₦airaland Forum

Netmuch:
Hi fellow nairalanders,

I and my fiance were both bankers, I brought her in town and God used me for her to secure a job.

Where I used to stay was a bit further to our work place, so their is another banker guy who has a CR-V Honda car that usually drops her in the morning at her office whom she later became close friends with, although dey do call themselves whenever the guy is about leaving his house to pick up my fiancee, which I was aware of.

However, suddenly I realized that my fiancee WhatsApp chat is always cleared not to let me see their chats which I suspected a foul play, but the worst came last week when I was trying to get my car engine oil and I was approaching her, she was calling the guy, as I near her to eavesdrop on what she was talking with the guy, she quickly ends the call. I got angry that why will she not let me hear their conversations if truly she has nothing to do with the guy. I challenged her but she insisted nothing was going on between them that she had to end the call on my arrival which she has always call in my presence.

I don't want to be a fool as am about to end the relationship, but I guess I need your honest and positive response on this matter why she had to do what she did. I am a very simple guy and I believe every one should have their freedom. And I don't cheat.

I will love to hear your mature opinion on this.

Thanks.

Bro nothing beat peace of mind. Do what whatever will give you peace, if being with her will take your peace, end it and move. Please if you have decided to end things with her, please don't keep her for anything, go your separate ways.

Best of luck to Nigeria

Lyydia:
Hi Nairalanders,
What is the best way to invest funds without actually being engaged in doing anything? I have what I do that brings in money, I just feel like some funds are idle in my account and Naira - dollar fluctuations isn't helping matter.

For example fixed deposit accounts, which Nigerian bank has the best interest rate?

No cryptocurrency
No forex
No betting
No scam investment
No PM

Thank you.

Find a good insurance company and invest it with them, the longer, the more the interest and it's safer with them

I believe you, I go buy fried yam last week, the seller told me 2 pieces goes for N50 naira.

Mad oooo. May peace reign

Good luck to her.

I dey try be that, I better pass op.

Congratulations!!!

Hmmmm, God!

Nice!

They should put in place policies to strengthen then not just increasing the penetration.

If it's a good insurance company and its commission, it's better.

That's the new way people die now, slump and die and they say it's BP even people that do regular check with no history of BP.

May his soul rest with the Lord

What a beautiful heart!! God bless this woman

Sweet surprise

What about that olise guy? That guy is super good

Tell your future wife exactly as you write give us like this, then take care of your child, its better than hiding it.
You're not the first, the mistaken has already been made, if your woman love you, she will support you and stand by you.
If you hide it and went ahead to marry, then you're in for a long thing

Hmmm, God will help is. I dont judge Any but i wont encourage this either because my religion and my God is against it

JohnWealth001:
Money is Good

Honestly

Power of money.

More blessed years E-money.

Insurance but do it with a reliable insurance company.

Kennitrust:
until You refuse him the chance with your vote

Hmmm

Albertone:
You love failure..
No wonder Naija no dey move forward.

Loving him is different from loving how the economy is doing just like God love sinners but not sin.

I love this man Sha!!

I like Rochas but did he have a chance?

kansoboy:
U said it all. Plus they are smart to know that after sex comes financial demanding from this females money which would have been ment for children upkeep.

Lol...

ovanny15:
Exactly dearie

Thank you

Mistakenly!

Do you mean rape or consented?

Maturity, better self control, being responsible etc.

Our thoughts and fears comes as temptation Mostly not God bringing it.

Mehn, yesterday was crazy.

salt1:
I gave a wife exactly this advice but it's still not working. Instead, the husband is using the divorce threat to terrorize her life more frequently than before. He even makes it more traumatic by throwing her things out of the house occasionally and ordering her to leave with her children.
If the man has fully decided to get rid of her and try out with another girl, even her trying to be nice to him will be irritating to him.

I know a wife that lost her marriage for being too submissive and caring. Instead of enjoying the peace, the man was irritated by the attention she was paying him.

OP, please ignore him, find joy in yourself and your children. Carry yourself with dignity. YOU MUST TALK THROUGH THIS if the relationship is to last. Begging and burying misunderstanding of this nature just means that they will keep resurfacing and he will keep using the weapon of desertion, divorce and abandonment to keep you vulnerable and insecure. What is preferable is a healthy marriage, not just a long marriage.

And what if the advise work for her?

newbornmacho:
Exactly what I planned to do, but my mom is threatening fire and brimstone, if I'm not there. Plus almost everyone is not seeing things the way I'm seeing it,

Threaten you for what? Tell her that you will not attend and leave them. That's what my dad did to his youny brother when he insisted on marrying a particular lady that Dad feel the 2 families relationship is is to close for marriage to happen between both of them.