the temptation married men go through is something else, it takes the help of God and commitment for the few not to cheat. It has nothing to do with money.
why not start a relationship with a girl that matches you, then reduce the intake of weed and alcohol gradually and exercise more, hangout more. get yourself busy and distracted. it may help
if she left without reason(s), fine. do video call with your girl, find time to go visit your daughter, I advise you don't go alone and afterward, tel her you want to return with your girl to spend the holidays with you. you can tell her that before you travel and dont take no as an answer unless you're not keen on spending the holidays with her. she probably want to use the child to draw you but since you didn't ask her to leave in the first place when she is tired she know her way back provided every other thing is fine and she didn't leave because her life is in danger.
She needs alot of help from you, not money. She is not fully healed yet and it's possible she is into a lifestyle because of that. She needs to see a professional and you should tell the family as well. Good thing is your woman is not promiscuous, she would have paid all these debts without anyone knowing but be sure to get her fully cleaned and healed before marriage. My brother, to get good girl to marry hard now too, the next might be worst. The good thing is you already know your woman problem so it's already half solved.
Divoc19: Why does this always happen please? Packing out soonest. Done. 11years, 3kids. Dusted. Kudos to the successful ones out there. This is my fate. Am happy and unhappy
I still pray your marriage works provided it's not abusive.
Divoc19: Why does this always happen please? Packing out soonest. Done. 11years, 3kids. Dusted. Kudos to the successful ones out there. This is my fate. Am happy and unhappy
Because good guys don't have time to be running after a lady forever unlike bad guys. Same way good ladies expect guys to do alot of wooing before they agree but trust me, 98% of good guys don't have that time, because they know what they have for the person is genuine so it's either a yes or they leave.
Born2winnx: Hello all My girlfriend wants me to wear same native attire to her niece wedding on Friday. I thought she was joking when she suggested it last week, because I don't even plan on going due to my busy schedule. But to my surprise she's just came to my house with some yards of the material she bought with her money.
Though I appreciate her good gestures, but I don't think it's right.. We are not married. What will her people say when dey see me with her like that because her father, mother, brothers and sisters will be there, not talking about her extended families.
I had to confide with a friend and he told me blantly that it is a set up, I should abort. That he had witness a similar case in a party when a guy was behaving as if he had paid his girlfriend bride price...what happened was the guy didn't leave the way he came. I won't want that to happen to me but before I decide I like to hear from you all.
relationship is 3months I don't know her family house, talkless to know who born her.. not yet ready to.
You are 3 months into the relationship, do you feel you can settle down with her or have anything serious with her, if yes, then wearing same clothes with her is not a problem. If you just want to have sex and go, then, no need.
You should appreciate her really, it seems you are not being sincere with her. Aside marking her territory, thats a good lady.
Truly it will take only the grace of God for this country to change as corruption is everywhere.
Last week Wednesday, my niece was bitten by a snake. Following people's advise, my brother took her to FMC Keffi. No space so she has to be on a chair for over 24 hours (story for another day).
That night a drug was written for my brother to go and buy, he went to about 4 pharmacies including Skylark and they all said they don't have. In the morning, the Doctor came in and was shouting, saying that they need the drug urgently that he should go back to Skylark. Surprisingly that early morning they saw the drug and bought it for 60 at Skylark. The Doctor said she needs 2 doses of it, so my brother sent the drug name to another of our brother in town (Abuja) and they said the drug is 5k. He wasn't sure, so he sent the drug name to another person and the person bought it for 5k. He took the drug to FMC and they said it's the same drug.
These people took advantage of emergency to scam my people, imagine if they don't have the 60k that night.