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Family › Re: Karma Is A Bitch by culf: 4:19pm On Mar 05, 2021
No need to pay him back, let his conscience judge him. ignore him and enjoy your life and let him go if you can't take him back
Romance › Re: Do I remove This Baby? by culf: 12:28pm On Mar 03, 2021
tommie1:
I have an issue bugging me and I need some serious advise because I have been very indecisive so far.

There is a lady I'm seeing. She came to my place a few weeks ago and we had sex, first with condoms and later without condoms.

However, I gave her some money to get postinor when she left for her place the next morning.

That morning, I asked if she got the drug when she called to say she had arrived home and she said "yes".

I called her again that evening to ask if she had taken it and she said "yes".

A few weeks later, she called to say she is pregnant.

As I later found out, at least according to what she said, she took the drug the next day after arriving at her home and not on that day she told me she took it. She gave some flimsy excuse as to why she did it but it does not matter anymore at this point.

At this moment, we are considering removing the baby.

While I have been very indecisive, she has agreed to go with whatever decision I take and has spoken to a doctor who will do it this Friday.

However, I am unsure as of this moment if I want to go on with this because even though I am done with uni, I do not think I have gotten to that point where I can shoulder more responsibilities.

I am self employed and somewhat financially okay but not in a way that I can take care of three people, particularly a baby. I was okay as of 2019 until COVID came and turned my life upside down last year.

And believe me, I was really glad I was not married as of last year because I went through hell. Serious hell. The lockdown finished me.

I am slowly recovering (very slowly) and still trying to figure my way out through life and rebuilding what I lost but I am afraid that having the burden of a woman and baby at this point may derail me.

And I really do not know who to turn to when I am unable to provide for the both of them.

What do you guys think? Do I go on with this or just let the baby be?
That child could be your lifeline tomorrow, don't remove it please. God will always make a way, yours is just to trust him.
Travel › Re: Abuja Private Car Owners Who Double As Taxis On Their Way To Work Are Greedy by culf: 2:08pm On Mar 02, 2021
leave that thing oooo, though the increment do not make sense but if not for those guys, workers will be stranded on daily basis in Abuja.

No allow them vex biko
Politics › Re: Obasanjo, Saraki, Oyinlola In Closed-Door Meeting In Abeokuta by culf: 1:50pm On Mar 02, 2021
yemmight:
They are both dead politically.
Obasanjo dead politically?? Hmmmm
Politics › Re: Obasanjo, Saraki, Oyinlola In Closed-Door Meeting In Abeokuta by culf: 1:48pm On Mar 02, 2021
yemmight:
They are both dead politically.
Obasanjo dead politically?? Hmmmm
Family › Re: Why Isn't There Much Friendship & Closeness Among Family Members Anymore by culf: 5:38pm On Mar 01, 2021
competition
envy

hatred

etc
Family › Re: How Do I Survive Without My Mother? by culf: 5:36pm On Mar 01, 2021
hardluck dear, you will survive. Its a matter of time. If I can survive it, you will survive too.
Family › Re: My Mum Want me To Marry My Cousin Husband Because Of Money by culf: 5:32pm On Mar 01, 2021
discipline yourself, you will survive. If the pressure is too much, find a place, rent a small place and move there. Also explain to your cousin, the man's wife and ask her to help you as you have decided to leave your family because you cannot betray her to marry her husband. if she can rent a small place for you, save and continue from there.

Take your fear to God in prayer and move.

Goodluck.
Christianity Etc › Re: Why I Rejected The Opportunity To Become A Millionaire Some Years Ago by culf: 5:18pm On Feb 28, 2021
Awesome piece. may God continue to bless and prosper you @ Interesting15
God is always faithful, its unfortunate most people don't know this because they don't know that He love them more than they could ever imagine.
Romance › Re: by culf: 4:00pm On Feb 27, 2021
Childishness
Christianity Etc › Re: God Can Use Anybody! by culf: 4:35pm On Feb 26, 2021
one of my favourite Bible verses
Webmasters › Re: Sarah Theophilus a.k.a Sapphiere Launches Her Blog (video) by culf: 2:50pm On Feb 24, 2021
Wishing you the very best.
Politics › Re: FG To Introduce Tollgates On 12 Highways (full List) by culf: 2:38pm On Feb 24, 2021
Airoflaw:
for staying in Nigeria if you no gree you can go back to your canada grin
Hmmmm!
Politics › Re: FG To Introduce Tollgates On 12 Highways (full List) by culf: 2:37pm On Feb 24, 2021
StepTwo:
Security grin grin grin
but I'm paying for my own security, I pay monthly for security.
Politics › Re: FG To Introduce Tollgates On 12 Highways (full List) by culf: 2:36pm On Feb 24, 2021
PS712:
The annoying thing is that this is a government that promised reducing burdens on Nigerians, now otherwise is the case. Nigerians now pay for virtually everything and at high cost, when you complain the government draws comparison with Saudi, and other oil producing countries. This is sad and unfortunate!
very sad, so sad. Its frustrating
Politics › Re: FG To Introduce Tollgates On 12 Highways (full List) by culf: 2:34pm On Feb 24, 2021
KanuSE:
@bolded,

To pay for the lifestyle of the criminals parading as politicians and their children's school fees abroad. grin
Its very painful.
Politics › Re: FG To Introduce Tollgates On 12 Highways (full List) by culf: 2:34pm On Feb 24, 2021
Ade3131:
It's for the privilege you're enjoying to have a country you can identify with. LoL

Some are country-less
can you imagine? you're kidding me right?
Politics › Re: FG To Introduce Tollgates On 12 Highways (full List) by culf: 8:03pm On Feb 23, 2021
Nigeria my country!

i pay for road, i provide the water that i use, i pay heavily for power, So the tax I'm paying now is for what actually?
Christianity Etc › Re: Share Your Dreams And The Holyspirit Will Help Interpret by culf: 4:10am On Feb 23, 2021
Please what does having sex in dream mean? I dreamt that my wife and I had sex somewhere that looks like a mud house with zinc but not furnished, after we were done, I went to meet tel the man that later, that we are going (as if I'm suppose to pay him ) his son was telling him inside that I have not paid him, I'm good ooo, is he letting me go? I was hurriedly trying to leave when my wife said she forgot her bag inside. the room was dark, I was angry, went back, trace the location of the bag and picked it. it gave it to her and we left. on our way, some 2 girl threw a bottle behind us, I looked back and saw it, it was bottle for the drink I bought earlier but as if they were the ones that drank it, we said we didn't blame them. I picked the bottle, pour the remaining drink away and we were going to return the bottle to the shop owner.
I notice a young lady (I think wearing hijab) in my front with bathroom slippers and dirty leg. As if it was the girl that we had sex, I was telling myself that why will this young girl be this wide, remembering what happened earlier. I'm confused because earlier, its was suppose to be my wife.

meanwhile in real life, by God's grace i have not had sex with any other woman since we got married.
Family › Re: I Think Something Is Wrong With Me by culf: 9:38am On Feb 22, 2021
thatthickgurl:
Everyone hates me

I can't seem to do anything right

Nobody understands me

I am always humiliated

Nobody wants to be associated with me

I hate it here
you should be happier... why bother about what people think or say about you.

we have a lot in common but I only see it from the positive part.

people including my family don't understand me but I'm not bother, I see it as been unique and I won't change for anything. The fact that you're different and don't follow crowd makes you unique.

Love yourself my dear, don't allow what people think or do to affect you. you're special and unique. People's acceptance of you don't really matter. just make good friends that value you(your time and presence) and your uniqueness.

be good dear and stay positive

#if you're in my shoes, you will know that yours is a small issue.
Literature › Re: Stories From A Broken Mind by culf: 9:26am On Feb 22, 2021
thatthickgurl:
LOVE

Love is more than flowers and chocolates
Love is like a wind, cannot be seen but felt
Love transcends beyond the physical
Love is that, which I feel for you….

Bayo finished his poem to a resounding applause from the audience.
It was open mic; a Valentine day's special, and love was in the air, all around him.
Lovers enthralled in each other's gazes, the flirtatious touches, sensuous chuckles and a few daring kisses.

But what do they know about love?
"They know nothing" he mused.

Tonight was going to be a special night, he could hardly contain his excitement, his date waved at him from across the room, he threw her a kiss.

There she was, looking stunningly beautiful in her black dress and ruby red earrings to match the occasion, she easily made every lady in the room, look pale in comparison.
She was a tall, dark curvaceous woman in her late twenties whom he had met two months ago at her company's hangout, where he had been invited by his friend; her colleague, they got introduced and the rest, they say is magic.

He walked across the room to the woman who was going to make his night fulfilling.

"Tola, had Paris met you, the Trojan war would have been avoided"

"I don't understand" she responded, looking confused.

"The battle would have been avoided, because he would have had no eye for Helen of Troy"

"Stop it" Tola said in between laughters

"It's time to go dearest", he took her hand as they exited the cafe.

.........

An hour later, Bayo and Tola arrived at his apartment, the drive back had been filled with so much sexual tension, that it made the air around them thick

Bayo opened the door to let her in, she grabbed his shirts and placed her lips on his, in wanton abandonment
He held her back, "hold on dear, now is not the time. Let's have some wine"

He opened the bottle of wine, poured her a glass and she drank it down in a gulp.
"Easy tiger" Bayo teased.

"I...I… can'ttttt..tt...wait… to..laaayy. m.mmy h..ands.. on… youu…" she slurred

"What's wrong with me, I can't be drunk" she thought.
She looked up to meet Bayo's wolfish grin. At that moment, her whole body felt like she had been ran over by a truck. Her eyes felt heavy.

Bayo carried her on his arms down a flight of stairs leading to a basement, she had never seen before.
"Whhherre arree wwweee goiinnggg", she asked, trying to keep her eyes from closing.
The trepidation which had been rising in her heart reached a crescendo,when he switched on the light in a room, and she saw thirteen closed coffins , an opened one and a big red bow.
He gently placed her in the coffin

"You, my dear, are very special, because you're my 14th victim on the 14th day of the month and in my 14th year of enlightenment.
"Love is not just flowers and chocolates, I love you in this way because I do not know any other way of loving, but this", Bayo explained whilst holding up a knife, she didn't see before.

"I knew I shouldn't have bought this Victoria Secret", that was the last thought on Tola's mind, before her eyes closed forever.
interesting... please continue
Family › Re: Family Man; What Do You Fear Most by culf: 9:10am On Feb 22, 2021
Blacklion3:
As a family man, what do you fear most? As a family woman what do you fear most
funny enough, nothing ooooo.
Family › Re: Do I Marry Them Both Or Choose One? by culf: 8:45am On Feb 22, 2021
bukatyne:
While some men are screaming 'women are scarce', the OP has two to choose from.

This life ehn! grin cheesy
very funny....
Family › Re: So many have been strong for too long (Picture) by culf: 7:33am On Feb 22, 2021
If only you know what some people are going through and still hoping. Don't give up bro, just get close to God, with faith and patience, you'll get there.

you might be your family saviour or hope for a turnaround soonest, what then happen them when you end your life?

May God arrest your spirit and keep you alive

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