Divoc19: Why does this always happen please? Packing out soonest. Done. 11years, 3kids. Dusted. Kudos to the successful ones out there. This is my fate. Am happy and unhappy
I still pray your marriage works provided it's not abusive.
Divoc19: Why does this always happen please? Packing out soonest. Done. 11years, 3kids. Dusted. Kudos to the successful ones out there. This is my fate. Am happy and unhappy
Because good guys don't have time to be running after a lady forever unlike bad guys. Same way good ladies expect guys to do alot of wooing before they agree but trust me, 98% of good guys don't have that time, because they know what they have for the person is genuine so it's either a yes or they leave.
Born2winnx: Hello all My girlfriend wants me to wear same native attire to her niece wedding on Friday. I thought she was joking when she suggested it last week, because I don't even plan on going due to my busy schedule. But to my surprise she's just came to my house with some yards of the material she bought with her money.
Though I appreciate her good gestures, but I don't think it's right.. We are not married. What will her people say when dey see me with her like that because her father, mother, brothers and sisters will be there, not talking about her extended families.
I had to confide with a friend and he told me blantly that it is a set up, I should abort. That he had witness a similar case in a party when a guy was behaving as if he had paid his girlfriend bride price...what happened was the guy didn't leave the way he came. I won't want that to happen to me but before I decide I like to hear from you all.
relationship is 3months I don't know her family house, talkless to know who born her.. not yet ready to.
You are 3 months into the relationship, do you feel you can settle down with her or have anything serious with her, if yes, then wearing same clothes with her is not a problem. If you just want to have sex and go, then, no need.
You should appreciate her really, it seems you are not being sincere with her. Aside marking her territory, thats a good lady.
Truly it will take only the grace of God for this country to change as corruption is everywhere.
Last week Wednesday, my niece was bitten by a snake. Following people's advise, my brother took her to FMC Keffi. No space so she has to be on a chair for over 24 hours (story for another day).
That night a drug was written for my brother to go and buy, he went to about 4 pharmacies including Skylark and they all said they don't have. In the morning, the Doctor came in and was shouting, saying that they need the drug urgently that he should go back to Skylark. Surprisingly that early morning they saw the drug and bought it for 60 at Skylark. The Doctor said she needs 2 doses of it, so my brother sent the drug name to another of our brother in town (Abuja) and they said the drug is 5k. He wasn't sure, so he sent the drug name to another person and the person bought it for 5k. He took the drug to FMC and they said it's the same drug.
These people took advantage of emergency to scam my people, imagine if they don't have the 60k that night.
I want to give all glory to Almighty Jesus for saving me yesterday from very hot water.
I was boiling hot water in a kettle to prepare pap for my kids, at the time the water boiled I was attending to my son and I needed to put him to sleep at that very moment, so I left the water to put him to sleep and the water keeps boiling above the normal boiling temperature.
After I was done I went back to the kitchen to prepare my pap, I carried the hot water with my right hand, suddenly the water fell from my hand and I had to jump up to escape the hot water, no even a splash of the water on my body and not only that the kettle fell on the ground and the water did not pour as if somebody collected it from my hand and placed it on the ground, the hot water was not wasted.
I give God all the glory for His excess love and protection over my life.