be friends with their kids.

May God help us, imagine what the parents will be going through now.

Kobojunkie:
ON the dot!

Thank you Sir

Kobojunkie:
ON the dot!

Thank you Sir

Bros no vex but to be honest, I don't think you're mature enough for marriage, no offence please.

Your wife dey try, if you dey some people shoe here you go don kill your wife be that.

married to them or use them?

this guy 28? e choke

amen

Moreign001:
Hello Guys, Good Morning and a Happy Sunday to you all.

I don't know how concise i can be, but I will try.

I just graduated last 3 months, with my girlfriend who's now my ex, and she's 26yrs of age while I'm 28yr.

We started dating from our 200level till yesterday, (that's approximately 4yrs and counting...).
We were ideal together, we were well known in school, to an extent where her friends and mine kept asking how? And wishing theirs was like ours..

She promised never to leave, and she please everyday that I should never hurt her. At times we jokingly talked about our future kids which is now a never happening fable.

So after we graduated, she travelled to stay with her aunt, we do check on each other everyday.

Last month.. She called, and said her friend needs an advice, that she and her date just graduated, and that another man is asking her out, and she's thinking of dumping her guy since he's not ready, and that the newly known man is ready to pay for her marriage rites.
Immediately I knew she was the one in the story, because I already had several dreams were she left me. I pretended, I told her to tell her friend to "Follow Her Heart".

Last night she called, and said there's something she wants to tell me, I responded, "Is it what I already know?", she asked what? I told her she's getting married soon, and she said yes! I was speechless. I asked her for how long has this been going on, she said it started when she came to stay with her Aunt. We spoke, and I congratulated her, she started crying, I ended the call, sent her a good luck text.

This morning, she called and said she couldn't sleep last night. I asked her why she did it, why she decided to get married, she said she doesn't know. I asked if she likes the guy, she said yes. She couldn't stop crying and was saying I shouldn't leave her, while she's the one leaving me. I was totally down, but I have crazy friends. I WhatsApp a friend, told him what just happened, his words boosted me up. He said, " Support her, we move, no be God leave you". That was enough, but it's hard, really hard to move on without her, and she said the same thing and kept pleading I shouldn't leave her.
Now I'm asking, if I was the one who had left, what would have been the story? That I used her and dumped her, because this has always been used against the guys.
Why are women in a rush to marry? They don't even add value to themselves, I'm now 80% in agreement that marriage is one of the greatest achievement for a woman, maybe in Nigeria.

bro you try oooo, still communicating with her and taking all the emotional blackmail from her.
The best support you can give her like your guy said is cutting all ties with her, them no force her, na she chose the guy over you but that is life.
you're hurting yourself more by communicating with her, cut her completely, through all channels. Its time to double your hussle, channel all this energy and anger to doing something positive for yourself.