₦airaland Forum

Newborn27:
Hmm... thanks for the wishes and words of encouragement... although the birthday was June 14th..this topic popped up cos someone quoted me here...the wishes are not late cos it's still 2022...my 28th year...I appreciate and wholeheartedly accept the wishes Sir.

I've never cut a birthday cake once...I pray I'd get there someday where I'd be celebrated .

Thanks once again and take care.

you're welcome dear. don't mind me, I didn't check to see the date but I guess it's not too late, happy belated birthday. 28 waoooo, nice, eagerly waiting for your 30th and if I may asked, where are you taking us to?

hmmm, don't worry about that, you will cut enough cakes that you will get tired of cutting self. what matters most is ending of a thing, not the beginning and I want you to know that you will be celebrated again and again.

thank you too and not cutting cake is not an excuse, so I'm still waiting for my cake..

take care

happy birthday to you. wishing you all the Best things of life.
don't think people don't remember you or love you. you will be shocked to know that the reversal is the case.
meanwhile enjoy your day and remember to send my cake.

Happy birthday to you, wishing you long life, plenty money, healthy and a fulfilled life.
please send my cake!

happy birthday to your mumsy? long life and fulfilled years ahead to her.

politicians!!! fear them.

Hollybratt:
oga, perfectly said o, you are absolutely right. God bless you in jesus name.

I being no wan comment but if you like yourself, don't follow that advice. Shey, she dey give people free pass, you can ask too.
Threatening her with it is blackmail and trust me, it changes everything, you fit jam more than you bargain for. Please, blackmail is never a good thing.
You can joking mock her, turn it to friendly gist and turn her to friend, you can still have it if its what you want instead of blackmail.

Preciousgirl:
I have been having an emotional affair (online) with an old man
I have realized it is not good and regret everything so far
We were sexting a lot and I shared my pics with him
I have backed out
But must I confess it to my husband?

I am asking for a colleague

No, don't. just correct it and try to avoid such happening again.

PerfectStranger:
If Man U wins my ticket with the 4 odds, I’ll do giveaway here. Quote me after the match.

chairman congratulations oool!! make I drop abi?? lol

congratulations to her

mrvitalis:
Nigeria makes less than 25 billion dollars a year from oil .......for a country of 150 million that's nothing ...that should be Lagos revenue

Until every Nigerian pay average of 150,000 naira in tax its impossible to develop this country

1. that is the figure they gave, is that the amount they truly made from oil?

2. is oil our only source of revenue? can they tell us the exact amount they collect on tax alone and you will be shocked. Almost everything in Nigeria is being taxed but are Nigerian seeing the result of the tax they are paying?

3. Nigeria has a lot of resources, some in huge deposit, why are they not contributing, we have large deposit of gold, how much is it contributing.

Nigeria is super rich, leadership and corruption are our major problem and until we get that right, forget all these cooked figures you see

PerfectStranger:
If Man U wins my ticket with the 4 odds, I’ll do giveaway here. Quote me after the match.

we are going to win so be ready

they tried but poor in finishing and technically lacking. They played more, created more chances but still lost.

that Sabastine though, the girl is a baller, mad lefter.

tayo60:
Instead of acting as if you didn't know, why not ask her why she's denying you sex but uses vibrator instead? Let her know you saw her using it, and don't sleep or ask her for sex again. Satisfy yourself elsewhere, let it pepper her until she apologises.

are you encouraging him to go cheat? @ Adetayo41 , please don't listen to this advise as cheating outside could affect your marriage or home if care is not taken.

Though she no try, gadget is better than cheating with another man. Truth is, she may be used to masturbation even before marriage so it might be hard to stop. you guys should talk it over, she is not suppose to do it secretly but introduce it to your love making.

Klass99:
Seven blessings to your brother for not putting his wife out or walking away. A couple in church tried for 20 years to have a child, there was nothing medically wrong with the man or woman, but they couldn't conceive naturally.

As the years went by and they grew older they turned to IVF, I think two attempts failed and the doctor asked them to stop as another attempt would be risky for the wife. They listened and stopped trying, then madam conceived naturally after one holy communion service.

What fascinated me about their testimony is how an Igbo man stood by his wife for 20 years, not allowing his ummuna or family to push him to divorce for another woman. I kept thinking to myself which kain Igbo man be this? I was tripped and impressed by him.

Amen oooo. for my bro, prayer houses or running around is a big NO. She won't even try it( unless secretly), he was very particular about that with her and supported her all through the way. Its Her own family that wanted to disturb but my bro didn't give them the opportunity to do so.

awesome. I have seen a couple that have their child after 27 years, my lecturer then. Patience with ones partner has nothing to do with tribe, afterall its none of their fault, even if one have problem, the other is suppose to stick by. onces their is genuine love between both parties, trust me, no one can come between them. I'm happy for them too, what God cannot do does not exist. we should appreciate the wife too, some would have gone out to give the man 4 to 5 bastards already, God forgive me ooo.

I love happy ending stories (testimonies) like this one.

Richy4:

The most annoying part is that the husband is happily married to another woman who probably must have given him so many kids.. life goes on..

Assuming she wasn't an actress, no one would have known that such lady actually walked on this planet..
Now imagine the number of women who must have gone just like her that no one remembers anymore...

She was way too beautiful and poised to end up like that honestly.. her death was one of those stupid death that made me thank God I wasn't born a woman.. (no disrespect intended... just me being me) It's just a crazy world

its annoying really. I don't know why but for some reasons, I happen to know quite a number of couple married for years without any baby yet. If you see how some of these ladies stress life out of themselves ehhh, not like anyone is pressurising them.
let me give you a funny one, a friend of mine, before marriage (though everything is set for marriage) was running from one place to another with fear, that all these years and during her courtship with her guy, she didn't take in for once, hmmmm come see fear. she was taking all manner of concoction, seeking help where they is none, person wey never marry self ooo. to cut long story short, in gave birth about a year into her marriage, just imagine.

Klass99:
Two of the single mothers I know personally were asked by their boyfriends/fiance to take in then they'll get married, one was pressured till she caved. The men walked away like Craig David's hit song I'm walking away, from the troubles in my life. Tell your neighbour to please rest that dream may never happen

kai, she for no gree! its mostly scam honestly. (your choice of song though.... funny). I believe that is what they wanted, a child but had to deceive the ladies to agree. I know a seniour guy back then over 15years ago that told me if he can see a Lady to give birth to 1 or 2 kids for him, he won't marry. his is sincere about his own, till date he is not married. its better to be open to the lady than lie to then, some won't even mind (its not everybody that wants marriage) Rather than shatter someone's dream because of selfish abi wickedness self.

for my neighbour, we are no longer that close like before, though its something she really want but the way it's going...I don't want to sound negative. They are even having serious issues now self. I earnestly pray God will help them to resolve their issues and bring her dream to fulfillment

Klass99:
Your comments remind me of the hot radio talk show Sharing Life Issues with Chaz B, which the late Chaz B used to host.

One time he had a female guest on the show who narrated her sojourn for a baby/child as a married woman. I didn't catch her story from the beginning but she said she wasn't proud of herself for the things she had done and places she had been to, in her quest for a child as a believer/Christian.

I recall listening to her and silently praying that may I never be in a situation where I seek help from the devil for anything, not for a child, not for money etc. She felt so ashamed and embarrassed, she said she won't reveal all the details of what she'd done or where she'd been, on air.

That part of her story I remember clearly but my memory is a bit foggy though, as to whether she got the child or not. The studio phone lines were ringing off the hook that day and when they breaked for a commercial I tuned out and didn't keep up with the rest of her story.

I didn't know that was what killed Jennifer Okere Ossai ooo, but a quick Google search confirmed what

you said. Na wao.....

Imagine what she have to go through, she can't even say it on air, to tell you the level she had gone or what she had done. Naaaa! And some people still make this mistake, a lot of people really not just some, are still following that path. These days if a couple wants children desperately and can't wait, they are better ways to go about it but some won't even if they can afford it. God bless my bro with a child after 13years through IVF (second attempt though, first one failed), which to me is better than running from one place to another.
I pray people will be more enlightened and stop all these unnecessary pressures they are putting themselves through

Klass99:
Believe me when I say some of us have learnt and are still learning. Someone once told me experience is not the best teacher, because experience is painful and if you don't learn the lesson the first time, life will take you through it over and over again until you learn.

He advised it is best to learn from other people's experience and stories, I took his advise to heart and it hasn't failed me yet. It was from him and some single mothers I learnt to disregard men who tell you to get pregnant first, then we'll proceed to the altar or the ones who tell you the surest way to marry is to get pregnant for your guy and once belle enter marriage go follow.They think all of us live and breathe for these two things only.

ahh, awesome! Learning from others mistakes saves one from painful experiences. I wish everyone will follow this path but then a lot are not. I know people that their marriage is not up to 3 years and the lady is running from one place to another, injections after another, player house to another and the funny part is the husband is not disturbing her, neither their parents. she won't listen to anything you tell her.

Honestly I don't believe that a guy that genuinely love a lady will ask her to get pregnant before marriage, that means the pregnancy is the only reason for the marriage (that is if at all the marriage proposal is true) so what happens after they stopped giving birth - end of marriage certainly. Most time those guys are not sincere, even after getting pregnant it will still not work. its unfortunate some people believe that marriage is just to produce children.
I have a neighbour that told me that after getting pregnant during dating, they quickly did traditional and the husband promise her white wedding after child birth. That baby is about 4 years now but no more wedding. Her dream of wearing a wedding gown is becoming like a mirage. insincere people everywhere

Richy4:
That was what led to the demise of my favourite actress in Nigeria.. Jenifer Okere Ossai..
The white garment churches used her as an experiment...

imagine that. very unfortunate. A lot of ladies are not learning from all these and are still falling victims out of desperation.

Blessedmercy8:
He's earning a 100k and wants to settle down. Can you as a lady earning a little above him agree to marry him?

Is it advisable to enter into marriage with such income considering the situation of the economy?

all I will say is that you're not ready for marriage yet. Please No need wasting your time and that of the young man.

this is why courtship is very important. before marriage. I told my wife that companionship is the first thing for me, that children will be additional blessing and shouldn't be the only thing in case of delay as I don't like women running from one prayer house to another because of baby. she became suspicious thinking maybe I have issue, she confess after getting pregnant.
Some of these things are suppose to be sorted before marriage but some people will just ignore it until it happens.

welcome to old Trafford case, you're what we have being lacking in years. #UpManUnited

forget it, half of the boys in nasarawa are kwankwaso boys, this is child's play self. his popularity in nasarawa is like kano.

unfortunately...

love is a beautiful thing. I pray they don't betray themselves.

Emotion that made me her fan. Those tears won her a new supporter.

first time united management gave us player we need after so many years, I wish he is younger.

#UpUnited.

that Peru remix featuring ED is something else. He is good, let me go listen to the album first.

marriage is a beautiful thing especially when you have an understanding partner

where do I start from, mine are too many

This is God in action. Congratulations

deavicky:
I was minding my business in my office trying to get out of tedious drawing I was doing, suddenly my phone rang. I checked, it was an unknown number so I ignored the call and continued with my work. The phone rang again I still did not pick. About 15 minutes later a text came from the same number that she is Mr X (my friend) wife that if I'm free I should call her back.

Immediately I had to call back.
She picked and start by apologising for calling but she couldn't just help it. That they are very broke at the moment even their little baby food is finished and no money to buy it that she had asked her husband to call me but he said he doesn't want bother me. She just had to take my number from his phone to secretly call me. She said I should send them any amount I can and I should please not let her husband know she called me that I can also send the money to his account.

I was not having much at that time so I sent 20k to his account only for my friend to call me later to thank me and also indirectly warn me not ever listen to such call from his wife.

My concern here is, why is that the same person that asked me not to tell her husband be the same person to tell her husband or is she trying to cause problem between us?

after your friend defused to call you, the wife went behind him to call you so immediately he saw the alert, he know the wife have told you against his wish.

you're a good friend, God bless you more

LoveUdie:
"I got married in 2021. Ever since day one, my hubby and I have sex twice a month. I have tried talking to him but he'll say he isn't feeling fine. If I try to seduce him he'll remove my hand. I'll have to wait till he feels like having sex which is twice a month.

We don't have kids yet and we both work. I'm tired because I'm missing out on the fun of marriage. What can I do?"


What can she do house? How can she make her husband show more interest in sex?

he needs counseling. It shows you guys didn't do marriage class.

its super wrong for him to do that, I don't want to start putting negative thought in your head but try and pray.